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"The one word I've used many times in similar discussions is consistency. A little effort in both text and pics are required but completely pointless if the text says one thing and pics and veris make them out to be lying. For example they might say they are shy or reserved and yet have gaping fanny pics. Or say they are choosy and don't meet often but have 29½ verifications since joining a fortnight ago. Bitchy profiles or those that clearly show that person to be self obsessed with little or no interest in the people they meet are to be avoided. " As always, your comment hits home. That really bugs me when there are massive inconsistencies. Drives me nuts, usually an immediate block. | |||
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" As for what makes me message, I'm dreadful I don't message "I’ve only ever initiated chat via messaged twice. Once cos he was hot AF and he’s still a lover. Another time cos I like his attitude. All good!! | |||
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". It should be about both people are looking for not just what one person wants. And yes I know women can get abuse but women can give just as much abuse as well but don't get pulled on it as often. " OMG I’ve seen some messages from girls on here to blokes. I was disgusted!!!! So horrid and unnecessarily mean. No need for it. | |||
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". It should be about both people are looking for not just what one person wants. And yes I know women can get abuse but women can give just as much abuse as well but don't get pulled on it as often. OMG I’ve seen some messages from girls on here to blokes. I was disgusted!!!! So horrid and unnecessarily mean. No need for it. " Ye so have I. Its completely unnecessary. | |||
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"Interesting. I wonder does our profile come across as bitchy? I have edited quite a few times as the longer we are on here the clearer we are on what we want and what we will do, does this make us bitchy. We do this to deter the people we don't want contacting us but hey ho that's a different story." I was wondering the same about mine  | |||
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". It should be about both people are looking for not just what one person wants. And yes I know women can get abuse but women can give just as much abuse as well but don't get pulled on it as often. OMG I’ve seen some messages from girls on here to blokes. I was disgusted!!!! So horrid and unnecessarily mean. No need for it. " And half the time it’s hurled for no reason but just to take it out on some poor unfortunate that’s trying to get a conversation going | |||
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"Interesting. I wonder does our profile come across as bitchy? I have edited quite a few times as the longer we are on here the clearer we are on what we want and what we will do, does this make us bitchy. We do this to deter the people we don't want contacting us but hey ho that's a different story." I don't think it does. It states what you are looking but it's not bitchy. | |||
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"Interesting. I wonder does our profile come across as bitchy? I have edited quite a few times as the longer we are on here the clearer we are on what we want and what we will do, does this make us bitchy. We do this to deter the people we don't want contacting us but hey ho that's a different story. I don't think it does. It states what you are looking but it's not bitchy. " Thanks Bo. Obviously Not trying to bitchy just being upfront. | |||
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"Interesting. I wonder does our profile come across as bitchy? I have edited quite a few times as the longer we are on here the clearer we are on what we want and what we will do, does this make us bitchy. We do this to deter the people we don't want contacting us but hey ho that's a different story." Everyone will have a different opinion on the definition of bitchy but setting ground rules such as a social to determine a connection wouldn't be classed as bitchy. It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. " I thought that went without saying 
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure! | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure! "Only 50 percent of the time  | |||
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"Interesting posts above about consistency. I'd noticed that by gut feeling but hadn't really clocked on to it in any aware way. I guess consistency is a really big clue. Another thing I've noticed, and I guess what is not a good profile is another way of indicating what is a good profile, is that some women and couple have the same photos. Strange what becomes normal!" Are these women and couples that share the same photos the same people? There are a few on mine that are also on ours, I wouldn't say that was overly strange | |||
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Im always amazed at what is considered a good or a bad profile.
I read every profile of anyone I interact with just to learn about people and one thing for definite Ive noticed.
If you come across as being up your own arse on a thread and just argue or talk down to anyone then your profile will have the warning signs to say you're a complete cunt
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
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"Very interesting thread to be honest. There's no bitchy profiles in it so far
Im always amazed at what is considered a good or a bad profile.
I read every profile of anyone I interact with just to learn about people and one thing for definite Ive noticed.
If you come across as being up your own arse on a thread and just argue or talk down to anyone then your profile will have the warning signs to say you're a complete cunt
Simple as."Speak up. Can't hear you with my head stuck up here | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle "It's my superpower. And I can do it all night | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night "That's what all the men say in this place | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night
That's what all the men say in this place "There are no other men in this place | |||
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"Intelligence forme... It can shine out in just a few sentences... And not having the whole butchers shop on display is a plus too" Ahh you and your intelligence, so in other words you're looking to fuck someone's brain out, am I right? | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night
That's what all the men say in this place
There are no other men in this place "Yep, some of us are gentlemen | |||
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"I see loads of guys putting nothing but “I’m a x-yo straight guy looking meet women” with one pic of their ass and then they wonder why no-one messages them back. (I equally see women’s profiles that are bitchy and aggressive and only list out what they don’t want and I’m astounded anyone messages them at all...) What is appealing about good profiles and would encourage you to message them? " I tend to see more about their personality on their forum posts/replies etc etc | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night
That's what all the men say in this place
There are no other men in this place
Yep, some of us are gentlemen "Ooohhhh burn right there RB | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night
That's what all the men say in this place
There are no other men in this place
Yep, some of us are gentlemen
Ooohhhh burn right there RB "He didn't lay a glove on me | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night
That's what all the men say in this place
There are no other men in this place
Yep, some of us are gentlemen " | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night
That's what all the men say in this place
There are no other men in this place
Yep, some of us are gentlemen
Ooohhhh burn right there RB
He didn't lay a glove on me "Gers too much of a gent for that behaviour | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night
That's what all the men say in this place
There are no other men in this place
Yep, some of us are gentlemen
Ooohhhh burn right there RB
He didn't lay a glove on me
Gers too much of a gent for that behaviour "He's filling you full of Tanora. It's all an act | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night
That's what all the men say in this place
There are no other men in this place
Yep, some of us are gentlemen
Ooohhhh burn right there RB
He didn't lay a glove on me
Gers too much of a gent for that behaviour
He's filling you full of Tanora. It's all an act "Like the postman, I always deliver | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night
That's what all the men say in this place
There are no other men in this place
Yep, some of us are gentlemen
Ooohhhh burn right there RB
He didn't lay a glove on me
Gers too much of a gent for that behaviour
He's filling you full of Tanora. It's all an act
Like the postman, I always deliver "So now you're Kevin Costner? | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night
That's what all the men say in this place
There are no other men in this place
Yep, some of us are gentlemen
Ooohhhh burn right there RB
He didn't lay a glove on me
Gers too much of a gent for that behaviour
He's filling you full of Tanora. It's all an act
Like the postman, I always deliver
So now you're Kevin Costner? "Now now play nice, or I might have to put yee in the corner, and if that doesn't work.... Well.....  | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night
That's what all the men say in this place
There are no other men in this place
Yep, some of us are gentlemen
Ooohhhh burn right there RB
He didn't lay a glove on me
Gers too much of a gent for that behaviour
He's filling you full of Tanora. It's all an act
Like the postman, I always deliver
So now you're Kevin Costner?
Now now play nice, or I might have to put yee in the corner, and if that doesn't work.... Well..... "You couldn't even say it right the first time | |||
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"Interesting posts above about consistency. I'd noticed that by gut feeling but hadn't really clocked on to it in any aware way. I guess consistency is a really big clue. Another thing I've noticed, and I guess what is not a good profile is another way of indicating what is a good profile, is that some women and couple have the same photos. Strange what becomes normal! Are these women and couples that share the same photos the same people? There are a few on mine that are also on ours, I wouldn't say that was overly strange" Sorry, I was unclear. I meant I'd noticed the same photos on women with different profiles. But of course nothing to worry about if couples have individual profiles too. Apologies for my poor wording. | |||
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" It's more the ones who tell you in no uncertain terms that you will be there for their pleasure and theirs alone and to abandon all hope of actually holding a two way conversation. Mutual pleasure is unknown to these profiles. I thought that went without saying
Sure, Women are top dogs here it's all about our pleasure!
Only 50 percent of the time
That's right you like to split everything down the middle
It's my superpower.
And I can do it all night
That's what all the men say in this place
There are no other men in this place
Yep, some of us are gentlemen
Ooohhhh burn right there RB
He didn't lay a glove on me
Gers too much of a gent for that behaviour
He's filling you full of Tanora. It's all an act
Like the postman, I always deliver
So now you're Kevin Costner?
Now now play nice, or I might have to put yee in the corner, and if that doesn't work.... Well.....
You couldn't even say it right the first time "I had a typo  | |||
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"Sorry, I was unclear. I meant I'd noticed the same photos on women with different profiles. But of course nothing to worry about if couples have individual profiles too. Apologies for my poor wording. " No worries, was just curious, I've not noticed that myself but I'll keep an eye out now | |||
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"Interesting. I wonder does our profile come across as bitchy? I have edited quite a few times as the longer we are on here the clearer we are on what we want and what we will do, does this make us bitchy. We do this to deter the people we don't want contacting us but hey ho that's a different story. I was wondering the same about mine "Not a thing wrong with yours. Stay true to yourself x | |||
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"Interesting. I wonder does our profile come across as bitchy? I have edited quite a few times as the longer we are on here the clearer we are on what we want and what we will do, does this make us bitchy. We do this to deter the people we don't want contacting us but hey ho that's a different story." Nothing wrong IMO with your profile x | |||
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"Interesting. I wonder does our profile come across as bitchy? I have edited quite a few times as the longer we are on here the clearer we are on what we want and what we will do, does this make us bitchy. We do this to deter the people we don't want contacting us but hey ho that's a different story." Clear message far to be bitchy 
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You set the benchmark buddy...you stay classy.. "Classy and sassy Davy | |||
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"My profile is probably the second greatest ever after hardys ofcourse I have no doubt about it "I'd have to agree with you there | |||
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"My profile is probably the greatest ever I have no doubt about it " defo a nice one to look at | |||
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