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By *NawtyCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Around and about

Now this is a strange one...

Been chatting to a profile for weeks, months, up to last night even.

Checked phone this morning and there was a reply hit refresh and the whole thread is gone. Thought maybe I deleted the thread by accident, no biggie. Searched by name so i could message, cant find profile. Hmm ok maybe im not spelling it right.

Searched my sent messages, nothing. Searched in who fabbed my pics, was sure they had, nothing....

So question, if u delete your profile does everything go, every message you ever sent, pic u fabbed etc? Or have we dreamt the whole thing

Also checked block list in case i hit that, nothing.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ye if they delete their profile everything goes including messages.

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By *iery minxWoman
over a year ago

kildare

Yes once the profile is deleted everything goes with it including any messages sent or received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah all disappears and makes you doubt if it ever happened

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

It was probably deleted if they had a partner and were found out and had it deleted that quick without saying goodbye , seems to happen alot

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By *NawtyCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Around and about

Ha! Well thats a new one on me.

Wonder what could have happened in their life from 11.30 last night to make them just jump ship. Ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that for many the thrill is in the chase.. They'll chat for weeks, advance things to a meet stage and then boof..gone. This may have been the case here...whatever their motive they're a silly individual/couple either way

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By *NawtyCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Around and about


"Yeah all disappears and makes you doubt if it ever happened "

Was wondering if i had been living in some parallel universe

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

Yeah makes you think did you say something wrong ,its not right that people do without saying that they have to leave , thats the way it is on here

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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

Have had this happen twice. I guess no matter what the person on the other side says we just don't know if its true no matter how "genuine" they seem.

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By *NawtyCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Around and about


"Have had this happen twice. I guess no matter what the person on the other side says we just don't know if its true no matter how "genuine" they seem. "

So true, lesson learned here. We tend to think people are like ourselves.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

If you save messages, the saved messages will still show in your saved message folder, though without pics if any were attached, and it will come up with "user no longer on site" under what would usually show their profile name...

So it helps to even save one of the messages of a potential interest or conversation because you'll know if it's a profile delete or block/admin suspension...

Kinky

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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago

Middle Earth


"Have had this happen twice. I guess no matter what the person on the other side says we just don't know if its true no matter how "genuine" they seem.

So true, lesson learned here. We tend to think people are like ourselves. "

I know now I think social meets the only way stops the messing. Though at the moment it's hard for us both to get away even for coffee lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now this is a strange one...

Been chatting to a profile for weeks, months, up to last night even.

Checked phone this morning and there was a reply hit refresh and the whole thread is gone. Thought maybe I deleted the thread by accident, no biggie. Searched by name so i could message, cant find profile. Hmm ok maybe im not spelling it right.

Searched my sent messages, nothing. Searched in who fabbed my pics, was sure they had, nothing....

So question, if u delete your profile does everything go, every message you ever sent, pic u fabbed etc? Or have we dreamt the whole thing

Also checked block list in case i hit that, nothing.

"

Its happened me a few times and thats even after phone conversations and same thing and just ghosted on the phone also. And when its happened me it was like the day we were suppose to meet i showed up for a coiple of the meets no show so ater a couple of times of it happened again ya get used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This (messages disappearing when a profile does) was introduced a few months ago to help prevent people sending abusive messages then deleting their profile - well it doesn't stop it, but the message will be gone if they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never know what's going on in other people's heads or their lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally,we find that if there is real interest on both sides, it will progress to at least a social meet very quickly, otherwise, it's best regarded as a diversion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of fabs many mysteries. Where's scooby do when you need him..

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