FabSwingers.com forum: Spontaneity

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you a spontaneous person? It's something I have to work at, being naturally reserved and thoughtful.

Currently regretting not messaging that forum poster we saw on "who's near" while in Killarney two weeks ago

Carpe diem!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Can I get back to you on that?

Seriously though it depends on where and what I'm doing. I have flashes of spontaneity which is much more than it used to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I get back to you on that?

Seriously though it depends on where and what I'm doing. I have flashes of spontaneity which is much more than it used to be "

Where, what or who?

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

Most definitely.

Nothing better than a stolen moment.

Can be something that changes your day around!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I'd love to be more spontaneous but with a few kids, running a business, and renovating a house into the mix and there just isn't much opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd love to be more spontaneous but with a few kids, running a business, and renovating a house into the mix and there just isn't much opportunity. "

Yes, with family and responsibility, opportunities can be few and far between.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Can I get back to you on that?

Seriously though it depends on where and what I'm doing. I have flashes of spontaneity which is much more than it used to be

Where, what or who?

There's that too

Don't actually have to be with anyone though. In a non sexual situation I can be spontaneous all by myself.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

In the last few years I have gotten better at been spontaneous, in the past it was hard when every moment had to be over analysed and over thought.

Seize the day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the last few years I have gotten better at been spontaneous, in the past it was hard when every moment had to be over analysed and over thought.

Seize the day

Takes practice, doesn't it? But as someone said, you only regret the things you didn't do (they clearly didn't marry

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I only have one regret where I didnt seize the day on here

Two gents off this very thread along with a female fabber invited me for a pint to say hello

I was thinking of it all day while in work and then got delayed in work and should have told the customer to fuck off it would wait till the next day

They even sent me a picture of themselves enjoying their pints and I know I should have just gone and dropped everything else

Mind you it seems so long ago and a different world then

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"In the last few years I have gotten better at been spontaneous, in the past it was hard when every moment had to be over analysed and over thought.

Seize the day

Takes practice, doesn't it? But as someone said, you only regret the things you didn't do (they clearly didn't marry

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"In the last few years I have gotten better at been spontaneous, in the past it was hard when every moment had to be over analysed and over thought.

Seize the day

Takes practice, doesn't it? But as someone said, you only regret the things you didn't do (they clearly didn't marry

Or have kids

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the last few years I have gotten better at been spontaneous, in the past it was hard when every moment had to be over analysed and over thought.

Seize the day

Takes practice, doesn't it? But as someone said, you only regret the things you didn't do (they clearly didn't marry

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Or have kids

Goes without saying

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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

Babysitter needed so everything has to be planned.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I'm a planner, about everything, I make lists, I drive my husband insane with it but it's the only way I can settle to do things

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I only have one regret where I didnt seize the day on here

Two gents off this very thread along with a female fabber invited me for a pint to say hello

I was thinking of it all day while in work and then got delayed in work and should have told the customer to fuck off it would wait till the next day

They even sent me a picture of themselves enjoying their pints and I know I should have just gone and dropped everything else

Mind you it seems so long ago and a different world then

And Ger had to buy a second round as a result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always been a go with the flow kinda person and would never plan anything, wake up and see where the day takes me but as I’m getting older I tend to plan and arrange things....

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"Are you a spontaneous person? It's something I have to work at, being naturally reserved and thoughtful.

Currently regretting not messaging that forum poster we saw on "who's near" while in Killarney two weeks ago

Carpe diem!"

Maybe said fabber will be passing through ye’re area someday and you can be spontaneous then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you a spontaneous person? It's something I have to work at, being naturally reserved and thoughtful.

Currently regretting not messaging that forum poster we saw on "who's near" while in Killarney two weeks ago

Carpe diem!

Maybe said fabber will be passing through ye’re area someday and you can be spontaneous then

One never knows

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only have one regret where I didnt seize the day on here

Two gents off this very thread along with a female fabber invited me for a pint to say hello

I was thinking of it all day while in work and then got delayed in work and should have told the customer to fuck off it would wait till the next day

They even sent me a picture of themselves enjoying their pints and I know I should have just gone and dropped everything else

Mind you it seems so long ago and a different world then

I'm not referring exclusively to fabbing experiences, although I gave an example of one, but hopefully you learned your lesson

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

No I'm not, I wish at times but too much responsibility would set me back. The most id be now is what supermarket id go too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think peoples circumstances have a bearing on how spontaneous they are. Im single and come and go as I please. Where as a married person or someone with kids may not have as much of a chance to do things off the cuff.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"I only have one regret where I didnt seize the day on here

Two gents off this very thread along with a female fabber invited me for a pint to say hello

I was thinking of it all day while in work and then got delayed in work and should have told the customer to fuck off it would wait till the next day

They even sent me a picture of themselves enjoying their pints and I know I should have just gone and dropped everything else

Mind you it seems so long ago and a different world then

And Ger had to buy a second round as a result

It was drank in your honour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of us is more spontaneous than the other but the longer we are both together the more we feel we compromise with and understand each other, that’s definitely the Love word kicking in lol communication is everything, regrets only weigh you down in life so you just have to support each other in letting them go! there will always be another bigger, better opportunity just around the corner

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By *ratos87Man
over a year ago

Galway

Would love to be more spontaneous. But I tend to think a lot about the different ways something might play out before I go with it.

I enjoy chess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m definitely spontaneous... to much thinking, overthinking and planning and I’ll pull out.,I’ve a strong gut instinct so I follow that and am never failed . Live with no regrets is what I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We decided to be spontaneous this morning by putting a video of us playing on public, however I dark will loose my nerve at some stage today an put it back on friends only.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think peoples circumstances have a bearing on how spontaneous they are. Im single and come and go as I please. Where as a married person or someone with kids may not have as much of a chance to do things off the cuff."

Certainly not if they have any sense of responsibility, no!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We decided to be spontaneous this morning by putting a video of us playing on public, however I dark will loose my nerve at some stage today an put it back on friends only.

Everyone on thread rushes to have a look!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We decided to be spontaneous this morning by putting a video of us playing on public, however I dark will loose my nerve at some stage today an put it back on friends only.

Everyone on thread rushes to have a look!!!"

Lol

hopefully it will wet a few appetite's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We decided to be spontaneous this morning by putting a video of us playing on public, however I dark will loose my nerve at some stage today an put it back on friends only.

Everyone on thread rushes to have a look!!!

Lol

hopefully it will wet a few appetite's

Fair play to you both

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"We decided to be spontaneous this morning by putting a video of us playing on public, however I dark will loose my nerve at some stage today an put it back on friends only.

Everyone on thread rushes to have a look!!!

Lol

hopefully it will wet a few appetite's

Beautifully filmed..well done and thanks for sharing

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

I try to be as spontaneous as i can but not to easy at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We decided to be spontaneous this morning by putting a video of us playing on public, however I dark will loose my nerve at some stage today an put it back on friends only.

That was a very hot video... it should stay

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

"We decided to be spontaneous this morning by putting a video of us playing on public, however I dark will loose my nerve at some stage today an put it back on friends only.

I hope I never see that...

I'll tell granny..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We decided to be spontaneous this morning by putting a video of us playing on public, however I dark will loose my nerve at some stage today an put it back on friends only.

I hope I never see that...

I'll tell granny..

“Rushes to watch several times “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We decided to be spontaneous this morning by putting a video of us playing on public, however I dark will loose my nerve at some stage today an put it back on friends only.

I hope I never see that...

I'll tell granny..

You know the rules .. you're not supposed to look at the videos lol she's probably realized it's too late after you an your escapades,so she will just roll her eyes at me

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I suppose I'm kinda spontaneous.

For example, yesterday I felt like getting a Milka bar and I didn't hesitate.

I was chomping down on one within 15 minutes.

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

"We decided to be spontaneous this morning by putting a video of us playing on public, however I dark will loose my nerve at some stage today an put it back on friends only.

I hope I never see that...

I'll tell granny..

“Rushes to watch several times “

Believe me I didn't..

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

"We decided to be spontaneous this morning by putting a video of us playing on public, however I dark will loose my nerve at some stage today an put it back on friends only.

I hope I never see that...

I'll tell granny..

You know the rules .. you're not supposed to look at the videos lol she's probably realized it's too late after you an your escapades,so she will just roll her eyes at me

She's been rolling her eyes at you for 50 years now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We decided to be spontaneous this morning by putting a video of us playing on public, however I dark will loose my nerve at some stage today an put it back on friends only.

I hope I never see that...

I'll tell granny..

“Rushes to watch several times “

I stopped at one... repeatedly checking their profile is not a cool look,,,, tempting as it is

Believe me I didn't..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I was spontaneous, but I have to do overthink, analyze, dissect every decision I make. No wonder I'm exhausted

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I have planned to be spontaneous on the 15th May, 2032 at 2.30pm

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I have planned to be spontaneous on the 15th May, 2032 at 2.30pm"

You'll be over the hill then

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"I have planned to be spontaneous on the 15th May, 2032 at 2.30pm

You'll be over the hill then

hills dont figure in my plan RB

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

If anyone would like to check and see how spontaneous they are its now 10.20 and I'll meet you for lunch within 100 kms of Dublin....lunch and conversation ...no agenda...social distance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have planned to be spontaneous on the 15th May, 2032 at 2.30pm"

Your youngest's 18th?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I suppose I'm kinda spontaneous.

For example, yesterday I felt like getting a Milka bar and I didn't hesitate.

I was chomping down on one within 15 minutes."

Daredevil!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish I was spontaneous, but I have to do overthink, analyze, dissect every decision I make. No wonder I'm exhausted"

Meet your sister but just sometimes you got to take the bull by the horns and ride it

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"I have planned to be spontaneous on the 15th May, 2032 at 2.30pm

You'll be over the hill then

Better over the hill than under it

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I think I was better at it in my younger years, my curiosity got many times the better of me.

But when you hit zimmerframe age comfort is more important although spontaneity can still flares up every blue moon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anyone would like to check and see how spontaneous they are its now 10.20 and I'll meet you for lunch within 100 kms of Dublin....lunch and conversation ...no agenda...social distance "

If I was within 100km I would

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"I have planned to be spontaneous on the 15th May, 2032 at 2.30pm

Your youngest's 18th?

No thats 2036. I havent gotten to that year yet. I dont want to explode with the excitement of potential freedoms

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Must admit I'm rarely spontaneous but trying to get better at seizing the moment. Quite often I've regretted not doing that.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I only have one regret where I didnt seize the day on here

Two gents off this very thread along with a female fabber invited me for a pint to say hello

I was thinking of it all day while in work and then got delayed in work and should have told the customer to fuck off it would wait till the next day

They even sent me a picture of themselves enjoying their pints and I know I should have just gone and dropped everything else

Mind you it seems so long ago and a different world then

And Ger had to buy a second round as a result

It was drank in your honour.

Are you guys trying to build a clique?

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I'm not shy but one thing to have proper nice sex you need lots of foreplay. Lots of slow build up.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I only have one regret where I didnt seize the day on here

Two gents off this very thread along with a female fabber invited me for a pint to say hello

I was thinking of it all day while in work and then got delayed in work and should have told the customer to fuck off it would wait till the next day

They even sent me a picture of themselves enjoying their pints and I know I should have just gone and dropped everything else

Mind you it seems so long ago and a different world then

And Ger had to buy a second round as a result

It was drank in your honour.

Are you guys trying to build a clique?

It was about world domination but BM's customer foiled our dastardly plot

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"If anyone would like to check and see how spontaneous they are its now 10.20 and I'll meet you for lunch within 100 kms of Dublin....lunch and conversation ...no agenda...social distance

If I was within 100km I would "

One day Devine hopefully

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"I only have one regret where I didnt seize the day on here

Two gents off this very thread along with a female fabber invited me for a pint to say hello

I was thinking of it all day while in work and then got delayed in work and should have told the customer to fuck off it would wait till the next day

They even sent me a picture of themselves enjoying their pints and I know I should have just gone and dropped everything else

Mind you it seems so long ago and a different world then

And Ger had to buy a second round as a result

It was drank in your honour.

Are you guys trying to build a clique?

It was about world domination but BM's customer foiled our dastardly plot"

Oh so you were trying to build an army against me eh. Ill remember that

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I only have one regret where I didnt seize the day on here

Two gents off this very thread along with a female fabber invited me for a pint to say hello

I was thinking of it all day while in work and then got delayed in work and should have told the customer to fuck off it would wait till the next day

They even sent me a picture of themselves enjoying their pints and I know I should have just gone and dropped everything else

Mind you it seems so long ago and a different world then

And Ger had to buy a second round as a result

It was drank in your honour.

Are you guys trying to build a clique?

It was about world domination but BM's customer foiled our dastardly plot"

Maybe BM's customer was from Sligo.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I only have one regret where I didnt seize the day on here

Two gents off this very thread along with a female fabber invited me for a pint to say hello

I was thinking of it all day while in work and then got delayed in work and should have told the customer to fuck off it would wait till the next day

They even sent me a picture of themselves enjoying their pints and I know I should have just gone and dropped everything else

Mind you it seems so long ago and a different world then

And Ger had to buy a second round as a result

It was drank in your honour.

Are you guys trying to build a clique?

It was about world domination but BM's customer foiled our dastardly plot

Maybe BM's customer was from Sligo.

Bastard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only have one regret where I didnt seize the day on here

Two gents off this very thread along with a female fabber invited me for a pint to say hello

I was thinking of it all day while in work and then got delayed in work and should have told the customer to fuck off it would wait till the next day

They even sent me a picture of themselves enjoying their pints and I know I should have just gone and dropped everything else

Mind you it seems so long ago and a different world then

And Ger had to buy a second round as a result

It was drank in your honour.

Are you guys trying to build a clique?

It was about world domination but BM's customer foiled our dastardly plot

Maybe BM's customer was from Sligo.

Wasn't me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly not if they have any sense of responsibility, no!

Yes, that as well.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Generally no, but when I am, I usually have no regrets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Generally no, but when I am, I usually have no regrets."

The way to do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have planned to be spontaneous on the 15th May, 2032 at 2.30pm

Your youngest's 18th?

No thats 2036. I havent gotten to that year yet. I dont want to explode with the excitement of potential freedoms"

You're so right, best not rush into things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah .... the last minute spur of the moment decision that could change life or just your day. Whats the worst that can happen. I haste regretting the things i didn't do but should of. And ya can't go back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sun is so strong i can't see my spelling mistakes but I'm gonna just go with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The sun is so strong i can't see my spelling mistakes but I'm gonna just go with it"

, think we got the gist ??

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I have being known to answer or post a fancy a fook message

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Are you a spontaneous person? It's something I have to work at, being naturally reserved and thoughtful.

Currently regretting not messaging that forum poster we saw on "who's near" while in Killarney two weeks ago

Carpe diem!"

Its ok u can mail me anytime

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I have being known to answer or post a fancy a fook message

And I've told you to stop annoying me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have being known to answer or post a fancy a fook message

Ah, but have you ever sent an unsolicited cock pic?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I have being known to answer or post a fancy a fook message

Ah, but have you ever sent an unsolicited cock pic?"

Is an unsolicited dick pic one that doesn't have the law behind it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have being known to answer or post a fancy a fook message

Ah, but have you ever sent an unsolicited cock pic?

Is an unsolicited dick pic one that doesn't have the law behind it?

Groan

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I have being known to answer or post a fancy a fook message

Ah, but have you ever sent an unsolicited cock pic?

Is an unsolicited dick pic one that doesn't have the law behind it?

Groan"

Shush you. I haven't had coffee yet

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I have being known to answer or post a fancy a fook message

Ah, but have you ever sent an unsolicited cock pic?"

Awe No u want it u got to earn it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I was in killarney 2 weeks ago and even thought I'm sure it wasn't me Id be only too delighted to have a drink with ye.

Just saying

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By *erlincorkMan
over a year ago

London

Definitely Spontaneous.... makes things very interesting as you never know where you’re going to end up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I was in killarney 2 weeks ago and even thought I'm sure it wasn't me Id be only too delighted to have a drink with ye.

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm most definitely spontaneous....it has it's ups and downs

....and occassionaly you make bad decisions but if you follow your gut spontaneously ...it's usually a good decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah .... the last minute spur of the moment decision that could change life or just your day. Whats the worst that can happen. I haste regretting the things i didn't do but should of. And ya can't go back "

Totally agree

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