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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area

Is everyone hiding?

Just back on fab after a year off, and the Ireland forum is on life support. Where is everyone..?!

This forum used to be lively, fast, full of people posting on loads of topics; so fast it was nearly impossible to keep up.

The past two weeks, apart from the odd night, it’s dead. And there are like 10,20,30 mins between posts on topics. It used to be the top ten topics had posts every minute.

Is this some kinky fab game of hide and seek that I don’t understand..??

I’ve had to defect to the Lounge for the first time ever..

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

We've had 5 months of people with nothing to do posting all day and night and those that haven't left or gone into fabernation are probably just burnt out with rehashed topics.

Hence the rise of the Lazarus threads.

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"We've had 5 months of people with nothing to do posting all day and night and those that haven't left or gone into fabernation are probably just burnt out with rehashed topics.

Hence the rise of the Lazarus threads.

"

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

should find some of the oldest best threads and resurrect them for shits and giggles.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I said good morning to everyone during the week and it took a whole 9 mins before anyone responded.

Like wtf people?

What else could you be doing at 6am?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads are now social distancing

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Threads are now social distancing "

Could you please put your mask on and wash your hands

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

"

Speak for yourself

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"Threads are now social distancing "

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself "

Want some popcorn ..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads are now social distancing

Could you please put your mask on and wash your hands "

Due to contractual stipulations with ThunderkissEnterprises© Kaizer is forbidden from wearing a face mask in public

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

I've noticed alot of threads that's been dead for weeks being resurrected

The why can't I get meet threads have been replaced with Covid-19

Plus as said above we all don't live our life on here

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

"

Why thank you Red ,

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

"

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..? "

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"I've noticed alot of threads that's been dead for weeks being resurrected

The why can't I get meet threads have been replaced with Covid-19

Plus as said above we all don't live our life on here "

Yeah I get that, we all have lives but I’m drawing direct comparison to a year ago and we all had real lives then too, but the forum was a lot more lively, buoyant and dynamic...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

What's wrong with kiss, fuck, pass, Sunday confession and good morning threads, you're very demanding.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I've noticed alot of threads that's been dead for weeks being resurrected

The why can't I get meet threads have been replaced with Covid-19

Plus as said above we all don't live our life on here

Yeah I get that, we all have lives but I’m drawing direct comparison to a year ago and we all had real lives then too, but the forum was a lot more lively, buoyant and dynamic..."

And it's now become irrelevant to most.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?"

You'll have Carla here in a minute

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

You'll have Carla here in a minute "

What's a Carla?

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"What's wrong with kiss, fuck, pass, Sunday confession and good morning threads, you're very demanding. "

Call me picky... although like an addict that can’t contact their supplier and starts to sniff adhesive, I’m desperate enough to post to them now too..!

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I miss the ould photo threads. They were brilliant for the only one i actually entered

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"What's wrong with kiss, fuck, pass, Sunday confession and good morning threads, you're very demanding.

Call me picky... although like an addict that can’t contact their supplier and starts to sniff adhesive, I’m desperate enough to post to them now too..! "

Maybe Im wrong but are you

saying the people using the forum now are not good enough compared to the people on a year ago

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?"

Ohh uniforms

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

Ohh uniforms "

Where

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

Ohh uniforms "

Now do you see what you started?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

Ohh uniforms

Now do you see what you started? "

And handcuffs as well even better

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I've noticed alot of threads that's been dead for weeks being resurrected

The why can't I get meet threads have been replaced with Covid-19

Plus as said above we all don't live our life on here

Yeah I get that, we all have lives but I’m drawing direct comparison to a year ago and we all had real lives then too, but the forum was a lot more lively, buoyant and dynamic..."

But a year ago we wasn't experiencing Covid-19 let's face it there has been very little reason to be lively for most they are more concerned about keeping themselves and loved ones safe I think that's more important

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"What's wrong with kiss, fuck, pass, Sunday confession and good morning threads, you're very demanding.

Call me picky... although like an addict that can’t contact their supplier and starts to sniff adhesive, I’m desperate enough to post to them now too..!

Maybe Im wrong but are you

saying the people using the forum now are not good enough compared to the people on a year ago "

Nooooo..!! You are Indeed wrong, and apologies if it came across that way. I’m saying the breadth of topics covered is not the same, there aren’t the same amount of people about and if you knew me from before, I rarely (if ever) posted to the topics DH mentioned: not my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

Ohh uniforms

Now do you see what you started?

And handcuffs as well even better "

Did someone say Handcuffs???

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

Ohh uniforms

Now do you see what you started?

And handcuffs as well even better

Did someone say Handcuffs???"

Move along. Nothing to see here.....

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"I've noticed alot of threads that's been dead for weeks being resurrected

The why can't I get meet threads have been replaced with Covid-19

Plus as said above we all don't live our life on here

Yeah I get that, we all have lives but I’m drawing direct comparison to a year ago and we all had real lives then too, but the forum was a lot more lively, buoyant and dynamic...

But a year ago we wasn't experiencing Covid-19 let's face it there has been very little reason to be lively for most they are more concerned about keeping themselves and loved ones safe I think that's more important "

Intuitively though: with everyone confined to home, I would have expected online chat areas like this to really take off as an outlet for people’s frustration and boredom...

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

Ohh uniforms

Now do you see what you started?

And handcuffs as well even better

Did someone say Handcuffs???

Move along. Nothing to see here....."

Sigh soooooo boring

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

well since we are all at home it means everyone is also in said home

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"I've noticed alot of threads that's been dead for weeks being resurrected

The why can't I get meet threads have been replaced with Covid-19

Plus as said above we all don't live our life on here

Yeah I get that, we all have lives but I’m drawing direct comparison to a year ago and we all had real lives then too, but the forum was a lot more lively, buoyant and dynamic...

But a year ago we wasn't experiencing Covid-19 let's face it there has been very little reason to be lively for most they are more concerned about keeping themselves and loved ones safe I think that's more important

Intuitively though: with everyone confined to home, I would have expected online chat areas like this to really take off as an outlet for people’s frustration and boredom..."

Was busier a couple of months back but people are at home with their families so much time is spent on here or they see no point because noones meeting or they got sick of bullshit and stopped coming on the forums etc etc etc

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I've noticed alot of threads that's been dead for weeks being resurrected

The why can't I get meet threads have been replaced with Covid-19

Plus as said above we all don't live our life on here

Yeah I get that, we all have lives but I’m drawing direct comparison to a year ago and we all had real lives then too, but the forum was a lot more lively, buoyant and dynamic...

But a year ago we wasn't experiencing Covid-19 let's face it there has been very little reason to be lively for most they are more concerned about keeping themselves and loved ones safe I think that's more important

Intuitively though: with everyone confined to home, I would have expected online chat areas like this to really take off as an outlet for people’s frustration and boredom..."

Yes they did and that's the problem now. That frustration and boredom turned into nastiness and bitterness and many left the site or are not participating in the same way as a direct result.

Others stuck it out and are at burnout levels now.

You are coming back after all this has already happened.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

Ohh uniforms

Now do you see what you started?

And handcuffs as well even better

Did someone say Handcuffs???

Move along. Nothing to see here.....

Sigh soooooo boring "

A game of cops and robbers anyone?

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"I've noticed alot of threads that's been dead for weeks being resurrected

The why can't I get meet threads have been replaced with Covid-19

Plus as said above we all don't live our life on here

Yeah I get that, we all have lives but I’m drawing direct comparison to a year ago and we all had real lives then too, but the forum was a lot more lively, buoyant and dynamic...

But a year ago we wasn't experiencing Covid-19 let's face it there has been very little reason to be lively for most they are more concerned about keeping themselves and loved ones safe I think that's more important

Intuitively though: with everyone confined to home, I would have expected online chat areas like this to really take off as an outlet for people’s frustration and boredom..."

Still confused ... if you want the forum to be like it was last year,then go find the people who left,for better things,and try persuade them to come back...

Or .... be happy with how the forum is now....

Or ... stop bitching ....

Or .... contribute more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

Ohh uniforms

Now do you see what you started?

And handcuffs as well even better

Did someone say Handcuffs???

Move along. Nothing to see here.....

Sigh soooooo boring "

Handcuffs are never boring

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"I've noticed alot of threads that's been dead for weeks being resurrected

The why can't I get meet threads have been replaced with Covid-19

Plus as said above we all don't live our life on here

Yeah I get that, we all have lives but I’m drawing direct comparison to a year ago and we all had real lives then too, but the forum was a lot more lively, buoyant and dynamic...

But a year ago we wasn't experiencing Covid-19 let's face it there has been very little reason to be lively for most they are more concerned about keeping themselves and loved ones safe I think that's more important

Intuitively though: with everyone confined to home, I would have expected online chat areas like this to really take off as an outlet for people’s frustration and boredom...

Was busier a couple of months back but people are at home with their families so much time is spent on here or they see no point because noones meeting or they got sick of bullshit and stopped coming on the forums etc etc etc"

Ok, now it’s making sense... thank you

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"I've noticed alot of threads that's been dead for weeks being resurrected

The why can't I get meet threads have been replaced with Covid-19

Plus as said above we all don't live our life on here

Yeah I get that, we all have lives but I’m drawing direct comparison to a year ago and we all had real lives then too, but the forum was a lot more lively, buoyant and dynamic...

But a year ago we wasn't experiencing Covid-19 let's face it there has been very little reason to be lively for most they are more concerned about keeping themselves and loved ones safe I think that's more important

Intuitively though: with everyone confined to home, I would have expected online chat areas like this to really take off as an outlet for people’s frustration and boredom...

Yes they did and that's the problem now. That frustration and boredom turned into nastiness and bitterness and many left the site or are not participating in the same way as a direct result.

Others stuck it out and are at burnout levels now.

You are coming back after all this has already happened. "

Ok, this gives me the pieces of the puzzle - thank you. Obviously I didn’t know that as I wasn’t here but it makes total sense..

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Also if you think its bad now some idiot was setting puzzles and riddles for everyone every morning a couple of weeks ago

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Also if you think its bad now some idiot was setting puzzles and riddles for everyone every morning a couple of weeks ago "

They did not. I wonder who that was. They deserve a stern talking to making people use their brains and stuff

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"

Intuitively though: with everyone confined to home, I would have expected online chat areas like this to really take off as an outlet for people’s frustration and boredom...

Still confused ... if you want the forum to be like it was last year,then go find the people who left,for better things,and try persuade them to come back...

Or .... be happy with how the forum is now....

Or ... stop bitching ....

Or .... contribute more...

"

Still confused ... if you want the forum to be like it was last year,then go find the people who left,for better things,and try persuade them to come back...

— I asked a simple question in my own unique way - ‘what happened to the Ireland forum?’.

Or .... be happy with how the forum is now....

— when you’ve tasted latté do you want to go back to black coffee?

Or ... stop bitching ....

— wasn’t aware I was. Thought I was starting a forum discussion topic and it had the effect to tease out what happened through other posters, so my question got answered in the end. Thanks to those posters who where here over the past year and were able to fill in the gaps for me.

Or .... contribute more...

— have been. Just not to certain threads. And don’t worry, I wasn’t attacking your “confessions” threads, which are very well supported and a novel idea, just not my personal thing

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Also if you think its bad now some idiot was setting puzzles and riddles for everyone every morning a couple of weeks ago

They did not. I wonder who that was. They deserve a stern talking to making people use their brains and stuff"

Ye but he also changed all the answers to suit himself. I'm sure I got most of them right

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

Ohh uniforms

Now do you see what you started?

And handcuffs as well even better

Did someone say Handcuffs???

Move along. Nothing to see here.....

Sigh soooooo boring

Handcuffs are never boring "

Oh I agree

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Also if you think its bad now some idiot was setting puzzles and riddles for everyone every morning a couple of weeks ago

They did not. I wonder who that was. They deserve a stern talking to making people use their brains and stuff

Ye but he also changed all the answers to suit himself. I'm sure I got most of them right "

Who was it and i go sort them out. Cheek of em changing the answers. Why i oughta

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

Ohh uniforms

Now do you see what you started?

And handcuffs as well even better

Did someone say Handcuffs???

Move along. Nothing to see here.....

Sigh soooooo boring

Handcuffs are never boring

Oh I agree "

Just me then?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I've noticed alot of threads that's been dead for weeks being resurrected

The why can't I get meet threads have been replaced with Covid-19

Plus as said above we all don't live our life on here

Yeah I get that, we all have lives but I’m drawing direct comparison to a year ago and we all had real lives then too, but the forum was a lot more lively, buoyant and dynamic...

But a year ago we wasn't experiencing Covid-19 let's face it there has been very little reason to be lively for most they are more concerned about keeping themselves and loved ones safe I think that's more important

Intuitively though: with everyone confined to home, I would have expected online chat areas like this to really take off as an outlet for people’s frustration and boredom...

Yes they did and that's the problem now. That frustration and boredom turned into nastiness and bitterness and many left the site or are not participating in the same way as a direct result.

Others stuck it out and are at burnout levels now.

You are coming back after all this has already happened. "

Ye that's so true.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

Ohh uniforms

Now do you see what you started?

And handcuffs as well even better

Did someone say Handcuffs???

Move along. Nothing to see here.....

Sigh soooooo boring

Handcuffs are never boring

Oh I agree

Just me then? "

Well now I never said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a life outside of this virtual world ...

Sorry ...

Speak for yourself

Want some popcorn ..??

Did you mean popcorn or top porn..?

Shouldn't that be cop porn?

Ohh uniforms

Now do you see what you started?

And handcuffs as well even better

Did someone say Handcuffs???

Move along. Nothing to see here.....

Sigh soooooo boring

Handcuffs are never boring

Oh I agree "

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"

Intuitively though: with everyone confined to home, I would have expected online chat areas like this to really take off as an outlet for people’s frustration and boredom...

Still confused ... if you want the forum to be like it was last year,then go find the people who left,for better things,and try persuade them to come back...

Or .... be happy with how the forum is now....

Or ... stop bitching ....

Or .... contribute more...

Still confused ... if you want the forum to be like it was last year,then go find the people who left,for better things,and try persuade them to come back...

— I asked a simple question in my own unique way - ‘what happened to the Ireland forum?’.

Or .... be happy with how the forum is now....

— when you’ve tasted latté do you want to go back to black coffee?

Or ... stop bitching ....

— wasn’t aware I was. Thought I was starting a forum discussion topic and it had the effect to tease out what happened through other posters, so my question got answered in the end. Thanks to those posters who where here over the past year and were able to fill in the gaps for me.

Or .... contribute more...

— have been. Just not to certain threads. And don’t worry, I wasn’t attacking your “confessions” threads, which are very well supported and a novel idea, just not my personal thing

"

Think you have too much time on your hands...

Maybe spend more time with the wife ??

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"

Think you have too much time on your hands...

Maybe spend more time with the wife ?? "

Oh dear. You really want to go down this road, huh?

Not for me. I learned a long time ago not to have public spats on the forum.

Am curious though what it is I have done to offend you? It’s not obvious to me and if I have offended you in some way, I apologize.

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