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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've read the fab admin guideline aswell as the local government warning and we're delighted once again Hedonism NI can continue to provide a fab, fun, friendly and safe venue for swingers from throughout the country to enjoy an hedonistic evening of drinking, dining, dancing and debauchery. We know its been far to long, so it’s now time for a safe, socially distanced social. Get your ticket soon for our annual END OF SUMMER MASKED SOCIAL. This time we've moved venue too!!!

We will be serving a hot food buffet, and we ask that all attendees remember the government health and safety advice, and wear masks where appropriate.

This is a purely fun social meet for swingers throughout the north of ireland and beyond (if you would like to make the effort).Come down and put a face to the names you've seen on fab. As always we'll announce the venue to ticket holders only ... the night will include entertainment (if allowed by then) with a full bar, hot food buffet and social distancing and your own cool, funky, sexy or funny masks

it should be a great night and a super way to get verified.

if your planning on staying in the city the venue is very central and walking distance to the main city centre hotels.

PM us for more info

Hotlips & superstar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any ladies looking a +1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've read the fab admin guideline aswell as the local government warning and we're delighted once again Hedonism NI can continue to provide a fab, fun, friendly and safe venue for swingers from throughout the country to enjoy an hedonistic evening of drinking, dining, dancing and debauchery. We know its been far to long, so it’s now time for a safe, socially distanced social. Get your ticket soon for our annual END OF SUMMER MASKED SOCIAL. This time we've moved venue too!!!

We will be serving a hot food buffet, and we ask that all attendees remember the government health and safety advice, and wear masks where appropriate.

This is a purely fun social meet for swingers throughout the north of ireland and beyond (if you would like to make the effort).Come down and put a face to the names you've seen on fab. As always we'll announce the venue to ticket holders only ... the night will include entertainment (if allowed by then) with a full bar, hot food buffet and social distancing and your own cool, funky, sexy or funny masks

it should be a great night and a super way to get verified.

if your planning on staying in the city the venue is very central and walking distance to the main city centre hotels.

PM us for more info

Hotlips & superstar

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Date???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saturday August 29th

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Single gents r already sold out ... we limit them for everyone’s enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck! Hope everybody going have a fab time. Wish i was there, Always the next one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missed the tickets but hopefully get to the next one )

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By *azz123Man
over a year ago

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if any ladies looking a +1

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"if any ladies looking a +1 "
Any ladies not going we could still meet in Derry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Half of tickets now sold ... gents r still sold out ... couples and ladies get ur tickets soon ... any questions, pm us

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Is this still going ahead is there a kikgroup being set up for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ll set up the kik group this week for all attendees. We are going ahead and very excited to have as many fabbers cum as restrictions allow lol

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

How is this still going ahead given todays news that indoor gatherings are to be slashed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whoops, replied privately instead of posting in the forum. Anyway, As we are serving food we can still hold a gathering ... go figure! We do request that while not eating, that face coverings are used. tables will be set in groups of 6 and spaced inline with current guidelines.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I hope they all have the app downloaded too especially with the cases rising and schools heading back. Be responsible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope a contact tracing list of real names and numbers will be recorded

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By *e r usCouple
over a year ago

derry

If a buffet are questions is it table service.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kik group is now open for attendees. We will also request that everyone in the venue has the app downloaded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Restrictions increasing in the North, cases of covid also on the rise and you go ahead with a social...

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By *ichaelKorMan
over a year ago

Cork

What a completely irresponsible thing to do at a time like this. Greed and stupidity are what will keep Covid 19 spreading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone is entitled to make their own mind up about attending,no one is being forced to go,it's been a long 6 months for everyone.

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By *ichaelKorMan
over a year ago

Cork

Thats a very simplistic attitude to something so serious. Though I doubt anyone with covid or those who lost loved ones to it would agree with you. No one is entitled to put others at risk by their actions. Its been a long 6 months because of attitudes like that.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Tatally agree its everyones choice and yes has been along 6 months. Personally if I had kids going back to school this week or next then I'd be thinking of them. Would hate to be responsible for bringing it into a school. I'd wait a couple of weeks to see how that goes first before attending anything.....just my opinion

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

There are people like myself who live alone and dont have family so think it is upto them wherher they go or not some of us have worked the whole way through this mess and it has been a very lonely time coming home every nite to an empty house with noone to talk to about your day surely we all deserve one nite out taking the necessary precautions

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"There are people like myself who live alone and dont have family so think it is upto them wherher they go or not some of us have worked the whole way through this mess and it has been a very lonely time coming home every nite to an empty house with noone to talk to about your day surely we all deserve one nite out taking the necessary precautions "

Thats OK if you think the risk is worth it. With the growing numbers and certain jobs people do its not just your health that your endangering thats all I'm saying. Waiting a couple of weeks to see the effect the schools are going to have on numbers, I personally would feel more confident going to socials then. But each to their own

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Exactly each to there own no one has the right to judge anyone we know what is going to happen whenschools open again we will be back in lockdown before halloween so perhaps people think they should get out now while they atill can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats a very simplistic attitude to something so serious. Though I doubt anyone with covid or those who lost loved ones to it would agree with you. No one is entitled to put others at risk by their actions. Its been a long 6 months because of attitudes like that. "
actually we stuck to all lockdown rules,your not going so you shouldn't be worried should you.

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By *ichaelKorMan
over a year ago

Cork

[Removed by poster at 23/08/20 18:55:43]

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By *ichaelKorMan
over a year ago

Cork

The lights are on but there is no one at home. Some things just can't be fixed.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

What exactly do you mean by that remark

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By *ichaelKorMan
over a year ago

Cork

Its a tough one to figure out for some

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Stop trying to be a smart ass its not helpful if you have nothing useful to say say nothing at all

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By *ichaelKorMan
over a year ago

Cork

I wont get into a tit for tat with you But if all comments were based on what you say why would you comment at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway.

I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

The only restriction they have increased is the amount of people we are allowed to meet indoors or out

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"The only restriction they have increased is the amount of people we are allowed to meet indoors or out "

Its actually decreased not increased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only restriction they have increased is the amount of people we are allowed to meet indoors or out "

They've put restrictions on group gatherings, so a social is what exactly? Just because things calm down slightly people believe "oh look normality" and it all kicks off again. How can you not understand that these are things that do not need to happen in the current situation.

I just looked up the current Covid guidelines for NI. Groups of 30 outdoors and 10 people from 4 households indoors. Those were the regulations but now it's 15 outside and private home gathering for 10 people from 4 households down to 6 people from two households.

How can you say organise a social when they are reducing numbers? It's insulting and disrespectful having people organising things when people working in medical sector are up to their eyes in work and people are nonchantly carrying on like there isn't a pandemic.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

So i take it then you havent met up with friends or gone to a resturant or for a coffee since march then whatsthe difference

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"The only restriction they have increased is the amount of people we are allowed to meet indoors or out

They've put restrictions on group gatherings, so a social is what exactly? Just because things calm down slightly people believe "oh look normality" and it all kicks off again. How can you not understand that these are things that do not need to happen in the current situation.

I just looked up the current Covid guidelines for NI. Groups of 30 outdoors and 10 people from 4 households indoors. Those were the regulations but now it's 15 outside and private home gathering for 10 people from 4 households down to 6 people from two households.

How can you say organise a social when they are reducing numbers? It's insulting and disrespectful having people organising things when people working in medical sector are up to their eyes in work and people are nonchantly carrying on like there isn't a pandemic."

I am sure if the event is not adhering to the strict guidelines it will be shut down. So whats the problem?

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By *ichaelKorMan
over a year ago

Cork

Based on Covid guidelines for NI posted by 3Couple3 this 'Social' is already ignoring the guidelines.

So how do the police find this place to shut it down if its not adhering to guidelines?

@ Classy lady 21 What was that about saying nothing unless it was useful?

Meeting with friends is not quite the same as a swingers party involving sex with people from different parts of the country.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Based on Covid guidelines for NI posted by 3Couple3 this 'Social' is already ignoring the guidelines.

So how do the police find this place to shut it down if its not adhering to guidelines?

@ Classy lady 21 What was that about saying nothing unless it was useful?

Meeting with friends is not quite the same as a swingers party involving sex with people from different parts of the country.

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Well for a start its only a social not a play party so get your facts right first. So if this is closed down we will have you to blame.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Based on Covid guidelines for NI posted by 3Couple3 this 'Social' is already ignoring the guidelines.

So how do the police find this place to shut it down if its not adhering to guidelines?

@ Classy lady 21 What was that about saying nothing unless it was useful?

Meeting with friends is not quite the same as a swingers party involving sex with people from different parts of the country.

Well for a start its only a social not a play party so get your facts right first. So if this is closed down we will have you to blame. "

If there's this much hassle over a social that hasn't taken place yet I'd imagine its not going to take place

Did a Newspaper in N.I not run a story recently about this type of meeting taking place during the covid restrictions and the outcry it would cause

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Based on Covid guidelines for NI posted by 3Couple3 this 'Social' is already ignoring the guidelines.

So how do the police find this place to shut it down if its not adhering to guidelines?

@ Classy lady 21 What was that about saying nothing unless it was useful?

Meeting with friends is not quite the same as a swingers party involving sex with people from different parts of the country.

Well for a start its only a social not a play party so get your facts right first. So if this is closed down we will have you to blame.

If there's this much hassle over a social that hasn't taken place yet I'd imagine its not going to take place

Did a Newspaper in N.I not run a story recently about this type of meeting taking place during the covid restrictions and the outcry it would cause

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The couple that are running the social are well known by the press

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually the last one was cancelled which was due to be held at the start of lockdown but the papers forgot to mention that bit.

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By *ichaelKorMan
over a year ago

Cork

Thank you for clarifying there wont be any sex involved That has got to be a first for any swingers meet

Closed down because of me? It can only be closed down if it is not adhering to guidelines.

Is it wrong that some of us are actually concerned about the well being of others?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Actually the last one was cancelled which was due to be held at the start of lockdown but the papers forgot to mention that bit."

I'd imagine they'll also forget to print that this is advertised as a social event only.

However they won't forget to print exactly what covid regulations are broken at the time of the social.

It'll knock the Golf outing in Galway off the front page I'd imagine

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

As we all know or should know you cant believe what comes out of the papers i dont see what people issue is with this event we hace all been asked to wear masks and ashere to social distancing im sure all of you at some point over the last while have been enjoying meals out and meeting up with friends so dont really see what the difference is as someone has suggested if you dont like the idea you dont have to go and for those of you with your mind in the gutter it is not a sex party it is a social only there is no play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for clarifying there wont be any sex involved That has got to be a first for any swingers meet

Closed down because of me? It can only be closed down if it is not adhering to guidelines.

Is it wrong that some of us are actually concerned about the well being of others?

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The clue is in the name "masked social" like i said people can make up their own minds but thanks for the concern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork "
How many are allowed at an event currently indoors? Its 50 down south as long as social distance is adhered too

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By *ichaelKorMan
over a year ago

Cork

Well that's great that its not in a high risk area like Belfast, Dublin or Cork.

But the people of Belfast, Dublin and Cork can attend

There may be a slight flaw in that plan

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork "

Going by council areas in Northern Ireland today its 3rd highest on the list today

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork

Going by council areas in Northern Ireland today its 3rd highest on the list today "

ok but are they following the guidelines? I cant seem to get an answer. Thanks

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork

Going by council areas in Northern Ireland today its 3rd highest on the list today "

Actually make that 2nd above belfast....Read it wrong

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Yes the guidelines are being followed so dont see theissue here

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork

Going by council areas in Northern Ireland today its 3rd highest on the list today ok but are they following the guidelines? I cant seem to get an answer. Thanks"

Obviously not if numbers are rising everywhere

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork

Going by council areas in Northern Ireland today its 3rd highest on the list today ok but are they following the guidelines? I cant seem to get an answer. Thanks

Obviously not if numbers are rising everywhere "

Thats neither here nor there, IF the guidelines are being followed then what is the problem?

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

There is no problem some people just have nothing better to do with their time but give out about what others are doing and god knows what they themselves are upto just dont have the guts to admit it

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

You're all naive if you think there will be no play after this event or even during it. Hookups will be made at the social and someone's hotel room will be the next stop. Just like admin of this site are naive if they think socially distanced meets are all that are happening at the moment. If it was just your own health you were jeapardising I wouldnt give two hoots what you did. And if you're thinking I'm a little aggressive, I do work stints in Kildare and am currently in the middle of another at least month long lockdown for that county, without seeing my other half. So I'm really over people saying it's been a long 6 months and some people deserve some fun.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork

Going by council areas in Northern Ireland today its 3rd highest on the list today ok but are they following the guidelines? I cant seem to get an answer. Thanks

Obviously not if numbers are rising everywhere Thats neither here nor there, IF the guidelines are being followed then what is the problem?

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I work in hospitality as a part time job.....ive seen events like this and not one mask is kept on, not one person keeping to the 2 metre rule and no hand sanitizer being used. Once the drink is inside people they don't care. Dance floors are not allowed but they are there being used.....so I've seen it with my own eyes what guidelines are being followed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well surely what happens afterwards is no difference to having random meets of fab,what people do is their own business. I think hedonism should just take this down now because you'll always get people disagreeing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to Portrush and Portstewart last weekend. Thousands on the beaches and crowds in the cafes and bars with congested queues outside many shops. Even the amusements were open. Arranging a small social meet with masks on sounds safer than getting on a crowded bus.

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By *aradiselost747Couple
over a year ago

dundonald

Is it Derry or belfast

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Its in derry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only restriction they have increased is the amount of people we are allowed to meet indoors or out

They've put restrictions on group gatherings, so a social is what exactly? Just because things calm down slightly people believe "oh look normality" and it all kicks off again. How can you not understand that these are things that do not need to happen in the current situation.

I just looked up the current Covid guidelines for NI. Groups of 30 outdoors and 10 people from 4 households indoors. Those were the regulations but now it's 15 outside and private home gathering for 10 people from 4 households down to 6 people from two households.

How can you say organise a social when they are reducing numbers? It's insulting and disrespectful having people organising things when people working in medical sector are up to their eyes in work and people are nonchantly carrying on like there isn't a pandemic.

I am sure if the event is not adhering to the strict guidelines it will be shut down. So whats the problem?"

All it takes is one or two people at any event and it can create outbreak. Last time I looked R value was close to 1.3 or 1.8 in NI which is high and we were the same down here as well.

Just had another quick look at the regulations in the North. "Extended group gatherings" and "Wider range of gatherings" both say Date to be Confirmed. Unless it's considered a private home gathering so they can have 6 people from two households. If it's outdoors they can have 15 people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway.

I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again."

Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway.

I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again.

Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. "

Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"As we all know or should know you cant believe what comes out of the papers i dont see what people issue is with this event we hace all been asked to wear masks and ashere to social distancing im sure all of you at some point over the last while have been enjoying meals out and meeting up with friends so dont really see what the difference is as someone has suggested if you dont like the idea you dont have to go and for those of you with your mind in the gutter it is not a sex party it is a social only there is no play "

What part of “we all must do it to get through it” are you and your ilk having difficulty with ??

I despair

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway.

I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again.

Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is. "

Most of those veris are very explicit, so I doubt that many will fall for your guideline spin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway.

I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again.

Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is. "

Nightclubs/pubs aren't supposed to be open full stop. There are no guidelines for them to be open. It's actually supposed to be reviewed this week or next to see if they will reopen them but more than likely they won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway.

I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again.

Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is. "

Didn't realise the HSE had given guidelines on swinger parties or swinger clubs for that matter. As another person said the verifications that have popped using the webcaming option have been fairly explicit to say the least so doubtful said guidelines have been followed. P. S. If you want to take what I have said as a dig or swipe work away. We won't lose any sleep over it

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Some clubs have been open for a while now yet last time a post like this was put up everyone got up in arms over it being taken down.

Yes we know that more than likely people will continue to party after the social but ya know what that happens after every club closes it's doors even if it was just a social night.

Parties and new meets have been going on all through lockdown veris show that.

You cannot control what others do it's that simple. People will go if they want to. Ranting about it won't make a blind bit of difference it will just piss you off.

Some of the comments on thread make me laugh considering other posts or threads the same people have put up. Seems to be do as I say not as I do.

And no I'm not going to this event before anyone thinks that is why I am saying this. I have no interest in going to any socials at present it's too big a risk for me to take as far as I'm concerned when I take things into consideration. There will be plenty if time after this calms down to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway.

I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again.

Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is.

Nightclubs/pubs aren't supposed to be open full stop. There are no guidelines for them to be open. It's actually supposed to be reviewed this week or next to see if they will reopen them but more than likely they won't "

I'm not familiar with the restrictions in the North and I agree that nightclubs should not be open. I will however state that whilst I disagree with a social or swinger event being run right now at least hedonism is doing the right things from what they have said unlike many others who have had parties or club nights on the quiet. As I said what I said was not meant to be snotty. I was just pointing out something that you may not have seen

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By *ichaelKorMan
over a year ago

Cork

A Cork Club is running meets. Anyone can see their latest meet reviews on their profile. Though they don't post the meets openly as they used to do, would suggest they know what they are doing is wrong. Their schedule is advertised on their profile. They have 12 meets organised between now and December. 30-50 people meeting in an enclosed space from all parts of the country and then returning to their communities.That cannot end well. Another case of stupidity and greed. Covid will not be controlled when we have things like this happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway.

I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again.

Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is.

Nightclubs/pubs aren't supposed to be open full stop. There are no guidelines for them to be open. It's actually supposed to be reviewed this week or next to see if they will reopen them but more than likely they won't

I'm not familiar with the restrictions in the North and I agree that nightclubs should not be open. I will however state that whilst I disagree with a social or swinger event being run right now at least hedonism is doing the right things from what they have said unlike many others who have had parties or club nights on the quiet. As I said what I said was not meant to be snotty. I was just pointing out something that you may not have seen "

I don't think you're being snotty at all, I don't mind discussing things with anyone. I was only familiar with the changes I seen from the news a few days ago and I looked up the rest afterwards. I don't agree with any clubs opening at all or people having large scale socials. If someone does get sick are they going to report it and say where they were? Highly doubtful. Will the hosts take responsibility and report it if a number of people who attended fall ill? Again highly doubtful

To be honest, no one knows what they are doing in regards to precautions. P&G asked above and no one responded. There are no official dates for larger gatherings, the website just says dates are to be decided for that. There are regulations for people outdoors which is 15 and a private home is 6 people from 2 households.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway.

I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again.

Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is. "

Lol....you must be reading the wrong veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway.

I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again.

Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is.

Nightclubs/pubs aren't supposed to be open full stop. There are no guidelines for them to be open. It's actually supposed to be reviewed this week or next to see if they will reopen them but more than likely they won't

I'm not familiar with the restrictions in the North and I agree that nightclubs should not be open. I will however state that whilst I disagree with a social or swinger event being run right now at least hedonism is doing the right things from what they have said unlike many others who have had parties or club nights on the quiet. As I said what I said was not meant to be snotty. I was just pointing out something that you may not have seen

I don't think you're being snotty at all, I don't mind discussing things with anyone. I was only familiar with the changes I seen from the news a few days ago and I looked up the rest afterwards. I don't agree with any clubs opening at all or people having large scale socials. If someone does get sick are they going to report it and say where they were? Highly doubtful. Will the hosts take responsibility and report it if a number of people who attended fall ill? Again highly doubtful

To be honest, no one knows what they are doing in regards to precautions. P&G asked above and no one responded. There are no official dates for larger gatherings, the website just says dates are to be decided for that. There are regulations for people outdoors which is 15 and a private home is 6 people from 2 households. "

We can your point and do agree with you.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I rarely comment on threads like this but the level of hypocrisy is unbelievable.

Some people in this thread can't even be trusted to be consistent from one thread to another so how can they be trusted to follow guidelines.

On one thread they are tearing into people for daring to suggest restrictions should be lifted and in another they become aggressive and argumentative when it suits them for those same restrictions to ease.

I've been to one social so I'm no expert in what is entailed in organising one but some people feel entitled to special treatment and think they have the right to tell anyone else with an opinion to shut up.

It has been emphasised in this case that it's a masked ball so therefore everything is hunky dory and sound as a pound.

It has also been said that as food is being served then numbers can be greater.

I'd like someone to explain what happens those masks when everyone is filling their face with food or drink?

Who's going to be the first one to speak up at any of these effects when social distancing is being ignored?

What's it got to do with me you might well ask?

Two of my children work in hospitality and every precaution has been taken by their employers to ensure their safety and that of hotel guests.

Guests are not even allowed to enter the hotel grounds without a booking and are temp checked at the gate.

Those without bookings can get in after a temp check but are placed in a holding area for an hour to allow staff to accommodate them.

Most are happy to abide but every single day people drive off again saying how ridiculous it is and how useless the staff are simply because they feel entitled and think they should be treated differently. A bit like some fabbers.

My point therefore is if people refuse to follow guidelines and continue to act as idiots and feel it's ok to endanger my children and the other staff then imagine what it will be like when drink has been taken.

Mine is just one of many different opinions on these issues and it is not a commentary on the organisers of this event but aimed more at those who take offence at others who voice an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Raging all the single men spots are taken but I’d be up for something like this in future, I need verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Raging all the single men spots are taken but I’d be up for something like this in future, I need verified. "

Think you need to be verified to attend.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Hope eveeyone has a good nite tonite and stays safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see everyone

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