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"We've read the fab admin guideline aswell as the local government warning and we're delighted once again Hedonism NI can continue to provide a fab, fun, friendly and safe venue for swingers from throughout the country to enjoy an hedonistic evening of drinking, dining, dancing and debauchery. We know its been far to long, so it’s now time for a safe, socially distanced social. Get your ticket soon for our annual END OF SUMMER MASKED SOCIAL. This time we've moved venue too!!! We will be serving a hot food buffet, and we ask that all attendees remember the government health and safety advice, and wear masks where appropriate. This is a purely fun social meet for swingers throughout the north of ireland and beyond (if you would like to make the effort).Come down and put a face to the names you've seen on fab. As always we'll announce the venue to ticket holders only ... the night will include entertainment (if allowed by then) with a full bar, hot food buffet and social distancing and your own cool, funky, sexy or funny masks it should be a great night and a super way to get verified. if your planning on staying in the city the venue is very central and walking distance to the main city centre hotels. PM us for more info Hotlips & superstar " Date??? | |||
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"There are people like myself who live alone and dont have family so think it is upto them wherher they go or not some of us have worked the whole way through this mess and it has been a very lonely time coming home every nite to an empty house with noone to talk to about your day surely we all deserve one nite out taking the necessary precautions " Thats OK if you think the risk is worth it. With the growing numbers and certain jobs people do its not just your health that your endangering thats all I'm saying. Waiting a couple of weeks to see the effect the schools are going to have on numbers, I personally would feel more confident going to socials then. But each to their own | |||
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"Thats a very simplistic attitude to something so serious. Though I doubt anyone with covid or those who lost loved ones to it would agree with you. No one is entitled to put others at risk by their actions. Its been a long 6 months because of attitudes like that. " actually we stuck to all lockdown rules,your not going so you shouldn't be worried should you. | |||
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"The only restriction they have increased is the amount of people we are allowed to meet indoors or out " Its actually decreased not increased | |||
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"The only restriction they have increased is the amount of people we are allowed to meet indoors or out " They've put restrictions on group gatherings, so a social is what exactly? Just because things calm down slightly people believe "oh look normality" and it all kicks off again. How can you not understand that these are things that do not need to happen in the current situation. I just looked up the current Covid guidelines for NI. Groups of 30 outdoors and 10 people from 4 households indoors. Those were the regulations but now it's 15 outside and private home gathering for 10 people from 4 households down to 6 people from two households. How can you say organise a social when they are reducing numbers? It's insulting and disrespectful having people organising things when people working in medical sector are up to their eyes in work and people are nonchantly carrying on like there isn't a pandemic. | |||
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"The only restriction they have increased is the amount of people we are allowed to meet indoors or out They've put restrictions on group gatherings, so a social is what exactly? Just because things calm down slightly people believe "oh look normality" and it all kicks off again. How can you not understand that these are things that do not need to happen in the current situation. I just looked up the current Covid guidelines for NI. Groups of 30 outdoors and 10 people from 4 households indoors. Those were the regulations but now it's 15 outside and private home gathering for 10 people from 4 households down to 6 people from two households. How can you say organise a social when they are reducing numbers? It's insulting and disrespectful having people organising things when people working in medical sector are up to their eyes in work and people are nonchantly carrying on like there isn't a pandemic." I am sure if the event is not adhering to the strict guidelines it will be shut down. So whats the problem? | |||
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"Based on Covid guidelines for NI posted by 3Couple3 this 'Social' is already ignoring the guidelines. So how do the police find this place to shut it down if its not adhering to guidelines? @ Classy lady 21 What was that about saying nothing unless it was useful? Meeting with friends is not quite the same as a swingers party involving sex with people from different parts of the country. " Well for a start its only a social not a play party so get your facts right first. So if this is closed down we will have you to blame. | |||
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"Based on Covid guidelines for NI posted by 3Couple3 this 'Social' is already ignoring the guidelines. So how do the police find this place to shut it down if its not adhering to guidelines? @ Classy lady 21 What was that about saying nothing unless it was useful? Meeting with friends is not quite the same as a swingers party involving sex with people from different parts of the country. Well for a start its only a social not a play party so get your facts right first. So if this is closed down we will have you to blame. " If there's this much hassle over a social that hasn't taken place yet I'd imagine its not going to take place Did a Newspaper in N.I not run a story recently about this type of meeting taking place during the covid restrictions and the outcry it would cause | |||
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"Based on Covid guidelines for NI posted by 3Couple3 this 'Social' is already ignoring the guidelines. So how do the police find this place to shut it down if its not adhering to guidelines? @ Classy lady 21 What was that about saying nothing unless it was useful? Meeting with friends is not quite the same as a swingers party involving sex with people from different parts of the country. Well for a start its only a social not a play party so get your facts right first. So if this is closed down we will have you to blame. If there's this much hassle over a social that hasn't taken place yet I'd imagine its not going to take place Did a Newspaper in N.I not run a story recently about this type of meeting taking place during the covid restrictions and the outcry it would cause " The couple that are running the social are well known by the press | |||
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"Actually the last one was cancelled which was due to be held at the start of lockdown but the papers forgot to mention that bit." I'd imagine they'll also forget to print that this is advertised as a social event only. However they won't forget to print exactly what covid regulations are broken at the time of the social. It'll knock the Golf outing in Galway off the front page I'd imagine | |||
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"Thank you for clarifying there wont be any sex involved That has got to be a first for any swingers meet Closed down because of me? It can only be closed down if it is not adhering to guidelines. Is it wrong that some of us are actually concerned about the well being of others? " The clue is in the name "masked social" like i said people can make up their own minds but thanks for the concern. | |||
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"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork " How many are allowed at an event currently indoors? Its 50 down south as long as social distance is adhered too | |||
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"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork " Going by council areas in Northern Ireland today its 3rd highest on the list today | |||
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"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork Going by council areas in Northern Ireland today its 3rd highest on the list today " ok but are they following the guidelines? I cant seem to get an answer. Thanks | |||
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"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork Going by council areas in Northern Ireland today its 3rd highest on the list today " Actually make that 2nd above belfast....Read it wrong | |||
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"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork Going by council areas in Northern Ireland today its 3rd highest on the list today ok but are they following the guidelines? I cant seem to get an answer. Thanks" Obviously not if numbers are rising everywhere | |||
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"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork Going by council areas in Northern Ireland today its 3rd highest on the list today ok but are they following the guidelines? I cant seem to get an answer. Thanks Obviously not if numbers are rising everywhere " Thats neither here nor there, IF the guidelines are being followed then what is the problem? | |||
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"All guidelines are being followed and also we feel safe going as its not in a high risk area like belfast dublin or Cork Going by council areas in Northern Ireland today its 3rd highest on the list today ok but are they following the guidelines? I cant seem to get an answer. Thanks Obviously not if numbers are rising everywhere Thats neither here nor there, IF the guidelines are being followed then what is the problem? " I work in hospitality as a part time job.....ive seen events like this and not one mask is kept on, not one person keeping to the 2 metre rule and no hand sanitizer being used. Once the drink is inside people they don't care. Dance floors are not allowed but they are there being used.....so I've seen it with my own eyes what guidelines are being followed. | |||
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"The only restriction they have increased is the amount of people we are allowed to meet indoors or out They've put restrictions on group gatherings, so a social is what exactly? Just because things calm down slightly people believe "oh look normality" and it all kicks off again. How can you not understand that these are things that do not need to happen in the current situation. I just looked up the current Covid guidelines for NI. Groups of 30 outdoors and 10 people from 4 households indoors. Those were the regulations but now it's 15 outside and private home gathering for 10 people from 4 households down to 6 people from two households. How can you say organise a social when they are reducing numbers? It's insulting and disrespectful having people organising things when people working in medical sector are up to their eyes in work and people are nonchantly carrying on like there isn't a pandemic. I am sure if the event is not adhering to the strict guidelines it will be shut down. So whats the problem?" All it takes is one or two people at any event and it can create outbreak. Last time I looked R value was close to 1.3 or 1.8 in NI which is high and we were the same down here as well. Just had another quick look at the regulations in the North. "Extended group gatherings" and "Wider range of gatherings" both say Date to be Confirmed. Unless it's considered a private home gathering so they can have 6 people from two households. If it's outdoors they can have 15 people. | |||
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"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway. I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again." Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. | |||
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"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway. I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again. Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. " Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is. | |||
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"As we all know or should know you cant believe what comes out of the papers i dont see what people issue is with this event we hace all been asked to wear masks and ashere to social distancing im sure all of you at some point over the last while have been enjoying meals out and meeting up with friends so dont really see what the difference is as someone has suggested if you dont like the idea you dont have to go and for those of you with your mind in the gutter it is not a sex party it is a social only there is no play " What part of “we all must do it to get through it” are you and your ilk having difficulty with ?? I despair | |||
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"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway. I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again. Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is. " Most of those veris are very explicit, so I doubt that many will fall for your guideline spin. | |||
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"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway. I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again. Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is. " Nightclubs/pubs aren't supposed to be open full stop. There are no guidelines for them to be open. It's actually supposed to be reviewed this week or next to see if they will reopen them but more than likely they won't | |||
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"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway. I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again. Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is. " Didn't realise the HSE had given guidelines on swinger parties or swinger clubs for that matter. As another person said the verifications that have popped using the webcaming option have been fairly explicit to say the least so doubtful said guidelines have been followed. P. S. If you want to take what I have said as a dig or swipe work away. We won't lose any sleep over it | |||
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"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway. I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again. Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is. Nightclubs/pubs aren't supposed to be open full stop. There are no guidelines for them to be open. It's actually supposed to be reviewed this week or next to see if they will reopen them but more than likely they won't " I'm not familiar with the restrictions in the North and I agree that nightclubs should not be open. I will however state that whilst I disagree with a social or swinger event being run right now at least hedonism is doing the right things from what they have said unlike many others who have had parties or club nights on the quiet. As I said what I said was not meant to be snotty. I was just pointing out something that you may not have seen | |||
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"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway. I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again. Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is. Nightclubs/pubs aren't supposed to be open full stop. There are no guidelines for them to be open. It's actually supposed to be reviewed this week or next to see if they will reopen them but more than likely they won't I'm not familiar with the restrictions in the North and I agree that nightclubs should not be open. I will however state that whilst I disagree with a social or swinger event being run right now at least hedonism is doing the right things from what they have said unlike many others who have had parties or club nights on the quiet. As I said what I said was not meant to be snotty. I was just pointing out something that you may not have seen " I don't think you're being snotty at all, I don't mind discussing things with anyone. I was only familiar with the changes I seen from the news a few days ago and I looked up the rest afterwards. I don't agree with any clubs opening at all or people having large scale socials. If someone does get sick are they going to report it and say where they were? Highly doubtful. Will the hosts take responsibility and report it if a number of people who attended fall ill? Again highly doubtful To be honest, no one knows what they are doing in regards to precautions. P&G asked above and no one responded. There are no official dates for larger gatherings, the website just says dates are to be decided for that. There are regulations for people outdoors which is 15 and a private home is 6 people from 2 households. | |||
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"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway. I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again. Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is. " Lol....you must be reading the wrong veris | |||
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"I agree it is peoples decision but it is highly irresponsible to be organising anything right now. I don't see any other event profiles organising or clubs advertising events right now. Not in Ireland in anyway. I know people are meeting privately, I'm far from stupid but if things are getting worse how do the organisers think this a good idea when they are increasing restrictions in NI again. Sorry if this comes across as snotty as its not meant to be but there has been a club running night in Ireland the last month or so. Not advertised on the forums for obvious reasons but the verifications have been popping up here and there. Yes there has and they are following the guidelines so I really don't understand what the issue is. Nightclubs/pubs aren't supposed to be open full stop. There are no guidelines for them to be open. It's actually supposed to be reviewed this week or next to see if they will reopen them but more than likely they won't I'm not familiar with the restrictions in the North and I agree that nightclubs should not be open. I will however state that whilst I disagree with a social or swinger event being run right now at least hedonism is doing the right things from what they have said unlike many others who have had parties or club nights on the quiet. As I said what I said was not meant to be snotty. I was just pointing out something that you may not have seen I don't think you're being snotty at all, I don't mind discussing things with anyone. I was only familiar with the changes I seen from the news a few days ago and I looked up the rest afterwards. I don't agree with any clubs opening at all or people having large scale socials. If someone does get sick are they going to report it and say where they were? Highly doubtful. Will the hosts take responsibility and report it if a number of people who attended fall ill? Again highly doubtful To be honest, no one knows what they are doing in regards to precautions. P&G asked above and no one responded. There are no official dates for larger gatherings, the website just says dates are to be decided for that. There are regulations for people outdoors which is 15 and a private home is 6 people from 2 households. " We can your point and do agree with you. | |||
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"Raging all the single men spots are taken but I’d be up for something like this in future, I need verified. " Think you need to be verified to attend. | |||
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