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By *hiscouldbeintresting18 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

A question for you? Why do people on here string fabbers along for ages, getting to know you and asking questions, making plans to meet up.. Send photos etc etc and then just dissappear with out a reason?

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Unfortunately they can get away with it on Fab.

There may be a reason ... moved onto the next shiny thing, attached, boredom & playing games.

Have to say, some men on here can be the same too.

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By *obshortMan
over a year ago

Cork

Because they are wasters and have nothing better in their own life. Assholes

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By *oiracpl38Couple
over a year ago

moira ish

Don’t see the point,a lot of effort stringing people along if I have no intention of meeting just delete and move on unless it’s an ego thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They like the chase, it's an ego thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a certain amount of safety in the anonymity of being online only but actually putting yourself out there physically and meeting just seems to be a risk too far for some. Some are well intentioned but bottle it some are less so well intentioned from the outset

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's bad form but it happens. At least you didn't have a meet no-show I guess

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

because they are dickheads

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan


"They like the chase, it's an ego thing."

There is enjoyment, pleasure, it's a trill. They get to chat, engage with people that they probably won't other wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a certain amount of safety in the anonymity of being online only but actually putting yourself out there physically and meeting just seems to be a risk too far for some. Some are well intentioned but bottle it some are less so well intentioned from the outset "

Also very true

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Because it can be some bloke acting the bollox Id imagine

Builds up a whole identity and then deletes to start again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are insecure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of genuine men women and couples on fab and other sites. Just forget about the wannabes. It can be annoying when you get set up. Keep the salt close to hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for you? Why do people on here string fabbers along for ages, getting to know you and asking questions, making plans to meet up.. Send photos etc etc and then just dissappear with out a reason? "

Cause it's Fab ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They like the chase, it's an ego thing."

I agree and insecurity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's bad form but it happens. At least you didn't have a meet no-show I guess"

Exactly agreed would be a disaster especially for someone new it could knock their confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's part of fab but same on other sites too. I'm sure majority of us here have been stung by fake profiles you just learn to spot them even though the odd one slips through. But thankfully along the way can discover some good ones. Keep the faith

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By *m_impact_playMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"It's part of fab but same on other sites too. I'm sure majority of us here have been stung by fake profiles you just learn to spot them even though the odd one slips through. But thankfully along the way can discover some good ones. Keep the faith"

The fake profiles are easy to spot and deal with.

It is the real profiles with the people behind them behaving in a fake manner, that is what ruins it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's part of fab but same on other sites too. I'm sure majority of us here have been stung by fake profiles you just learn to spot them even though the odd one slips through. But thankfully along the way can discover some good ones. Keep the faith

The fake profiles are easy to spot and deal with.

It is the real profiles with the people behind them behaving in a fake manner, that is what ruins it. "

Unfortunately have that too. Been stung a few times

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

The fact they go out their way to set up a email address then an account here and when they are found out they do it all over again rinse and repeat just baffles me like is the boredom that severe

It can be quite damaging to someones confidence if they ain't quick to cop that the profile is fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was messaging with a woman who seemed genuine for the last few days then turns out she was charging for services.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Was messaging with a woman who seemed genuine for the last few days then turns out she was charging for services. "

Report her and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is more fake people on here then real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're not all pretend. Some simply design a persona to escape their dull and dreary day-to-day.

I feel sorry for them and swerve.

Some come on and play the delicate ingenue when in reality they're pro-swingers with more miles on the clock than Heffs fav playboy bunny.

It's the ones who fall for it that I feel sorry for there, victims of full-on hustlers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're not all pretend. Some simply design a persona to escape their dull and dreary day-to-day.

I feel sorry for them and swerve.

Some come on and play the delicate ingenue when in reality they're pro-swingers with more miles on the clock than Heffs fav playboy bunny.

It's the ones who fall for it that I feel sorry for there, victims of full-on hustlers.

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jasus that’s them told

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"A question for you? Why do people on here string fabbers along for ages, getting to know you and asking questions, making plans to meet up.. Send photos etc etc and then just dissappear with out a reason? "

I'd say that's more a sign that they didn't fancy you after your pic rather than being fake.

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