FabSwingers.com forum: Too young?

By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

So how old is too young in your opinion? I have 30 as my lower age limit as a feel that I would have absolutely nothing in common with someone younger than that. But I have a few very sexy younger guys that fab my pics a lot and it always makes me wonder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how old is too young in your opinion? I have 30 as my lower age limit as a feel that I would have absolutely nothing in common with someone younger than that. But I have a few very sexy younger guys that fab my pics a lot and it always makes me wonder. "

Personally I do have age limits but if I clicked once they are over 21 and able If older I wouldn’t rule anyone out simple Cos of there year of birth . Older men in my opinion have a way of prolonging the enjoyment

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My eldest daughter is almost 29 so I'd never meet anyone even remotely close to that age. I think my lower age limit is set at 38 but may raise that to 40 very soon.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"My eldest daughter is almost 29 so I'd never meet anyone even remotely close to that age. I think my lower age limit is set at 38 but may raise that to 40 very soon. "

Oh are ya now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My eldest daughter is almost 29 so I'd never meet anyone even remotely close to that age. I think my lower age limit is set at 38 but may raise that to 40 very soon. "

This is true, i cant seem to ever hit on you via message

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I have 40 as my lower limit wouldn't go much younger than that tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my men older than me but I will occasionally look at guys in their 30s

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"My eldest daughter is almost 29 so I'd never meet anyone even remotely close to that age. I think my lower age limit is set at 38 but may raise that to 40 very soon.

Oh are ya now "

Ahem....have you looked at your age range smartypants?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"My eldest daughter is almost 29 so I'd never meet anyone even remotely close to that age. I think my lower age limit is set at 38 but may raise that to 40 very soon.

This is true, i cant seem to ever hit on you via message

I don't have tayto or Tanora

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My eldest daughter is almost 29 so I'd never meet anyone even remotely close to that age. I think my lower age limit is set at 38 but may raise that to 40 very soon.

This is true, i cant seem to ever hit on you via message

I don't have tayto or Tanora

Rules are made to be broken

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"My eldest daughter is almost 29 so I'd never meet anyone even remotely close to that age. I think my lower age limit is set at 38 but may raise that to 40 very soon.

This is true, i cant seem to ever hit on you via message

I don't have tayto or Tanora

Rules are made to be broken

I'm not getting Manflu again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My eldest daughter is almost 29 so I'd never meet anyone even remotely close to that age. I think my lower age limit is set at 38 but may raise that to 40 very soon.

This is true, i cant seem to ever hit on you via message

I don't have tayto or Tanora

Rules are made to be broken

I'm not getting Manflu again

The dream stays alive in my brain

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"My eldest daughter is almost 29 so I'd never meet anyone even remotely close to that age. I think my lower age limit is set at 38 but may raise that to 40 very soon.

Oh are ya now

Ahem....have you looked at your age range smartypants?

Never said they were set in stone either smarty pants

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

Not sure id have any upper or lower (legal of course) limits. If the person is interesting then id meet them.

Iv spoken to both older and younger than me and found them to be both appealing and unappealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our lower limit set at 35 but I will message any man below that who appeals to me (happens on rare occasions). The youngest I have actually met is early 30s.

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

"We have our lower limit set at 35 but I will message any man below that who appeals to me (happens on rare occasions). The youngest I have actually met is early 30s."

Sometimes theres just a connection that clicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have our lower limit set at 35 but I will message any man below that who appeals to me (happens on rare occasions). The youngest I have actually met is early 30s.

Sometimes theres just a connection that clicks

Nah, he was just really hot

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

"We have our lower limit set at 35 but I will message any man below that who appeals to me (happens on rare occasions). The youngest I have actually met is early 30s.

Sometimes theres just a connection that clicks

Nah, he was just really hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm old enough to be yer mammy it's a nooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very broad range for age. It's all about attraction for me so if a woman is 50+ but I like her then I'll try make it happen. Everyone has personal preferences but mine wouldn't be age limited .....to an extent obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A local girl I got friendly with recently, shes 26 cute, gorgeous and a funny intelligent person.

Theres definitely an attraction from both sides, my answer is of it feels right why not

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

I've always met guys who are younger. Within reason tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there has to be a mental connection,sex for sex isn't my scene so 35 would be the lowest ,

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By *uess.who30Man
over a year ago

Galway/Dublin/London

"We have our lower limit set at 35 but I will message any man below that who appeals to me (happens on rare occasions). The youngest I have actually met is early 30s."

So you're saying there's a chance!

lol

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By *oguish1Man
over a year ago

Carrigrohane

Age is only a number .... This is an adult site so no lower limit and no upper limit ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me there has to be a mental connection,sex for sex isn't my scene so 35 would be the lowest ,"

Very similar thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 35 on my profile but tend to meet more guys closer to my own age more.

Prefer the chat with with guys my own age to be honest.

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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"For me there has to be a mental connection,sex for sex isn't my scene so 35 would be the lowest ,"

My thinking is a lot like this. I need a connection with the person I'm with. Not sure I could connect with someone younger than 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me there has to be a mental connection,sex for sex isn't my scene so 35 would be the lowest ,

My thinking is a lot like this. I need a connection with the person I'm with. Not sure I could connect with someone younger than 30. "

We thought that too, but then we meet an amazing couple when on holiday, late 20s but mature and sensible (and sexy af

), had a great chat, then a great session

So I guess you just never know, people can surprise you, so we try to stay open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have our lower limit set at 35 but I will message any man below that who appeals to me (happens on rare occasions). The youngest I have actually met is early 30s.

So you're saying there's a chance!

lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming from a younger perspective here. We are 28 and 27. We actually don't meet people much younger that us.(if at all). Although in the grand scheme of things the age gap isn't very much. They are definitely noticeably more immature. I do appreciate a young sexy female but once chatting you find they lack the connection we need which is unfortunate.

We are fairly new to this but have definitely found its much easier to make a connection with someone a bit older than us(30's and 40's) although as most are saying. We do find it a bit harder to meet couples as they judge us by age before they've even gotten to know us. Each to their own of course but something it would be nice not to be tarred with the same brush.

Anyway. Just thought I'd add my 2 cents here from a younger perspective.

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By *o strings but a G-stringMan
over a year ago

city

I find this changes a bit. Connection is always key but when I was younger I loved oldr ladies. I do think that 40's is the best look for women. My eye has been turned recently by a mature womsan in her early twenties - which was a bit kinky. Every situation is unique.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Always thought that my age plus or minus ten years but having enjoying 22 yrs younger i decided to hell with ages so if theres any 99yr olds about

U know where i am

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Ja, I tried early thirties - nice meet dont get me wrong - but I wouldn't do it again. Just not me. I prefer the calmness and experience of a settled stallion, also they're happy enough to repeat rides while the young ones tend to look for the greener grass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont take age into consideration too much personally, but there has to be some kind of chemistry there and someone who can have a conversation. Being a guy in my 30s here can be sometimes a mixed bag. Most Ive met have been older and all couples were.

If theres a spark, make fire lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ja, I tried early thirties - nice meet dont get me wrong - but I wouldn't do it again. Just not me. I prefer the calmness and experience of a settled stallion, also they're happy enough to repeat rides while the young ones tend to look for the greener grass. "

Settled stallion

.. Mind if I borrow that one sometime?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Settled stallion

.. Mind if I borrow that one sometime?

No prob, it's all yours. When the pandemic is over and I get lost to Cork, I might claim a small fee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in my twenties- I didn't have much in common with people in their twenties and always gravitated around people in their mid thirties. Now I'm in my thirties and the age preference still remains the same.

As a younger couple above mentioned younger twenties just don't have the same ability to connect. I'm sure there are some exceptions but I've yet to find one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always true either

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

Im 39 and haven't ever met any one younger on here on in real life! Im coming round to the idea of even my own age...slowly lol

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

A few years ago I was with a guy in his early 20s. It did absolutely nothing for me, he loved it though

Then I was in a relationship with a guy in his late 50s and it was explosive! So I would definitely tend to go towards sexy older men and women.

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By *uess.who30Man
over a year ago

Galway/Dublin/London

"When I was in my twenties- I didn't have much in common with people in their twenties and always gravitated around people in their mid thirties. Now I'm in my thirties and the age preference still remains the same.

As a younger couple above mentioned younger twenties just don't have the same ability to connect. I'm sure there are some exceptions but I've yet to find one. "

Again from a younger perspective, i very much align with missus here.. in that I've always found myself connecting with people a good few years older than me. (Maybe because i grew up in a more exposed life than most & had to grow up a bit quicker)

As such, i have yet to meet anyone here younger than me... but i do chat with younger from time to time if they come across genuine and have a solid profile, as I'm open to the idea for the right persons if we connect... just hasn't happened yet.

As the couple above (similar ages to myself) mentioned, it can be difficult with the younger stigma attached, but understandable too, as it can be seen that majority of younger people here (not all) dont seem to fully understand the real concept of Fab.. or even fully understand themselves just yet.

Unfortunately for them, thats just something that comes with experience, as I'm sure anyone older would agree with.. your sexual understanding and confidence rises as you get older.. along with maturity of course.. which i think is the real bottom line here.

I doubt its the age that worries people as much as it is the maturity level they associate with that age. But as always in life.. there will always be exceptions.

When i first joined in my early/mid twenties... it was impossible to get a reply, attention, a conversation even... alot of the time i couldn't even send a message because of age preferences.. but i just took that time to learn as much as i could and be patient for a chance to show who i really was... eventually those chances were provided & the difference between my age and how i actually come across is something nearly all my meets have mentioned & i take it as such a compliment.

Thing is, unless they've been here for a few years already, anyone joining In their early twenties is coming on from a world of Tinder and POF.. which has been there for their whole sexual life, basing everything on pure aesthetic looks and zero need for connection... which can lead to some real arrogance if their seen to be good looking as they've had years of attention just based off of looks and had no need to build their personality.

The "older" generations (of which we may baaaarely scrape into) grew up without apps and pics etc... where you actually had to converse with someone and build a connection if you had interest in them, which we all know can be daunting at times when first approaching someone... but it built character and an understanding of yourself, that unfortunately seems to be fading with younger generations.

All in all, each person is unique and you be taken at their own merits.. and although its difficult being on the younger side of things here at times... its down to us to prove we are different from the rest.. as its not realistic to expect others to give you the benefit of the doubt when 95% of people your age are very different to how you actually are yourself.

So, all i say is... prove your character, show resilience in the face of adversity and be patient. After that, you cant control the set in stone mindsets of some and in my experience, that lack of open mindedness is a red flag anyway... but age preferences are a persons choice and right.. however if you're within a couple years of it and tick all their boxes and they still wont budge... run for the hills and never look back.. they wont catch you anyway, they're too old!

lol (i very much jest!)

Sorry for the book.. but the morale of the story is.. if theres a gang in a gun standoff with police.. and you're standing in with the gang, but not the same as the others... dont complain for getting shot by the police... show them your different and put you hands on your head and lie down... stand out from YOUR crowd.

On that note... everyone have a Fab weekend and get those sexy bodies out in the sun!

Stay safe.

Mr J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My eldest daughter is almost 29 so I'd never meet anyone even remotely close to that age. I think my lower age limit is set at 38 but may raise that to 40 very soon. "
really so if a 21 years old model absolute stunner started chatting you up you'd say no you're too young

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We have a rule of half your age plus 7 is the lowest

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"My eldest daughter is almost 29 so I'd never meet anyone even remotely close to that age. I think my lower age limit is set at 38 but may raise that to 40 very soon. really so if a 21 years old model absolute stunner started chatting you up you'd say no you're too young "

Believe it or not when I say something in here is not said just for the sake of it. It's actually fact.

The answer to your question in the politest possible way is yes if a 21 year old real stunner started chatting me up I would completely ignore her for the very reasons I gave above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age limit set at 30. May need upping my son is 26 so would find it a bit strange meeting someone under 30. No matter how attractive they are

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By *istyourpussy26Man
over a year ago

mil

I personally prefer older women they r far more sensual

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By *uess.who30Man
over a year ago

Galway/Dublin/London

I'll help you out here _ealitybites!

I think you missed the point of the of connection over aesthetics... I'm sure he could politely appreciate the girls beauty and compliment her on politely, but as he has children older, it wouldnt sit well with him and wouldn't be enjoyable.. therefore he wouldnt.

Also he fact he has 16 years on you makes a big difference as you likely think 21 is a fine age for you.. and thats fair. But not everyone has the same mindsets.

I'll put it to you this way... 55yrs-21 = 34 yrs difference .

There are some girls who start modelling, are developed and stunning and will continue to blossom into fine women at the age of 16/17

39yrs - 16= 23 yrs difference.

As you put it to mr _ealitybites... are you saying if a stunning fully developed 16yr old came onto you, would you say no?

I suggest getting legal advice before replying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically anyone that can't remember watching 9/11 live on TV

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

Thought long and hard before posting here. And then wondered why that was. (I have my lower limit set to 19.)

So the thing that stopped me posting is that I suspect I would be judged poorly for having such a low lower limit.

People are attracted to what they are attracted to, physically. This is not a dating site, so I go on physical characteristics as much as personality, sexual experience and sexual preferences.

Bizarrely, I would find it “icky” to see some one of my age “dating” someone of 19, but for sexual encounters, not so much.

(And for the record, I have never had a meet with someone with such a young age)

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'll help you out here _ealitybites!

Also he fact he has 16 years on you makes a big difference as you likely think 21 is a fine age for you.. and thats fair. But not everyone has the same mindsets.

I'll put it to you this way... 55yrs-21 = 34 yrs difference .

There are some girls who start modelling, are developed and stunning and will continue to blossom into fine women at the age of 16/17

39yrs - 16= 23 yrs difference.

As you put it to mr _ealitybites... are you saying if a stunning fully developed 16yr old came onto you, would you say no?

I suggest getting legal advice before replying lol

Thanks for your assistance but I would assume that my answer was clear enough in itself and pretty obvious to those of us who don't think with our dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll help you out here _ealitybites!

Also he fact he has 16 years on you makes a big difference as you likely think 21 is a fine age for you.. and thats fair. But not everyone has the same mindsets.

I'll put it to you this way... 55yrs-21 = 34 yrs difference .

There are some girls who start modelling, are developed and stunning and will continue to blossom into fine women at the age of 16/17

39yrs - 16= 23 yrs difference.

As you put it to mr _ealitybites... are you saying if a stunning fully developed 16yr old came onto you, would you say no?

I suggest getting legal advice before replying lol

Thanks for your assistance but I would assume that my answer was clear enough in itself and pretty obvious to those of us who don't think with our dick. "

This is more Fab mathematics

Yesterday was Algebra.... Today Arithmetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll help you out here _ealitybites!

Also he fact he has 16 years on you makes a big difference as you likely think 21 is a fine age for you.. and thats fair. But not everyone has the same mindsets.

I'll put it to you this way... 55yrs-21 = 34 yrs difference .

There are some girls who start modelling, are developed and stunning and will continue to blossom into fine women at the age of 16/17

39yrs - 16= 23 yrs difference.

As you put it to mr _ealitybites... are you saying if a stunning fully developed 16yr old came onto you, would you say no?

I suggest getting legal advice before replying lol

Thanks for your assistance but I would assume that my answer was clear enough in itself and pretty obvious to those of us who don't think with our dick. "
if you were out and not on here what would you do ask for ID

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Age is only a number just so long as both of you enjoy each other.. Fuck the begrudgers that's what I say. I'm sure you ladies would not say no to a nice you guy who swept you off your feet.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'll help you out here _ealitybites!

Also he fact he has 16 years on you makes a big difference as you likely think 21 is a fine age for you.. and thats fair. But not everyone has the same mindsets.

I'll put it to you this way... 55yrs-21 = 34 yrs difference .

There are some girls who start modelling, are developed and stunning and will continue to blossom into fine women at the age of 16/17

39yrs - 16= 23 yrs difference.

As you put it to mr _ealitybites... are you saying if a stunning fully developed 16yr old came onto you, would you say no?

I suggest getting legal advice before replying lol

Thanks for your assistance but I would assume that my answer was clear enough in itself and pretty obvious to those of us who don't think with our dick. if you were out and not on here what would you do ask for ID

Why would I need to do that?

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

.....

I suggest getting legal advice before replying lol

Why would I need to do that? "

Awkward.....

(Tumbles)

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By *extus1951Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Too young????

I rather suspect that it is we older guys who have more problems trying to establish contact lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll help you out here _ealitybites!

Also he fact he has 16 years on you makes a big difference as you likely think 21 is a fine age for you.. and thats fair. But not everyone has the same mindsets.

I'll put it to you this way... 55yrs-21 = 34 yrs difference .

There are some girls who start modelling, are developed and stunning and will continue to blossom into fine women at the age of 16/17

39yrs - 16= 23 yrs difference.

As you put it to mr _ealitybites... are you saying if a stunning fully developed 16yr old came onto you, would you say no?

I suggest getting legal advice before replying lol

Why would I need to do that? "
Lad I'm only having the craic seen as I put in the smiley faces I thought you might realise that

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'll help you out here _ealitybites!

Also he fact he has 16 years on you makes a big difference as you likely think 21 is a fine age for you.. and thats fair. But not everyone has the same mindsets.

I'll put it to you this way... 55yrs-21 = 34 yrs difference .

There are some girls who start modelling, are developed and stunning and will continue to blossom into fine women at the age of 16/17

39yrs - 16= 23 yrs difference.

As you put it to mr _ealitybites... are you saying if a stunning fully developed 16yr old came onto you, would you say no?

I suggest getting legal advice before replying lol

Why would I need to do that? Lad I'm only having the craic seen as I put in the smiley faces I thought you might realise that "

I know and when you are out with a 99 year old does she take you back to meet the parents?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll help you out here _ealitybites!

Also he fact he has 16 years on you makes a big difference as you likely think 21 is a fine age for you.. and thats fair. But not everyone has the same mindsets.

I'll put it to you this way... 55yrs-21 = 34 yrs difference .

There are some girls who start modelling, are developed and stunning and will continue to blossom into fine women at the age of 16/17

39yrs - 16= 23 yrs difference.

As you put it to mr _ealitybites... are you saying if a stunning fully developed 16yr old came onto you, would you say no?

I suggest getting legal advice before replying lol

Why would I need to do that? Lad I'm only having the craic seen as I put in the smiley faces I thought you might realise that

I know and when you are out with a 99 year old does she take you back to meet the parents?

"
lighten up lad an auld sense of humour wouldn't go astray

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By *ublinerrrMan
over a year ago

Dublin

27yo here if anyone interested..jiys taught id throw that out there haha

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