FabSwingers.com forum: The Good, the Bad & the Ugly

By *eaAndBen OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Reading another thread here the OP asked about people’s roughest sex sessions, which led to a number of stories involving less than perfect bjs etc which got me thinking... the givers in these stories no doubt thought they were producing stellar performances (could happen to any of us!!). So, what makes for good, bad and ugly oral? By ugly I don’t mean looks I mean figuratively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad

Way too heavy handed, too much hand action involved and feels like she's going to rip the frenulum.

Teeth dragging along the shaft. And the amateur porn star where she thinks continuously attempting to deep throat is the best way to get a guy off.

In my experience great oral has always been with women who genuinely love giving it and instinctively know the most sensitive areas of the penis. Perhaps because they enjoy it so much they take the time to find that out rather than attacking it like a dog with a bone.

I'm sure most women on here will say it's exactly the same for them when the roles are reversed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad

Way too heavy handed, too much hand action involved and feels like she's going to rip the frenulum.

Teeth dragging along the shaft. And the amateur porn star where she thinks continuously attempting to deep throat is the best way to get a guy off.

I'm sure most women on here will say it's exactly the same for them when the roles are reversed.

Yep, replace frenulum with clit and penis with labia and that's my answer.

Ultimately, it's about connecting with, and responding to, the person you're with, not rolling out your stock moves that you "perfected" at 20.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That said, some men specifically request teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lee once had a woman blow a mouthful of wine into his urethra, like wtf?

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Oh god no, definitely no teeth, we’re sensitive down there you know

(Or maybe it’s my age group now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god no, definitely no teeth, we’re sensitive down there you know

(Or maybe it’s my age group now

It's not something I would be comfortable doing but when he specifically requests it, rude to refuse

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Lee once had a woman blow a mouthful of wine into his urethra, like wtf?"

Was it a semi-llon or a c-hard-on-nay?

(Shows self out)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lee once had a woman blow a mouthful of wine into his urethra, like wtf?

Was it a semi-llon or a c-hard-on-nay?

(Shows self out)"

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Oh god no, definitely no teeth, we’re sensitive down there you know

(Or maybe it’s my age group now

)

It's not something I would be comfortable doing but when he specifically requests it, rude to refuse

Well now if you do special requests I have a long list here that needs fulfilling

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By *eaAndBen OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Bad

Way too heavy handed, too much hand action involved and feels like she's going to rip the frenulum.

Teeth dragging along the shaft. And the amateur porn star where she thinks continuously attempting to deep throat is the best way to get a guy off.

I'm sure most women on here will say it's exactly the same for them when the roles are reversed.

Mentally checking over every encounter to re-assess whether the supposed moans of pleasure were actually groans of despair

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

the use of teeth

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Good

When you're standing up and she's sitting down in front on you

Her hands holding your arse really tightly as she takes you completely into her mouth and as you cum she holds you so tight that you feel you're going to burst out the back of her head

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

The Good:

Variety, changing it up. Use of tongue, especially round the head. Teasing by changing speed and intensity. Looking for and responding to the guys moans and reactions. Licking up and down the shaft. Play kissing the head and up and down the shaft. Continuing down to balls and licking them and/or sucking them into mouth. Use of hand when sucking to pull the guy off at the same time, with firm grip.

Spitting on the head then sucking it off. Looking up into the guys eyes often, maybe winking once or twice. Making moaning sounds, but only if you are enjoying it too. Massaging cream/other into head then licking off. Putting some space dust (popping candy) in your mouth and sucking the head. Cupping the balls / stroking the balls. Swallowing (yup). Licking the guys cock clean when done.

The bad:

Staying at one pace. Not using hand(s). Not enough pressure. Not giving head enough attention. Not using tongue. Staying silent. Pulling the guy off too fast with no rhythm. Changing speed/rhythm when guy starts to visibly get more excited. Not making sure shaft and head are moist enough. Taking him so far and stopping, unless by mutual consent..!

The ugly:

Using teeth for anything other than dragging up and down *moist* cock. Biting. Gripping tight and pulling hard. Long nails with rough hand movements (snagging ball sack, etc). Pulling cock so fast and hard that balls start slapping against leg (sore). Gripping balls hard. Pulling balls hard (no!). Choking and/or spitting out his cum over him when he cums (ok, may not be your fault if he didn’t say he was cumming)

Did I miss anything...??

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

The good a guy who enjoys what he is doing to you and takes his cues from your reactions . Who can tease you until you are begging him to just take you. Someone you can have a good laugh with ans trust enough to try different things and knows it's not all about one person's pleasure. If both of you aren't enjoying it then there's no point.

The bad a guy who has no idea where your clit is or other erogenous zones and thinks just sticking fingers in and out is his idea of foreplay. Or someone who thinks just pumping away for ages equates amazing sex.It really doesn't.

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