FabSwingers.com forum: Forum Lurkers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are active forum users opinion on Forum Lurkers?

They do not comment on the forum yet hop on threads to mail privately or indeed slate!

Pieces of shit or salt of the earth?

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*If you are a lurker, reading this now, please note that you can suck Kaizer's left one

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No issue with people reading the forums and not contributing for their own reasons but mailing privately through threads is a definite ploy to lull the recipient into opening a message that they may not normally.

Then there are those who rarely or never post except when they see a window of opportunity to shout "CLIQUE"

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I have a few male stalkers that look at my profile and pics nearly every day and then try to have a go at me in the forums

I even gained another one this morning on another thread

Its all good lads if any of you are reading this

I also had a few men and women that would give me advice as to what I said wrong in the forums

They went as far as telling me what women were cool and what women were just moaning bitches.

I've messaged a few of them but amazingly they never answer so I blocked

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By *hoenix-risingMan
over a year ago

Co.Down

"What are active forum users opinion on Forum Lurkers?

They do not comment on the forum yet hop on threads to mail privately or indeed slate!

Pieces of shit or salt of the earth?

Discuss?

*If you are a lurker, reading this now, please note that you can suck Kaizer's left one

You're just looking a fight aren't you?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"No issue with people reading the forums and not contributing for their own reasons but mailing privately through threads is a definite ploy to lull the recipient into opening a message that they may not normally.

Then there are those who rarely or never post except when they see a window of opportunity to shout "CLIQUE""

This is spot on. No issue with someone just looking and reading everyone has their own reasons for being in here.

It's the ones who pm just to put someone down over what they said is wrong or to give abuse I have issues with. A debate is grand but normally it's done to be derogatory to the other person.

And ye the famous clique that people talk about yet no one names.

I mean how dare anyone interact with people they get to know over time and worse have a laugh with them at times on here.The flipping cheek of them

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I was one of those said lurkers , I’d say I was in the site nearly 12 months before I had plucked up the courage to comment or even post a thread. At the time I wouldn’t have called the regular posters a clique, just people who knew each other better than they new this new guy.

Now I’m sure there are those that preferred I stayed a lurker lol.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

I wish the lurkers would start contributing to the threads, instead of the same usual ones.

Variety is the spice of life, after all. And it gets you noticed which has got to be good for possible future meets.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I wish the lurkers would start contributing to the threads, instead of the same usual ones.

Variety is the spice of life, after all. And it gets you noticed which has got to be good for possible future meets."

Can work the other way....the lurker that does add the odd comment or starts a thread can get nasty messages too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have a problem with lurkers tbh.

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By *ouno2muchMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I don’t have issues from threads or private messages from posts. Think it may be different for others for sure. I don’t like those that bring hate, abuse or negatively on any thread. Once I spot them I stay a mile away from them and the thread

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

Never really thought about the lurkers. But we do dislike being emailed privately if we post on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My name's Jimmy and I'm a lurker...??

It started years ago with reading other Irish posts and then I would move on to other countries and different themes and stories. Then different people's kinks and I was finding it was taking up my time and energy...

So now I'm getting therapy for this addiction and have got it down to teabreaks/lunch/dinner...as I haven't got feckin time or be arsed to comment..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like some others on here - I was a member and read the forums long before posting. TBH, it's really only the last month where I started using this section of the site properly other than the meet requests section, as infrequent as it was. I have to say, at no time, has anyone been nasty or negative on my very few posts, but I think that's more to do with the fact that I try not to be a dick.

As for the clique, I can see how people looking in think it's cliquish, as did I until fairly recently. However, I did have the dawning of realisation that it's not so much a case of breaking into a clique, it's more a case of participation. Certainly, there are some who are prolific posters, and the forums do need people like that. But it also stands to reason, that people who participate, become more recogonisable, and therefore more likely to draw a response on one of their threads/responses.

Well, that makes sense in my head - god knows how it sounds to people reading it

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Like some others on here - I was a member and read the forums long before posting. TBH, it's really only the last month where I started using this section of the site properly other than the meet requests section, as infrequent as it was. I have to say, at no time, has anyone been nasty or negative on my very few posts, but I think that's more to do with the fact that I try not to be a dick.

Well, that makes sense in my head - god knows how it sounds to people reading it

It reads well

It took me a while too to post when I first found the forums and it took a good while before anyone even replied to me on here. But I think that is pretty normal anywhere really.

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Kaiser I don’t have any thoughts on them at all! Not sure what that makes me but thinking or commenting on people with god knows what agenda for doing what the do just feeds the animal! I have other more important things to be thinking about

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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area

"What are active forum users opinion on Forum Lurkers?

They do not comment on the forum yet hop on threads to mail privately or indeed slate!

Pieces of shit or salt of the earth?

Discuss?

*If you are a lurker, reading this now, please note that you can suck Kaizer's left one

I don't mind the lurkers to be honest ,even giving them the name lurkers would probably be a bit of a misnomer, I'd say they just either don't want to post anything, don't know what to say or maybe how to say it. I would often read threads sometimes can be quite serious and don't know how to respond but I don't have to because its not to me so I just leave it be. Some threads I have nothing to add to them so just like IRL I'll say nothing as I have nothing to add. Don't mind the messages either if someone read a post on the forum, can be a nice icebreaker. But if someone is nasty or wants to have a dig in private instead of saying it publicly then yeah thats a problem.

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

I'm not here..carry on

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I lurk cause there is nothing that interest me to comment on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's true, you can't beat a dead horse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What are active forum users opinion on Forum Lurkers?

They do not comment on the forum yet hop on threads to mail privately or indeed slate!

Pieces of shit or salt of the earth?

Discuss?

*If you are a lurker, reading this now, please note that you can suck Kaizer's left one

You're just looking a fight aren't you? "

No!

Active users opinion as stated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And to the beautiful lurker that just mailed Kaizer....

Yes, in fact you can suck both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to say I'm a bit of a lurker to be fair and will post groom time to time on something that's interesting to me our humorous. I don't ever do the sneak and msg someone that way actually truth be tools I don't really send msgs at all but that's just me. I do enjoy hearing ppls different views on different topics but it sometimes gets a bit long seeing the regurgitated questions that keep coming up but that can't be helped.

It's kinda strange actually cause I was gonna post sonething last night that I was pondering on because I've been getting msgs from different ppl asking for this and that and after reading about all the crap that the females have to deal with has me second guessing any msgs from randomers. Funny thing about it is that the only ppl id trust now are the regular ppl from the forums as you can get a feel for the type of ppl they are. I mean like them or not( I'm not saying I dislike anyone now) id still trust them more from just knowing their views from their posts. And there are def lots of good decent ppl here.

So I'm just wondering.... is it all gone Pete thong or is it just me ?

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By *hoenix-risingMan
over a year ago

Co.Down

"What are active forum users opinion on Forum Lurkers?

They do not comment on the forum yet hop on threads to mail privately or indeed slate!

Pieces of shit or salt of the earth?

Discuss?

*If you are a lurker, reading this now, please note that you can suck Kaizer's left one

You're just looking a fight aren't you?

No!

Active users opinion as stated

So because i'm not very active on the Forum's my opinion is irelevant?

Your illeism comes across as a bit arsey too...not very active users opinion...

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By *ynchsimonMan
over a year ago

North county Dublin Meath

As a long term user of the forums I've No problem with lurkers at all, maybe they just want to read and get the flow of things before they participate?

The forums recently in my opinion have gone downhill. The main problem being people with no or one or two verifications constantly commenting and starting new threads to try and get attention and stir up argument.

The "experts and know it alls on every subject "

I've said it before, again in my opinion, new members to fab should have a time period before being allowed to post on forums. Threads should only be allowed to be started by people with numerous verifications, maybe a minimum of 5?

Now that's said let the keyboard warriors begin??

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By *hoenix-risingMan
over a year ago

Co.Down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What are active forum users opinion on Forum Lurkers?

They do not comment on the forum yet hop on threads to mail privately or indeed slate!

Pieces of shit or salt of the earth?

Discuss?

*If you are a lurker, reading this now, please note that you can suck Kaizer's left one

You're just looking a fight aren't you?

No!

Active users opinion as stated

So because i'm not very active on the Forum's my opinion is irelevant?

Your illeism comes across as a bit arsey too...not very active users opinion..."

Never said that!

The issue is Lurkers mailing negative comments or piggy-backing on threads with zero contribution.

Its a free world for people to do as, they please. But it ain't cool slating someone for airing / contributing their thoughts and views publicly, whilst said lurker critiques behind the scenes.

Kaizer respects your opinion

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By *hoenix-risingMan
over a year ago

Co.Down

"What are active forum users opinion on Forum Lurkers?

They do not comment on the forum yet hop on threads to mail privately or indeed slate!

Pieces of shit or salt of the earth?

Discuss?

*If you are a lurker, reading this now, please note that you can suck Kaizer's left one

You're just looking a fight aren't you?

No!

Active users opinion as stated

So because i'm not very active on the Forum's my opinion is irelevant?

Your illeism comes across as a bit arsey too...not very active users opinion...

Never said that!

The issue is Lurkers mailing negative comments or piggy-backing on threads with zero contribution.

Its a free world for people to do as, they please. But it ain't cool slating someone for airing / contributing their thoughts and views publicly, whilst said lurker critiques behind the scenes.

Kaizer respects your opinion

I respect yours too,take care Sir..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Threads should only be allowed to be started by people with numerous verifications, maybe a minimum of 5?

Now that's said let the keyboard warriors begin??""

I don't agree with this, but then, I am biased, with 5 veris.

Aside from the veris not hitting the suggested limit, here's my reasoning ....

If someone can't post in the forums, you are tying one hand behind their back. Forums are a place, not the only way/place, but definitely 'a' place, where people can build up trust or reputation. Without which, can be extremely difficult to get any sort of meets - social or otherwise. On the Ireland forum, we are particularly lucky that we are a fairly small subset of the forums. In the UK forums, there's a much larger population and density to cover a much larger area. Forums are potentially for them, an extra conduit to a conversation starter.

Now, to counter this ....

There could be a small selection of forums that are open to all, and then once a veri limit has been reached, potentially open the access to the rest of them.

just my non

""experts and know it alls on every subject""

thoughts on your 5veri limit proposal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am biased, with 5 veris"

I meant 'less than 5'

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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area

""Threads should only be allowed to be started by people with numerous verifications, maybe a minimum of 5?

Now that's said let the keyboard warriors begin??"

I don't agree with this, but then, I am biased, with less than 5 veris.

Aside from the veris not hitting the suggested limit, here's my reasoning ....

Now, to counter this ....

There could be a small selection of forums that are open to all, and then once a veri limit has been reached, potentially open the access to the rest of them.

just my non

"experts and know it alls on every subject"

thoughts on your 5veri limit proposal

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also its more non inclusive. Its segregation. Not everyone will meet 5 people in a year, that would be one every 2 to 3 months, there by rendering them unable to post on forums for over a year or more. It may be a few years. Plus you have cam verified, where new people join and have 10 cam verifications in a week. Plenty on the forums over the past number of months have deleted and returned and are well verified and some people would argue with anything verified or not. My humble suggestion would be a tick like verified on your profile to indicate if you are a regular contributer to forums, this can be removed by admin if you post abusive posts, get a forum ban or if justifiably reported.

Not a keyboard warrior just my thoughts.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

There's a big difference between someone that posts everyday and takes part in discussions and someone with a blank profile that hits every thread,says some shite to start an argument and fuck off off just to lurk at the fallout.

The site has decided the rules about who can post and who can't and from what I read on the forums they don't seem to be in a rush to change anything

Some people don't post veri's after one or Two in the first place so wouldn't make it into The VIP section of the forums if there was one

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Join in.. dont join in.. couldn't give a monkeys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lurkers have commitment issues!

“Commitment leads to action. Action brings your dream closer.” Marica Wieder

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lurkers have commitment issues!

“Commitment leads to action. Action brings your dream closer.” Marica Wieder"

Your beard reeks of wisdom

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

There were 29,453 fabbers online when i logged on. The must be about a few dozen active on the Ireland forum at the moment.. So, an awful lot of lurkers. I dont mind getting DMs as a result of a forum post, as it often initiates a more interesting chat.

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

How are they lurkers? Not everyone wants to express their opinion or thoughts publicly. Some prefer not to draw attention to their profile and message privately. I enjoy reading blogs and books but don't feel the need to write to the author.

Each to their own, can we get that on a badge or something.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Lurkers have feelings too

But on a serious note, I'd say the vast majority of people who join fab have never stepped a finger inside a fourm before and lurking is a way of seeing how shit works before joining in.

It's the "fear" of saying something wrong or boring or getting no replies that holds them back....but here's the key....it's all bullshit anyway so they should post if they want(do you really think someone is reading posts from this day last year?)

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

The question was not about those who just read the forums and don't make any comments but more about those that make a personal attack or comment to someone in a thread.You wouldnt walk into a pub,call someone a cunt and expect not to be pulled up on it.

In my case I get blank profiles giving me advise as to where I went wrong and what I should say to certain fabbers to call them out because they dont really like me ( imagine that )

I've been told not to deal with certain women and what women and couples are the only ones who are honest.

Project your shite onto someone else as I find most people are fine on here and if someone doesn't like me I wont lose any sleep over it

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

"The question was not about those who just read the forums and don't make any comments but more about those that make a personal attack or comment to someone in a thread.You wouldnt walk into a pub,call someone a cunt and expect not to be pulled up on it.

In my case I get blank profiles giving me advise as to where I went wrong and what I should say to certain fabbers to call them out because they dont really like me ( imagine that )

I've been told not to deal with certain women and what women and couples are the only ones who are honest.

Project your shite onto someone else as I find most people are fine on here and if someone doesn't like me I wont lose any sleep over it

IMO (see what I did there

) lurkers look and don't post.... people who privately send shitty messages aren't lurkers

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

In my case I get blank profiles giving me advise as to where I went wrong and what I should say to certain fabbers to call them out because they dont really like me ( imagine that )

I've been told not to deal with certain women and what women and couples are the only ones who are honest.

Project your shite onto someone else as I find most people are fine on here and if someone doesn't like me I wont lose any sleep over it

IMO (see what I did there

) lurkers look and don't post.... people who privately send shitty messages aren't lurkers"

That's the point. They don't post on the forums but they message privately to have a go at people who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well to start with ,new members have to wait for a certain while before they can post on the thread's but can reply privately ,so until such time they can post you could already say they're lurkers until such time till they can post..they'res all types of personalities here ..some will participate on the thread's etc ..others won't...each to their own etc etc

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By *erYnnMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

"Well to start with ,new members have to wait for a certain while before they can post on the thread's but can reply privately ,so until such time they can post you could already say they're lurkers until such time till they can post..they'res all types of personalities here ..some will participate on the thread's etc ..others won't...each to their own etc etc "

Yep...

Me one of those new guys...

So simply viewing all posts until I feel that I might have something relevant to contribute, etc...

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Some read but are afraid of their lives to give an opinion or comment. Too many on here care what others think of their viewpoint.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I misunderstood then intention of this thread.

People who don't have the guts to say what they think in public and so private message behind peoples backs are pathetic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've had people message me privately to give out to me about stuff I've said in the forums. My opinion of them? Weirdos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I misunderstood then intention of this thread.

People who don't have the guts to say what they think in public and so private message behind peoples backs are pathetic."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I misunderstood then intention of this thread.

People who don't have the guts to say what they think in public and so private message behind peoples backs are pathetic."

Then after they send an abusive pm to you they cowardly block you so you can't respond... the lowest of the low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I misunderstood then intention of this thread.

People who don't have the guts to say what they think in public and so private message behind peoples backs are pathetic.

Then after they send an abusive pm to you they cowardly block you so you can't respond... the lowest of the low

Never take it personally, so many people brimming over with anger and self-loathing, easier to offload at a stranger online than work on themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I misunderstood then intention of this thread.

People who don't have the guts to say what they think in public and so private message behind peoples backs are pathetic.

Then after they send an abusive pm to you they cowardly block you so you can't respond... the lowest of the low

Never take it personally, so many people brimming over with anger and self-loathing, easier to offload at a stranger online than work on themselves."

That is true .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I misunderstood then intention of this thread.

People who don't have the guts to say what they think in public and so private message behind peoples backs are pathetic."

Exactamundo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are active forum users opinion on Forum Lurkers?

They do not comment on the forum yet hop on threads to mail privately or indeed slate!

Pieces of shit or salt of the earth?

Discuss?

*If you are a lurker, reading this now, please note that you can suck Kaizer's left one

Had a few of these pm me so slate someone who I've perhaps disagreed with.

Mostly from hidden profiles and no profile pics. Merely dismissed them as sad twats with more than one profile. Little to be at.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

People who send pms without being active on the forums,really ??

Are they too chicken??

Its like someone sending you pm on facebuch.... #creeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who send pms without being active on the forums,really ??

Are they too chicken??

Its like someone sending you pm on facebuch.... #creeps "

Did someone on here pm you on bakebook? I think I missed that!

Haha you're not letting that go are you?

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"People who send pms without being active on the forums,really ??

Are they too chicken??

Its like someone sending you pm on facebuch.... #creeps

Did someone on here pm you on bakebook? I think I missed that!

Haha you're not letting that go are you?

I am like a bitch with a bone....

And i will get to the bottom who da creep is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People who send pms without being active on the forums,really ??

Are they too chicken??

Its like someone sending you pm on facebuch.... #creeps

Did someone on here pm you on bakebook? I think I missed that!

Haha you're not letting that go are you?

I am like a bitch with a bone....

And i will get to the bottom who da creep is

God help that individual

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By *ouch therapistMan
over a year ago

Milltown

I've been on fab over 2 years and only recently realised there was a forum

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Well, that makes sense in my head - god knows how it sounds to people reading it

Well put and glad you joined in.

Yes, many think regular posters are part of the clique.

It doesn't exist! Just a fantasy of the grippers.

Post and be damned i say!

If you go PM'ing someone from a forum thread, have a very specific reason for doing so.

Otherwise say it on the thread or keep your opinions to yourself.

Broadcast and be damned/championed/agreed with/ disputed with but do it honestly and you have no regret.

Possibly the odd scary thought the following morning, if you've been on forums with alcohol but I often find that more

Some of ye may have noticed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been on fab over 2 years and only recently realised there was a forum

Willkommen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was one of those said lurkers , I’d say I was in the site nearly 12 months before I had plucked up the courage to comment or even post a thread. At the time I wouldn’t have called the regular posters a clique, just people who knew each other better than they new this new guy.

Now I’m sure there are those that preferred I stayed a lurker lol. "

Me too.. I like reading but am a bit nervous about contributing.. I’m a lurker lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Now I’m sure there are those that preferred I stayed a lurker lol.

Me too.. I like reading but am a bit nervous about contributing.. I’m a lurker lol"

Welcome to the forums.

You're not the type of lurker that causes problems and if your nervous about making a contribution just mention cake....everyone loves cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I’m sure there are those that preferred I stayed a lurker lol.

Me too.. I like reading but am a bit nervous about contributing.. I’m a lurker lol

Welcome to the forums.

You're not the type of lurker that causes problems and if your nervous about making a contribution just mention cake....everyone loves cake "

Any specific kind of cake?

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

Some times I lurk sometimes I comment. I’ll do what I want because I’m Bman79

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Now I’m sure there are those that preferred I stayed a lurker lol.

Me too.. I like reading but am a bit nervous about contributing.. I’m a lurker lol

Welcome to the forums.

You're not the type of lurker that causes problems and if your nervous about making a contribution just mention cake....everyone loves cake

Any specific kind of cake?

Chocolate for sure but I'd imagine a few of the ladies will let you know in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone at some stage is a lurker. If not, then you would be commenting on every single thread just for the sake of it, even if it doesn't apply to you or your interests. I mean I might read a thread relating to dogging in wexford if I'm bored, but I'm not going to comment on it as it doesn't relate to me. I view a lot of forum threads like I do YouTube comments, a lot read them, but most only comment if it really applies to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lurk a lot of the time cuz tbh Sometimes ppl dont get my humour so it just easier not to say anything. To many keyboard warriors out there at times

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