FabSwingers.com forum: Here is to our imperfections

By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Stretch marks,scars,love handles,wrinkles,crooked teeth,crooked fingers and penises,flappy lady bits and big bums,saggy boobs and perky boobs,hairy arses and backs.

Its human nature... its all beautiful... and sexy ...

Who says being imperfect is not sexy ...

Red xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am starting to love my imperfections and honestly dont even see it on others

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Stretch marks,scars,love handles,wrinkles,crooked teeth,crooked fingers and penises,flappy lady bits and big bums,saggy boobs and perky boobs,hairy arses and backs.

Its human nature... its all beautiful... and sexy ...

Who says being imperfect is not sexy ...

Red xxx "

Yes I have all of the above.... Apart from the stretch marks and flappy lady bits. Hooray for the dadbod.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Unfortunately I’m perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chicks dig scars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stretch marks,scars,love handles,wrinkles,crooked teeth,crooked fingers and penises,flappy lady bits and big bums,saggy boobs and perky boobs,hairy arses and backs.

Its human nature... its all beautiful... and sexy ...

Who says being imperfect is not sexy ...

Red xxx

Yes I have all of the above.... Apart from the stretch marks and flappy lady bits. Hooray for the dadbod.

Absolutely nothing wrong with a dad bod. They're the best ones for cuddles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stretch marks yep ( I call them my tiger stripes though) a wiggly bum couple of scars one is getting a tattoo across it, a beauty spot in a place that only a few get to see lol

But all my flaws or imperfections make me Me and I'm embracing all of it

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"Chicks dig scars

Yes we do

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Stretch marks,scars,love handles,wrinkles,crooked teeth,crooked fingers and penises,flappy lady bits and big bums,saggy boobs and perky boobs,hairy arses and backs.

Its human nature... its all beautiful... and sexy ...

Who says being imperfect is not sexy ...

Red xxx "

True still trying to lessen the size of some of my wobbly bits tho. But must admit imperfections if you want to call them that aren't that big a deal. Everyone is sexy in their own way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars, blemishes, marks and flaws all tell a story of a life well lived.. A woman's body is divine in all its forms...

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Every mark and blemish tells a story. Our bodies were made to live life to the fullest. It’s like buying a new pair of shoes, you buy them to wear not to keep in a box to admire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stretch marks,scars,love handles,wrinkles,crooked teeth,crooked fingers and penises,flappy lady bits and big bums,saggy boobs and perky boobs,hairy arses and backs.

Its human nature... its all beautiful... and sexy ...

Who says being imperfect is not sexy ...

Red xxx "

Check for most but not all of the above lol. Massive C Section scare that I wouldn't change for the world. Never believed how much love I could feel for such a tiny human

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

"Stretch marks,scars,love handles,wrinkles,crooked teeth,crooked fingers and penises,flappy lady bits and big bums,saggy boobs and perky boobs,hairy arses and backs.

Its human nature... its all beautiful... and sexy ...

Who says being imperfect is not sexy ...

Red xxx "

You forgot the dry skin

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"Stretch marks,scars,love handles,wrinkles,crooked teeth,crooked fingers and penises,flappy lady bits and big bums,saggy boobs and perky boobs,hairy arses and backs.

Its human nature... its all beautiful... and sexy ...

Who says being imperfect is not sexy ...

Red xxx

Check for most but not all of the above lol. Massive C Section scare that I wouldn't change for the world. Never believed how much love I could feel for such a tiny human

Got one of those myself

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

I love the fact that people are all different with their own little imperfections.

It's the person that counts

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

We are all perfectly imperfect, or should I say imperfectly perfect!

There's no such thing as "perfect" in nature.

Embrace your "perceived imperfections" and be who you are! That is truly sexy and endearing...in my humble opinion

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By *ireannCplCouple
over a year ago

Suburbs

"Stretch marks,scars,love handles,wrinkles,crooked teeth,crooked fingers and penises,flappy lady bits and big bums,saggy boobs and perky boobs,hairy arses and backs.

Its human nature... its all beautiful... and sexy ...

Who says being imperfect is not sexy ...

Red xxx "

So true, we all get caught up in what we believe we must look like we lose sight of what we have.

Great post Red x

EireCpl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amen to that Sister

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Embracing our imperfections is sexy ... thats confidence

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Great post, thank you! Confidence is far sexier than any body considered 'perfect' by today's standards xx

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"Great post, thank you! Confidence is far sexier than any body considered 'perfect' by today's standards xx"

Whats perfect anyways

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

There's a lot I'd like to say but haven't got the confidence to say it but I will say there's fuck all imperfections on anyone on this thread and fair play to you Red for starting it

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

It takes all sorts... We're inundated with the perfect image, of the perfect body. Many of us fall for it. Beauty attracts me to people, but its intelligence, warmth, open heart, kindness,and the craic will keep me. I like my scars and broken bones, they all have a story(often embellished),.. Its a sign of a life well lived.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Perfection is boring. Have you listened to any newish music these days?

Every drum beat is placed in perfect time by a computer so the groove is practically gone.

Every guitar is like a computer generated sample leaving it characterless and sterile sounding.

Vocals are fixed after the recording to be pitch perfect but sound emotionless.

Flaws are what make things unique and great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have learned to embrace my.lumps and bumps. My scars and stripes.

Every body is perfectly imperfect and that's ok

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"Have learned to embrace my.lumps and bumps. My scars and stripes.

Every body is perfectly imperfect and that's ok

Perfectly imperfect love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stretch marks,scars,love handles,wrinkles,crooked teeth,crooked fingers and penises,flappy lady bits and big bums,saggy boobs and perky boobs,hairy arses and backs.

Its human nature... its all beautiful... and sexy ...

Who says being imperfect is not sexy ...

Red xxx "

Well said Red.

Embrace our uniqueness

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"Stretch marks,scars,love handles,wrinkles,crooked teeth,crooked fingers and penises,flappy lady bits and big bums,saggy boobs and perky boobs,hairy arses and backs.

Its human nature... its all beautiful... and sexy ...

Who says being imperfect is not sexy ...

Red xxx

Well said Red.

Embrace our uniqueness

Perfectly imperfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a wonderful quote from Michael Onjaate that seems apt here.

"We die containing the richness of lovers and tribes. Tastes we have swallowed. Bodies we have plunged into as if rivers of wisdom. Characters we have climbed into as if trees. Fears we have hidden in as if caves.

I want all this to be marked on my body when I am dead. I believe in such cartography. To be marked by nature, not just to label ourselves on a map like the names of rich men and women on buildings. We are communal books. Communal histories. We are not owned or monogamous in our taste or experience"

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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and unfortunately most of us do not realise how beautiful we are. We look at our bodies and criticise or complain when we should just love them for all they have allowed us to do, be and live. I am very guilty of this yet my body has given me an amazing life, I've travelled, I've seen, I've tasted all over the world. I've been lucky to have my children.

I know I need to love my wobbly belly more cause hubby never sees that he sees the whole package.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and unfortunately most of us do not realise how beautiful we are. We look at our bodies and criticise or complain when we should just love them for all they have allowed us to do, be and live. I am very guilty of this yet my body has given me an amazing life, I've travelled, I've seen, I've tasted all over the world. I've been lucky to have my children.

I know I need to love my wobbly belly more cause hubby never sees that he sees the whole package. "

Brilliantly put! I couldn't agree more. Our bodies are why we are enjoying this amazing gift of being alive and our experiences/personalities are what have steered us to who we've met. Was wondering about beauty in the eye of the beholder. Do you think maybe people are more beautiful when they are themselves? I don't mean beauty as a physical trait like tall/short, curvy/slim, blond/dark etc. But I wonder if beauty is a consequence of being in harmony with nature. Being oneself? Will stop rambling now, your post was more concise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Don't think I fit in at this party

Everyone's got so much to say, yeah

I always feel like I'm nobody, mm

Who wants to fit in anyway?“

Love these lyrics .... so much beauty, so little confidence. You need a very thick skin in here somedays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I need to love my wobbly belly more cause hubby never sees that he sees the whole package.

When one is totally at one with themselves doing what they love then yes that is when the beauty shines.

Put me in a wetsuit with beach hair, compared to stockings and heels and I will be the best version of myself

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over a year ago

I know I need to love my wobbly belly more cause hubby never sees that he sees the whole package.

When one is totally at one with themselves doing what they love then yes that is when the beauty shines.

Put me in a wetsuit with beach hair, compared to stockings and heels and I will be the best version of myself "

Likewise! The wetsuit and beach part that is, rather than the stockings and heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I need to love my wobbly belly more cause hubby never sees that he sees the whole package. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I need to love my wobbly belly more cause hubby never sees that he sees the whole package.

When one is totally at one with themselves doing what they love then yes that is when the beauty shines.

Put me in a wetsuit with beach hair, compared to stockings and heels and I will be the best version of myself

Likewise! The wetsuit and beach part that is, rather than the stockings and heels

Variety is the spice of life , don’t we need to embrace our discomforts to really embrace our comforts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I need to love my wobbly belly more cause hubby never sees that he sees the whole package.

When one is totally at one with themselves doing what they love then yes that is when the beauty shines.

Put me in a wetsuit with beach hair, compared to stockings and heels and I will be the best version of myself

Likewise! The wetsuit and beach part that is, rather than the stockings and heels

Variety is the spice of life , don’t we need to embrace our discomforts to really embrace our comforts "

Couldn't agree more!

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

I'd be happy in a wet suit with a banana

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be happy in a wet suit with a banana

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be happy in a wet suit with a banana

Would the banana not get squashed??

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Chicks dig scars

Glory lasts forever

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