FabSwingers.com forum: timewasters/fakes

By *ovedupstill OP Couple
over a year ago

mullinwire

some may have read our status update, and i feel a little perturbed to say the least.

had a message off a couple that asked if we had met and if so, why no verifications.

now, most of our meets have been in the UK (just how it has happened, easier as i have my own place and Em has kids at home) and they said we were fake, i was a single guy, and we were ruining it for everyone else by having 2 profiles..

now, i can appreciate it that people have multiple profiles, verify themselves, or back themselves up in arguments on forums, but we do none of these, and have up until now kept them very seperate, not for fear of anything, but didnt really see any reason to tie them together.

this comes hot on the heels of someone accusing Em of being selfish because she gets to play with men and women,whereas i only play with women, and we do soft.

i mean, really, for a bunch of 'open minded, liberated people' there really are some small minded areseholes on here. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya I was wondering how some people join fab and within an hour they are verified, You have shined some light on a few interesting area's all right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i'll put it this. Was perving and came across a couple's profile that was on here months! Now the profile was verified by a single woman who only met the guy cause the woman "couldn't play". If you read the guidelines for a veri it says you should of met or seen both partners.

That rings alarm bells for me more then your profile would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am pretty sure I read somewhere that you cant verify off the same IP address.

It occurs to me that if you suspect that a verifcation is false, let admin know. I am sure they can check if the verifier and verified are the same Ip they will be swinging from the window frame pretty chop chop ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am pretty sure I read somewhere that you cant verify off the same IP address.

You can't and the reason I know this is because when I first started my own profile Wait tried to verify me from our couples profile and couldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you can't do veris on the ip. Loadsa threads on this elsewhere with people having trouble verifyimg others. Doesn't matter how good the system is (it is a great system) or how great the mods or admin are your still going to have this problem. You just need to know how to spot a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even the same IP rule is very easily got around though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The system here has some flaws, I reported a hooker, but she's still on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even the same IP rule is very easily got around though."

Ah there is ways alright. I've spotted a couple of profiles with sus veris.

Easy to the fakes from the real i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hooker?? How do you know she was a hooker??

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By *ovedupstill OP Couple
over a year ago

mullinwire

"A hooker?? How do you know she was a hooker?? "

she played for Leinster in last years heineken cup lol.

the point is, why is having a seperate account for use in a different country deem you to be a fake?

just because our opportunities to meet in ireland have been very limited compared to the UK doesnt make us fake, just makes Em decent parent by not inviting people to the house with the kids there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A hooker?? How do you know she was a hooker??

she played for Leinster in last years heineken cup ."

Awww I was wondering was he just so bad she wanted paying after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its just the amount of fakes and timewasters who have somehow managed to get themshelves somehow just makes people a bit warey if they think things don't add up. Don't mind them lovedup. People know your real on here.

Lots of people have been having the same problem lately i've noticed

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By *ovedupstill OP Couple
over a year ago

mullinwire

"A hooker?? How do you know she was a hooker??

she played for Leinster in last years heineken cup .

Awww I was wondering was he just so bad she wanted paying after

what, kind of like compensation? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A hooker?? How do you know she was a hooker??

she played for Leinster in last years heineken cup .

Awww I was wondering was he just so bad she wanted paying after

what, kind of like compensation? lol"

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ya I was wondering how some people join fab and within an hour they are verified, You have shined some light on a few interesting area's all right"

you just never really know.. because I've verified men who just joined - they had been on here before, deleted their profile, came back after a while and contacted me again.

So not even the new profiles with verifications are all fake!

I've been accused of being fake because I didn't want to rush into exchanging pics and camming. Can't be arsed with people who jump into conclusions. NEXT I say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A hooker?? How do you know she was a hooker?? "

We were chatting, and she mailed me a profile link to an escort site, which I think is against the rules itself.

Swinging != prostitution.

I thought the site admin would give her the boot for that,but last I saw, she was still around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you report her through the mail she sent or just her profile?? Admin are normally very good for following through on reported mails!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aw here am sure your terribly worried about what orther ppl are sayin who cares if someone has 10 profiles as long as they are doing no harm to anyone else with them i see no problem , swingin in this country will always have its critics even if they are on here, some bitter ppl , some jealous ppl , and just some out to ruin it for orthers keep doin whay your doing and as long as use are enjoying it play on to fk i say rant over !! can ya tell i,m tense tonight fkin mail box stuffed with were,s the ganbang / orgy i mean can half the fkers not read haha god i needs a drink haha

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By *ovedupstill OP Couple
over a year ago

mullinwire

"aw here am sure your terribly worried about what orther ppl are sayin who cares if someone has 10 profiles as long as they are doing no harm to anyone else with them i see no problem , swingin in this country will always have its critics even if they are on here, some bitter ppl , some jealous ppl , and just some out to ruin it for orthers keep doin whay your doing and as long as use are enjoying it play on to fk i say rant over !! can ya tell i,m tense tonight fkin mail box stuffed with were,s the ganbang / orgy i mean can half the fkers not read haha god i needs a drink haha

in a certain way i completely agree with you on that, but the swing scene in ireland is so small that there is a chance 1 person saying the wrong thing can soon filter down to others, and then doubt gets cast.

im certain that has happened in the past and why it is so difficult to get anything in ireland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aw here i know chinese whispers are the worst cause they don,t end up the same as they started but hopefully the genuine ones will see past that and see it for what it is

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