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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! " Is he the guy that learned how to sign | |||
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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! Is he the guy that learned how to sign " Haha no. He just has all the patience in the world. He speaks slowly and clearly and will repeat endlessly if I need him to. Which is just as good in my opinion haha | |||
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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! Is he the guy that learned how to sign Haha no. He just has all the patience in the world. He speaks slowly and clearly and will repeat endlessly if I need him to. Which is just as good in my opinion haha" It would have been too much like a rom com if he was really Just my tuppence worth ....if he's waiting fine Youll only know whether hes worth it when you realise you haven't had sex in a while and you don't mind..sure in the lockdown what difference did it make | |||
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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! Is he the guy that learned how to sign Haha no. He just has all the patience in the world. He speaks slowly and clearly and will repeat endlessly if I need him to. Which is just as good in my opinion haha It would have been too much like a rom com if he was really Just my tuppence worth ....if he's waiting fine Youll only know whether hes worth it when you realise you haven't had sex in a while and you don't mind..sure in the lockdown what difference did it make " Hahaha definitely. The only issue I have with waiting is that I'm worried about being lonely. I go without sex for months regularly by choice but every now and again I just feel quite physically lonely and I get sad if I don't have physical contact with someone. | |||
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"I'd be very wary of someone I barely knew wanting to put conditions on how I live my life before I'd even met him. " As you should be. I did however make it clear that that's not the case here | |||
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"I'd be very wary of someone I barely knew wanting to put conditions on how I live my life before I'd even met him. As you should be. I did however make it clear that that's not the case here " Then why did you say it in your opening post "he has suggested not sleeping with anyone else"? Anyway, my answer is still the same about someone you really don't know at all and have only been speaking to for a month. | |||
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"I'd be very wary of someone I barely knew wanting to put conditions on how I live my life before I'd even met him. As you should be. I did however make it clear that that's not the case here Then why did you say it in your opening post "he has suggested not sleeping with anyone else"? Anyway, my answer is still the same about someone you really don't know at all and have only been speaking to for a month. " Suggesting something as an idea is very different from wanting to put restrictions on my life. Also I commented again to reclarify what I meant, I assumed people read the comments before making one themselves since I usually do. | |||
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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! Is he the guy that learned how to sign Haha no. He just has all the patience in the world. He speaks slowly and clearly and will repeat endlessly if I need him to. Which is just as good in my opinion haha It would have been too much like a rom com if he was really Just my tuppence worth ....if he's waiting fine Youll only know whether hes worth it when you realise you haven't had sex in a while and you don't mind..sure in the lockdown what difference did it make Hahaha definitely. The only issue I have with waiting is that I'm worried about being lonely. I go without sex for months regularly by choice but every now and again I just feel quite physically lonely and I get sad if I don't have physical contact with someone. " Read my profile and welcome to my world ![]() | |||
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"Just want to add some extra information. He hasn't asked me to be monogamous. It came up naturally in conversation and absolutely no pressure was applied. We also discussed not being monogamous and it was made clear that the choice was mine. His suggestion just got me thinking... Also he is from a more conservative culture and has much less sexual experience than me, so it's not an issue for him to wait. " still quite a long time OP. Maybe keep it casual and it gives you options until you meet. You may not be talking in 6 months time but it could work out eventually. Just leave yourself options | |||
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"I'd be very wary of someone I barely knew wanting to put conditions on how I live my life before I'd even met him. As you should be. I did however make it clear that that's not the case here Then why did you say it in your opening post "he has suggested not sleeping with anyone else"? Anyway, my answer is still the same about someone you really don't know at all and have only been speaking to for a month. Suggesting something as an idea is very different from wanting to put restrictions on my life. Also I commented again to reclarify what I meant, I assumed people read the comments before making one themselves since I usually do. " Suggesting an idea can in fact be synonymous with wanting to put restrictions on someone. And I've also reclarified based on your own reclarification. Why limit your own comforts in what are difficult times for everyone, for the sake of a relationship that may never happen at all. | |||
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"Still quite a long time OP. Maybe keep it casual and it gives you options until you meet. You may not be talking in 6 months time but it could work out eventually. Just leave yourself options " I'm inclined to agree. The mere 'suggestion' before you've even met does rings alarm bells, sorry ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Go with your gut feeling.listen sure it is a long time to wait to get physical with someone you know but surely enough if the feelings are strong enough it wont really matter if you wait but if you are open to him and let him know the lonelyness gets you down he might understand and if he wants you to be happy he might even agree to let you see people on the occasion that you are down on the other hand if hes on a swingers site here which maybe hes now but if he is im sure he will understand thw workings of a seingers site or even get turned on by the thought of you getting the company you require to make you feel good and loved. Either way ideally be great if you met him a few tines before ya dont se him for the 10 months but if in regular contact talking and maybe the odd bit sexting might just be key to building up an explosive relationship in 10 months time. Best of luck anyway everyone deserves happiness" | |||
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"Go with your gut feeling.listen sure it is a long time to wait to get physical with someone you know but surely enough if the feelings are strong enough it wont really matter if you wait but if you are open to him and let him know the lonelyness gets you down he might understand and if he wants you to be happy he might even agree to let you see people on the occasion that you are down on the other hand if hes on a swingers site here which maybe hes now but if he is im sure he will understand thw workings of a seingers site or even get turned on by the thought of you getting the company you require to make you feel good and loved. Either way ideally be great if you met him a few tines before ya dont se him for the 10 months but if in regular contact talking and maybe the odd bit sexting might just be key to building up an explosive relationship in 10 months time. Best of luck anyway everyone deserves happiness" And there lies the problem A guy she has never even met might 'let' her see others | |||
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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! " Goodness that is not for me and think a guy has a cheek to dictate your life for you. Be different if you had met up before but i would never do that for a stranger. | |||
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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! " How much is the distance between you? If you wait 10 months will you be able to see him regularly after that?x | |||
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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! " Talking from experience where it was long distance and I followed all rules we agreed on and he was a swinger to only to find out he was cheating. Dont put your life on hold. If he likes you he can go for it in 10 months. Dont give up on your life for something that might never happen. I am skeptic that he can go so long as well | |||
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"I'd be very wary of someone I barely knew wanting to put conditions on how I live my life before I'd even met him. " This. Its a bit of an alarm bell if I am being very honest. MsD | |||
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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! " I may be alone in this opinion but I don’t think 10 months is that long ![]() | |||
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"Have you been on the wacky backy? .....you can’t meet for 10 months? where does this bell end live, the moon? There is not one single place on this earth, in this day and age, that isn’t accessible within a week. You head the post “long distance relationships”, you ask in your first sentence do they work then you continue on by saying you’ve been chatting and video calling him. Sorry to burst your bubble but that is not a relationship by any stretch of the imagination. You then inform the me ![]() He has moved back to Taiwan because of the virus and he is waiting to start his mandatory military service before moving back. That's why we have to wait so long. After that we will be seeing each other frequently. | |||
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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! I may be alone in this opinion but I don’t think 10 months is that long ![]() Yeah, I don't think it sounds like that long. The reason I am asking here is because I am considering it. I regularly wait a long time between having sex so it's not a huge sacrifice to me. It was mentioned once during a conversation and then was never brought up again. The choice is 100% mine to make. Video calling has been working really well for us. We spend most of our time talking. I'm intending to leave this lifestyle for a monogamous relationship with him. I'm not going to spread his business on the Internet but I'm absolutely confident that no matter what I decide he will be fine with it, regardless of the lifestyle. | |||
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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! " if you trust them 100% they can work. from my own experience they aren't great especially if the other person is untrustworthy. if it works for you more power to you | |||
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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! I may be alone in this opinion but I don’t think 10 months is that long ![]() Best of luck whatever you choose OP ![]() | |||
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"Anybody in one? I've been talking and video calling a guy for the past month or so and I'm starting to really catch feelings for him. He has suggested not sleeping with anyone else until we can meet up. At least 10 months from now. I'm confident that I really want to stay with him but I'm worried about being physically lonely. Thoughts, advice, and opinions please! " Do what makes you happy DG ![]() | |||
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"I'd be worried he has a micropenis. Unless your sure ve hasn't. Taiwanese people aren't really known to be sexually repressed... They are however known to be controlling and they imagine women should be subservient. One word.... Run! " Ya 100% judge the guy by his ethnicity.... great advice ![]() | |||
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"I'd be worried he has a micropenis. Unless your sure ve hasn't. Taiwanese people aren't really known to be sexually repressed... They are however known to be controlling and they imagine women should be subservient. One word.... Run! " I'm laughing imagining a man making that comment on here. | |||
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