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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do. "
and rightly so x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do. "

Does that mean you don't respect their decision?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

Does that mean you don't respect their decision? "
You can make a decision without been rude same goes for ladies and gentlemen.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do. "

No one deserves respect. It has to be earned but if you have been polite and respectful in your messages then yes you have a right to expect the same in return.

Was the"particular question" a general one or specific to you?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

No one deserves respect. It has to be earned but if you have been polite and respectful in your messages then yes you have a right to expect the same in return.

Was the"particular question" a general one or specific to you? "

Just realised you said you were talking to a few ladies so has this question been asked more than once?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might be wrong. But this reads like you were told to sling yer hook after admitting your married or attached and playing without permission. That's standard here and plenty more judgment where that came from too. To some people swinging does not equal loose morals, so suck it up buttercup

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

No one deserves respect. It has to be earned but if you have been polite and respectful in your messages then yes you have a right to expect the same in return.

Was the"particular question" a general one or specific to you? "
One specific to me.I would rather respect everyone until such time as they don't deserve my respect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

No one deserves respect. It has to be earned but if you have been polite and respectful in your messages then yes you have a right to expect the same in return.

Was the"particular question" a general one or specific to you?

Just realised you said you were talking to a few ladies so has this question been asked more than once? "
Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do. "

Agree x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I might be wrong. But this reads like you were told to sling yer hook after admitting your married or attached and playing without permission. That's standard here and plenty more judgment where that came from too. To some people swinging does not equal loose morals, so suck it up buttercup "
Wrong but appreciate your honesty.

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By *erlincorkMan
over a year ago

London

I’d agree with this... respect is given until your actions require it to be taken away... once it’s taken back... it’s hard for it to be earned back.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Im now wondering what the question is if a few ladies have said get lost because of the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your expecting too much from the site, as with the rest of society, there was lovely people and then there are total sh**es, and all wrapped in individual choice, preferences and prespective.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im now wondering what the question is if a few ladies have said get lost because of the answer"
Well that's a for a private conversation and something I'm not repeating on the forums.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do. "

If you weren't rude or obnoxious in your messages they shouldn't have been either. It works both ways. Sadly tho that isn't how it seems to go on here. Both genders have people who think it is acceptable and fab should be just the way they want it.Anyone outside what they deem acceptable they think they can abuse. All you can do is be glad you never met them and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't expect ANY respect on this site. Ever. When I get it I'm delightfully surprised. If I don't I block. It's very simple. And if your going to go on a respect rant without telling us the question you asked then sorry but no sympathy because I'm only hearing one side of the story. The fact that a few girls responded to you the same makes me think there's more going on here than we men giving you no respect

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I don't expect ANY respect on this site. Ever. When I get it I'm delightfully surprised. If I don't I block. It's very simple. And if your going to go on a respect rant without telling us the question you asked then sorry but no sympathy because I'm only hearing one side of the story. The fact that a few girls responded to you the same makes me think there's more going on here than we men giving you no respect "

Unless I'm reading it wrong the op was asked this question by the various ladies and not the other way around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't expect ANY respect on this site. Ever. When I get it I'm delightfully surprised. If I don't I block. It's very simple. And if your going to go on a respect rant without telling us the question you asked then sorry but no sympathy because I'm only hearing one side of the story. The fact that a few girls responded to you the same makes me think there's more going on here than we men giving you no respect

Unless I'm reading it wrong the op was asked this question by the various ladies and not the other way around. "
Your reading it correctly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do. "

Everyone deserves respect on here. Like life though sometimes people have a bad day and may be a bit abrupt unnecessarily. It's up to you to give them a second chance or move on. Don't take it to heart it's probably not reflection on you.

If you are getting that reaction all the time maybe take a look at your responses.

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

I would say there are certain answers to questions that would warrant an immediate end of contact and not just are you planning to murder and eat me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't expect ANY respect on this site. Ever. When I get it I'm delightfully surprised. If I don't I block. It's very simple. And if your going to go on a respect rant without telling us the question you asked then sorry but no sympathy because I'm only hearing one side of the story. The fact that a few girls responded to you the same makes me think there's more going on here than we men giving you no respect "

Preach!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say there are certain answers to questions that would warrant an immediate end of contact and not just are you planning to murder and eat me? "
Nothing as serious as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do. "

What was the "certain question" an what was the answer you gave ?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Did they ask you how big the horn is?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

What was the "certain question" an what was the answer you gave ? "
Was it really that big and I said no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did they ask you how big the horn is? "

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Awk I am sorry you got rudeness....

Shouldn't happen... but there ya go ....

I get it all the time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

What was the "certain question" an what was the answer you gave ? Was it really that big and I said no."

So how big is it? Just for data purpose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

What was the "certain question" an what was the answer you gave ? Was it really that big and I said no.

So how big is it? Just for data purpose "
It's between 2 and 12 inches depending on the weather.Lol

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

What was the "certain question" an what was the answer you gave ? Was it really that big and I said no."

What is 'it'? Your penis?? Why would they ask is it really that big? Well, if ladies have asked such an intimate question and not liked your answer, then they weren't worth chatting to

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Did they ask you how big the horn is? "

I know stuff...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

What was the "certain question" an what was the answer you gave ? Was it really that big and I said no.

So how big is it? Just for data purpose It's between 2 and 12 inches depending on the weather.Lol"

It's warm today, might be a grower

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

What was the "certain question" an what was the answer you gave ? Was it really that big and I said no.

What is 'it'? Your penis?? Why would they ask is it really that big? Well, if ladies have asked such an intimate question and not liked your answer, then they weren't worth chatting to "
One woman told me it was false advertising and a few other words that I can't use here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

What was the "certain question" an what was the answer you gave ? Was it really that big and I said no.

So how big is it? Just for data purpose It's between 2 and 12 inches depending on the weather.Lol

It's warm today, might be a grower "
Yes I believe it could live up to the name today.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

What was the "certain question" an what was the answer you gave ? Was it really that big and I said no.

What is 'it'? Your penis?? Why would they ask is it really that big? Well, if ladies have asked such an intimate question and not liked your answer, then they weren't worth chatting to One woman told me it was false advertising and a few other words that I can't use here. "

Oh, so had you said you were a particular size, then when ladies asked you to confirm, you backtracked? I'm not really understanding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did they ask you how big the horn is?

I know stuff...

"
Hopefully you don't tell anyone my secret.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand why ladies get annoyed with rude messages.But they sometimes don't do themselves any favours with their replies to pm.I had been chatting too a few ladies we exchanged a good few messages but suddenly I was told to get lost to put it mildly after answering a certain question.Now I don't expect replies to every pm I send but when chatting with someone I expect a little respect just as the ladies do.

What was the "certain question" an what was the answer you gave ? Was it really that big and I said no.

What is 'it'? Your penis?? Why would they ask is it really that big? Well, if ladies have asked such an intimate question and not liked your answer, then they weren't worth chatting to One woman told me it was false advertising and a few other words that I can't use here.

Oh, so had you said you were a particular size, then when ladies asked you to confirm, you backtracked? I'm not really understanding "
But if we all went by profile names we would all be backtracking.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

But if we all went by profile names we would all be backtracking.

D'oh lol, I didn't register your username!! So in that woman's opinion I should have honey on my toes lol??

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"I don't expect ANY respect on this site. Ever. When I get it I'm delightfully surprised. If I don't I block. It's very simple. And if your going to go on a respect rant without telling us the question you asked then sorry but no sympathy because I'm only hearing one side of the story. The fact that a few girls responded to you the same makes me think there's more going on here than we men giving you no respect "

This...of course everyone deserves respect. But as for this particular thread, how can anyone give their opinion without knowing the full story?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if we all went by profile names we would all be backtracking.

D'oh lol, I didn't register your username!! So in that woman's opinion I should have honey on my toes lol?? "
I can just imagine the abuse if I was called littlemickey.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't expect ANY respect on this site. Ever. When I get it I'm delightfully surprised. If I don't I block. It's very simple. And if your going to go on a respect rant without telling us the question you asked then sorry but no sympathy because I'm only hearing one side of the story. The fact that a few girls responded to you the same makes me think there's more going on here than we men giving you no respect

This...of course everyone deserves respect. But as for this particular thread, how can anyone give their opinion without knowing the full story?"
Not asking for opinions just equal respect from both sexes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect should work both ways yes.

But there is allways two sides to one story and we are only hearing one side

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Respect should work both ways yes.

But there is allways two sides to one story and we are only hearing one side"
Lol that's true in most cases here one sided story. But if you're a man your in the wrong if you're a woman your always right isn't that about the gist of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respect should work both ways yes.

But there is allways two sides to one story and we are only hearing one side Lol that's true in most cases here one sided story. But if you're a man your in the wrong if you're a woman your always right isn't that about the gist of it."

A woman is always right until proved wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Respect should work both ways yes.

But there is allways two sides to one story and we are only hearing one side Lol that's true in most cases here one sided story. But if you're a man your in the wrong if you're a woman your always right isn't that about the gist of it.

A woman is always right until proved wrong "
Lol and a man is always wrong until proved right.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"I don't expect ANY respect on this site. Ever. When I get it I'm delightfully surprised. If I don't I block. It's very simple. And if your going to go on a respect rant without telling us the question you asked then sorry but no sympathy because I'm only hearing one side of the story. The fact that a few girls responded to you the same makes me think there's more going on here than we men giving you no respect

This...of course everyone deserves respect. But as for this particular thread, how can anyone give their opinion without knowing the full story? Not asking for opinions just equal respect from both sexes."

Yep, agreed. But it's a public forum and people will always have an opinion on any discussion.

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By *urpleheartxxxWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere different


"I don't expect ANY respect on this site. Ever. When I get it I'm delightfully surprised. If I don't I block. It's very simple. And if your going to go on a respect rant without telling us the question you asked then sorry but no sympathy because I'm only hearing one side of the story. The fact that a few girls responded to you the same makes me think there's more going on here than we men giving you no respect

This...of course everyone deserves respect. But as for this particular thread, how can anyone give their opinion without knowing the full story?"

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Without more information its impossible to give a proper reaponse/opinion here really. There are 2 sides to this story methinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give Respect ...get respect ...it's basic simple stuff ..but there are some that get loads of it but don't ever give it back ..that unfortunately is the way sometimes in this Jungle.

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