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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red "When exactly was Fab known for its respect and understanding?  | |||
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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red "Think it got corona and fell ill wishing it a speedy recovery | |||
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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red
Think it got corona and fell ill wishing it a speedy recovery "It's in the ICU....that's what happens when ya don't wear a face mask | |||
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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red
Think it got corona and fell ill wishing it a speedy recovery
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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red
Think it got corona and fell ill wishing it a speedy recovery
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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red "I had people take my not being able to meet at the drop of a hat as rejection. They asked me to block and when I blocked on fab abuse came my way on kik. You cant win. It's become a horrible place for women on this | |||
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"There are a lot of people who see this as a sex site and nothing more and assume that simply because you are a member that you are open to any and all suggestions and if you are online then you must be free to meet. The lack of respect isn't confined to newbies though and is also displayed by a few long standing members who feel entitled enough to use the " don't you know you I am?" approach and feel that you should be gratified that they have approached you and you should therefore jump to attention. " Sir I had a guy also give out to me that this is a sex site. And if I dont realise that then I am on the wrong site | |||
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"There are a lot of people who see this as a sex site and nothing more and assume that simply because you are a member that you are open to any and all suggestions and if you are online then you must be free to meet. The lack of respect isn't confined to newbies though and is also displayed by a few long standing members who feel entitled enough to use the " don't you know you I am?" approach and feel that you should be gratified that they have approached you and you should therefore jump to attention. Sir I had a guy also give out to me that this is a sex site. And if I dont realise that then I am on the wrong site" Have had all that said to me also. You're on a sex site lighten up to then your on a sex site you slut! Can't bloody win! | |||
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"think its always been that way. Just the way things have been the last few months people have had a bit more time on their hands and more are online. One good thing to come out of it is the block button is getting a bit of an ould workout. Im at the point now where if i get a nasty message i laugh. Theyre so tough behind a keyboard. Real life not so much" Love this | |||
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"think its always been that way. Just the way things have been the last few months people have had a bit more time on their hands and more are online. One good thing to come out of it is the block button is getting a bit of an ould workout. Im at the point now where if i get a nasty message i laugh. Theyre so tough behind a keyboard. Real life not so much" And to be fair you don't really have to read the messages anymore you can get the gist from the few lines you can see before you open them. I usually don't even bother anymore just delete unread and block now with a private note so I know why they are blocked Plus it annoys them more when it goes unread To be fair I don't get a load of them but there has been a increase in them in the last few months.
Nothing will ever stop it from happening though it is just how you learn to deal with it matters more. Like Mrs says just try and laugh at the ridiculousness of it that a random stranger wants to throw abuse at another random stranger.
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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red "and what has happened? we are in lockdown plus men dont respect here. we are whores in there eyes x | |||
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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red "other people have busy lives too and cant be waiting around on people who say they want to meet but always something pops up.. excuse after excuse..it is supposed to be nsa so if somebody gets bored waiting around they move on simple.. wouldn't be offended by it | |||
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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red "Probably went out the window or was never in the room to go out the window...there are some that think just because a lady is in a joint like this she should drop everything straight away when a guy Messages her including her underwear..but they then realize it ain't the way the cookie crumbles here...ladies have the final say wether they meet/play or not...that will never change ..and tbh it's only right ...well that's my tuppence worth on it anyway . | |||
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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red "It all comes Down to that 2 letter word that just don't seem to compute it fries their systems and start going into a rage i like social meets i think it definitely builds that connection and if it's sex on your mind 27/4 I'm pretty sure there are services to cater if you have the cash of course | |||
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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red
other people have busy lives too and cant be waiting around on people who say they want to meet but always something pops up.. excuse after excuse..it is supposed to be nsa so if somebody gets bored waiting around they move on simple.. wouldn't be offended by it "Well said, a lot are here just to get an ego boost. Others just like to "police" the forums, when no one is asking them to do so. This lockdown brings the worst out of some people. | |||
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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red
other people have busy lives too and cant be waiting around on people who say they want to meet but always something pops up.. excuse after excuse..it is supposed to be nsa so if somebody gets bored waiting around they move on simple.. wouldn't be offended by it
Well said, a lot are here just to get an ego boost.
Others just like to "police" the forums, when no one is asking them to do so.
This lockdown brings the worst out of some people." | |||
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"I've noticed more and more cases of people not having the understanding,and respect that we have a life outside of fab. Some cannot meet at drop of hat,whether for social or meet. Some dont like to meet without social. What has happened to the understanding and respect towards one another ..?? Red and what has happened? we are in lockdown plus men dont respect here. we are whores in there eyes x"Cool move lady .. awesome stuff ...you've been thunderstruck  | |||
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"I totally agree with op the amount of abuse is unreal people rarely read our profiles and get upset if you reject them last one i got was i will pay good money for all your holes ffs as if. Then there is babe why are you not replying to me the list goes on and on i know its a swinging site before someone takes offence to this but its a persons own choice who THEY want to meet. " You should have said €100 for each hole to be filled then when he arrives point him to the number of pot holes and let him fill away | |||
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"I totally agree with op the amount of abuse is unreal people rarely read our profiles and get upset if you reject them last one i got was i will pay good money for all your holes ffs as if. Then there is babe why are you not replying to me the list goes on and on i know its a swinging site before someone takes offence to this but its a persons own choice who THEY want to meet. You should have said €100 for each hole to be filled then when he arrives point him to the number of pot holes and let him fill away "Oooookay  | |||
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"I totally agree with op the amount of abuse is unreal people rarely read our profiles and get upset if you reject them last one i got was i will pay good money for all your holes ffs as if. Then there is babe why are you not replying to me the list goes on and on i know its a swinging site before someone takes offence to this but its a persons own choice who THEY want to meet. You should have said €100 for each hole to be filled then when he arrives point him to the number of pot holes and let him fill away
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 ) that if someone doesn’t write back to you, they’re not interested... and again with half a brain... it’s not an escort site... so offering “good money” will just get you blocked!!
I’m good enough at getting blocked without those well... don’t need to give someone more reasons! | |||
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"I totally agree with op the amount of abuse is unreal people rarely read our profiles and get upset if you reject them last one i got was i will pay good money for all your holes ffs as if. Then there is babe why are you not replying to me the list goes on and on i know its a swinging site before someone takes offence to this but its a persons own choice who THEY want to meet. " And your last line is the truth ..the whole truth and nothing but the truth | |||
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"It's going the route of all the other sites I've been on over the years,starts great then slowly dies a death." I genuinely think it's a mix of lockdown and familiarity. This is the worst I've even seen it though. There was always someone having a bad day or was a bit of a keyboard warrior but you just ignored them. Now its almost like twi##er. No accountability, fake after fake account, verified by cam and "meet" from chats, people arguing for the sake of it. You read the word "block" on here more than any other word. And there are people taking pot shots in pms and being vile but acting innocent on forums. It has to stop and an update or this site will be in the toilet within a year or will become just an online personals jazz mag. Which for too many it already is. | |||
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"It's going the route of all the other sites I've been on over the years,starts great then slowly dies a death. I genuinely think it's a mix of lockdown and familiarity. This is the worst I've even seen it though. There was always someone having a bad day or was a bit of a keyboard warrior but you just ignored them. Now its almost like twi##er. No accountability, fake after fake account, verified by cam and "meet" from chats, people arguing for the sake of it. You read the word "block" on here more than any other word. And there are people taking pot shots in pms and being vile but acting innocent on forums. It has to stop and an update or this site will be in the toilet within a year or will become just an online personals jazz mag. Which for too many it already is. " I (dark) have been on an off this site 6+ yrs. Before the forums were brilliant craic,banter sarcasm, funny threads, people hopping off each other but in a light hearted way! Proper flirting,not cringe or ass licking! It's changed since then, there's too many political correct,too much offense taking, people get there back up over the slightest thing,then you have the forum police, always the same ones have a lot to say but when you read there replys,they have very little to say,they just like to be heard! As you pointed out the troll's,to me they live under a bridge,but it's "US" that bring them more alive on the forums,by commenting on Said threads. It's always going to be the same,it's never going to go back to the way it was,"the good oul days of Fab" where everything was fun an carefree an no one ever took to heart jokes banter sarcasm. It will only change if people change there way of thinking about the forums an use it for reason above"fun", but I can't ever see that happening now unfortunately. All just my opinion! (Dark) | |||
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"It's going the route of all the other sites I've been on over the years,starts great then slowly dies a death. I genuinely think it's a mix of lockdown and familiarity. This is the worst I've even seen it though. There was always someone having a bad day or was a bit of a keyboard warrior but you just ignored them. Now its almost like twi##er. No accountability, fake after fake account, verified by cam and "meet" from chats, people arguing for the sake of it. You read the word "block" on here more than any other word. And there are people taking pot shots in pms and being vile but acting innocent on forums. It has to stop and an update or this site will be in the toilet within a year or will become just an online personals jazz mag. Which for too many it already is. I (dark) have been on an off this site 6+ yrs. Before the forums were brilliant craic,banter sarcasm, funny threads, people hopping off each other but in a light hearted way! Proper flirting,not cringe or ass licking! It's changed since then, there's too many political correct,too much offense taking, people get there back up over the slightest thing,then you have the forum police, always the same ones have a lot to say but when you read there replys,they have very little to say,they just like to be heard! As you pointed out the troll's,to me they live under a bridge,but it's "US" that bring them more alive on the forums,by commenting on Said threads. It's always going to be the same,it's never going to go back to the way it was,"the good oul days of Fab" where everything was fun an carefree an no one ever took to heart jokes banter sarcasm. It will only change if people change there way of thinking about the forums an use it for reason above"fun", but I can't ever see that happening now unfortunately. All just my opinion! (Dark)" I remember the good old days. | |||
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"It's going the route of all the other sites I've been on over the years,starts great then slowly dies a death. I genuinely think it's a mix of lockdown and familiarity. This is the worst I've even seen it though. There was always someone having a bad day or was a bit of a keyboard warrior but you just ignored them. Now its almost like twi##er. No accountability, fake after fake account, verified by cam and "meet" from chats, people arguing for the sake of it. You read the word "block" on here more than any other word. And there are people taking pot shots in pms and being vile but acting innocent on forums. It has to stop and an update or this site will be in the toilet within a year or will become just an online personals jazz mag. Which for too many it already is. I (dark) have been on an off this site 6+ yrs. Before the forums were brilliant craic,banter sarcasm, funny threads, people hopping off each other but in a light hearted way! Proper flirting,not cringe or ass licking! It's changed since then, there's too many political correct,too much offense taking, people get there back up over the slightest thing,then you have the forum police, always the same ones have a lot to say but when you read there replys,they have very little to say,they just like to be heard! As you pointed out the troll's,to me they live under a bridge,but it's "US" that bring them more alive on the forums,by commenting on Said threads. It's always going to be the same,it's never going to go back to the way it was,"the good oul days of Fab" where everything was fun an carefree an no one ever took to heart jokes banter sarcasm. It will only change if people change there way of thinking about the forums an use it for reason above"fun", but I can't ever see that happening now unfortunately. All just my opinion! (Dark) I remember the good old days." Rose tinted specs I think, there was always friction on the forums, the "Clique"threads, bullying threads etc.. It has forever been thus, maybe just not so many ccharacters and personalities now though | |||
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"It's going the route of all the other sites I've been on over the years,starts great then slowly dies a death. I genuinely think it's a mix of lockdown and familiarity. This is the worst I've even seen it though. There was always someone having a bad day or was a bit of a keyboard warrior but you just ignored them. Now its almost like twi##er. No accountability, fake after fake account, verified by cam and "meet" from chats, people arguing for the sake of it. You read the word "block" on here more than any other word. And there are people taking pot shots in pms and being vile but acting innocent on forums. It has to stop and an update or this site will be in the toilet within a year or will become just an online personals jazz mag. Which for too many it already is. I (dark) have been on an off this site 6+ yrs. Before the forums were brilliant craic,banter sarcasm, funny threads, people hopping off each other but in a light hearted way! Proper flirting,not cringe or ass licking! It's changed since then, there's too many political correct,too much offense taking, people get there back up over the slightest thing,then you have the forum police, always the same ones have a lot to say but when you read there replys,they have very little to say,they just like to be heard! As you pointed out the troll's,to me they live under a bridge,but it's "US" that bring them more alive on the forums,by commenting on Said threads. It's always going to be the same,it's never going to go back to the way it was,"the good oul days of Fab" where everything was fun an carefree an no one ever took to heart jokes banter sarcasm. It will only change if people change there way of thinking about the forums an use it for reason above"fun", but I can't ever see that happening now unfortunately. All just my opinion! (Dark) I remember the good old days. Rose tinted specs I think, there was always friction on the forums, the "Clique"threads, bullying threads etc.. It has forever been thus, maybe just not so many ccharacters and personalities now though" I don't wear glasses,but if I did I wouldn't go for rose tinted,it's out dated now!  | |||
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"It's going the route of all the other sites I've been on over the years,starts great then slowly dies a death. I genuinely think it's a mix of lockdown and familiarity. This is the worst I've even seen it though. There was always someone having a bad day or was a bit of a keyboard warrior but you just ignored them. Now its almost like twi##er. No accountability, fake after fake account, verified by cam and "meet" from chats, people arguing for the sake of it. You read the word "block" on here more than any other word. And there are people taking pot shots in pms and being vile but acting innocent on forums. It has to stop and an update or this site will be in the toilet within a year or will become just an online personals jazz mag. Which for too many it already is. " The biggest change I see here recently is the change of threads. Before it was usually newbie men complaining about not being able to get meets etc. Now the threads are more of the long term negative forum users complaining about just about everything....too many messages, men looking to meet, quality of messages, men looking for pics etc etc etc This is what happens on every site like this one and anybody that cannot deal with that should consider whether this is the right place for them. These sites will never change. | |||
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