FabSwingers.com forum: CFNM

By *ute-But-Kinky2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Finglas

This might be an interesting party idea for when all this settles down.

I came across this from a fetish site, obviously the rules could be tweaked for a more swing friendly crowd but I (the male half) thought this was quite tantalising

For anyone who doesn't understand the acronym CFNM is 'Clothed Female Nude Male'

A “CFNM” party.

The rules are simple:

The party is not a “sex party”. The main focus is that women are to relax and enjoy themselves.

The men are only there for the women’s enjoyment.

Men MUST be nude.

Women must NOT be nude.

Women have the freedom to ogle, touch, tease, pinch, slap, play with or ignore the men.

Women should not allow the men to have an orgasm, masturbate, or even touch themselves.

A man may not touch any woman without explicit consent from her.

Men and women should drink, laugh, chat, and have fun like they would at any other party

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

But normally at a CFNM party the man gets humiliated and does get to cum

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By *ute-But-Kinky2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Finglas

"But normally at a CFNM party the man gets humiliated and does get to cum

Obviously rules can be tweaked...

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

Oh OP re read your post and swap the genders....

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"But normally at a CFNM party the man gets humiliated and does get to cum

Obviously rules can be tweaked... "

I know but would men attend if they thought that they wouldn't get to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But normally at a CFNM party the man gets humiliated and does get to cum

Obviously rules can be tweaked...

I know but would men attend if they thought that they wouldn't get to cum "
Don't you mean they wouldn't go if they couldn't cum.Haha

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Can't see too many self respecting males queuing up for this one

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"This might be an interesting party idea for when all this settles down.

I came across this from a fetish site, obviously the rules could be tweaked for a more swing friendly crowd but I (the male half) thought this was quite tantalising

For anyone who doesn't understand the acronym CFNM is 'Clothed Female Nude Male'

A “CFNM” party.

The rules are simple:

The party is not a “sex party”. The main focus is that women are to relax and enjoy themselves.

The men are only there for the women’s enjoyment.

Men MUST be nude.

Women must NOT be nude.

Women have the freedom to ogle, touch, tease, pinch, slap, play with or ignore the men.

Women should not allow the men to have an orgasm, masturbate, or even touch themselves.

A man may not touch any woman without explicit consent from her.

Men and women should drink, laugh, chat, and have fun like they would at any other party

Might be easier to have a party and organise a few male strippers

Do irish male strippers take off everything

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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area

The ratio of men to women here is already quite large, and women complain about dick pics etc. (Its not a pretty appendage let's face it), so unless they have a great body and want to show it off, I can't see there being a queue of men wanting to go to a party naked for the night. I'm not sure what they would get from it bar the social aspect. But that could be done with either a fully naked party (no play) or a fully clothed party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...not for me...

Best o luck

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

"Can't see too many self respecting males queuing up for this one

These are great fun, I’ve done these before, and on the night the ladies make up their own rules!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This might be an interesting party idea for when all this settles down.

I came across this from a fetish site, obviously the rules could be tweaked for a more swing friendly crowd but I (the male half) thought this was quite tantalising

For anyone who doesn't understand the acronym CFNM is 'Clothed Female Nude Male'

A “CFNM” party.

The rules are simple:

The party is not a “sex party”. The main focus is that women are to relax and enjoy themselves.

The men are only there for the women’s enjoyment.

Men MUST be nude.

Women must NOT be nude.

Women have the freedom to ogle, touch, tease, pinch, slap, play with or ignore the men.

Women should not allow the men to have an orgasm, masturbate, or even touch themselves.

A man may not touch any woman without explicit consent from her.

Men and women should drink, laugh, chat, and have fun like they would at any other party

This gets my vote

up to the men not being able to cum part. i think they should be allowed to cum if thats what the women attending want. Defo a big no to any degradation, i would not like to be a part of that. I quite like the idea of the party tho. Sick of going to parties where the women are expected to change into lingerie before fun starts. Ive suggested many times the men get into their undies first but theres never any takers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see too many self respecting males queuing up for this one

These are great fun, I’ve done these before, and on the night the ladies make up their own rules!

I confirm it is really a great fun, especially knowing that we ladies can setup a certain rules for every type of a man (straight, bisexual, etc) but all of men have no idea what to expect.

Im not talking about humiliation.

Not my kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the sound of that, would be one of my go-to’s on pornhub.

Not into the humiliation side of things though

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

No all the time some are humiliation wank and other are sexaul and there oils in satin blouse and skrit fun idea

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By *ute-But-Kinky2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Finglas

"Can't see too many self respecting males queuing up for this one

These are great fun, I’ve done these before, and on the night the ladies make up their own rules!

Yeah, I'd imagine that's what would happen. Anyone talking about humiliation is taking the fetish way too seriously.

The onus is usually 90% on the females to strip down first at parties, so this would turn that on it's head and it would create a completely different power shift.

Also I (male half) am a total exhibitionist

so it appeals to me on that level.

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By *ute-But-Kinky2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Finglas

"Can't see too many self respecting males queuing up for this one

These are great fun, I’ve done these before, and on the night the ladies make up their own rules!

I confirm it is really a great fun, especially knowing that we ladies can setup a certain rules for every type of a man (straight, bisexual, etc) but all of men have no idea what to expect.

Im not talking about humiliation.

Not my kink."

Yeah, that sounds class. No humiliation whatsoever either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do irish male strippers take off everything "

I've the number for a great painter and decorator that will strip everything in the room.

In terms of this party, I'm not sure how enjoyable or relaxing it would be when there are already a list of rules with people stating there will be even more rules on the night

Good luck with it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why am I uncomfortable with this??

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Are there many couples aged 35 and under where the male half would be comfortable doing this?

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Leaving aside the humiliation side of things....I think this is hot on the denial side. The antisapation of not knowing who will do what to whom. Would the male ever get to cum or even forced to cum multiple times? Forced (albeit consensually) to do/wear/say things that don't normally come naturally to males, could be fun with the right people

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By *cean1963Man
over a year ago

Yeah definatly brilliant idea

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Kinky idea x

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By *lavemale66Man
over a year ago

Carlow

I'd be very very interested in attending as a NM. I'd appreciate a pm if it ever goes ahead. Thanks.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

I think it sounds good fun, maybe not the humiliation but spending the night naked, chatting and being felt up/played with would be fine by me.

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By *orny-angelWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Love idea & by amount of messages ill clean your house in nip & please you but you cant touch me offers ive had I can see lots of lads up for it. Self denial real turn on for loads Ive been talking to of recent.

Please count me in.

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By *orthDublinDRMan
over a year ago

Clongriffin

I’ve seen this fetish before and actually enjoyed it. The females having full day on guys that are willing to make them happy. I would be interested for sure

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By *uniorendowedMan
over a year ago

London

Lool I must be the only one that enjoys dancing bear then

This sounds like great fun! Sign me up you’ll definitely see me on the dance floor

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By *odernLoveDublinMan
over a year ago

dublin

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By *ideria07Man
over a year ago

Limerick

Sounds like a class kinky party. Where do I sign up?

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By *uckoldDesiresMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Id be very interested.

Big fan of both denial and any possible humiliation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely be interested in this...I would need about 6 months in the gym first though!

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

"Love idea & by amount of messages ill clean your house in nip & please you but you cant touch me offers ive had I can see lots of lads up for it. Self denial real turn on for loads Ive been talking to of recent.

Please count me in."

If she's going,I'm going

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By *omfMan
over a year ago

Galway

Love cfnm.

Would love to try it but doesn’t seem to be a lot of interest in it.

If u do try to have a cfnm party just let me know. I’d like to join it.

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By *un_guy_69Man
over a year ago

Limerick/Tipperary border

That sounds very interesting. The guys getting naked first would be a nice change. I'd be interested if the humiliation part was dropped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can hold a drinks tray with 4 glasses of wine and 2 G&T's with no hands.......just saying

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By *icevicebabyWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

"I can hold a drinks tray with 4 glasses of wine and 2 G&T's with no hands.......just saying

Pics please

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

it would be a gentleman's party for ladies

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By *urfdudeMan
over a year ago

WEXFORD

I would attend if one is being arranged

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By *ute-But-Kinky2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Finglas

It's kinda cool that there is a somewhat positive reaction to this, I thought I was one of the only guys to watch CFNM porn ha.

Again, I'm not interested in the humiliation side of things (I feel this needs to be emphasised)

it would be more about being objectified as a man, that's the real kick, for me anyway.

I'd consider organising a party but it wouldn't be until next year with all things considered, kids and vulnerable relatives and such means we are pretty cautious.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

If your organising something I'd love to be considered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This definitely sounds like some hot fun. Would certainly be up for a party like that

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"This might be an interesting party idea for when all this settles down.

I came across this from a fetish site, obviously the rules could be tweaked for a more swing friendly crowd but I (the male half) thought this was quite tantalising

For anyone who doesn't understand the acronym CFNM is 'Clothed Female Nude Male'

A “CFNM” party.

The rules are simple:

The party is not a “sex party”. The main focus is that women are to relax and enjoy themselves.

The men are only there for the women’s enjoyment.

Men MUST be nude.

Women must NOT be nude.

Women have the freedom to ogle, touch, tease, pinch, slap, play with or ignore the men.

Women should not allow the men to have an orgasm, masturbate, or even touch themselves.

A man may not touch any woman without explicit consent from her.

Men and women should drink, laugh, chat, and have fun like they would at any other party

When is this on then so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My understanding of it is usually from one woman to several with one or two mean and the girls pretty much do as they please!

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Isn't that just like a greedy girls party or am I think of something completely different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh hell yes that would be amazing even better with you guys.

I done it at a party years ago we where kinda nude butlers for the lady's. While they teased us.

And there was lots of play an the men did cum eventually. Ohh the memories of it

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Rather than blindly saying you'd like to attend would it not be a better idea checking to see if you fall within the ops criteria?

You will only be able to attend if you are a couple and under the age of 35.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the naked butler at a women only party in malahide in Dublin two years. It was excellent fun. I was spanked whipped poked and prodded in between serving food and drinks. I played when the party was over with a fab girl that I had met previously. I really enjoyed it and serving drinks with an erection is fun

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Keep me posted

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I kinda thought these were mostly faked/staged.. with Sub men as the target audience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to a few cfnm parties, mainly hen parties or girly nights in.. so do eexist.. just very hard to find lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I kinda thought these were mostly faked/staged.. with Sub men as the target audience. "

I thought they were fake too. Do these sorts of meets actually happen? If they do, they could be v fun.

(When it's all safe again, of course.)

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"I have been to a few cfnm parties, mainly hen parties or girly nights in.. so do eexist.. just very hard to find lol"

Those are more novelty/cringe events designed more to embarrass someone than anything else aren't they?

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By *admontyMan
over a year ago

Newtownards

i would have a go. Im confused though, where would i pit my keys, phone and wallet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been to a few cfnm parties, mainly hen parties or girly nights in.. so do eexist.. just very hard to find lol

Those are more novelty/cringe events designed more to embarrass someone than anything else aren't they? "

Generally they dont aim to embarrass.. the hen parties are more into a see a naked man whilst the girly night-in are more for the women too have control, as strip me naked and play at their whims. Great fun, you should come along ;p

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