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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For us, it was Lee sending me that first message online 9 years ago this week.

What's yours?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Standing on top of a mountain, 10,000 ft above sea level and realising I'd spent the first 50 years of my life living for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general life or in swinging terms? In real life the birth of my children... In swinging terms... My first party I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life - in a hotel room alone, sitting on a shower floor, fully dressed crying my eyes out considering disappearing and leaving all behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly losing my life at a motorcyle road race.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Going to the Guards and reporting a crime

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Leaving my partner after 25yrs. Still can not believe how i found the strength to go but it was the best thing i have ever done although the hardest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In life - in a hotel room alone, sitting on a shower floor, fully dressed crying my eyes out considering disappearing and leaving all behind.

"

I'm glad you had the strength to get up an grab life with both hands x #strenght

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Leaving my partner after 25yrs. Still can not believe how i found the strength to go but it was the best thing i have ever done although the hardest."

Totally hear you there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In general life or in swinging terms? In real life the birth of my children... In swinging terms... My first party I suppose"

In life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Landing my current job in 2009 in the depths of the recession, if I didn’t my life would have taken a totally different path and my god am I grateful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In life - in a hotel room alone, sitting on a shower floor, fully dressed crying my eyes out considering disappearing and leaving all behind.

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Well done on carrying on, and lots of us have had that moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of them in my life. The best moment in my entire life was expecting my children to see, kiss and hug them.

Another one just a few months ago when the person who supported me all these years said 'I do'

"After the storm the sun will come out"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of them in my life. The best moment in my entire life was expecting my children to see, kiss and hug them.

Another one just a few months ago when the person who supported me all these years said 'I do'

"After the storm the sun will come out"

"

Should we book the top hat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Birth

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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

Having just got into to bed at 3am having finished a busy nite work.... Phone rings it was Mr, he was out in a different town, got my number of a friend, date arranged. 20 odd years later still together a few kids and more in love than ever. There have been ups and downs but the ups keep us going.

Recently turning 40 and losing two friends has made realise we have only life make it count, don't waste your time on people who are not worth it, do what makes you happy.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"In life - in a hotel room alone, sitting on a shower floor, fully dressed crying my eyes out considering disappearing and leaving all behind.

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Glad you made it DD and can well understand why you were there in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Birth "

Isn't that "universe-changing" moments?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having just got into to bed at 3am having finished a busy nite work.... Phone rings it was Mr, he was out in a different town, got my number of a friend, date arranged. 20 odd years later still together a few kids and more in love than ever. There have been ups and downs but the ups keep us going.

Recently turning 40 and losing two friends has made realise we have only life make it count, don't waste your time on people who are not worth it, do what makes you happy. "

Absofuckinglutely

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"In life - in a hotel room alone, sitting on a shower floor, fully dressed crying my eyes out considering disappearing and leaving all behind.

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Im so glad you got the strength to get up from that floor xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting put into foster care

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By *ewadventures2017Couple
over a year ago

some where near

That first trip to hedonism in Jamaica

There's a sign on the beach to be nude from here on

My partner said get them off you lol

From that moment I became a different person

In a good way I might add

And on a totally different note when my then partner was told her cancer was terminal and what followed rip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two for me...becoming a mother and realising that this small being relied on me for everything, and the day I met Mr which was like a revelation happening before my eyes

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Two for me...becoming a mother and realising that this small being relied on me for everything, and the day I met Mr which was like a revelation happening before my eyes"

And then realising that he also relied on you for everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fatherhood

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Magic Mushrooms 21 years ago. (Disclaimer: they were legal in Ireland at the time so no law was broken)

I was never the same after it. For years I thought it was the worst thing I've ever done but in the last 2 or 3 years I see it as the most significant experience of my life and I'm so grateful to have had it.

For the record I have no need or desire to eat them again.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

About 10 years ago while getting counselling for anxiety and social anxiety I was invited to a house warming party. I was after maybe 2 or 3 sessions and waiting for her quick fix lol. Anyway at the party I basically shut down, could barely talk to anybody even the people I knew. Needless to say I took the counselling more serious after that.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Had a couple of them, but most recent when I bought my shack on the hill, the DIY never stopped since....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had a couple of them, but most recent when I bought my shack on the hill, the DIY never stopped since.... "

Ha yeah, I made that mistake once, never again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"About 10 years ago while getting counselling for anxiety and social anxiety I was invited to a house warming party. I was after maybe 2 or 3 sessions and waiting for her quick fix lol. Anyway at the party I basically shut down, could barely talk to anybody even the people I knew. Needless to say I took the counselling more serious after that. "

When it's taken decades to get where we are, 2 or 3 hours isn't going to cut it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Magic Mushrooms 21 years ago. (Disclaimer: they were legal in Ireland at the time so no law was broken)

I was never the same after it. For years I thought it was the worst thing I've ever done but in the last 2 or 3 years I see it as the most significant experience of my life and I'm so grateful to have had it.

For the record I have no need or desire to eat them again."

I say there's something to learn from every experience, even if it's only "don't do that again"

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

When I woke from a coma after car accident abroad , 22 at the time , realised I had to cop myself on .

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Magic Mushrooms 21 years ago. (Disclaimer: they were legal in Ireland at the time so no law was broken)

I was never the same after it. For years I thought it was the worst thing I've ever done but in the last 2 or 3 years I see it as the most significant experience of my life and I'm so grateful to have had it.

For the record I have no need or desire to eat them again.

I say there's something to learn from every experience, even if it's only "don't do that again" "

Haha, you maybe right.

Joking aside though, you hit the nail on the head, there is something that can be learned from every experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two for me...becoming a mother and realising that this small being relied on me for everything, and the day I met Mr which was like a revelation happening before my eyes

And then realising that he also relied on you for everything "

Only some things BM

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

Finding the job I was ment to be doing 11 years ago now, never worked a day since!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Two for me...becoming a mother and realising that this small being relied on me for everything, and the day I met Mr which was like a revelation happening before my eyes

And then realising that he also relied on you for everything

Only some things BM "

You're talking about my puzzles I presume

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Finding the job I was ment to be doing 11 years ago now, never worked a day since!"

That's what we figured!!

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Finding the job I was ment to be doing 11 years ago now, never worked a day since!"

I love hearing people saying that. Good for you

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By *ryanCorkMan
over a year ago

West Cork

Had a stroke and made a full recovery scary but all good now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Birth

Isn't that "universe-changing" moments?"

Possibly!

Kaizer was born and today he is a tsunami of awesome

End of story

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had a stroke and made a full recovery scary but all good now"

Wow, congratulations on your full recovery.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

About 18 months ago standing on a beach in the the middle of winter when I decided I had to completely change my life and start living rather than just existing as I had done for so many years it just seemed normal. Made some massive changes after that day.

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal


"In life - in a hotel room alone, sitting on a shower floor, fully dressed crying my eyes out considering disappearing and leaving all behind.

I'm glad you had the strength to get up an grab life with both hands x #strenght "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After 2 failed attempts to do something very stupid, realising that maybe something had to change

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Havent had any life changing moments not married no kids never had a long term relationship guess i just lead a very boring life i just take each day as it comes and am greatful for what i have especially at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 18 months ago standing on a beach in the the middle of winter when I decided I had to completely change my life and start living rather than just existing as I had done for so many years it just seemed normal. Made some massive changes after that day. "

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearly losing my life at a motorcyle road race. "

As a big fan of Road Racing I’m delighted you have been lucky enough to make it through. So many riders have fallen but they will never forgotten. Height of respect for all racers both male and Female. Keep safe

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Real life

Finding out what my cock is really for

Fab life

Finding out i actually can use it better than i thought

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Real life

Finding out what my cock is really for

Fab life

Finding out i actually can use it better than i thought "

Tell us more. What is your cock really for?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Getting put into foster care "

A change for the better, I hope

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Being told I had breast cancer. Watching my mam die of cancer.

Finding out my rat of an ex was having an affair....all 3 of them happened within 9mnths of each other.

All 3 have been life changing. Utterly life changing.

MsD

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Being told I had breast cancer. Watching my mam die of cancer.

Finding out my rat of an ex was having an affair....all 3 of them happened within 9mnths of each other.

All 3 have been life changing. Utterly life changing.

MsD"

Hopefully you're all clear of the breast cancer now

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Being told I had breast cancer. Watching my mam die of cancer.

Finding out my rat of an ex was having an affair....all 3 of them happened within 9mnths of each other.

All 3 have been life changing. Utterly life changing.

MsD

Hopefully you're all clear of the breast cancer now "

I am indeedy xx thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting my Dad home after spending 2 months in hospital an one week in an induced coma due too the Coronavirus. We taught he wasn't going to make it and now he's home even the doctors said he wasn't going to make it. And the fact during all of this we couldn't be there we couldn't see him it was so hard on us. But how he turned was just amazing and only for the nurses and doctor's in beaumont hospital absolutely amazing people they to us. So that's my 2 cents in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I won 100 million euro in the Euromillions ... I wish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being told I had breast cancer. Watching my mam die of cancer.

Finding out my rat of an ex was having an affair....all 3 of them happened within 9mnths of each other.

All 3 have been life changing. Utterly life changing.

MsD"

That was quite the challenge, good to hear you are now recovered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Getting my Dad home after spending 2 months in hospital an one week in an induced coma due too the Coronavirus. We taught he wasn't going to make it and now he's home even the doctors said he wasn't going to make it. And the fact during all of this we couldn't be there we couldn't see him it was so hard on us. But how he turned was just amazing and only for the nurses and doctor's in beaumont hospital absolutely amazing people they to us. So that's my 2 cents in "

It's great to hear your dad made it through, I think a lot don't realise how long recovery can take

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By *ork fellaMan
over a year ago

Macroom

Asking a stranger if she was okay after she had stumbled while walking along the front of the RDS in Dublin. Two years later were living together and going strong. Funny how things work out

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By *ork ClassCouple
over a year ago

Cork

A wise man told me many years ago.

Been miserable is a habit or been happy is also a habit , the choice is all yours !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking for my life changing moment, when i find it, it will be.. life changing , i hope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still looking for my life changing moment, when i find it, it will be.. life changing , i hope "

I don't think it's something you look for, just something you recognise in retrospect

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By *oiracpl38Couple
over a year ago

moira ish

Killed a man when I was 19 1st gulf war,still live with it every day was in bad place for very long time but met Diane I sleep now.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Killed a man when I was 19 1st gulf war,still live with it every day was in bad place for very long time but met Diane I sleep now. "

Must have been very hard on you

You were in an army in a war and trained to do what you did

I'd imagine no amount of training could prepare you for that thought

I hope you sleep easier after all this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Killed a man when I was 19 1st gulf war,still live with it every day was in bad place for very long time but met Diane I sleep now. "

That's a very moving post!

Godspeed good sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ, some tough times there.

Mine was 20 years ago. A couple, friends of partner, I couldn’t stand him as he knew it all. One moment I realised that it was actually me that was the asshole. Since that moment I learnt from him instead of being bitter about his knowledge. It was a big moment for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having my girls and getting the promotion I've been working towards for the past few years

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Real life

Finding out what my cock is really for

Fab life

Finding out i actually can use it better than i thought

Tell us more. What is your cock really for? "

Well u can hang a do not disturb sign on it when u play ur cards right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been left with three kids to raise by myself

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Real life

Finding out what my cock is really for

Fab life

Finding out i actually can use it better than i thought

Tell us more. What is your cock really for?

Well u can hang a do not disturb sign on it when u play ur cards right "

So not for driving a sliotar over the bar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life changing moments, 1 would be having my children, don't even remember life before them, eldest is an absolute miracle child.

2 finally having the balls to leave the mentally abusive cheating asshole. Complete life changing and all for the better.

3 loosing a very close friend to cancer, that moment was when I realised how short life is and we shouldn't take it for granted.

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

My mam passing away was pretty significant. Life, as I knew it, changed completely.

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

Spent 6 months in 94 working in Goma DRC and around Rwanda for UNHCR

Changed my outlook on everything.....

Life is so precious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In life - in a hotel room alone, sitting on a shower floor, fully dressed crying my eyes out considering disappearing and leaving all behind.

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Jeez ..please don't ever feel like that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life changing moments, 1 would be having my children, don't even remember life before them, eldest is an absolute miracle child.

2 finally having the balls to leave the mentally abusive cheating asshole. Complete life changing and all for the better.

3 loosing a very close friend to cancer, that moment was when I realised how short life is and we shouldn't take it for granted. "

All 3 ... definitely.. without a shadow of doubt...life changing moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids being born ..love them more than life itself

Both parents passing away ,you lose your foundation Rock ..

And last ,but by fuck no means least ,my ex telling me to leave ,played God with my life for years , my self worth and esteem were at an all time low ,took me years to find some sort of well being again but l'm back on track .. rebuilt..and found my ol' self..the kid that l used to know before l ever met her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walking in on the love of my life with another man

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By *atcher777Man
over a year ago

n 81


"In life - in a hotel room alone, sitting on a shower floor, fully dressed crying my eyes out considering disappearing and leaving all behind. Glad you stayed with us

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By *ireannCplCouple
over a year ago

Suburbs

23yrs ago this week was returning home and as I was passing a petrol station I was going to stop and get a soft drink but decided to keep driving home. 5 mins later was involved in a serious traffic accident where the other driver was killed. As a person I changed as a result of that accident. Wish I stopped.

Mr Eire

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

Sitting in my wee corsa, balling my eyes out to Linkin Park, shadow of the day, knowing my relationship was over and I couldnt fix it, felt a failure until that point, but the song was a relief, a new beginning, because sometimes goodbyes the only way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Spent 6 months in 94 working in Goma DRC and around Rwanda for UNHCR

Changed my outlook on everything.....

Life is so precious "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realising at a point in my late twenties that everyone else wasn't being an asshole I was.

There have been many but that particular journey of discovery has been the most recent event that has really shaped who I am today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- Going out to collect post in a small village in Cyprus 24 yrs ago...that afternoon I met a girl whom Im still friends with and whom I came to visit 24 yrs ago.. and ended up living most of my adult life in Ireland.

- replying to a msg on here 3 yrs ago hidden among 400 other daily msgs with no picture complimenting me on my mouth...his name is Kingfab and the rest is history. ) xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"- Going out to collect post in a small village in Cyprus 24 yrs ago...that afternoon I met a girl whom Im still friends with and whom I came to visit 24 yrs ago.. and ended up living most of my adult life in Ireland.

- replying to a msg on here 3 yrs ago hidden among 400 other daily msgs with no picture complimenting me on my mouth...his name is Kingfab and the rest is history. ) xxx"

Isn't it funny where chance takes us?

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

I think turning 50. It was a lightbulb moment. I suddenly didn't give a fook what people thought of me. Very liberating. The older you get the less fucks you give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being told I had breast cancer. Watching my mam die of cancer.

Finding out my rat of an ex was having an affair....all 3 of them happened within 9mnths of each other.

All 3 have been life changing. Utterly life changing.

MsD"

That was definitely a tough run of events. I'm sure you are a stronger woman now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think turning 50. It was a lightbulb moment. I suddenly didn't give a fook what people thought of me. Very liberating. The older you get the less fucks you give. "

I reached this amazing revelation a few years earlier due to a breakdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some haroeing experiences posted - group hug

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By *ndrew1972Man
over a year ago

Roscrea

For me it was probably when my my wife found out about this site, my bi tendancies and my secret life.

No secrets anymore and life is much better for both of us.

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"For me it was probably when my my wife found out about this site, my bi tendancies and my secret life.

No secrets anymore and life is much better for both of us."

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it was probably when my my wife found out about this site, my bi tendancies and my secret life.

No secrets anymore and life is much better for both of us."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

No secrets anymore and life is much better for both of us."

The best way to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Telling the kids this morning that it’s time for the family dog to be put to sleep was quite tough. Growing up with a dog for 14 years then losing him is tough. My daughter is devastated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Telling the kids this morning that it’s time for the family dog to be put to sleep was quite tough. Growing up with a dog for 14 years then losing him is tough. My daughter is devastated "

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Telling the kids this morning that it’s time for the family dog to be put to sleep was quite tough. Growing up with a dog for 14 years then losing him is tough. My daughter is devastated "

Had to do that last year and we all held him as the vet did the injection

Hard life lesson for us all...

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

I have had a few life changing moments in my life.

But the one that stands out to me is when I finally separated from my husband. Three months into the separation he took it upon himself to beat me up badly in front of my two kids (12 & 6). I feared for our lives for weeks after this and vividly remember standing in front of the mirror naked, looking at all the bruises and thinking to myself ... they will heal but my mind will never recover from this.

That was 10yrs ago and to this day I still have not been able to form a relationship with a man, tbh I'm too scared to. Hence I'm on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had a few life changing moments in my life.

But the one that stands out to me is when I finally separated from my husband. Three months into the separation he took it upon himself to beat me up badly in front of my two kids (12 & 6). I feared for our lives for weeks after this and vividly remember standing in front of the mirror naked, looking at all the bruises and thinking to myself ... they will heal but my mind will never recover from this.

That was 10yrs ago and to this day I still have not been able to form a relationship with a man, tbh I'm too scared to. Hence I'm on Fab."

Hugs to a brave lady..so sorry that happened to you x

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

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"I have had a few life changing moments in my life.

But the one that stands out to me is when I finally separated from my husband. Three months into the separation he took it upon himself to beat me up badly in front of my two kids (12 & 6). I feared for our lives for weeks after this and vividly remember standing in front of the mirror naked, looking at all the bruises and thinking to myself ... they will heal but my mind will never recover from this.

That was 10yrs ago and to this day I still have not been able to form a relationship with a man, tbh I'm too scared to. Hence I'm on Fab."

What an awful ordeal for you and your kids to have to go through.

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