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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Curious on this one but how long did it take for your inbox to fill up when you first joined as a couple or single woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not long at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us figured out filters pretty quickly

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

We try and keep our inbox under about 100 messages... And we aren't even meeting at the moment

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

I'd hundreds of messages withing the 1st half hour. Bit intimidating being new and no wonder women leave after a short time. But once I discovered filters and block it calmed down.... a bit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 400 msgs within the 1st hr on a previous profile. I was in a different location at the time & bordering on a few counties. It so wasn't a nice experience... I'll say no more. (Not the quantity of the msgs, it was the content ) Hence to say I lasted 5wks max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seconds

Over four thousand messages in six weeks til we left after first joining.

So men just stalk the poor newbies on here and we got suckered many times but not now thankfully.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had 400 msgs within the 1st hr on a previous profile. I was in a different location at the time & bordering on a few counties. It so wasn't a nice experience... I'll say no more. (Not the quantity of the msgs, it was the content ) Hence to say I lasted 5wks max "

PS: I had 1,800 msgs on this profile at one stage I never ever get through my mail tbh. I'm not big-headed or egotistical or anything like that, just stating a fact

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By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

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By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

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I don't think we've ever had more than 5 messages waiting . Must be a bad smell coming from our profile

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I had a couple of hundred in a few hours when I joined I left and a friend presuaded me to join again and I discovered filters and now I don't get that many messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined July 2018 late one evening with one picture and very little on profile. I woke up the next morning to 402 unread messages. It did not take my long then to figure out my filters and where the block button is

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

I had 50 on the first night but then I woke up and realised it was all a dream....

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious on this one but how long did it take for your inbox to fill up when you first joined as a couple or single woman."

Within minutes of joining I had hundreds. Mostly cock pics plus offers of veris. I didn't even know what a veri was at that stage.

I stuck it out and learnt about filters pretty quickly.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've had 10's in 3½ years.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Curious on this one but how long did it take for your inbox to fill up when you first joined as a couple or single woman."

Within an hour I had hundreds of messages, over half with attached dick pics. Sad thing was I had no pic, no bio and it was ridiculous and then same with a couples account I had.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

Like others have said, we figured out filters pretty quick so didn't have lots of messages. We have opened the filters now because we know what we're looking for and can spot the messers

On a day to day basis we only get a handful if we're both at home. But when Mr. travels for work we get a significant amount, I suppose because people see the "fresh meat" in their area. But this just proves once again that most guys dont read profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here a few years now and I'm certain ill never have to concern myself with a full in or out box

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"I don't think we've ever had more than 5 messages waiting . Must be a bad smell coming from our profile "

after looking and admiring profile I'm supprised at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you put up a female profile and your profile photo looked like borris Johnson twin sister you would get 100 messages in the first day.

Not trying to be funny.. i honestly believe that to be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found filters very helpful in getting rid of the unwanted solicited sunday morning hangover horn messages from single ladies.

Now I just get the fancy a bj messages from straight males...

Win win

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

About six hundred within a few hours. I was introduced by a FB of 25yrs so I had an immediate veri and a couple of pics.

I nearly shut my profile down until I discovered filters and the sacred block button.

I still average about 60 messages a day. I can filter them pretty quickly tho. I just turn my profile off sometimes. Urgh.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Over 100 within an hour.... hundreds within a day...

Then I found filters and the " thank you but not interested "....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we were looking for single guys we got 400 messages in a day. It's not possible to answer or even read that many messages, so it's kind of pointless allowing them to mail.

We'd probably meet a few times a year, and now not even that.

Hence why we don't allow messages from single guys

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Our inbox isnt full & never will be. Have single guys blocked. Tried it for 24hrs as an experiment. Bonkers. No thanks.

We get messages from women & couples only which is what we want.

MsD x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found filters very helpful in getting rid of the unwanted solicited sunday morning hangover horn messages from single ladies.

Now I just get the fancy a bj messages from straight males...

Win win "

How many times do I have to apologise for my unsolicited fanny photo's on Sunday mornings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious on this one but how long did it take for your inbox to fill up when you first joined as a couple or single woman."

Not so long. I think it was less than one hour. I did not have any photo yet I wanted to delete the profile but

thanks for the filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that many tbh, people here have had more messages in a day than we've had views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I joined was bombarded with pics and messages. I left within a week.

Rejoined and between extremely tight filters and the block button. Some days I get no messages

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

The day i joined i got 600 messages.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I recommended the site to a female friend

She got 1600 messages in the first 24 hrs and hid her profile

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