FabSwingers.com forum: First Time to Attend a Swinger Club

By *ryanCork OP Man
over a year ago

West Cork

Hi,

Im fairly new to the scene and Im lucky enough to be attending my first club party in a few weeks. Any advice for me as I dont want to mess it up. Any help appreciated. Thanks

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Don't get too excited and build it up into something big. It's just like going to a late bar or club. You might get lucky, you might not. Just present yourself well and follow the club rules and don't get very d*unk. Good luck

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"Hi,

Im fairly new to the scene and Im lucky enough to be attending my first club party in a few weeks. Any advice for me as I dont want to mess it up. Any help appreciated. Thanks"

Be respectful, mannerely and SOBER

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By *yeCandyDublinCouple
over a year ago

Lucan

"Hi,

Im fairly new to the scene and Im lucky enough to be attending my first club party in a few weeks. Any advice for me as I dont want to mess it up. Any help appreciated. Thanks"

Don’t get d*unk...be respectful

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By * peas in a podCouple
over a year ago

Ireland, Cork, East

Be respectful.

Have manners.

Respect the rules.

Don't follow couples or girls around all night. Its creepy. We've seen a lot of new single guys do that and it's off putting.

If someone isn't interested, be a man about it and say no problem and not argue about why not.

Having a drink is fine but don't get plastered and act like an idiot.

Clubs are a very fun, relaxed atmosphere and the people are great. Hope you enjoy your experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be respectful.

Have manners.

Respect the rules.

Don't follow couples or girls around all night. Its creepy. We've seen a lot of new single guys do that and it's off putting.

If someone isn't interested, be a man about it and say no problem and not argue about why not.

Having a drink is fine but don't get plastered and act like an idiot.

Clubs are a very fun, relaxed atmosphere and the people are great. Hope you enjoy your experience.

Agree with you.

We have noticed it abroad in different countries as well. Reason probably was too much alcohol, bravery (Id say stupidity) and lost of control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress to impress

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By *appytoadsCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Agree with all said before, dress up and present yourself, don't stalk couples, they will let you know if they need you. Don't have very high expectations, and if something happens you be delighted. Didn't say where club was, we prefer UK club's but thatsxout of the question at the mo.good luck with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah , be cool and defo dont come across as needy. If people chat to you fair enough. But dont expect to play just because you spoke to someone. Relax and be yourself and as above go easy on the drink.

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By *ryanCork OP Man
over a year ago

West Cork

Thanks all...super advice and appreciate the feedback

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By *elljoe 2Man
over a year ago

cork

been to a good few, sometimes lucky sometimes not so lucky

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