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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, so long story short, myself and a female friend of mine like to hook up every now and then, she is super open to three (and more) some and has stated she would love to give it a go - but she wants the whole thing to be organic and not a pre arranged thing - she isn't into arranging stuff online, shes well aware of fab just not her thing.

My question is, is there any prime spots to go where we could meet up with like minded people and see where things go? We like to get away for weekend breaks round ireland every now and then (obviously this is for going forward when things are a little more normal)

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

So your looking for spontaneous meets then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be to meet up with whoever on the basis it’s just a coffee initially and nothing more. That way she won’t feel pressured....

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Apart from a sex club (which might be out of her comfort zone) then no. There's nowhere you can go where swingers hang out or anything. Your best bet is probably pulling someone vanilla as a couple on a night out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was afraid that might be the answer! She might be open to going to a sex club though! She just doesnt like the online arrangement aspect of stuff - think it's the thrill of the chase in person!!

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By *uko941Man
over a year ago

Dunshaughlin


"I was afraid that might be the answer! She might be open to going to a sex club though! She just doesnt like the online arrangement aspect of stuff - think it's the thrill of the chase in person!!"

You could plan it and not say anything haha

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Maybe plan a trip to vanilla or RVC or something then. There is no pressure at all to play.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Starting a new profile as a couple would be a good start in order to get an invite

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By *haggy_bearMan
over a year ago

Sligo

Just pick up a single guy on a night out. The best kind of threesome!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Just pick up a single guy on a night out. The best kind of threesome!"

Yeah we've done this. Its great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet and greet, go along for a night out and if you meet someone great if you don't you'll still have a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a gay bar which is more bi friendly etc and try getting chatting to people at the bar and suss them out. I'm assuming you've enquired if she'd like another guy or another girl. Most fellas think of two girls as a 3sum but she might surprise you (see how spontaneous you are then)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Couple of good suggestions there lads, fair play!

We've talked about it a good bit and were very much up for whatever, she has suggested doing two girls for a first time (shes very keen to play with a girl herself!) and then if we love that she wants to try with either a couple or two guys after that!

I feel like a club and or a meet and greet would be our best place to start

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Couple of good suggestions there lads, fair play!

We've talked about it a good bit and were very much up for whatever, she has suggested doing two girls for a first time (shes very keen to play with a girl herself!) and then if we love that she wants to try with either a couple or two guys after that!

I feel like a club and or a meet and greet would be our best place to start "

Both clubs and meet and greets would require a verified couples profile to get an invite. That's where you'll need to begin. It snot hard to get verified as a couple but you will need her to be willing to interact somehow with another verified member. A webcam chat with both of you will do.

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you


"Hi all, so long story short, myself and a female friend of mine like to hook up every now and then, she is super open to three (and more) some and has stated she would love to give it a go - but she wants the whole thing to be organic and not a pre arranged thing - she isn't into arranging stuff online, shes well aware of fab just not her thing.

My question is, is there any prime spots to go where we could meet up with like minded people and see where things go? We like to get away for weekend breaks round ireland every now and then (obviously this is for going forward when things are a little more normal)"

Gar pm me

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Hi all, so long story short, myself and a female friend of mine like to hook up every now and then, she is super open to three (and more) some and has stated she would love to give it a go - but she wants the whole thing to be organic and not a pre arranged thing - she isn't into arranging stuff online, shes well aware of fab just not her thing.

My question is, is there any prime spots to go where we could meet up with like minded people and see where things go? We like to get away for weekend breaks round ireland every now and then (obviously this is for going forward when things are a little more normal)

Gar pm me "

Have gas mask, will travel eh??

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you


"Hi all, so long story short, myself and a female friend of mine like to hook up every now and then, she is super open to three (and more) some and has stated she would love to give it a go - but she wants the whole thing to be organic and not a pre arranged thing - she isn't into arranging stuff online, shes well aware of fab just not her thing.

My question is, is there any prime spots to go where we could meet up with like minded people and see where things go? We like to get away for weekend breaks round ireland every now and then (obviously this is for going forward when things are a little more normal)

Gar pm me

Have gas mask, will travel eh?? "

Has someone been snupping in sneaky sneaky mode

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Hi all, so long story short, myself and a female friend of mine like to hook up every now and then, she is super open to three (and more) some and has stated she would love to give it a go - but she wants the whole thing to be organic and not a pre arranged thing - she isn't into arranging stuff online, shes well aware of fab just not her thing.

My question is, is there any prime spots to go where we could meet up with like minded people and see where things go? We like to get away for weekend breaks round ireland every now and then (obviously this is for going forward when things are a little more normal)

Gar pm me

Have gas mask, will travel eh??

Has someone been snupping in sneaky sneaky mode "

Snupping??

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you


"Hi all, so long story short, myself and a female friend of mine like to hook up every now and then, she is super open to three (and more) some and has stated she would love to give it a go - but she wants the whole thing to be organic and not a pre arranged thing - she isn't into arranging stuff online, shes well aware of fab just not her thing.

My question is, is there any prime spots to go where we could meet up with like minded people and see where things go? We like to get away for weekend breaks round ireland every now and then (obviously this is for going forward when things are a little more normal)

Gar pm me

Have gas mask, will travel eh??

Has someone been snupping in sneaky sneaky mode

Snupping??"

My apologies "snooping"

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Hi all, so long story short, myself and a female friend of mine like to hook up every now and then, she is super open to three (and more) some and has stated she would love to give it a go - but she wants the whole thing to be organic and not a pre arranged thing - she isn't into arranging stuff online, shes well aware of fab just not her thing.

My question is, is there any prime spots to go where we could meet up with like minded people and see where things go? We like to get away for weekend breaks round ireland every now and then (obviously this is for going forward when things are a little more normal)

Gar pm me

Have gas mask, will travel eh??

Has someone been snupping in sneaky sneaky mode

Snupping??

My apologies "snooping" "

Perusing morelike

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