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By *yeswideshuT18 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hillsborough

I have played both roles but still love to be the sub with a proper dom and dom with women.

My experience was with a dom alot older and it was unbelievable

To be took to the brink of giving in and using my safe world was amazing

What is everyones preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jay is a Dom and Jade is a sub. We've enjoyed D/s for a few years now and been very experimental with things, impact, needles, electro-stim etc. Can't put the pics up here but they are in another more kink based platform

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By *yeswideshuT18 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hillsborough

There is so many areas of it I haven't looked into.

I just know that being controlled by a proper dom left me absolutely drained near emotional if that sounds right

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By *iamo69Man
over a year ago

South

Done both sides before. Would like take it further.. Not much around my way tho sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being Dom with men lady’s and especially couples mmmmmm

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By *yeswideshuT18 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hillsborough

It is honestly my best experience on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t find myself to be either sub or Dom . I find I’m quite adaptable to most situations and I’ll engage how it chooses me then .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is so many areas of it I haven't looked into.

I just know that being controlled by a proper dom left me absolutely drained near emotional if that sounds right"

The intensity of a 'scene' can lead to a proper drop afterwards. Sub-drop is pretty well covered elsewhere online, there can be Dom-drop too although it tends to be less common or frequent and people that have never experienced either will tell you it's the same as after a great meet or session; I can see the similarity just not the height of intensity or depth of drop.

Aftercare is also covered pretty well elsewhere online but it is there primarily to try and help the person dropping feel safe afterwards.

'Scenes' can be cathartic but whether or not they are they should always be good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jay is a Dom while dee switches. subs for jay but will Dom and top others. She enjoys having the best of both worlds

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By *organosMan
over a year ago

city centre

sub all the way here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm have been a Dom for several years now, and I wouldn't be able to sub.

Honestly, what I love the most about a D/s dynamic is the intensity it can reach, the level of trust is incredible, besides, there's always something to explore, always room to grow.

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By *iery minxWoman
over a year ago

kildare

Definetely sub here,i have done Domme before and enjoyed it but i am now and always have been more sub

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

Good morning, I have time on this website, I registered, out of curiosity to try new things, to expand my mind.

I would like to test submission.

someone with experience and patience?

have a happy weekend

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Dom here though I'd have no problem in admitting there is more I can learn.

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By *rishcouple12Couple
over a year ago

Cork County

Both lean a little to sub role

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I don’t find myself to be either sub or Dom . I find I’m quite adaptable to most situations and I’ll engage how it chooses me then . "

I hate labels when it comes to kink and the kink jurney is always long and complicated, but works well for the ones that take it slow and one step at the time. Opening Pandora's box it's a shock for many and the labels don't stick for too long for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like to find a female to build trust and experience both safely for mutual enjoyment.Am interested in pointers guidance welcome or pm if prefer.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Never really got to the stage of exploring it fully.

Probably Dom as I have a lot of things to try if the lady was restrained.

Always respecting the Safe word, obviously and after discussion before play

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By *tiffler400Man
over a year ago

belfast

I would say sub. The only problem is that there is not many people in belfast looking to be domme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definetely sub here,i have done Domme before and enjoyed it but i am now and always have been more sub "

interesting

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Ive never experienced being sub, and it doesnt excite me. Im looking to explore my dom side. Ive tried it a bit with strangers in clubs, but never with a lover. Yep, im looking for a sub woman.

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By *uttingstagsMan
over a year ago

Navan

I definitely have a submissive streak when it comes to ladies.

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By *ickspring123Man
over a year ago

kildare

I wud love to be dominated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me i like to be submissive especially a mistress calling me her little bitch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd sooner lie down on the m50 and wait for death than dom a man.

On the other hand, the older I get the more choosey I'm getting about who I'll sub to. But when I do find someone I wanna sub too, it's fucking magic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is so many areas of it I haven't looked into.

I just know that being controlled by a proper dom left me absolutely drained near emotional if that sounds right"

That's called Sun Drop boo. It can be rough as hell. If you're gonna sub again, make sure you prep and line up any support you'll need x

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I'm a sub i would not be able to dominate, a lady. Only got to try it out in role play never in real time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% sub here. Women are to be adored, served and pleased. Period. ??

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

MrF is Dom

MrsF is sub

We don't NEED power exchanges to enjoy ourselves, but we fall naturally into these roles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt really strictly fall into either side of the dicotomy, but prob lean towards the Dom side.

In saying that I find Dom ladies facinating.

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