FabSwingers.com forum: Which do women prefer an asshole or a gentleman

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Come on now be honest don't lie

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I guess it depends if they arrived with a strap-on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess it depends if they arrived with a strap-on

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

That depends what for. Sometimes you need a particular screwdriver for a particular screw

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Most don't I know I most certainly don't.

But then there are plenty of assholes who believe they are gentlemen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most don't I know I most certainly don't.

But then there are plenty of assholes who believe they are gentlemen

Yup, and quite a few womwn.who can't seem to tell the difference

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Most don't I know I most certainly don't.

But then there are plenty of assholes who believe they are gentlemen

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a lot of men are assholes and a lot of women have terrible taste in men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not saying it applies to everyone. But my personal experience about guys I know who have said this to me before is that they need to break up people into nice guys or assholes (they are never the assholes).

This usually happens because they have either had a break up or a lack of recent success with the opposite sex.

Nothing in life is usually that simple. Its kind of like a coping mechinisom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on now be honest don't lie "

Oh ffs. Posts like this reek of r/niceguys. "Why do women always go for assholes, I'm right here, I've been so nice to you, why won't you fuck me?"

I read a tweet before, something along the lines of "A self-described nice guy complaining about women not dating him is like giving out to a hungry person who doesn't want to eat a hot dog off the street."

Men aren't divided into assholes and gentlemen. Though I find the ones who separate them in those terms to be more on the asshole side myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men aren't divided into assholes and gentlemen. Though I find the ones who separate them in those terms to be more on the asshole side myself "

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grace always calls me a bastard

To be fair I've earned it I always eat the last club milk bar.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Grace always calls me a bastard

To be fair I've earned it I always eat the last club milk bar. "

Club milk ...controversial choice ....now if it was a purple snack

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Why is is always one extreme or an other.

Tall or short ?

Curvy or skinny

Fat or ripped?

What about us guys that are a bit of a dickhead but generally a half decent person

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Come on now be honest don't lie "

Describe arsehole?

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Why is is always one extreme or an other.

Tall or short ?

Curvy or skinny

Fat or ripped?

What about us guys that are a bit of a dickhead but generally a half decent person"
Truth

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Come on now be honest don't lie

Describe arsehole?"

Rough sex or gentle sex with a guy i presume

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

My understanding of it is that the term 'women love bad boys' is taken too literally. It doesn't mean women love dickheads, it just means if you're being the nice guy and acting like her friend, she more than likely will see you as a friend.

The so called 'bad boy' is the one who doesn't suck up to her and tell her everything she wants to hear. He challenges her. He makes her want to be around him, but let's her know that he has his own thing going on. He values himself and his time. He won't be a pushover.

But when he's with her, he has the fine balance of gentleman/devil

At least that's what I gathered from being the only fella in my class in college. 3 years of conversations with my females classmates, young and less young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer gentlemen who have assholes, otherwise it's just weird

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"I prefer gentlemen who have assholes, otherwise it's just weird

Well yeah otherwise there is only one hole it can possibly come out of South Park would be a prime example of that

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Men and women can be assholes...

Have to decide if you want to put up with it or not...

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By *hake that assWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Most dont like assholes, the worlds too full of eejits with agendas or self importance.

But most dont like pushovers either

Nobody's a gent allllll the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my limited experience, I overstand the expression to mean that they like men to treat them with respect and appreciate their quality traits, but want you to ride them knowing that they're not made of porcelain. As always, everything in moderation, much like they don't always need a bad guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fucking hate this question.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"I fucking hate this question. "

I fucking hate peppers.

Heya S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a self confessed asshole, ... anyone want to meet me .. nope.. op you question is answered

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I go for the one with a cock or in other words the gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grace always calls me a bastard

To be fair I've earned it I always eat the last club milk bar.

Club milk ...controversial choice ....now if it was a purple snack "

Or a ROLO ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez...it's all an individual thing ... what seems an asshole to one might seem a gent to another ..it totally depends on how someone views things ...like ,what criteria do you need to be considered an asshole ..a person's behaviour might be accepted by someone ..so that don't make them an asshole in their eyes .. whereas it mightened be accepted by a different person so that would make them an asshole in their eyes ...so all l could say on the subject is stay the f**k away from assholes if you consider them to be one ..

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

everybody can be an asshole from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dennis leary said it best

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By *rotic desiresWoman
over a year ago

Here and there

I like to engage with men who are gentlemen and treat me with respect and respect my boundaries, yet who are true to themselves.

In the sexual context, I like a man who takes control. For me, that also includes getting rough and leaving the occasional mark on my body. In saying that, in the right context and with a certain type of partner, I equally enjoy to leave my physical mark!

Does getting physically rough make anyone an asshole? Isn't it all about having fun with consenting adults in a safe environment?

I doubt that anyone really likes an asshole, yet we can all be assholes at times, men and women alike. And we all have a different definition of what makes an asshole and we all have different opinions on different people as we are all different with different perspectives and life paths...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan

Is there a lot of fake profiles on fab or am I just getting the whole thing wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a lot of fake profiles on fab or am I just getting the whole thing wrong lol"

Depends on your definition of fake...

I mean there are alot either way its just of you think there are alot or a fucking massive lot

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By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe there are a lot of women who find themselves attracted to a bad boy type...

Is he usually an asshole too?

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By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan

I find it difficult to get a conversation going with anybody to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most don't I know I most certainly don't.

But then there are plenty of assholes who believe they are gentlemen

a lot of men are assholes and a lot of women have terrible taste in men

(Take 2!)

All women have terrible taste in men but that's only cause all men are assholes.....just like all men love crazy bitches!

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