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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi first time posting. Is it me or are the ladys on this looking for models

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi first time posting. Is it me or are the ladys on this looking for models"

... neither of us looking for models...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi first time posting. Is it me or are the ladys on this looking for models"

Well, good profile pictures help, certainly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I no they but I am Wat I am??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I no they but I am Wat I am??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great where do I go????

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No I don't think most are looking for models at all. This is an excuse you see put up here all the times by guys but it's not true at all. Most women in fact most people on here know that this is a swingers site and most people on here are regular people. Some you will find attractive and some you won't.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Nope im not

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

I doubt that much some actually prefer quality over quantity

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Be definition most people are average looking

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Depends on what we're modelling?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Have you been explicitly told that you are too ugly to meet? Or is this just something you are thinking yourself is the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks arent everything, I'm by no means a model at all, 6ft, skinny as fuck but still having a good time here

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Damn! This could be the first time my model good looks could go against me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a lot of the ladies profiles insist on a face photo with a message. A lot of them read the message, but don’t view or reply... I can only assume they are looking for ‘models’...

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By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

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You know what they say, first impressions last. We are by no means models but we are clued in enough to know that no one wants to get poked in the eye as soon as they see our profile photos.

Sometimes less is more and the same amount of effort applies to the real world as it does here.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Quite a lot of the ladies profiles insist on a face photo with a message. A lot of them read the message, but don’t view or reply... I can only assume they are looking for ‘models’... "

Nobody insists that anyone sends them a message with a facepic. If you aren't happy then don't send it.

Also you're assuming because they don't want to have sex with you, then they must want models. That's clearly nonsense. Fancying someone is not the same as looking like a model. People are allowed to fancy people or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same question can be asked about some of the men

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Looking at your profile.. Id say the pics are your problem. It's not about being a model, it's about having decent pics with good flatteeing angles and lighting. Ballbag shots aren't the most popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi first time posting. Is it me or are the ladys on this looking for models"

It’s been said loads of times Jimbo, pics of your cock or your ballsack, simply doesn’t cut the mustard on here. That and three lines to say you are an average bloke and likes boots. You’ve got to write a few paragraphs about yourself. Having said that, I’ve nearly a book written on mine and some say it’s like reading a novel but just add a little more about you and what makes you different from the other five million, six hundred and eighty four men here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone said, don't send face pic unless your comfortable and have built trust first. If a meet is then turned down politely then appreciate the honesty and move on without taking it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite a lot of the ladies profiles insist on a face photo with a message. A lot of them read the message, but don’t view or reply... I can only assume they are looking for ‘models’...

Nobody insists that anyone sends them a message with a facepic. If you aren't happy then don't send it.

Also you're assuming because they don't want to have sex with you, then they must want models. That's clearly nonsense. Fancying someone is not the same as looking like a model. People are allowed to fancy people or not. "

I thought the smiley face might have indicated a touch of sarcasm... I probably should have mentioned a lot of these profiles seem to disappear not long afterwards... so who knows what they really wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As that's desperate to hear sure I am in the same situation I have a face only a Mother could love. They keep deleting my unsolicited face and fanny pictures. They obviously only want to fuck the models here

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"As that's desperate to hear sure I am in the same situation I have a face only a Mother could love. They keep deleting my unsolicited face and fanny pictures. They obviously only want to fuck the models here "

Try being me....I've a head like a bull dog licking piss off a nettle

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By *eaAndBenCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

I wouldn't know anything about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all "

100 % (thank God )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do have to fancy you tho. Men don't have to fancy the women on here to f##k tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi first time posting. Is it me or are the ladys on this looking for models"

Fortunately, the ladies of Fab have Kaizer to behold

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia


"Be definition most people are average looking "

Depends if you're using the mean, mode or median..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi first time posting. Is it me or are the ladys on this looking for models"

I know what you mean hun lol no offense intended to anyone but when you read some of the profiles you'd think they were the queen or something lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all

100 % (thank God )"

Definitely agree. I mean you can look like Siena Miller but have the personality of Ted Bundy's shit lol sorry I know I have a way of putting things lol

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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area

I don't think that's the case OP. Each to their own. Thats everyone's perogative.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all

100 % (thank God )

Definitely agree. I mean you can look like Siena Miller but have the personality of Ted Bundy's shit lol sorry I know I have a way of putting things lol "

Jesus I'd hate to meet whoever she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all

100 % (thank God )

Definitely agree. I mean you can look like Siena Miller but have the personality of Ted Bundy's shit lol sorry I know I have a way of putting things lol

Jesus I'd hate to meet whoever she is "

Hahaha yeah me too

I meant I think a personality attraction is more important than a physical attraction lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all

100 % (thank God )

Definitely agree. I mean you can look like Siena Miller but have the personality of Ted Bundy's shit lol sorry I know I have a way of putting things lol

Jesus I'd hate to meet whoever she is

Hahaha yeah me too

I meant I think a personality attraction is more important than a physical attraction lol "

Agreed and thats possibly why it's so hard for some people at the moment

It can be hard to get a personality out just from typing messages but a photo is right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds hugely attractive would turn someone else totally off. That’s beauty of it all

100 % (thank God )

Definitely agree. I mean you can look like Siena Miller but have the personality of Ted Bundy's shit lol sorry I know I have a way of putting things lol

Jesus I'd hate to meet whoever she is

Hahaha yeah me too

I meant I think a personality attraction is more important than a physical attraction lol

Agreed and thats possibly why it's so hard for some people at the moment

It can be hard to get a personality out just from typing messages but a photo is right there "

Hahaha that's true. Gotta find a way to have a "intellectual" conversation lol

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Im looking for tom hardy or henry cavill. I wonder if they are on here incognito that would actually be heavenly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking for tom hardy or henry cavill. I wonder if they are on here incognito that would actually be heavenly.

"

I'm not interested in single men but in there case I'd make an exception

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Im looking for tom hardy or henry cavill. I wonder if they are on here incognito that would actually be heavenly.

I'm not interested in single men but in there case I'd make an exception "

lol darn straight. yum yum

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

I would like to meet someone who has an attractive personality.

Even if Brad Pitt were in front of me,if he were an ass I would say no.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Going by your post from 7 hours ago,OP I would say this is a shit stirring post.

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo

Manners and a smile goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to meet someone who has an attractive personality.

Even if Brad Pitt were in front of me,if he were an ass I would say no.

"

Yeah that's what I mean lol

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By *ambiandThumperCouple
over a year ago

up near the top


"Same question can be asked about some of the men "

Dotty you won’t have that problem. Gorgeous

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By *uriousBrowserMan
over a year ago

Newry

As a wheelchair user I’m really struggling here, and yes I suppose I can understand women’s apprehensions thinking perhaps I can’t have sex or I’m going to be more bother than its worth, but all I’m looking is a chance. I thought and hoping honestly would be the best policy even if it did hinder my chances. Meet up for a drink/coffee first see if we click and take things from there, but I can’t even get off the start line. Any advice people please feel free to message me I’d be very grateful.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"As a wheelchair user I’m really struggling here, and yes I suppose I can understand women’s apprehensions thinking perhaps I can’t have sex or I’m going to be more bother than its worth, but all I’m looking is a chance. I thought and hoping honestly would be the best policy even if it did hinder my chances. Meet up for a drink/coffee first see if we click and take things from there, but I can’t even get off the start line. Any advice people please feel free to message me I’d be very grateful. "

Just to make some points and maybe help you

First of all there was a couple of recent threads in the uk forum about something similar

One from a female wheelchair user and one from a guy with an artificial leg...they might be worth looking at for help with your situation

I know a couple of the fears from people were as follows

Is it possible to have full sex.

Are you afraid of people just trying to fuck a wheelchair user as a bucket list ....would you care

If you want to sleep with someone do you need to be in a wheelchair friendly location but you can't accommodate so what happens

Not trying to be rude or offensive but I know the people that started the threads in the uk forum appreciated people being honest

Good luck with your quest

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By *haggy_bearMan
over a year ago

Sligo

I wouldn't mind a nice swimwear model

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Going by your post from 7 hours ago,OP I would say this is a shit stirring post."

what did you say

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Yes I no they but I am Wat I am??"

Everybody is what they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye they definitely are and you must have a six pack to

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

I'm an average Joe, the women here are like those in real life, you have to be capable of seducing a ladies mind, the body will follow.

This is like a virtual Night Club, you wouldnt walk up to a lady in a night club with your cock out so dont send cock pics, also your opening line has to be able to grab her attention, once you have it, make the effort to keep it.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Ye they definitely are and you must have a six pack to

"

A wee six pack of Pinot Grigio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm an average Joe, the women here are like those in real life, you have to be capable of seducing a ladies mind, the body will follow.

This is like a virtual Night Club, you wouldnt walk up to a lady in a night club with your cock out so dont send cock pics, also your opening line has to be able to grab her attention, once you have it, make the effort to keep it. "

Omg finally a guy that's gets it. Even though I said this to a guy lately and he reckons he was in a nightclub and this did happen

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I'm an average Joe, the women here are like those in real life, you have to be capable of seducing a ladies mind, the body will follow.

This is like a virtual Night Club, you wouldnt walk up to a lady in a night club with your cock out so dont send cock pics, also your opening line has to be able to grab her attention, once you have it, make the effort to keep it.

Omg finally a guy that's gets it. Even though I said this to a guy lately and he reckons he was in a nightclub and this did happen "

What he walked up to her with his cock dangling out??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The face pic usually sends them packing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm an average Joe, the women here are like those in real life, you have to be capable of seducing a ladies mind, the body will follow.

This is like a virtual Night Club, you wouldnt walk up to a lady in a night club with your cock out so dont send cock pics, also your opening line has to be able to grab her attention, once you have it, make the effort to keep it.

Omg finally a guy that's gets it. Even though I said this to a guy lately and he reckons he was in a nightclub and this did happen

What he walked up to her with his cock dangling out?? "

I said either on the forums or in a message regarding wanting to fuck someone just because I'd seen his dick, before we had chatted etc. I asked do you think women go out at night, line up the guys and say "pop your cocks out" and than decide to bring the cock they like home. Seemingly some women do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very hard to try start a conversation because it's not like pof where you have your hobbies etc on it to help

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"It's very hard to try start a conversation because it's not like pof where you have your hobbies etc on it to help"

Thats because noone needs to know your hobbies to fuck you. As long as your hobby isn't eating babies or anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very hard to try start a conversation because it's not like pof where you have your hobbies etc on it to help

Thats because noone needs to know your hobbies to fuck you. As long as your hobby isn't eating babies or anything. "

I get where you are coming from but you can't just text someone and say I want to have sex with you, most women would just delete the message

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"I'm an average Joe, the women here are like those in real life, you have to be capable of seducing a ladies mind, the body will follow.

This is like a virtual Night Club, you wouldnt walk up to a lady in a night club with your cock out so dont send cock pics, also your opening line has to be able to grab her attention, once you have it, make the effort to keep it. "

Hey..!!! Copyright infringement: I’M Average Joe...!!

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