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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what’s the first thing you look at on a profile before you decide to delete or not reply... is it height, age, pics or interests.

Mine is height at the minute, I’m a tall lady and sometimes seek a tall man

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"So what’s the first thing you look at on a profile before you decide to delete or not reply... is it height, age, pics or interests.

Mine is height at the minute, I’m a tall lady and sometimes seek a tall man "

I read the profile first you can usually get some idea about the person by the profile then interests.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what’s the first thing you look at on a profile before you decide to delete or not reply... is it height, age, pics or interests.

Mine is height at the minute, I’m a tall lady and sometimes seek a tall man

I read the profile first you can usually get some idea about the person by the profile then interests. "

I would usually be quite attentive but lately most the guys are 5 ft 6 and I’m feeling very judgmental. I try reply even if not interested...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to say that I’d be looking at any of those things you mentioned first but in truth it’s generally how long they’ve been on the site and have they been verified before I bother to look at pics or bio.

Having said that I much prefer a taller woman as the shorties sometimes give me a bad back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile then pics, what they say about themselves and how they show themselves. I find that engaging the mind makes engaging the body better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d like to say that I’d be looking at any of those things you mentioned first but in truth it’s generally how long they’ve been on the site and have they been verified before I bother to look at pics or bio.

Having said that I much prefer a taller woman as the shorties sometimes give me a bad back "

Nice profile

I’ve taken a chance on non verified... everyone has to start somewhere..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile then pics, what they say about themselves and how they show themselves. I find that engaging the mind makes engaging the body better."

Interesting and open minded .. nice qualities

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'll read the profile first before looking at pics and if they aren't consistent I'll move on. If something of interest catches my eye I'll say hello.

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By *rSlickMan
over a year ago

Dublin

It’s got to be the profile first and then the pics...profiles give out vibes and at least some semblance of personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile first, than veris if met someone who causes drama. I avoid straight away. Than pics.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm going to be honest.....I look at the pics first...check their age....then read the profile, veris etc

I'd say alot look at the pics first

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Ill look at the pics, if i like what i see then ill read the profile. More often than not i never get past the photos lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Have to be honest I have a big gra on me for nice underwear.

So thats what I look at...prefer the pics when the interesting bits are left to my imagination

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Pics/username , then profile text. If you've no pics then I'll most likely just ignore you.

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By *londy84Man
over a year ago

Knockatallan

Ass and then read if I like it

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Read the profile firstly, then interests, then pictures.

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside


"So what’s the first thing you look at on a profile before you decide to delete or not reply... is it height, age, pics or interests.

Mine is height at the minute, I’m a tall lady and sometimes seek a tall man "

Pics and whether or not I think I meet their criteria and if they meet mine , no point in wasting one another's time if we are not what one another is looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at the pics first, then read the profile and veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics and profile ( yes I do read them )...and veris.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what’s the first thing you look at on a profile before you decide to delete or not reply... is it height, age, pics or interests.

Mine is height at the minute, I’m a tall lady and sometimes seek a tall man

Pics and whether or not I think I meet their criteria and if they meet mine , no point in wasting one another's time if we are not what one another is looking for "

I like that you pay attention to their criteria.. says a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age, location, profile, verifications and pics....almost always in that order.

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By *emper-fudgeMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Most important thing for me is a pulse, gets a bit weird if they dont have that

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Seeing the thread title, I thought this is about eye wandering in public checking out ass, crotch etc...... sigh lovely memories from the past.... damn covid-19 has us left screening profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most important thing for me is a pulse, gets a bit weird if they dont have that "

A bit of choking slows that down nicely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seeing the thread title, I thought this is about eye wandering in public checking out ass, crotch etc...... sigh lovely memories from the past.... damn covid-19 has us left screening profiles.

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We could happily derail to that topic

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

1st thing we look at is location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what’s the first thing you look at on a profile before you decide to delete or not reply... is it height, age, pics or interests.

Mine is height at the minute, I’m a tall lady and sometimes seek a tall man "

1. Bio

2. Verifications

3. Pics

4. How long on site

....... You sure can tell alot about a person by the type of people they meet.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I’d usually look at photos first then filters and bio if I suit what they are looking for. Lastly would be verifications.

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By *oey4somefunMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Drogheda

Usually read their bio first then pics then veris and hope I'm in their age range of I like the profile

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Pics are always first for me

Then the bio to see what they’re looking for, that generally rules me out on a lot of profiles

Then I fab a few pics and leave

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Profile first, then pics, then veris, how long on site, etc.

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By *yeCandyDublinCouple
over a year ago

Lucan

Pics...profile ...then verifications

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Pics

Verified

Bio

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height, nobody under 5'10

Age,

Pics,

Veri's

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

Straight to the boobs

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Do they actually fuck! X lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a quick scan of the bio. That usually will tell me fairly quickly if they have something in common with me for a base to start to a conversation. Although I’ve met people with a fantastic bio and they’ve been as boring as fuck over a coffee and I’ve met women with very little on their profiles and they are just full of joys of spring. The ones with Sydney Uni, nothing on their profile and want a pic in first mail or the ones that are here months and no verifications are ones I just pass by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decrypt their photos for geotag metadata. Find their location. Hide in the bushes outside.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"So what’s the first thing you look at on a profile before you decide to delete or not reply... is it height, age, pics or interests.

Mine is height at the minute, I’m a tall lady and sometimes seek a tall man "

Not sure if this is for anyone to post but for me but 1st I have a butchers at their pics reads their profile if they have one it helps to know a bit about them rather than 'will fill in later' or something similar then if I like what they have said I chances my arm but I don't in no way to expect a reply if they do cool then on to stage 2 if not or it was read or deleted then that's fine with me too i can't be everyone's cup of tea right then I move on chance my luck with someone else rinse and repeat

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Smokers or non smokers 1st and foremost.

Then things like bi or not, body shape, soft swappers or otherwise, are they into similiar things to us or not.

No point chatting if the above isnt right. Feel like its wasting everyones time.

MsD

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

I check in the following order

If they want single guys, if they do then...

That they are verified

Smokers or not

Height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bio first see if there's any common interests

Photos second

I don't read veris

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

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Defo has to be the pics first . Your either attracted or not then its check stats age and body type then location and read profile. I wouldn't be too worried if they had no meet verifications after all some people are new or haven't found who there looking for but I would have to do phone or cam before a meet to verify.

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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area


"Bio first see if there's any common interests

Photos second

I don't read veris"

Same here, Vera's aren't as reliable as they used to be. A lot are by cam and never in person but I'm not pushed either way as most are all along the same lines. Prefer the bio, attraction and make up my own mind.

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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago

just about northside

Age usually....

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