FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

What are the signs..??

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I went on an "actual"date recently..its the first one(Non fab related) I had been on in years properly..I thought she had no interest as I got no indication she liked me so being the

fucking gentleman I am I didnt make a move.. she text me after giving out to me(banter), why didnt I kiss her etc...she said she gave loads of signals and signs.. I honestly didn't pick up on any...so what in gods name are some examples of these signs.. I also have that problem when I used go on fab meets, too awkward make the move..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

wouldn't we all want to know. when someone tells us we better take notes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like you don't know whether your coming or going davey....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain man

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smiling at you.

Making prolonged eye contact with you.

Running fingers through her hair.

Licking her lips.

Exposing her neck.

Tilting her heads towards you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

I struggle with these sorts of things too. I never know if someone is just being nice or actually flirting.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pen and paper at the ready.......

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh where's my notebook need to know this too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ueenbeetipp43Woman
over a year ago

my own world


"Smiling at you.

Making prolonged eye contact with you.

Running fingers through her hair.

Licking her lips.

Exposing her neck.

Tilting her heads towards you. "

All the above... Plus...

Touching your arm or leg, facing towards you, mimicking your body language. Taking her tits out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She took off her pants like..I wasn't sure was she just warm..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the tips.. no more signs anymore, life is too short..if I feel it I'm going for it..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Smiling at you.

Making prolonged eye contact with you.

Running fingers through her hair.

Licking her lips.

Exposing her neck.

Tilting her heads towards you. "

This kinda stuff plus

'Accidentally' or consciously touching you (not in the groin region just ie arm or hand)

Giving you a bit deeper glimpse of the cleavage

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The actions people do and what people perceive to be done, can be different entirely. Don't fret.

At least she texted you telling you how blind you are..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I'd actually take this as a good sign. You had a nice date. She was into you enough to want a kiss. She's eager to see you again. You didn't come across as pushy or just wanting sex. You are a good date

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre


"I'd actually take this as a good sign. You had a nice date. She was into you enough to want a kiss. She's eager to see you again. You didn't come across as pushy or just wanting sex. You are a good date "

And now you can get a lot more flirty from now till you hopefully meet again. Chances the clothes would be torn off you then.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd actually take this as a good sign. You had a nice date. She was into you enough to want a kiss. She's eager to see you again. You didn't come across as pushy or just wanting sex. You are a good date "

Thanks for that... I can be nice when needed..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Although I imagine vanilla dates and fab meets are a lot different.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The golden rules......the unexplained rules of dating. I think we have all been there, some more than others (ME)

Finding the middle ground between being a gentleman & being a little forward can be hard to guage sometimes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Yup I'm shite at signals unless they are in 8 ft neon lol.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey one date and he's gone. Best of luck Davy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I know he's gone now and I didn't have any interactions with him but he always came across as a decent fella and many have spoken very highly of him so good luck to him and his new adventure.

But I'd like to continue the theme of the thread if that's OK?

So, the signs?

Why is it you can tell a friend that a girl is mad about him because she's showing all the signs, but when it comes to ourselves we either miss it or can't convince ourselves that she's giving them to us?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know he's gone now and I didn't have any interactions with him but he always came across as a decent fella and many have spoken very highly of him so good luck to him and his new adventure.

But I'd like to continue the theme of the thread if that's OK?

So, the signs?

Why is it you can tell a friend that a girl is mad about him because she's showing all the signs, but when it comes to ourselves we either miss it or can't convince ourselves that she's giving them to us?"

Good idea. I haven't a clue if a guy is interested, even on coffee meets, not a notion. Had one coffee where we chatted for ages had a laugh, when I asked did he want to meet again, he said he didn't think there was a spark. So that has thrown me off any signs since.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

You know at the end of first dates and your guessing if they'll meet again....how many times do we get it wrong

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know at the end of first dates and your guessing if they'll meet again....how many times do we get it wrong "

My last first date was 1998 so I havent a clue lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"You know at the end of first dates and your guessing if they'll meet again....how many times do we get it wrong "

Yeah you have a point there actually. I only watched it once when a girl I know was on it and I was convinced she and the lad had hit it off.

Turns out NO

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top