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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Is one born kinky ?? Or does it just develop??

Knew I always was into more then just missionary and plain sex,never felt fully satisfied sexually.

Only when I came across someone who was also a kinkster,to release the minx.

So are we born kinky or does it develop with time??

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

I'm sure it developes over time as you find out what excites and turns you on more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only realised when I enjoyed it it was okay to enjoy sex and I have only started exploring the kinky side of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am actively looking to explore kinky sex with a trusted female fabber who is discrete but hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always knew I had more interest in sex than most of my friend's from a young age but I definitely think our tastes/wants develop and change with age

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I think everyone is fluid all their lives

Can I just say as one of the older gents on here the big difference for me between now and when I was in my 20's is how confident most people on here are about their sexuality and their kinks

I get blown away by it on here sometimes and wonder why Ireland seemed so vanilla in the 80's

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I knew at a pretty young age that I was more into sex and pleasure than other people I know. But I didn’t really start exploring it until I was in my 30s. I’ve been making up for lost time since then. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is one born kinky ?? Or does it just develop??

Knew I always was into more then just missionary and plain sex,never felt fully satisfied sexually.

Only when I came across someone who was also a kinkster,to release the minx.

So are we born kinky or does it develop with time?? "

99% humans are, whether they are here or not and it is a completely normal thing for thousands of years.

But some overthink and make a drama of such a simple thing... lol

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"Is one born kinky ?? Or does it just develop??

Knew I always was into more then just missionary and plain sex,never felt fully satisfied sexually.

Only when I came across someone who was also a kinkster,to release the minx.

So are we born kinky or does it develop with time??

99% humans are, whether they are here or not and it is a completely normal thing for thousands of years.

But some overthink and make a drama of such a simple thing... lol"

How do you overthink it and make a drama of being kinky ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is one born kinky ?? Or does it just develop??

Knew I always was into more then just missionary and plain sex,never felt fully satisfied sexually.

Only when I came across someone who was also a kinkster,to release the minx.

So are we born kinky or does it develop with time?? "

I think our individual kinks and fetishes come from personally developed association we develop in our formative years. I do believe though we are born with the ability and potential to embrace our sexuality fully, but our conditioning growing up can often hinder our ability to act on it.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Been highly sexed for years but kept these thoughts hidden. The night i first walked into a swingers club i felt so at home and at last knew i had found the piece of my life i had always known was missing.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Can't answer that question as it's all relatively new for me.

I certainly wasn't born kinky or explored kinks or sex in general until I turned 50

I can't even compare people's level of sexual confidence now and in the 80's as BM mentioned because it wasn't part of my life so I've nothing to compare it against.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kaizer was absolutely positively born this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is one born kinky ?? Or does it just develop??

Knew I always was into more then just missionary and plain sex,never felt fully satisfied sexually.

Only when I came across someone who was also a kinkster,to release the minx.

So are we born kinky or does it develop with time??

I think our individual kinks and fetishes come from personally developed association we develop in our formative years. I do believe though we are born with the ability and potential to embrace our sexuality fully, but our conditioning growing up can often hinder our ability to act on it."

That's my belief also.

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