FabSwingers.com forum: Nuts and bolts of dogging

By *eaAndBen OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

I’m some what curious about dogging... the logistics of it, how you choose where to go, how people are invited to join (or how those you don’t want to join are refused). Is it worth the effort? And the cold?!

There was a great pic in the uk top pix last week which got me thinking.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

It's not something I know anything about but I'd be moderately curious about it.

I often suspect that some of the experts who answer these questions are basing their answers on porn videos but I'd be curious to know if the Irish experience differs much from that.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We have asked this question quite a few times but never got a definitive answer

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Being curious about it never really pans out. Pick your spot and invite someone along!!!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Its like fight club and you know the first rule of fight club

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By *eaAndBen OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Its like fight club and you know the first rule of fight club

I’m more a lover than a fighter!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Are nuts and bolts the sequel to birds and bees?

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By *eaAndBen OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Are nuts and bolts the sequel to birds and bees?

It’s the petrol head version

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

There used to be rules and etiquette to dogging, back in the day when there were good places you could go and expect to find couples there who are playing. These days it needs to be prearranged and is just an outdoor meet. You cant just turn up and expect to find it.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"There used to be rules and etiquette to dogging, back in the day when there were good places you could go and expect to find couples there who are playing. These days it needs to be prearranged and is just an outdoor meet. You cant just turn up and expect to find it. "

I know at least 4 places in Dublin where you can just drive up any night of the week and find it

Its probably different to the rest of the country in fairness

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By *olm_irishMan
over a year ago

Clonee

I visited one of these spots and yes there was cars there BUT all Lads! Got out of there before I got a cock on the back of the head

You need to arrange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its like fight club and you know the first rule of fight club

Nothing below the belt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a very knowledgeable and interesting person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m some what curious about dogging... the logistics of it, how you choose where to go, how people are invited to join (or how those you don’t want to join are refused). Is it worth the effort? And the cold?!

There was a great pic in the uk top pix last week which got me thinking."

We either just go to one of the popular spots and watch what is happening. When comfortable with the "attendees" we just start playing and go with the flow. Sometimes we invite someone. That's just it. There is no major logistics or procedures about.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I visited one of these spots and yes there was cars there BUT all Lads! Got out of there before I got a cock on the back of the head

You need to arrange

Jasus you'd need eyes in the back of your head

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Its like fight club and you know the first rule of fight club

Nothing below the belt

No its don't post any info about dogging spots on fab

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I visited one of these spots and yes there was cars there BUT all Lads! Got out of there before I got a cock on the back of the head

You need to arrange

Jasus you'd need eyes in the back of your head "

Then he'd be cockeyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a great pic in the uk top pix last week which got me thinking."

The more you think, the higher is the probability that you won't do it... Be spontaneous and " may adventures be with you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,am up for dogging any ladies want to invite me message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep an eye open on C4 tonight...documentary on this subject

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Keep an eye open on C4 tonight...documentary on this subject"

Is it the "dogging tales" one come around again of is there a new one?

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

"Keep an eye open on C4 tonight...documentary on this subject

Is it the "dogging tales" one come around again of is there a new one? "

It looks like the same old Dogging Tales

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By *unonmyface69Couple
over a year ago

Town

So where are these guaranteed spots?! Pm please if you know

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By *ew directionsCouple
over a year ago

City

Dogging has changed over the past number of years, all prearranged now for us, back in the day the regular spots were safer and guys weren't as pushy, but that's just our opinion

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By *rishguy3217Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny / Dublin

Couple of well known popular places. Best to pre arranged to avoid unwanted attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it simple. Each day/week that you are free to do it, just message privately a very few people who are interested in doing it... To not arrange too much... Otherwise it will never happen...

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By *ollingStonesCouple
over a year ago

Newry

Pre arranged is best and safest.

But the there is a great buzz to a random encounter in a public area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask the 2 couples who are doggors in the Southeast they will tell ya how it works. One couple in Cork in particular would deffo tell you the ins an outs of it. Just my little notes too yas. Personally not my game too awkward no comfort an constantly watching for unwanted attention fuk that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No..the original one..part of their best documentary series

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre-arranged is a must I think. Any other way and any kind of butter might turn up and cause trouble. Basic rules regarding etiquette and hygiene need to be set down as well which wouldnt be the case with a spontaneous arrangement

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By *jallMan
over a year ago

Cork/Sligo

"Its like fight club and you know the first rule of fight club

Nothing below the belt

No its don't post any info about dogging spots on fab

And the Second rule of Fight Club?

Do Not talk about FightClub!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean about guys being pushy? If you keep doors closed what can they do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you mean about guys being pushy? If you keep doors closed what can they do?"

Same thing they do on fab:

Keep knocking on a window while waving their knobs in front of your face saying something along the lines "c'mon luv you know you want it"

Then after repeated rejection come up with a line "you're a fucking slag anyway" just before they walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I didnt know that

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"What do you mean about guys being pushy? If you keep doors closed what can they do?

Same thing they do on fab:

Keep knocking on a window while waving their knobs in front of your face saying something along the lines "c'mon luv you know you want it"

Then after repeated rejection come up with a line "you're a fucking slag anyway" just before they walk away

Or even knocking their knobs on the windows and then walking away thinking why is the bitch frigid

Everytime Dogging is mentioned on here even when the couple are only looking for other couples....there's at least one or 2 men that ask to meet even though it says no men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has me thinking now

Anywhere in Cork lol

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By *olm_irishMan
over a year ago

Clonee

"I visited one of these spots and yes there was cars there BUT all Lads! Got out of there before I got a cock on the back of the head

You need to arrange

Jasus you'd need eyes in the back of your head

Then he'd be cockeyed"

Boom boom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly off point but has anyone seen white gold on Netflix when they go dogging very funny

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By *hiteKniteMan
over a year ago

Nearby

I go dogging regularly in Dublin. It is a bit hit and miss but the thrill of a random encounter is always worth the wait.

I think pre-arranged takes a lot of the thrill out of it, it does for me anyway.

If anyone wants to know more about what works for me, feel free to pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Slightly off point but has anyone seen white gold on Netflix when they go dogging very funny

I did lol, defo funny! There was a programme on C4 last night called Dogging Tales....folks who participated took it very seriously but all I could do was giggle

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By *exycouple2019Couple
over a year ago

cork & dublin

"Slightly off point but has anyone seen white gold on Netflix when they go dogging very funny

I did lol, defo funny! There was a programme on C4 last night called Dogging Tales....folks who participated took it very seriously but all I could do was giggle

Lynx & Joop...

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Slightly off point but has anyone seen white gold on Netflix when they go dogging very funny

I did lol, defo funny! There was a programme on C4 last night called Dogging Tales....folks who participated took it very seriously but all I could do was giggle

Lynx & Joop... "

Hahaha you got it lol!! Plus he sprayed on the outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly off point but has anyone seen white gold on Netflix when they go dogging very funny

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is that this https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/tv/tv-news/dark-side-dogging-disgusting-abuse-22209048.amp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for general public / social approval = just stopped living your unique precious life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly off point but has anyone seen white gold on Netflix when they go dogging very funny

is that this https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/tv/tv-news/dark-side-dogging-disgusting-abuse-22209048.amp"

Conclusion:

" Never meet Suzie, unless ye enjoy queueing on the STI clinic "

Fck that...

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

"What do you mean about guys being pushy? If you keep doors closed what can they do?

Same thing they do on fab:

Keep knocking on a window while waving their knobs in front of your face saying something along the lines "c'mon luv you know you want it"

Then after repeated rejection come up with a line "you're a fucking slag anyway" just before they walk away

Or how about the gobshites who drive around in circles blasting cars with their full beams

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By *ataneMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I used to go dogging before anybody really went to places that later on became very well known . I am bi and went with another bi guy - we both played straight unless a couple wanted more and asked . In those days we had a marvellous time and all the men were so respectful and it was great fun . Then little by little ‘ boy racers ‘ arrived with beaming headlights and many single men became pushy and aggressive . It really became ugly . We stopped going and my friend moved to the States . I haven’t been in about 7 years but would love to go again if I could find something like we had then - non pushy , no pressure , no aggression and some incredible sex with a nice rhythm . If anyone knows anything that might interest me you might let me know privately . Have safe fun and enjoy . L

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Dogging, where you get out your nuts and bolt if the cops arrive

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By *addubMan
over a year ago

dublin. 12

Any couple who wants to play at any dogging spot makes there own rules be it just putting on a show or inviting others to join in the fun I have never met anyone who is pushy towards a couple and if I did I would put them straight on the do,s & dog what is allowed what the couple want. as well as that other genuine doggers would do the same as it spoils the fun for everyone if someone gets to pushy. Common sense to explain it to those idiots.

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