FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

Verifications matter

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you meet someone who has been verified by somebody that you dont like

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

yes, because I'm not an asshole who judges people before I meet them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to take everyone on their own merits and verifications with a large pinch of salt.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Would you meet someone who has been verified by somebody that you dont like "

It would be off putting and it would depend on the type of veri but moreso on the person themselves.

If you are attracted to them and are getting on well I would base your decision on that rather than on who they may have met in the past.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

.....

To some degree verifications are pointless because there is no such thing as a bad veri when the we have full control over showing them or not. Sure it helps if people have some from a few other well verified people but that only means they aren't fake profiles and little more.

Our two worst social meets were with people who's photos and verification comments were a million miles from the people we were faced with. No doubt people thought the same about you when seeing the state of us in person

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To some degree verifications are pointless because there is no such thing as a bad veri when the we have full control over showing them or not. Sure it helps if people have some from a few other well verified people but that only means they aren't fake profiles and little more.

Our two worst social meets were with people who's photos and verification comments were a million miles from the people we were faced with. No doubt people thought the same about you when seeing the state of us in person "

The Great Fab Cross Reference Chart

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes, because I'm not an asshole who judges people before I meet them "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

.....


"To some degree verifications are pointless because there is no such thing as a bad veri when the we have full control over showing them or not. Sure it helps if people have some from a few other well verified people but that only means they aren't fake profiles and little more.

Our two worst social meets were with people who's photos and verification comments were a million miles from the people we were faced with. No doubt people thought the same about you when seeing the state of us in person "

Ugh. Excuse the typo.

"No doubt people thought the same about us when seeing us in person"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's more about I know some profiles give out verifications without meeting and amp up things. So if I see someone verified by them I am a bit worried.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

.....


"It's more about I know some profiles give out verifications without meeting and amp up things. So if I see someone verified by them I am a bit worried."

I'll never see the point in doing that. It's dangerous. Twice been offered money for verifications but in fairness to the mods they deleted both profiles when I reported them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'll never see the point in doing that. It's dangerous. Twice been offered money for verifications but in fairness to the mods they deleted both profiles when I reported them"

Whoa whoa whoa - let's be clear! I offered you guys money to buy your dirty socks! That's IT!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

.....


"

I'll never see the point in doing that. It's dangerous. Twice been offered money for verifications but in fairness to the mods they deleted both profiles when I reported them

Whoa whoa whoa - let's be clear! I offered you guys money to buy your dirty socks! That's IT! "

Funny you should say that. Mrs was offered €80 for socks this week. Whatever floats your boat like

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Would you meet someone who has been verified by somebody that you dont like "
in what way do you mean dont like?

It wouldnt bother me if they had been with a dickhead or creep but if it was someone I consider very unattractive then yes it would put me off them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like people that give fake verifications or would play unsafe even

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

I hope verifications are not purely the reason people would arrange a meet,I would rather go on my gut and meet the person plus I can hardly talk I’ve 1 lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To some degree verifications are pointless because there is no such thing as a bad veri when the we have full control over showing them or not. Sure it helps if people have some from a few other well verified people but that only means they aren't fake profiles and little more.

Our two worst social meets were with people who's photos and verification comments were a million miles from the people we were faced with. No doubt people thought the same about you when seeing the state of us in person "

Although it would be ignorant to judge someone by who they meet, when you've encountered the clique, you may think you're meeting Jesus the way that they verify each other here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

[Removed by poster at 07/06/20 11:04:41]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

My meet decisions aren't based on kindergarten stuff, so it wouldn't deter me. Exception is when there's a clear bareback indicator.

As for fake veris, if someone has some decent and proper meet veris I wouldn't be too much concerned about the odd one out.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"To some degree verifications are pointless because there is no such thing as a bad veri when the we have full control over showing them or not. Sure it helps if people have some from a few other well verified people but that only means they aren't fake profiles and little more.

Our two worst social meets were with people who's photos and verification comments were a million miles from the people we were faced with. No doubt people thought the same about you when seeing the state of us in person

Although it would be ignorant to judge someone by who they meet, when you've encountered the clique, you may think you're meeting Jesus the way that they verify each other here. "
which clique are you talking about?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As bad as I may sound yes absolutely. There were guys I was also warned against for beating women etc. If I see a guy that I am interested in, but see pictures or verifications that indicate there was a bareback play, would be an instant no.

I don't think am gods gift to man but after all we can choose, although by some of my verifications you would think that.

Also another off putting is when you see over 5 if not more verifications from same profile, what's the point in that?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

.....


"To some degree verifications are pointless because there is no such thing as a bad veri when the we have full control over showing them or not. Sure it helps if people have some from a few other well verified people but that only means they aren't fake profiles and little more.

Our two worst social meets were with people who's photos and verification comments were a million miles from the people we were faced with. No doubt people thought the same about you when seeing the state of us in person

Although it would be ignorant to judge someone by who they meet, when you've encountered the clique, you may think you're meeting Jesus the way that they verify each other here. "

And like Jesus he/she was gone. I may be ignorant but that's up to the people I've met to decide. I prefer not to hold or give out any opinion of myself

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"As bad as I may sound yes absolutely. There were guys I was also warned against for beating women etc. If I see a guy that I am interested in, but see pictures or verifications that indicate there was a bareback play, would be an instant no.

I don't think am gods gift to man but after all we can choose, although by some of my verifications you would think that.

Also another off putting is when you see over 5 if not more verifications from same profile, what's the point in that? "

Good to see that men who beat women are spotted and the information shared to other women

I'd never even think of something like that as a man and I presume they get reported and blocked

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had men haunt me looking for a coffee or to play with the main objective to get a verify. Absolutely no interest in me as a person but as one fella said it would look good for his reputation if he met me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had men haunt me looking for a coffee or to play with the main objective to get a verify. Absolutely no interest in me as a person but as one fella said it would look good for his reputation if he met me. "

This puts me off meeting new people here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications meet nothing to me. If I see a bareback pic, yes that would put me off straight away but verifications are useless. If I seem to have a bit of craic with someone through mailing, I’d meet them for a coffee and go from there. You never see a bad verification on someone’s profile and the amount of people who are on the site one day or a few hours and are verified is unreal. Granted, people leave and come back and previous meets verify them. Also, why would you meet someone based on other people’s perception of them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Ive had people message looking to chat with the intention of meeting if the profile dosent appeal to me regardless of who vetfies them its always a no...some will message back "eh do you not see who has verfied me"in there minds its someone who they believe to be very popular on here....not changing my mind sorry they reply well then there's something wrong with you.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"

I'll never see the point in doing that. It's dangerous. Twice been offered money for verifications but in fairness to the mods they deleted both profiles when I reported them

Whoa whoa whoa - let's be clear! I offered you guys money to buy your dirty socks! That's IT!

Funny you should say that. Mrs was offered €80 for socks this week. Whatever floats your boat like"

Darn and I just got a huge container of panties .... its socks now

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'll never see the point in doing that. It's dangerous. Twice been offered money for verifications but in fairness to the mods they deleted both profiles when I reported them

Whoa whoa whoa - let's be clear! I offered you guys money to buy your dirty socks! That's IT!

Funny you should say that. Mrs was offered €80 for socks this week. Whatever floats your boat like

Darn and I just got a huge container of panties .... its socks now "

Wonder is it the same fella who offered me €100 for the sweaty thong I wore down the bog

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"

I'll never see the point in doing that. It's dangerous. Twice been offered money for verifications but in fairness to the mods they deleted both profiles when I reported them

Whoa whoa whoa - let's be clear! I offered you guys money to buy your dirty socks! That's IT!

Funny you should say that. Mrs was offered €80 for socks this week. Whatever floats your boat like

Darn and I just got a huge container of panties .... its socks now

Wonder is it the same fella who offered me €100 for the sweaty thong I wore down the bog "

Probably... imagine perverts on a swinger site

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'll never see the point in doing that. It's dangerous. Twice been offered money for verifications but in fairness to the mods they deleted both profiles when I reported them

Whoa whoa whoa - let's be clear! I offered you guys money to buy your dirty socks! That's IT!

Funny you should say that. Mrs was offered €80 for socks this week. Whatever floats your boat like

Darn and I just got a huge container of panties .... its socks now

Wonder is it the same fella who offered me €100 for the sweaty thong I wore down the bog "

€110 offered if it comes with a fertiliser bag of the black stuff

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


"Would you meet someone who has been verified by somebody that you dont like in what way do you mean dont like?

It wouldnt bother me if they had been with a dickhead or creep but if it was someone I consider very unattractive then yes it would put me off them."

You called me ???..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'll never see the point in doing that. It's dangerous. Twice been offered money for verifications but in fairness to the mods they deleted both profiles when I reported them

Whoa whoa whoa - let's be clear! I offered you guys money to buy your dirty socks! That's IT!

Funny you should say that. Mrs was offered €80 for socks this week. Whatever floats your boat like

Darn and I just got a huge container of panties .... its socks now

Wonder is it the same fella who offered me €100 for the sweaty thong I wore down the bog

€110 offered if it comes with a fertiliser bag of the black stuff"

Haha you get three fertiliser bags of Turf and the thong for that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Would you meet someone who has been verified by somebody that you dont like in what way do you mean dont like?

It wouldnt bother me if they had been with a dickhead or creep but if it was someone I consider very unattractive then yes it would put me off them.

You called me ???.. "
haha brilliant, far from a dickhead in fairness.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

.....


"

I'll never see the point in doing that. It's dangerous. Twice been offered money for verifications but in fairness to the mods they deleted both profiles when I reported them

Whoa whoa whoa - let's be clear! I offered you guys money to buy your dirty socks! That's IT!

Funny you should say that. Mrs was offered €80 for socks this week. Whatever floats your boat like

Darn and I just got a huge container of panties .... its socks now "

Gotta move with the times Cosmo says the next big thing will be insoles

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"I've had men haunt me looking for a coffee or to play with the main objective to get a verify. Absolutely no interest in me as a person but as one fella said it would look good for his reputation if he met me. "

I'd feckin meet or play with you anytime ya want....and I dont want or need a verification....I would however have a fairly big smile....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know I've my fab wrappers still on need one first

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"Would you meet someone who has been verified by somebody that you dont like "

There are lots of people I dont like...sometimes I'm even annoyed with myself....so I def would meet someone who has been verified by someone I dodnt like...and I'd make my own decision

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the point of being verified should be to show your reliable and are genuine (and not too crazy)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ireannCplCouple
over a year ago

Suburbs

Yes we agree the reason we like people to be "meet verified" is to show that they have physically met someone as opposed to just going on cam. On the other hand if the verifications are with people we have not cliqued with or someone we don't feel there'd be an attraction with then we won't meet that person. This has been our experience to date and hasn't been wrong.. yet anyway..lol

EireCpl

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As bad as I may sound yes absolutely. There were guys I was also warned against for beating women etc. If I see a guy that I am interested in, but see pictures or verifications that indicate there was a bareback play, would be an instant no.

I don't think am gods gift to man but after all we can choose, although by some of my verifications you would think that.

Also another off putting is when you see over 5 if not more verifications from same profile, what's the point in that? "

More than one verification can mean the person is deemed genuine and worthy meeting again. And also turns up when arranged. There are different types of verifications also.....social-meet or meet-meet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been trying my hardest the last while but it was just impossible over lockdown and anyone I chatted too did want to cam either.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo not, the type of people a potential meet acquaints themselves with speaks volumes...

I was so close to meeting a guy before, until he met a certain female, I lost total interest because of who he associated himself with (very low standards)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Defo not, the type of people a potential meet acquaints themselves with speaks volumes...

I was so close to meeting a guy before, until he met a certain female, I lost total interest because of who he associated himself with (very low standards)"

That can also be a good reason

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought being a paid member .. Photo verified ... Having my own place ... Would have made a difference ..but nope .. I highly doubt if i got verified it woulc make much difference either ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Would you meet someone who has been verified by somebody that you dont like "

It would kinda depend on who they are like if it's somone that's literally down the road from you might be worth a miss save any aggro but if they are miles away from you then I don't see why it would be an issue it's not like your gunna talk about them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top