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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A genuine person on here?

What in your opinion makes a person genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its about being yourself and being honest - its hard to tell sometimes - and lots of people seem to assume anyone who cancels a meet (or doesn't want to meet them) is not genuine.

Most people are genuine - just some are genuine wankers, genuine liars etc etc.

Some people are pretending to be something they are not - they are the disingenuous ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone on here is genuine,some are genuinely good people and some are genuine assholes

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

have to agree.

just because you met and fuck, doesnt make you genuine.

we have met people that are as false as the eyelashes they glue to their heads.

because it is mostly HE on the account, i pride myself in NOT pretending to be her.

the amount of times i have been mistaken for and set people straight, and suprise suprise, messages stop because of it, makes you realsie how many people are just on here for quick jollies.

genuine people are those that act the same around you, when you meet, as they do around each other any other time.

i would say we are genuine, or at least i am, because i refuse to act differently for different people, whether on here, at work, in meetings or wherever.

i am who, and what, i am. if thats a gobshite then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have to agree.

just because you met and fuck, doesnt make you genuine.

we have met people that are as false as the eyelashes they glue to their heads.

because it is mostly HE on the account, i pride myself in NOT pretending to be her.

the amount of times i have been mistaken for and set people straight, and suprise suprise, messages stop because of it, makes you realsie how many people are just on here for quick jollies.

genuine people are those that act the same around you, when you meet, as they do around each other any other time.

i would say we are genuine, or at least i am, because i refuse to act differently for different people, whether on here, at work, in meetings or wherever.

i am who, and what, i am. if thats a gobshite then so be it."

Usee xx

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

genuine on a swing site surely means nothing more that what they calim as a swinger!!! the people we are here is not the people we are in real life, be very hard to be that same person i do see where ur coming from but if ur the same on here and at sex meets as u are in real world then everone would know ur a swinger, none of my friend or family do bit that doesnt make me none gunuine, i am all i say on my profile, that make me genuine for here, lets face it i dont want all the people i have met and chat to here to be part of my real life so is that disingenuious i think no, be for me impossible to be the same person all the time, and i genuinelt mean that

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

you dont have to show people you are a swinger to be the same person here and in the real world, as it were.

ateotd, you wouldnt shag anything with a pulse on here, and so its the same on the outside.

yet you can be a natural flirt and its just that, words n stuff.

dont have to be out and out sex maniac to be the same lol.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

then what is genuine???? on a swinger site surely it only pertains to being a genuine swinger and as i said genuine as per profile, if the word genuine is to mean same here as there cant be donen simples surely lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine to me in the context of a swingers site is..

1 they are what they state in their profile, woman, man, couple etc.

2 they are here to meet people and not to collect pics and fuck with peoples heads.

3 they will meet when they say they will, and will give plenty of notice if can't

4 they are open minded and non judgemental..

My 2c worth

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuine to me in the context of a swingers site is..

1 they are what they state in their profile, woman, man, couple etc.

2 they are here to meet people and not to collect pics and fuck with peoples heads.

3 they will meet when they say they will, and will give plenty of notice if can't

4 they are open minded and non judgemental..

My 2c worth

Dave

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Genuine to me in the context of a swingers site is..

1 they are what they state in their profile, woman, man, couple etc.

2 they are here to meet people and not to collect pics and fuck with peoples heads.

3 they will meet when they say they will, and will give plenty of notice if can't

4 they are open minded and non judgemental..

My 2c worth

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you just defined it , a timewaster is just A TIMEWASTER lol !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not exactly what i was talking about some good points made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not exactly what i was talking about some good points made

"

What were you talking about then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not exactly what i was talking about some good points made

What were you talking about then?? "

was wonderin that myself some ppl do talk in riddles lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me? Riddles? Never lol

And i mean cheaters on here

Are they classed as genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cheaters aren't genuine they are liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well everyone has their own reason for been here so to put people in catagorys is narrow mined. If people were catagorised here you'd find an equal number of men and woman in all the boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well everyone has their own reason for been here so to put people in catagorys is narrow mined. If people were catagorised here you'd find an equal number of men and woman in all the boxes.

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I would absolutely normally agree with putting people in catagories BUT when it comes to cheating there's no black and white area regardless of the reasons for doing it your still lying and if your lying you can't be genuine even if your being honest with those you swing with. Swinging is about NSA in my experience cheaters come with of strings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree

Their website that cater for such people and fab isn't one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No cheaters aren't genuine they are liars "

defs agree with you here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't stop so called 'genuine' people meeting with so called 'cheaters' .

How can someone say there genuine when their maybe meeting with someone that they consider a cheater??

It's a grey area guys, whatever tickles your fancy!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh i thiink i touched a nerve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't stop so called 'genuine' people meeting with so called 'cheaters' .

How can someone say there genuine when their maybe meeting with someone that they consider a cheater??

It's a grey area guys, whatever tickles your fancy!!!"

Huh?? I don't think anyone was tickling anyone's fancy on this thread?? We're merely discussing if cheaters are genuine swingers I believe they aren't as they are lying (even if it's only to their own partners) and above anything else most "genuine" swingers believe in honesty as if there's not honesty and trust it's very difficult to swing NSA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh i thiink i touched a nerve "

Ya can touch my nerve if ya like I won't get mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touched no nerve with me, I'm just punching in the time on a quite day in work. I like a good discussion/debate to keep the mind ticking.

But it would be a quite site if all the attached patrons playing alone were to leave. ))))

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

people that talk shoite of what they will do can do going to do the disappear like ninja when the offer is given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Touched no nerve with me, I'm just punching in the time on a quite day in work. I like a good discussion/debate to keep the mind ticking.

But it would be a quite site if all the attached patrons playing alone were to leave. ))))"

am sure they know were the door is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people that talk shoite of what they will do can do going to do the disappear like ninja when the offer is given "

too right doll u tell them lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh someone thinks world revolves them lol

And lovnit plenty are all talk no action on here but there are plenty of unattached genuine respectful guys who know what nsa means who are all talk and plenty of action

Usee i'll touch more then your nerves

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