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 ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
"I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious. | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious."But you are in a relationship so a it's easier to define the FB or fwb relationship. | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious.
But you are in a relationship so a it's easier to define the
FB or fwb relationship.
"I'm referring to when I wasn't, any more than two meets and the men start getting clingy. | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious.
But you are in a relationship so a it's easier to define the
FB or fwb relationship.
I'm referring to when I wasn't, any more than two meets and the men start getting clingy. "Down with that stuff | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious.
But you are in a relationship so a it's easier to define the
FB or fwb relationship.
I'm referring to when I wasn't, any more than two meets and the men start getting clingy.
Down with that stuff"Absofuckinglutely  | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious."I guess it differs from person to person but we prefer to have regulars than different people. We've both met them more than 3 times and we've never had any issues or dependancy form. At the end of the day it is sex, it's up to the people involved that if feelings are starting to develop the either pursue it or they don't. I (Mr) ended one fwbs arrangement, she said she was developing feelings and it was becoming more than just sex. It has never gotten messy though and we're very clear from the start about boundaries etc | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious.
I guess it differs from person to person but we prefer to have regulars than different people. We've both met them more than 3 times and we've never had any issues or dependancy form. At the end of the day it is sex, it's up to the people involved that if feelings are starting to develop the either pursue it or they don't.
I (Mr) ended one fwbs arrangement, she said she was developing feelings and it was becoming more than just sex. It has never gotten messy though and we're very clear from the start about boundaries etc"It's also a boredom issue tbh | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious.
But you are in a relationship so a it's easier to define the
FB or fwb relationship.
"But mentally that's not a relationship to me. I lose interest in anything that doesn't feel like its beneficial long term so I guess that's part of it too. I don't think I'm capable of having a FB/FWBs. I assume many people are like this. | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious.
But you are in a relationship so a it's easier to define the
FB or fwb relationship.
But mentally that's not a relationship to me. I lose interest in anything that doesn't feel like its beneficial long term so I guess that's part of it too. I don't think I'm capable of having a FB/FWBs. I assume many people are like this."I agree, if I liked the person that much, I would pursue a relationship with them,otherwise, once the initial kick is gone, why bother? | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious.
I guess it differs from person to person but we prefer to have regulars than different people. We've both met them more than 3 times and we've never had any issues or dependancy form. At the end of the day it is sex, it's up to the people involved that if feelings are starting to develop the either pursue it or they don't.
I (Mr) ended one fwbs arrangement, she said she was developing feelings and it was becoming more than just sex. It has never gotten messy though and we're very clear from the start about boundaries etc
It's also a boredom issue tbh "It is, returning once feels like an effort  . So weird because I'm extremely loyal and never cheated but struggle to have sex with the same person twice. | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious.
I guess it differs from person to person but we prefer to have regulars than different people. We've both met them more than 3 times and we've never had any issues or dependancy form. At the end of the day it is sex, it's up to the people involved that if feelings are starting to develop the either pursue it or they don't.
I (Mr) ended one fwbs arrangement, she said she was developing feelings and it was becoming more than just sex. It has never gotten messy though and we're very clear from the start about boundaries etc
It's also a boredom issue tbh "Haha well that's their fault, boredom after 3 times? They're not keeping it interesting  | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious.
I guess it differs from person to person but we prefer to have regulars than different people. We've both met them more than 3 times and we've never had any issues or dependancy form. At the end of the day it is sex, it's up to the people involved that if feelings are starting to develop the either pursue it or they don't.
I (Mr) ended one fwbs arrangement, she said she was developing feelings and it was becoming more than just sex. It has never gotten messy though and we're very clear from the start about boundaries etc
It's also a boredom issue tbh
Haha well that's their fault, boredom after 3 times? They're not keeping it interesting "Nah, I'll just be moving on to the next one despite their efforts | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious."If something is good, doghunter goes and gets more. It's the quality of sex nothing to do with 'being into them'.  | |||
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"Ther are plenty of horny women out there who are looking for a regular f-buddy. Quite a lot of them are happily married, or in committed relationships,and are just looking for a bit of extra sex to spice up their lives. 1- You definitely should have a car, for doing booty calls in rural areas, and collecting d*unk and horny women from bar's and nite clubs and even their fellas place when he's sick n tired of listening to her drama and doesn't feel like sex. 2- Having your own Gaff is essential. The bedroom and bathroom should be reasonably clean. 3- You need to be able to do what her husband or partner can't, ie have very good stamina in the sack and really know your way around a woman's body. If she has a memorable experience, she will be back for more. "4- personality | |||
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"Ther are plenty of horny women out there who are looking for a regular f-buddy. Quite a lot of them are happily married, or in committed relationships,and are just looking for a bit of extra sex to spice up their lives. 1- You definitely should have a car, for doing booty calls in rural areas, and collecting d*unk and horny women from bar's and nite clubs and even their fellas place when he's sick n tired of listening to her drama and doesn't feel like sex. 2- Having your own Gaff is essential. The bedroom and bathroom should be reasonably clean. 3- You need to be able to do what her husband or partner can't, ie have very good stamina in the sack and really know your way around a woman's body. If she has a memorable experience, she will be back for more.
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious.
If something is good, doghunter goes and gets more. It's the quality of sex nothing to do with 'being into them'. "It's just sex, without being "into them" I will quickly get bored and their personality will get tedious to me, especially if they get clingy or have expectations of me being "on call" | |||
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"Ther are plenty of horny women out there who are looking for a regular f-buddy. Quite a lot of them are happily married, or in committed relationships,and are just looking for a bit of extra sex to spice up their lives. 1- You definitely should have a car, for doing booty calls in rural areas, and collecting d*unk and horny women from bar's and nite clubs and even their fellas place when he's sick n tired of listening to her drama and doesn't feel like sex. 2- Having your own Gaff is essential. The bedroom and bathroom should be reasonably clean. 3- You need to be able to do what her husband or partner can't, ie have very good stamina in the sack and really know your way around a woman's body. If she has a memorable experience, she will be back for more.
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BOOM "5 the ability to keep it NSA with no drama and bullshit 6 the ability to actually know how to fuck is an advantage | |||
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"Finding a meet in a city may be easy enough but for that person to become a FB there needs to be some element of attraction, be good company to be with, good sex & within 30 minutes away should you be in need of a quick shag.. most importantly there should be no emotional attachment...you FB is a sexual relationship, that 1 800 number you can call when you need more than your vibrato" Quick shags do nothing for me. | |||
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"Finding someone where you are on the same wavelength is difficult but not impossible on here. Personally I prefer to meet fwb regularly than have a load of different one off meets. As long as ye on the same page about what you want I don't see any issue with meeting more. The sex gets better as well the more you get know someone. It only gets boring if ye allow it to. " It's not about the sex getting boring, it's the person that gets boring. | |||
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"Finding someone where you are on the same wavelength is difficult but not impossible on here. Personally I prefer to meet fwb regularly than have a load of different one off meets. As long as ye on the same page about what you want I don't see any issue with meeting more. The sex gets better as well the more you get know someone. It only gets boring if ye allow it to. It's not about the sex getting boring, it's the person that gets boring. " That's may be because you are part of a couple. As a single person I prefer to get to know the person and will only fuck people I actually like otherwise when you are getting your breath back before you go again then the silences would be very awkward it's nice to have a good laugh amd chat inbetween | |||
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"Finding someone where you are on the same wavelength is difficult but not impossible on here. Personally I prefer to meet fwb regularly than have a load of different one off meets. As long as ye on the same page about what you want I don't see any issue with meeting more. The sex gets better as well the more you get know someone. It only gets boring if ye allow it to. It's not about the sex getting boring, it's the person that gets boring. That's may be because you are part of a couple. As a single person I prefer to get to know the person and will only fuck people I actually like otherwise when you are getting your breath back before you go again then the silences would be very awkward it's nice to have a good laugh amd chat inbetween "Exactly as Bo says 
Coffee in between (and plenty of giggles) makes for a memorable time
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"Finding someone where you are on the same wavelength is difficult but not impossible on here. Personally I prefer to meet fwb regularly than have a load of different one off meets. As long as ye on the same page about what you want I don't see any issue with meeting more. The sex gets better as well the more you get know someone. It only gets boring if ye allow it to. It's not about the sex getting boring, it's the person that gets boring. That's may be because you are part of a couple. As a single person I prefer to get to know the person and will only fuck people I actually like otherwise when you are getting your breath back before you go again then the silences would be very awkward it's nice to have a good laugh amd chat inbetween
Exactly as Bo says
Coffee in between (and plenty of giggles) makes for a memorable time
"Don't forget the cake. Or pizza. I had a FWB for a while and many an afternoon turned into evening with a takeaway to keep our energy levels up. | |||
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"Finding someone where you are on the same wavelength is difficult but not impossible on here. Personally I prefer to meet fwb regularly than have a load of different one off meets. As long as ye on the same page about what you want I don't see any issue with meeting more. The sex gets better as well the more you get know someone. It only gets boring if ye allow it to. It's not about the sex getting boring, it's the person that gets boring. That's may be because you are part of a couple. As a single person I prefer to get to know the person and will only fuck people I actually like otherwise when you are getting your breath back before you go again then the silences would be very awkward it's nice to have a good laugh amd chat inbetween "No, I get what you're saying but I'm talking about when I was single, and it's not that they couldn't converse or I didn't like them, I just got bored quickly. I suspect it may be down to being an introvert. | |||
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"Finding someone where you are on the same wavelength is difficult but not impossible on here. Personally I prefer to meet fwb regularly than have a load of different one off meets. As long as ye on the same page about what you want I don't see any issue with meeting more. The sex gets better as well the more you get know someone. It only gets boring if ye allow it to. It's not about the sex getting boring, it's the person that gets boring. That's may be because you are part of a couple. As a single person I prefer to get to know the person and will only fuck people I actually like otherwise when you are getting your breath back before you go again then the silences would be very awkward it's nice to have a good laugh amd chat inbetween
Exactly as Bo says
Coffee in between (and plenty of giggles) makes for a memorable time
Don't forget the cake. Or pizza. I had a FWB for a while and many an afternoon turned into evening with a takeaway to keep our energy levels up. "Mmmmm a takeaway and a shag, heaven! | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious.
If something is good, doghunter goes and gets more. It's the quality of sex nothing to do with 'being into them'.
It's just sex, without being "into them" I will quickly get bored and their personality will get tedious to me, especially if they get clingy or have expectations of me being "on call""Well I can assure you I'm not having the two latter one. As for the personality if they're boring I wouldn't be meeting them in the first place. | |||
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"Finding someone where you are on the same wavelength is difficult but not impossible on here. Personally I prefer to meet fwb regularly than have a load of different one off meets. As long as ye on the same page about what you want I don't see any issue with meeting more. The sex gets better as well the more you get know someone. It only gets boring if ye allow it to. It's not about the sex getting boring, it's the person that gets boring. That's may be because you are part of a couple. As a single person I prefer to get to know the person and will only fuck people I actually like otherwise when you are getting your breath back before you go again then the silences would be very awkward it's nice to have a good laugh amd chat inbetween
Exactly as Bo says
Coffee in between (and plenty of giggles) makes for a memorable time
Don't forget the cake. Or pizza. I had a FWB for a while and many an afternoon turned into evening with a takeaway to keep our energy levels up.
Mmmmm a takeaway and a shag, heaven! "Well it's good to keep the energy levels up. Wouldn't want to run low at any stage  | |||
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"I don't know what this is but I find anytime I get asked back (always ) I can't be bothered.
I tend to not want it often with the same person tbh, 3 is my max times returning.
I've just always felt like this, unless it's a more serious relationship.
I would be the same, any more than that and a dependency starts to form. If I were that into them, I would be starting a relationship with them (why Lee and I are together!). If I'm not, why create a situation that's almost inevitably going to get messy and tedious.
If something is good, doghunter goes and gets more. It's the quality of sex nothing to do with 'being into them'.
It's just sex, without being "into them" I will quickly get bored and their personality will get tedious to me, especially if they get clingy or have expectations of me being "on call"
Well I can assure you I'm not having the two latter one. As for the personality if they're boring I wouldn't be meeting them in the first place. "I find most people boring or wearing after a certain amount of exposure, it's not a reflection on them, just a side-effect of introversion | |||
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"Finding someone where you are on the same wavelength is difficult but not impossible on here. Personally I prefer to meet fwb regularly than have a load of different one off meets. As long as ye on the same page about what you want I don't see any issue with meeting more. The sex gets better as well the more you get know someone. It only gets boring if ye allow it to. It's not about the sex getting boring, it's the person that gets boring. That's may be because you are part of a couple. As a single person I prefer to get to know the person and will only fuck people I actually like otherwise when you are getting your breath back before you go again then the silences would be very awkward it's nice to have a good laugh amd chat inbetween
No, I get what you're saying but I'm talking about when I was single, and it's not that they couldn't converse or I didn't like them, I just got bored quickly. I suspect it may be down to being an introvert." | |||
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"Definitely thing its hard to find a regular FWB/FB when single. Both being open is key, a physical attraction, and good sex. Being able to not take yourself or things too seriously is a must . Have to be able to enjoy a laugh. Whenever this all blows over that what I will be looking for ideally. And as mentioned above one off meets are cool if everyone is fine with it. Each to their own when it comes to regular or one offs. Its Fun after all " | |||
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