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By *i married Portadown OP   Man
over a year ago

portadown

I think I'm to honest, what should I do to get more attention from women? Plenty from men but we're all horn balls lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put your cock away.

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By *i married Portadown OP   Man
over a year ago

portadown


"Put your cock away. "
cant can't really use my face lol should I use my ass ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put your cock away. cant can't really use my face lol should I use my ass ?"

Nope. Get creative. Look at other mens profiles and see what they're doing. But cock/balls/ass should be private pics only imo.

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By *i married Portadown OP   Man
over a year ago

portadown


"Put your cock away. cant can't really use my face lol should I use my ass ?

Nope. Get creative. Look at other mens profiles and see what they're doing. But cock/balls/ass should be private pics only imo. "

I honestly thought it was the whole bi married thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right a good bio. I usually have a profile pic but back at home in a small town so to obvious. But send one with each message. Face pic j mean. Be clear on what your looking for too in your bio and so on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How I see it..

I want to see personality in pics. For now it looks more like let me quickly put up 2 not so nice pics that have not creativity in it... also after more the 1 year on the site and no bio says lazy. I dont like a lazy lover myself

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By *i married Portadown OP   Man
over a year ago

portadown


"How I see it..

I want to see personality in pics. For now it looks more like let me quickly put up 2 not so nice pics that have not creativity in it... also after more the 1 year on the site and no bio says lazy. I dont like a lazy lover myself "

You should be able to see it

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

OK..

Pics aren't great

Bio is worse

Married is a big no-no for a lot of people

Bi is also a no-no for some..

In short, fab is hard for single guys, you are making it even harder for yourself..

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By *i married Portadown OP   Man
over a year ago

portadown


"OK..

Pics aren't great

Bio is worse

Married is a big no-no for a lot of people

Bi is also a no-no for some..

In short, fab is hard for single guys, you are making it even harder for yourself.. "

Yea I was thinking that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm to honest, what should I do to get more attention from women? Plenty from men but we're all horn balls lol"
Been honest I would take any advice you get on the forums with a pinch of salt.The same people post on all the threads with the same tripe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fab is hard for single guys"

No it ain't

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia


"fab is hard for single guys

No it ain't "

You don't count..

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's only as hard as you make it yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fab is hard for single guys

No it ain't

You don't count.. "

Shhhhhhhudddaaaaapppp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only as hard as you make it yourself. "

That's what she said

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's only as hard as you make it yourself.

That's what she said "

So smooth you'd think you'd been waxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only as hard as you make it yourself.

That's what she said

So smooth you'd think you'd been waxed "

Wax is for candles motherfucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only as hard as you make it yourself.

That's what she said

So smooth you'd think you'd been waxed

Wax is for candles motherfucker "

Hmmm candles

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By *i married Portadown OP   Man
over a year ago

portadown

Lol I got a pm giving off at me because I'm married.. on a swinging site

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Fab is hard for everyone.

Its whatever work you put in it.

Go to socials.

Be active in the forums.

Have a decent profile.

Good luck.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"It's only as hard as you make it yourself.

That's what she said

So smooth you'd think you'd been waxed

Wax is for candles motherfucker "

Or for waxing hair off

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"It's only as hard as you make it yourself.

That's what she said

So smooth you'd think you'd been waxed

Wax is for candles motherfucker

Or for waxing hair off "

Is Kaizer waxing his chest for charity. Good on you man.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's only as hard as you make it yourself.

That's what she said

So smooth you'd think you'd been waxed

Wax is for candles motherfucker

Or for waxing hair off

Is Kaizer waxing his chest for charity. Good on you man. "

It's an alternative knitting pattern

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Fab is hard work. Unfortunately men have it worse due to the sheer numbers. Some people dont play with bi men. Some people dont play with married men. Some will meet married men if they have chatted to the wife who has said theyre all good with it. From what i can gather from reading some of the english forums some people dont want any drama with may (or may not) come with meeting a person who is on the site without their partners knowledge. Others who have been cheated on in the past may take a very dim view of it also. (Again just my take on responses in forum posts). Then other people dont give a rats fart what goes on in your personal life. Update profile and pics and plug away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only as hard as you make it yourself.

That's what she said

So smooth you'd think you'd been waxed

Wax is for candles motherfucker

Or for waxing hair off

Is Kaizer waxing his chest for charity. Good on you man.

It's an alternative knitting pattern"
What's this waffle Got to do with the thread.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"OK..

Pics aren't great

Bio is worse

Married is a big no-no for a lot of people

Bi is also a no-no for some..

In short, fab is hard for single guys, you are making it even harder for yourself.. "

This.

The main issue is your pics I think. They are TERRIBLE.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I think I'm to honest, what should I do to get more attention from women? Plenty from men but we're all horn balls lol Been honest I would take any advice you get on the forums with a pinch of salt.The same people post on all the threads with the same tripe."

Whatever you do dont follow this advice. This guy is a well known troll . The advice you get here from the couples and females is fairly representative of what most will think. You could do worse than following it

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"It's only as hard as you make it yourself.

That's what she said

So smooth you'd think you'd been waxed

Wax is for candles motherfucker

Or for waxing hair off

Is Kaizer waxing his chest for charity. Good on you man.

It's an alternative knitting pattern What's this waffle Got to do with the thread. "

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Op your profile doesn't stand out. Your pics are not great at all and certainly do not make your profile stand out. Your bio is pretty basic as well.

But it is up to you what you do with your profile no one can advise you because at the end of the day it's your profile.

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By *i married Portadown OP   Man
over a year ago

portadown

I've updated it

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I've updated it "

You've got the same crappy pics. Obviously it's your choice.. but at least make use of more flattering angles and lighting

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By *i married Portadown OP   Man
over a year ago

portadown


"I've updated it

You've got the same crappy pics. Obviously it's your choice.. but at least make use of more flattering angles and lighting "

Lol when I get the chance

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city


"I think I'm to honest, what should I do to get more attention from women? Plenty from men but we're all horn balls lol Been honest I would take any advice you get on the forums with a pinch of salt.The same people post on all the threads with the same tripe."

You never said a truer word!

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city


"It's only as hard as you make it yourself.

That's what she said

So smooth you'd think you'd been waxed

Wax is for candles motherfucker

Or for waxing hair off

Is Kaizer waxing his chest for charity. Good on you man.

It's an alternative knitting pattern What's this waffle Got to do with the thread. "

Its the sort of rambling you'd hear in any pub in Manorhamilton on a wet night.

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia


"I think I'm to honest, what should I do to get more attention from women? Plenty from men but we're all horn balls lol Been honest I would take any advice you get on the forums with a pinch of salt.The same people post on all the threads with the same tripe.

You never said a truer word! "

Pot/kettle..

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork


"I think I'm to honest, what should I do to get more attention from women? Plenty from men but we're all horn balls lol"

Iv same problem. Being honest on kik I get nothing but compliments and attention for my pics so I dont think its that. Even tho profile is a year old iv only properly been here last 2 months I guess. The one girl I did who verified me I met on kik. Im not married or attached. Iv messaged maybe 10 or 12 women in that time. All polite messages. No grief. Iv gotten one reply and conversation was deleted after my next message. At this stage I'm only here for the forums. Iv actually given up on idea of meeting someone from here now. Just here for the chat. I really dont get it at all

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork


"I think I'm to honest, what should I do to get more attention from women? Plenty from men but we're all horn balls lol

Iv same problem. Being honest on kik I get nothing but compliments and attention for my pics so I dont think its that. Even tho profile is a year old iv only properly been here last 2 months I guess. The one girl I did who verified me I met on kik. Im not married or attached. Iv messaged maybe 10 or 12 women in that time. All polite messages. No grief. Iv gotten one reply and conversation was deleted after my next message. At this stage I'm only here for the forums. Iv actually given up on idea of meeting someone from here now. Just here for the chat. I really dont get it at all"

Iv deleted most of profile now in case someone comes back an old tells me its crap btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've updated it

You've got the same crappy pics. Obviously it's your choice.. but at least make use of more flattering angles and lighting "
What's your excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only as hard as you make it yourself.

That's what she said

So smooth you'd think you'd been waxed

Wax is for candles motherfucker

Or for waxing hair off

Is Kaizer waxing his chest for charity. Good on you man.

It's an alternative knitting pattern What's this waffle Got to do with the thread.

Its the sort of rambling you'd hear in any pub in Manorhamilton on a wet night. "
Lol well at least they have the excuse that there intoxicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is hard for everyone.

Its whatever work you put in it.

Go to socials.

Be active in the forums.

Have a decent profile.

Good luck.

"

What she said, yes some do better than others but it's what you put into it, look at it this way your profile is your shop window, think about what attracts you to other profiles. And adjust accordingly.

Good luck on your fab journey

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia


"I've updated it

You've got the same crappy pics. Obviously it's your choice.. but at least make use of more flattering angles and lighting What's your excuse."

Yawn..

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I would change the nickname if I’m honest. When I see bi married, It sounds like looking for more male partners than female.

You can always mention this detail on your profile and definitely better photos that appeals to women Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married part is probably going to turn off 75% of women and couples not sure about men and bi is going to turn off a few more people so your audience is limited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put your cock away. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Was always told if I'd nothing nice to say, then say nothing.

Plus I'd probably be put on the naughty step again.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I think I'm to honest, what should I do to get more attention from women? Plenty from men but we're all horn balls lol"

Well a cock pic as your profile pic I would guess would turn alot of women away I'm pretty sure they know what one looks like by now your profile pic doesn't necessarily have to be your face giving your circumstances creative body pics can be just as good I personally would take down the fact your married and perhaps add that part when get into chatting with someone but a vast majority I would say just don't want that kind of drama in their life like if herself knew about what your doing and is cool with it then it will be a different story of course what I have said I'm open to be corrected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm to honest, what should I do to get more attention from women? Plenty from men but we're all horn balls lol

Well a cock pic as your profile pic I would guess would turn alot of women away I'm pretty sure they know what one looks like by now your profile pic doesn't necessarily have to be your face giving your circumstances creative body pics can be just as good I personally would take down the fact your married and perhaps add that part when get into chatting with someone but a vast majority I would say just don't want that kind of drama in their life like if herself knew about what your doing and is cool with it then it will be a different story of course what I have said I'm open to be corrected "
Lol you have your little fella in lots of pictures.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I think I'm to honest, what should I do to get more attention from women? Plenty from men but we're all horn balls lol

Well a cock pic as your profile pic I would guess would turn alot of women away I'm pretty sure they know what one looks like by now your profile pic doesn't necessarily have to be your face giving your circumstances creative body pics can be just as good I personally would take down the fact your married and perhaps add that part when get into chatting with someone but a vast majority I would say just don't want that kind of drama in their life like if herself knew about what your doing and is cool with it then it will be a different story of course what I have said I'm open to be corrected Lol you have your little fella in lots of pictures. "

It's not my profile pic tho is it

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

There really is no need to be nasty when answering, it is also against forum rules

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I think I'm to honest, what should I do to get more attention from women? Plenty from men but we're all horn balls lol

Well a cock pic as your profile pic I would guess would turn alot of women away I'm pretty sure they know what one looks like by now your profile pic doesn't necessarily have to be your face giving your circumstances creative body pics can be just as good I personally would take down the fact your married and perhaps add that part when get into chatting with someone but a vast majority I would say just don't want that kind of drama in their life like if herself knew about what your doing and is cool with it then it will be a different story of course what I have said I'm open to be corrected Lol you have your little fella in lots of pictures.

It's not my profile pic tho is it Lol I'm sure most of the ladies know what one looks like now so my advice is hide the little fecker. "

Okay

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