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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all. Something i havnt tried is anal. What are people thoughts and views and experiences on this

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By *ickeybo28Man
over a year ago

cavan

Receiving or giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An obvious but good question

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

Actually this was a question I was thinking about asking. I'm curious but petrified haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Giving anal

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By *ickeybo28Man
over a year ago

cavan

Can only speak from giving. Buts it’s very intense and must be a lot of trust between each other and don’t forget lots of lube

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

plenty of foreplay, for both partners to be relaxed, lots and lots of lube. take it very slow (for the love of god dont just ram it in) for ladies i would recommend douching if possible beforehand and the lads wearing a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"plenty of foreplay, for both partners to be relaxed, lots and lots of lube. take it very slow (for the love of god dont just ram it in) for ladies i would recommend douching if possible beforehand and the lads wearing a condom "

Pretty much it, taking it slowly and making sure the woman is already very aroused is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bend over spread your cheeks and take it like a man then see are you still interested in trying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bend over spread your cheeks and take it like a man then see are you still interested in trying it "

This made me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried it with an past girlfriend. Feels good. But the Comedian Jim Jeffries sums it up best...looks great in Porn...but ya can’t smell porn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tips for 1st time anal (no matter what's your experience, your partners experience or the size of a penis).

Plan: spontaneous anal is a recipe for shit disaster (been there, done that, still red faced about the experience). 1-2 days before planned anal your partner should eat food high in fat and protein and low in starchy carbs. It will help solidify whatever is inside and stop it from ever getting messy.

This will always be a main put off for most women, so if and when they see the results of a "clean wipe" themselves they'll be less afraid to try out anal sex.

Seduce: Make sure you pay a lot of attention and effort to foreplay and make your partner extra aroused and relaxed. Play with their whole body, erogenous zones, tease and pleasure.

Position: Personal choice, but from chatting to a lot of girls about it- on the side- spooning position seems to be the least uncomfortable position to start with followed up by your partner laying flat on their front and you being on top from behind. Once your partner is well stretched out and used to sensation - you can switch to more positions. If you do it too early - it will hurt like a motherfucker.

Lubrication should be common sense hence I haven't mentioned it.

Good luck.

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

Play solo with toys first. That way there should be no surprises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight in no kissing brother .. take as good as you give though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest trying it with a woman who has done it a number of times.

Do not do it with an amateur.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Remember... spit is not lube.

Put enough lube on.. and then out a bit more on

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Oh and start with a lubed finger.. dont go straight in with a cock.

Also.. having a massive dick makes it a lot harder to find a female willing to give it a try.. so ideally dont be massively well endowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoyed receiving anal from an ex gf also enjoy giving to any partner who wants to try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it with a few girls. Some had practiced with toys before so it wasn't to bad. Others it was there first time and we took it super slow with lots of lube. Ya got to train your ass in a sense, lol!

Some girls I met preferred it over vaginal sex!

For guys it can be super tight, personally I like it but vaginal sex just feels better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember... spit is not lube.

Put enough lube on.. and then out a bit more on

"
wtf I thought lube was just spit in a bottle

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

taking your time is key. If done right you don't even need lube.

But trust is a big part of it. never rush. i do suggest using a lube designed for it perhaps a cooling one also. water based so it doesn't degrade the condom.

but it's not a race. ease it it inch by in. stopping to allow her body to relax stopping if you need to. communication is definitely key.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"I suggest trying it with a woman who has done it a number of times.

Do not do it with an amateur.

"

everyone starts somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a nurse who was into it ,l had never done it ...sweet lord ... mindblowing !!! Unreal sensation ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice, use a johnnie, even if it's with your partner and you usually dont use them. Less stress, no mess.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Bend over spread your cheeks and take it like a man then see are you still interested in trying it "

That made me laugh hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and start with a lubed finger.. dont go straight in with a cock.

Also.. having a massive dick makes it a lot harder to find a female willing to give it a try.. so ideally dont be massively well endowed."

I have to disagree with both.

Fingers tend to be extremely unpleasant to me - nails and cuticles tend to cause way too much discomfort.

Also I've had a long term 4 inch partner who by all logic would be more ideal for anal play, but to be honest I've never enjoyed anal as much as I enjoy it with Dirk and he's very well endowed.

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

armagh


"Bend over spread your cheeks and take it like a man then see are you still interested in trying it "
great answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suggest trying it with a woman who has done it a number of times.

Do not do it with an amateur.

everyone starts somewhere. "

I'm aware. Best to start with someone who knows what they're doing than 2 amateurs who make a mess...

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By *ndrew15Man
over a year ago

Cobham, Surrey

Several occasions giving with both women and tvs , a smaller number receiving from tvs and women with a strap-on. Been to a few parties watching people really enjoying anal is a great turn on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bend over spread your cheeks and take it like a man then see are you still interested in trying it

This made me giggle "

And me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting advice guys. Thanks

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By *ebel_LionMan
over a year ago

cork

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By *ebel_LionMan
over a year ago

cork


"Bend over spread your cheeks and take it like a man then see are you still interested in trying it "

classic

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