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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

other examples of this. stems from user experience on another thread about creeps saving pics without permission.

"when does cheeky turn creepy". yep, quite subjective as was pointed out. quick factual examples just. shout 'em on out.

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

When someone is saying a certain behaviour upset and creeped them out and then someone else thinks it's a good idea to try make a "cheeky" joke referencing the same behaviour. That'd be creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone is saying a certain behaviour upset and creeped them out and then someone else thinks it's a good idea to try make a "cheeky" joke referencing the same behaviour. That'd be creepy. "

It's like when some item in a shop doesn't have a price tag and people are trying to be witty by coming up with wisdom like :"oh it must be free then huhuhuhuhuh"

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"When someone is saying a certain behaviour upset and creeped them out and then someone else thinks it's a good idea to try make a "cheeky" joke referencing the same behaviour. That'd be creepy. "

Thought the same thing last night to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

couldnt that fall into cornball humour? dunno, its all a bit subjective. was thinking more along lines of whrn they suddenly switch gear to negative persuasion tactics and that sorta shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My own top creep triggers:

1. "Well Hello, I know who you are but I will not tell you who am I, I'll just watch your profile for next few months dropping occasional hello and commenting on your statuses/behaviours)". Block material.

2. "Can't wait to get my hands on you" coming from a complete stranger. Fuck off. Just fuck off and never ever message me again. Block material.

3. Single man profile "I'm trying to get my girlfriend into this, can you seduce her and help her find her bi side?" So fucking wrong on so many levels. Triple block.

4. Someone I know through work/friends of friends etc. finds me here, tells me who they are then "oooh, I'm so excited to know that next time we'll meet it'll be a lot more fun" no. If I wanted to fuck you- I would have done it already. Block + Facebook block (if applicable).

5. "Do you have more pics?" Not for you darling, good bye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When someone is saying a certain behaviour upset and creeped them out and then someone else thinks it's a good idea to try make a "cheeky" joke referencing the same behaviour. That'd be creepy.

Thought the same thing last night to be honest "

howdya mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When somebody keeps checking when you are on fab to message you on kik.

When you dont reply to a message as soon as they like and they start having a conversation alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When somebody thinks if.you said no first place asking another 50 times will change your mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone creates new profiles to message you when you've already politely declined. Then starts demanding a yes or no reply when you're not replying.

Clearly this assessment is subjective when the same person is described as a true gent and a friend by other women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone you've never even chatted with is addressing you by name on their status updates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not flattering

Not complimentary

Just fucking creepy

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

When someone finds a comment or an action of another person creepy then its time to accept their view and move on. Opening a new thread to discuss someone's comment, just because you don't agree with it, is a bit immature.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"When someone is saying a certain behaviour upset and creeped them out and then someone else thinks it's a good idea to try make a "cheeky" joke referencing the same behaviour. That'd be creepy.

Thought the same thing last night to be honest

howdya mean?"

Do you genuinely not see it ...really ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When somebody keeps checking when you are on fab to message you on kik.

When you dont reply to a message as soon as they like and they start having a conversation alone

"

the ladies have it sussed.

first part yeah that is into the creepy zone. second part solo conversation err now would be guilty of that occasionally in the spirit of effort but gawwwd blessus one and all we learn eventually. fair point though thats one's ambiguous, maybe harmless maybe not. therein lies the creep factor.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

When someone says they want to meet you because they've never fucked a fat/black/disabled/squirter/etc before. Way to make someone feel special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone creates new profiles to message you when you've already politely declined. Then starts demanding a yes or no reply when you're not replying.

Clearly this assessment is subjective when the same person is described as a true gent and a friend by other women "

Cause some women dont care. I seen women not wanting to take down verifications of seriously dangerous men... fake girl power and all

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Addressing us by name, but not saying who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When somebody keeps checking when you are on fab to message you on kik.

When you dont reply to a message as soon as they like and they start having a conversation alone

the ladies have it sussed.

first part yeah that is into the creepy zone. second part solo conversation err now would be guilty of that occasionally in the spirit of effort but gawwwd blessus one and all we learn eventually. fair point though thats one's ambiguous, maybe harmless maybe not. therein lies the creep factor.

"

No I mean full conversations that go on for ages. Hours days even

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When someone says they want to meet you because they've never fucked a fat/black/disabled/squirter/etc before. Way to make someone feel special."

hmm. the box tickers. undecided on that approach.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When somebody keeps checking when you are on fab to message you on kik.

When you dont reply to a message as soon as they like and they start having a conversation alone

the ladies have it sussed.

first part yeah that is into the creepy zone. second part solo conversation err now would be guilty of that occasionally in the spirit of effort but gawwwd blessus one and all we learn eventually. fair point though thats one's ambiguous, maybe harmless maybe not. therein lies the creep factor.

No I mean full conversations that go on for ages. Hours days even "

dunno..suppose depends if conversation engages that long. same topic conversatations--naah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Addressing us by name, but not saying who they are"

yes nail on a head there, a direct example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When somebody keeps checking when you are on fab to message you on kik.

When you dont reply to a message as soon as they like and they start having a conversation alone

the ladies have it sussed.

first part yeah that is into the creepy zone. second part solo conversation err now would be guilty of that occasionally in the spirit of effort but gawwwd blessus one and all we learn eventually. fair point though thats one's ambiguous, maybe harmless maybe not. therein lies the creep factor.

No I mean full conversations that go on for ages. Hours days even

dunno..suppose depends if conversation engages that long. same topic conversatations--naah"

You arent getting what I am saying oops.

Like I say nothing as I am ignoring but dont want to block and they are having a full blown conversation alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When somebody keeps checking when you are on fab to message you on kik.

When you dont reply to a message as soon as they like and they start having a conversation alone

the ladies have it sussed.

first part yeah that is into the creepy zone. second part solo conversation err now would be guilty of that occasionally in the spirit of effort but gawwwd blessus one and all we learn eventually. fair point though thats one's ambiguous, maybe harmless maybe not. therein lies the creep factor.

No I mean full conversations that go on for ages. Hours days even

dunno..suppose depends if conversation engages that long. same topic conversatations--naah

You arent getting what I am saying oops.

Like I say nothing as I am ignoring but dont want to block and they are having a full blown conversation alone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it realy annoying more than creepy when someone ask's a serious question on the forum and another person decide's to use that oppurtunity to make a sexual comment about their pic's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When someone finds a comment or an action of another person creepy then its time to accept their view and move on. Opening a new thread to discuss someone's comment, just because you don't agree with it, is a bit immature. "

point taken. disagree.

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry


"When someone finds a comment or an action of another person creepy then its time to accept their view and move on. Opening a new thread to discuss someone's comment, just because you don't agree with it, is a bit immature.

point taken. disagree. "

exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My own top creep triggers:

1. "Well Hello, I know who you are but I will not tell you who am I, I'll just watch your profile for next few months dropping occasional hello and commenting on your statuses/behaviours)". Block material.

2. "Can't wait to get my hands on you" coming from a complete stranger. Fuck off. Just fuck off and never ever message me again. Block material.

3. Single man profile "I'm trying to get my girlfriend into this, can you seduce her and help her find her bi side?" So fucking wrong on so many levels. Triple block.

4. Someone I know through work/friends of friends etc. finds me here, tells me who they are then "oooh, I'm so excited to know that next time we'll meet it'll be a lot more fun" no. If I wanted to fuck you- I would have done it already. Block + Facebook block (if applicable).

5. "Do you have more pics?" Not for you darling, good bye. "

yes to those, jumping straight into the creepy quarter.

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By *urvySingleLadyWoman
over a year ago

Limerick/Galway


"When somebody keeps checking when you are on fab to message you on kik.

"

Exactly this! Monitoring your online moves. It’s so creepy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When someone finds a comment or an action of another person creepy then its time to accept their view and move on. Opening a new thread to discuss someone's comment, just because you don't agree with it, is a bit immature.

point taken. disagree. exactly "

no worries.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When somebody keeps checking when you are on fab to message you on kik.

Exactly this! Monitoring your online moves. It’s so creepy. "

another nail hit on the head

-line 'em on up.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I find it realy annoying more than creepy when someone ask's a serious question on the forum and another person decide's to use that oppurtunity to make a sexual comment about their pic's "

When you have a sexually revealing pic as your avatar you can hardly complain about someone mentioning them sexually.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"other examples of this. stems from user experience on another thread about creeps saving pics without permission.

"when does cheeky turn creepy". yep, quite subjective as was pointed out. quick factual examples just. shout 'em on out."

Ordinary looking dude approaches a girl OMG what a creep. Good looking dude does the same thing OMG I'm so flattered. It's sunjective.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"other examples of this. stems from user experience on another thread about creeps saving pics without permission.

"when does cheeky turn creepy". yep, quite subjective as was pointed out. quick factual examples just. shout 'em on out.

Ordinary looking dude approaches a girl OMG what a creep. Good looking dude does the same thing OMG I'm so flattered. It's sunjective."

I actually don't agree with that its an attitude not looks. It doesn't matter to me how good looking a guy is if he acts like a creep he's still a creep.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"other examples of this. stems from user experience on another thread about creeps saving pics without permission.

"when does cheeky turn creepy". yep, quite subjective as was pointed out. quick factual examples just. shout 'em on out.

Ordinary looking dude approaches a girl OMG what a creep. Good looking dude does the same thing OMG I'm so flattered. It's sunjective.

I actually don't agree with that its an attitude not looks. It doesn't matter to me how good looking a guy is if he acts like a creep he's still a creep. "

This is a generalisation yes but it 100% holds true in most cases. Just check out all the gold digger vids online.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"other examples of this. stems from user experience on another thread about creeps saving pics without permission.

"when does cheeky turn creepy". yep, quite subjective as was pointed out. quick factual examples just. shout 'em on out.

Ordinary looking dude approaches a girl OMG what a creep. Good looking dude does the same thing OMG I'm so flattered. It's sunjective.

I actually don't agree with that its an attitude not looks. It doesn't matter to me how good looking a guy is if he acts like a creep he's still a creep.

This is a generalisation yes but it 100% holds true in most cases. Just check out all the gold digger vids online. "

reckon gold digging qualifies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it realy annoying more than creepy when someone ask's a serious question on the forum and another person decide's to use that oppurtunity to make a sexual comment about their pic's

When you have a sexually revealing pic as your avatar you can hardly complain about someone mentioning them sexually. "

that would depend a lot on the tone used and inferences made, though. poster has a point there, over persistence to annoying levels be waltzing right on into the creepzone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"other examples of this. stems from user experience on another thread about creeps saving pics without permission.

"when does cheeky turn creepy". yep, quite subjective as was pointed out. quick factual examples just. shout 'em on out.

Ordinary looking dude approaches a girl OMG what a creep. Good looking dude does the same thing OMG I'm so flattered. It's sunjective.

I actually don't agree with that its an attitude not looks. It doesn't matter to me how good looking a guy is if he acts like a creep he's still a creep. "

ahh the case for 'if it walks like a duck, talks like a duck chances are..' if it is so, it is so.

so right now its turning out that the mens are likely in a dubious lead in the creep stakes. does that surprise?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I find it realy annoying more than creepy when someone ask's a serious question on the forum and another person decide's to use that oppurtunity to make a sexual comment about their pic's

When you have a sexually revealing pic as your avatar you can hardly complain about someone mentioning them sexually.

that would depend a lot on the tone used and inferences made, though. poster has a point there, over persistence to annoying levels be waltzing right on into the creepzone "

She doesnt say anything about persistence.. she just says someone's makes "a sexual comment". This is a sex site. If you show someone your tits then you should expect a sexual comment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it realy annoying more than creepy when someone ask's a serious question on the forum and another person decide's to use that oppurtunity to make a sexual comment about their pic's

When you have a sexually revealing pic as your avatar you can hardly complain about someone mentioning them sexually.

that would depend a lot on the tone used and inferences made, though. poster has a point there, over persistence to annoying levels be waltzing right on into the creepzone

She doesnt say anything about persistence.. she just says someone's makes "a sexual comment". This is a sex site. If you show someone your tits then you should expect a sexual comment."

reverse grammar whip:

"and persistence to annoying levels also be waltzing into creepzone"

on pics up and sexual remarks made gotta be a given for most profilers. 'annoying' commentary in itself is not automatic creepzone material. so many blurred lines "more!" Wine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it realy annoying more than creepy when someone ask's a serious question on the forum and another person decide's to use that oppurtunity to make a sexual comment about their pic's

When you have a sexually revealing pic as your avatar you can hardly complain about someone mentioning them sexually.

that would depend a lot on the tone used and inferences made, though. poster has a point there, over persistence to annoying levels be waltzing right on into the creepzone

She doesnt say anything about persistence.. she just says someone's makes "a sexual comment". This is a sex site. If you show someone your tits then you should expect a sexual comment."

She can speak for herself. And actually I was referring to a previous thread where a woman had asked for some serious advice I can chose to show my tit's and still partake in serious thread's can't I

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

When you are standing in the queue at Sainsbobs, and you get a message asking if you're in the queue at Sainsbobs.. Uber creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you meet a woman, and next day get messages of been in love etc gets the big BLOCK button

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you are standing in the queue at Sainsbobs, and you get a message asking if you're in the queue at Sainsbobs.. Uber creepy"

ffs faster than the speeda christ into the creepzone with that! y'all feel the heckle hairs screaming on edge with that one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it realy annoying more than creepy when someone ask's a serious question on the forum and another person decide's to use that oppurtunity to make a sexual comment about their pic's

When you have a sexually revealing pic as your avatar you can hardly complain about someone mentioning them sexually.

that would depend a lot on the tone used and inferences made, though. poster has a point there, over persistence to annoying levels be waltzing right on into the creepzone

She doesnt say anything about persistence.. she just says someone's makes "a sexual comment". This is a sex site. If you show someone your tits then you should expect a sexual comment.

She can speak for herself. And actually I was referring to a previous thread where a woman had asked for some serious advice I can chose to show my tit's and still partake in serious thread's can't I"

course you can. 'freedom' of speaks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you meet a woman, and next day get messages of been in love etc gets the big BLOCK button "

"forty year youngfella! forty year on this revolving rock and still gorgonheaded by the abstract and definitions of love" -most of the time. infatuation though, that one's a proper cheeky sneaky fucker

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