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What have you learned about yourself ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What have you learned about yourself in the last few weeks in the lockdown ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What have you learned about yourself in the last few weeks in the lockdown ? "

Tbh.. nothin' that l hadn't before all this covid craic started but l have noticed the traits that some people had are still there ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What have you learned about yourself in the last few weeks in the lockdown ? "

That I spend a tremendous amount of money frivolously. Pubs, taxis, take aways, lunches, impulse purchases passing by shops, fuel driving around etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is very low on my list of priorities.

I missed workmates more than I thought I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I do way too much for people and it's not returned.

Definitely spend too much on coffee and I need to get off shift work and stop the 2 hr commute for work.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Honestly that I am afraid to die especially on a ventilator like most of the victims so far.

For the last couple of years I've felt useless to anyone and didn't really care whether I was alive or dead

Not enough to do anything about it more like feeling sorry for myself for a long time.

Now I realise I don't want to be dead and I actually feel more alive now than I have in years

One of my jobs is gone but I'm still employing 10 people on full wages and fuck it I'm good at what we do.

Probably more heavy than you were expecting OP but Im in a good place and wanted to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kaizer has learned that he's even more awesome than he thought prior to lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, there's so much you can do with dog hair

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I have realised that i am very lucky and I shouldn't take anyone for granted.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I miss my family especially my young niece and nephews so much...i miss work even tho i give out about the little ankle nippers there all just the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That id been social distancing way to much be4 this even started, took not being aloud out to live life to realise i hadnt been doing just that living life to the full

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)


"Sex is very low on my list of priorities.

I missed workmates more than I thought I would"

Sex is on my top list of priorities.

Workers - missed a few but not all of them, including my boss

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)


"What have you learned about yourself in the last few weeks in the lockdown ? "

Having unlimited patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How wasteful I was with money buying things I taught I needed now that I'm living without shows they weren't essential

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

You can't argue with stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is very low on my list of priorities.

I missed workmates more than I thought I would"

Not as low in my priority list

But yes interaction with work colleagues and people in general is more important than I would have otherwise thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly that I am afraid to die especially on a ventilator like most of the victims so far.

For the last couple of years I've felt useless to anyone and didn't really care whether I was alive or dead

Not enough to do anything about it more like feeling sorry for myself for a long time.

Now I realise I don't want to be dead and I actually feel more alive now than I have in years

One of my jobs is gone but I'm still employing 10 people on full wages and fuck it I'm good at what we do.

Probably more heavy than you were expecting OP but Im in a good place and wanted to share "

Thank you for sharing your vulnerability . The thread is inteneded to be as open as possible . What you have learned is as valid as anyone else.

Thank you again for your honesty and everyone else also . X

It's interesting to see where reflective assessment of self has educated us about our own lives and how we were living them and how we might go on to live them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing tbh. I've always been extremely self aware and self reflective.

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By *almprintsWoman
over a year ago

deepest, darkest West

I don't need fab as much as I thought I did. I like my vanilla life, now I'm learning to enjoy both...on my terms.

I also spent way too much money on coffee!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, I know myself pretty well at this stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That fab is is like Instagram ... full of insecure people which almost made me believe that I wasn’t enough ... until I sat myself down and reassured myself that having pictures fabbed and trying to desperately fuck people is absolute nonsense.

This smells like controversy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What have you learned about yourself in the last few weeks in the lockdown ? "

nothing really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly that I am afraid to die especially on a ventilator like most of the victims so far.

For the last couple of years I've felt useless to anyone and didn't really care whether I was alive or dead

Not enough to do anything about it more like feeling sorry for myself for a long time.

Now I realise I don't want to be dead and I actually feel more alive now than I have in years

One of my jobs is gone but I'm still employing 10 people on full wages and fuck it I'm good at what we do.

Probably more heavy than you were expecting OP but Im in a good place and wanted to share "

Fair play to you! Glad you were able to see things in a different light!

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