FabSwingers.com forum: Squirting vs orgasm. Younger folks?

By *ohndunboyne OP Man
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I just wondered, on a cloud, if the proliferation of squirting videos at the moment will have a detrimental effect on young women?

Much like porn influences young men to expect anal, or other acts as the norm.

Will Young women expect to squirt, or feel like that is their orgasm and supposed to be happy with that.

Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure Will Young is gay, dont think he expects any women to squirt

But seriously, I am assuming Sex Ed is thought in schools nowadays??

Sex ed should also cover topics like porn. Teach youngsters what you see online is not based on reality, and real people dont have bodies that look or act like that.

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon

Not at all,they wont won't be looking squirting vid's ,they'll be looking a big dick vid's, lol

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

As an occasional squirter (not shy when it's done right).

Yes, yes and YES, before I've squirted I used to see it porn.

Until once it happened naturally.

Then a good few years later it happened with a partner who taught me to relax during sex. Mind and body. For some time I've been squirting all the time till I learned the actual difference between squirting and g spot orgasm (two are very close together).

Squirting is just really diluted pee that involuntarily is pushed out through sexual stimulation.

Squirting does not equal orgasm.

Women who can and do squirt - have either strong "down below muscles"(which makes them real tight) and/or are sexually really open and are able to "let go" which makes it really attractive to men who love the idea of sexual adventures.

Missus

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

I always squirt first before orgasm, two different things for me?

But yes I was infatuated in finding out how to squirt and it just happened out of nowhere, destroyed the settee, I was so embarrassed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being totally honest I’ve never been with a girl that squirted, maybe I haven’t found the g spot yet

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Being totally honest I’ve never been with a girl that squirted, maybe I haven’t found the g spot yet

keep looking.Its just next to the H spot and the F spot.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Missus"

Is that a hypothesis? Any (scientific) research that would back this up? I'm not sure about this Missus, it doesn't add up.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'd say the chances are higher that young women expect that all men have big cocks and can go forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missus

Is that a hypothesis? Any (scientific) research that would back this up? I'm not sure about this Missus, it doesn't add up.

Hmm yeah, the second part is probably somewhat true,but I would imagine that women whose pelvic floor is weak would be far more likely to squirt as they have less bladder control.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Missus

Is that a hypothesis? Any (scientific) research that would back this up? I'm not sure about this Missus, it doesn't add up.

Hmm yeah, the second part is probably somewhat true,but I would imagine that women whose pelvic floor is weak would be far more likely to squirt as they have less bladder control. "

Are you suggesting it's pee?

Anyhow regarding the second part, yes there's an element to it but it doesn't mean that if you're not a squirter that you can't let go or that you're sexually inhibited.

That's the danger with such generalisations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missus

Is that a hypothesis? Any (scientific) research that would back this up? I'm not sure about this Missus, it doesn't add up.

Hmm yeah, the second part is probably somewhat true,but I would imagine that women whose pelvic floor is weak would be far more likely to squirt as they have less bladder control.

Are you suggesting it's pee?

Anyhow regarding the second part, yes there's an element to it but it doesn't mean that if you're not a squirter that you can't let go or that you're sexually inhibited.

That's the danger with such generalisations. "

Suggesting? Quite happy to be directed to any proof that its not

, especially interested to hear about the mysterious pelvic organ other than the bladder that can hold such volumes of liquid

Eh,we all make generalisations. If people want to interpret them as rigid rules,that's their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wondered, on a cloud, if the proliferation of squirting videos at the moment will have a detrimental effect on young women?

Much like porn influences young men to expect anal, or other acts as the norm.

Will Young women expect to squirt, or feel like that is their orgasm and supposed to be happy with that.

Just a thought. "

Tell you what John, I'll ask my kids what their take is (19 & 22) and get back to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think OP that Porn can possibly put unrealistic pressures on the younger generation to perform in certain ways and I would say some young woman could feel pressure to be able to squirt...

I know that when I first joined fab about 6yrs ago I constantly got asked was I a squirter and I found it frustrating as it seemed to be a must have requirement....

At that time I never had and had to google what it was...

And well it has happened since and one thing I can say for me it's all about how relaxed I am with a man and like Missus said if I'm relaxed enough to let myself go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me like each women Is different and maybe it’s nothing to do with muscle tightness it’s that it’s not something that your body want to or can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez no wonder young people are confused when older ones don't even give the truth. It has nothing to do with 'how tight' you are down there and squirt does not taste like pee nor would it stain a white sheet the way you would if you did a pee on it. There may however a be a percentage of urine in the liquid.

Perhaps even a bit more reading up on it may help.

As for porn,yes i agree a lot of it does tend to be the unrealistic type and the woman hardly ever cumming, just working hard to make the men cum

Amateur is much better with real people and their bodies.

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By *ohndunboyne OP Man
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Some excellent responses there. Thanks folks.

Yes, I think they will all expect truncheon cocks that go like jackhammers and the guys expecting spurting ladies who love back door fun, who cum from giving blowjobs

It's just that I keep seeing squirting as a topic this past year. I've joined in on many a conversation here and, surprisingly to myself, as I read a lot about it in my youth, before it became a "thing", actually learned something new about it ( think that was from Missus).

Which is why I posted the question.

Should we be directing our young folk to the more ethical, realistic, often filmed by women, porn that is of a much more normal type?

Or let them find it themselves after their dreams of said unrealistic expectations above are dashed?

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Missus

Is that a hypothesis? Any (scientific) research that would back this up? I'm not sure about this Missus, it doesn't add up.

Hmm yeah, the second part is probably somewhat true,but I would imagine that women whose pelvic floor is weak would be far more likely to squirt as they have less bladder control. "

Apologies for being a little confusing. When I mentioned pelvic floor muscles I meant the serious projectile gushers, not just a manageable sprinkle that most of us do.

And the reason I've put the two together - them muscles do contract quite a lot during orgasm or intense sexual stimulation hence they would me more likely to push that liquid out at greater force.

I know I experience a lot more sexual pleasure when I tense them, would be safe to guess that a lot of other women do too.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

You can almost play bingo on these types of threads...

"I tasted it, it's not pee"

"My husband tasted it and said it's not pee"

"Sheets don't smell, it's not pee"

"Sheets don't stain, it's not pee"

"It comes from Skenes gland, it's not pee"

Drinking enough water helps with pee problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least there is more awareness around squirting nowadays. When I first starting squirting (over 25 years ago

) I was the freak.

I didn't really understand it myself and was always nervous if being accused of peeing on the guy.

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By *ex coupleCouple
over a year ago

wexford

Lol, hense your your user name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol, hense your your user name

Yup. I've discovered its best ti be very upfront about the mess I'm going to make.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Porn is very damaging to those who are learning about sex. We have male teenage virgins who think it's normal to cum on their partners face when they lose their virginity.. they expect the fake tits and the pornstar body, and behave like they see on dominating porn. It's awful. Sex education is totally inadequate.

With regards squirting.. I'll just leave this here..

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/

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By *ohndunboyne OP Man
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"You can almost play bingo on these types of threads...

"I tasted it, it's not pee"

"My husband tasted it and said it's not pee"

"Sheets don't smell, it's not pee"

"Sheets don't stain, it's not pee"

"It comes from Skenes gland, it's not pee"

Drinking enough water helps with pee problems. "

Obviously haven't read original question/ suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As an occasional squirter (not shy when it's done right).

Yes, yes and YES, before I've squirted I used to see it porn.

Until once it happened naturally.

As someone who experienced squirting just by a guy pressing the right spot it is over rated. I prefer the g spot orgasm personally, you feel it and totally satisfied to just having fluid pushed out of you lol xxx

Squirting is just really diluted pee that involuntarily is pushed out through sexual stimulation.

Squirting does not equal orgasm.

Missus"

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By *icole1970TV/TS
over a year ago

Louth

Missus

Is that a hypothesis? Any (scientific) research that would back this up? I'm not sure about this Missus, it doesn't add up.

Hmm yeah, the second part is probably somewhat true,but I would imagine that women whose pelvic floor is weak would be far more likely to squirt as they have less bladder control. "

Absolutely, hit the nail on the head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with everything in porn, all is not what it appears...on shoots some girls will push water into the vagina and then expel it to make it look like she has squirted.

Like our spunk, every woman has different tastes and flavours

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Missus

Is that a hypothesis? Any (scientific) research that would back this up? I'm not sure about this Missus, it doesn't add up.

Hmm yeah, the second part is probably somewhat true,but I would imagine that women whose pelvic floor is weak would be far more likely to squirt as they have less bladder control. "

I would disagree with that. as many of the women I've been with had extremely strong pelvic floor muscles.

maybe the keegels Pay off. but definitely in my experience no it's not down to a weak pelvic floor

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Missus

Is that a hypothesis? Any (scientific) research that would back this up? I'm not sure about this Missus, it doesn't add up.

Hmm yeah, the second part is probably somewhat true,but I would imagine that women whose pelvic floor is weak would be far more likely to squirt as they have less bladder control.

Are you suggesting it's pee?

Anyhow regarding the second part, yes there's an element to it but it doesn't mean that if you're not a squirter that you can't let go or that you're sexually inhibited.

That's the danger with such generalisations.

Suggesting? Quite happy to be directed to any proof that its not

, especially interested to hear about the mysterious pelvic organ other than the bladder that can hold such volumes of liquid

Eh,we all make generalisations. If people want to interpret them as rigid rules,that's their problem."

Its times like these I wish my old pal missdirtygirl was still a formite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missus

Is that a hypothesis? Any (scientific) research that would back this up? I'm not sure about this Missus, it doesn't add up.

Hmm yeah, the second part is probably somewhat true,but I would imagine that women whose pelvic floor is weak would be far more likely to squirt as they have less bladder control.

I would disagree with that. as many of the women I've been with had extremely strong pelvic floor muscles.

maybe the keegels Pay off. but definitely in my experience no it's not down to a weak pelvic floor"

Which is where the "being able to let go" comes in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missus

Is that a hypothesis? Any (scientific) research that would back this up? I'm not sure about this Missus, it doesn't add up.

Hmm yeah, the second part is probably somewhat true,but I would imagine that women whose pelvic floor is weak would be far more likely to squirt as they have less bladder control.

Are you suggesting it's pee?

Anyhow regarding the second part, yes there's an element to it but it doesn't mean that if you're not a squirter that you can't let go or that you're sexually inhibited.

That's the danger with such generalisations.

Suggesting? Quite happy to be directed to any proof that its not

, especially interested to hear about the mysterious pelvic organ other than the bladder that can hold such volumes of liquid

Eh,we all make generalisations. If people want to interpret them as rigid rules,that's their problem.

Its times like these I wish my old pal missdirtygirl was still a formite

Maybe she's doing scientific research looking for the magical organ

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"As with everything in porn, all is not what it appears...on shoots some girls will push water into the vagina and then expel it to make it look like she has squirted.

Like our spunk, every woman has different tastes and flavours "

Funniest theory I've seen so far

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