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"Not to be bitchy ... but asking on a swinger site isnt the answer you are looking for.... Just saying ... " Perhaps you're right. I just wanted to get a point of view from people living there. | |||
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"Not to be bitchy ... but asking on a swinger site isnt the answer you are looking for.... Just saying ... " 100% Ask for advice as per my first post. You can share more about the nature of your work with them and they'll be able to better advise you. | |||
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"Not to be bitchy ... but asking on a swinger site isnt the answer you are looking for.... Just saying ... 100% Ask for advice as per my first post. You can share more about the nature of your work with them and they'll be able to better advise you." You're both quite right. Stupid to ask on here but thanks for the advice. | |||
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"Not to be bitchy ... but asking on a swinger site isnt the answer you are looking for.... Just saying ... 100% Ask for advice as per my first post. You can share more about the nature of your work with them and they'll be able to better advise you. You're both quite right. Stupid to ask on here but thanks for the advice. " No, it's not, it's a forum and you can ask whatever you like. Hopefully the advice given will be helpful to you | |||
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"Hi folks. The company I work for has asked me if I would go over to work in L/Derry for a few months due to a sharp rise in illness due to Covid. Before I decide I wondered how safe it would be for an ex British soldier to work there? Due to the work involved I would be working in both loyalist and nationalist areas. The same areas I patrolled in the 80s. My boss is a civilian and is blissfully unaware of the history of the troubles. I probably couldn't keep my military past to myself as obviously it is in my company records. " Keep yourself to yourself as we are supposed to do right now Things aren’t that bad over here and who “on the street” is gonna know who you are anyway mate. No disrespect. But I’d not know who you were unless you publish it. You’ll be grand. There’s trouble here yes. But sure what city doesn’t have trouble. You’ve got gangs and thugs everywhere. I’d say come on Jamie. Do your best for the people you can save anywhere You’ll be grand | |||
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"Londonderry ???? You've immediately alienated yourself to plenty of people straight away. " He's also used the term Derry/Londonderry in the title as a hell of a lot of people call it. Does it even matter anymore ...I'm an equal opportunity pervert Religion or political persuasion doesn't interest me in the slightest and I'm sure most people are like that now | |||
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"Hi folks. The company I work for has asked me if I would go over to work in L/Derry for a few months due to a sharp rise in illness due to Covid. Before I decide I wondered how safe it would be for an ex British soldier to work there? Due to the work involved I would be working in both loyalist and nationalist areas. The same areas I patrolled in the 80s. My boss is a civilian and is blissfully unaware of the history of the troubles. I probably couldn't keep my military past to myself as obviously it is in my company records. " If I were you I’d stay at home | |||
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"Never heard of L/Derry this " Bigotry shouldn't be on a Swingers site ,be mature . | |||
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"Never heard of L/Derry this Bigotry shouldn't be on a Swingers site ,be mature ." When someone doesn’t understand Irish history, telling people to be mature..... | |||
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"Christ he’s only after some advice lol It’s not as bad as people make out, yes the dissidents are hell bent on ruinin all the good progress made to make this place peaceful again. But why would any Derry people be interested in your history? What they don’t know shouldn’t bother them. As the other Derry man has said here contact local MPs and see what advice they can provide. Your army background shouldn’t be of interest to anyone other than you and your employer." This ??. A British soldier kicked my brother’s teeth in when he was 4 years old. He holds no grudge and neither do I. Your no more likely to have any hassle in Derry than anywhere else unless you look for it. Take the job | |||
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"Never heard of L/Derry this Bigotry shouldn't be on a Swingers site ,be mature . When someone doesn’t understand Irish history, telling people to be mature....." | |||
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"From a derry man. Tension is not high lol All the best!" | |||
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"Not to be bitchy ... but asking on a swinger site isnt the answer you are looking for.... Just saying ... " thats what i thought surely not the place for a question like that. | |||
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"I decided not to go. It was all to do with the distribution of protective equipment to those in need of it. I could see by the replies that tension still is high. Although I hope it is not as bad as it once was. Thanks too all for the replies. Keep well, keep safe and I hope in peace. " If you ever change your mind about Derry or anywhere else in NI, you will 99% of the time be fine. Obviously don’t mention your military past but otherwise there wouldn’t be an issue, maybe just a bit of slagging | |||
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"From a derry man. Tension is not high lol All the best!" This^^^^ Unless you plan to wear your uniform or shout it from a megaphone while you drive around, then how would anybody know?! | |||
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"I decided not to go. It was all to do with the distribution of protective equipment to those in need of it. I could see by the replies that tension still is high. Although I hope it is not as bad as it once was. Thanks too all for the replies. Keep well, keep safe and I hope in peace. " You made the right choice 100% your own safety and 1 less Brit on our streets. | |||
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"Unless you take out an ad in a local paper or tell ppl yourself, how is anyone going to know what you have done? Very strange" Thought this myself, surely just bringing attention to himself and doing the very opposite of his post | |||
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"These threads are always an eye opener " Aren't they just, quite sad really | |||
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"Your past history will have no relevance. I think once the Christians from either side of the divide find out you are a sex swinger then you will be condemned to eternal damnation anyway. You dirty heathen. " No relevance? Seriously. | |||
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"Over. Unfortunately not. Speak to a person who works there already. I speak to people daily who work there. It's still very much , do you drink orange juice, or seven up. As I say unfortunately. But it is, what it is." Speaking as a derry man. Yes the war is over. There’s a small group of arseholes who are hell bent on returning to the past. He would have been fine. | |||
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"You made the right choice 100% your own safety and 1 less Brit on our streets. " Really?? I love this!!! NOT!!! I was brought up in a mixed marriage household and attended an RC school, I also attended gospel meetings on the green with my friends. I've been to confessions and took my pioneer badge but I've also been saved too many times and look where that got me (fab) lol. Makes me laugh and angry at the same time, people from "Derry" carrying the queens money and people from "Londonderry" celebrating "Derry Day". Get a life and move on, we have a lot more to be worrying about than what to call a city in Northern Ireland!! There's a lot more going on in our world right now.... just think about everyone round you and if you are ever unlucky enough to need help from a nurse/doctor/PPE distributor please don't let yourself and the rest of us Northern Irish people down by asking them if they a a Brit before you willingly accept or decline the help you need! Rant over! Daisy Enjoy your weekend folks x | |||
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"Hi folks. The company I work for has asked me if I would go over to work in L/Derry for a few months due to a sharp rise in illness due to Covid. Before I decide I wondered how safe it would be for an ex British soldier to work there? Due to the work involved I would be working in both loyalist and nationalist areas. The same areas I patrolled in the 80s. My boss is a civilian and is blissfully unaware of the history of the troubles. I probably couldn't keep my military past to myself as obviously it is in my company records. " Stop looking for attention. No one would know your past only for you posting it on a feckin swingers site hoping for attention or to whind people up so cop on and grow up. | |||
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"Hi folks. The company I work for has asked me if I would go over to work in L/Derry for a few months due to a sharp rise in illness due to Covid. Before I decide I wondered how safe it would be for an ex British soldier to work there? Due to the work involved I would be working in both loyalist and nationalist areas. The same areas I patrolled in the 80s. My boss is a civilian and is blissfully unaware of the history of the troubles. I probably couldn't keep my military past to myself as obviously it is in my company records. Stop looking for attention. No one would know your past only for you posting it on a feckin swingers site hoping for attention or to whind people up so cop on and grow up. " My military past is in my company records. My boss asked me as he knew i knew the area. I wasnt attention seeking. I just wanted to know how the feelings were towards ex soldiers. I had no intention to bring my past up but if it got out through my dopey boss i wanted to know if it would cause me concern. My life now is as opposite as you can get from military life. I work for a health care charity. Anyway my apologies to those i may of offended and my thank you to those who privately messaged me to give advice. Peace to you all. | |||
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"You made the right choice 100% your own safety and 1 less Brit on our streets. Really?? I love this!!! NOT!!! I was brought up in a mixed marriage household and attended an RC school, I also attended gospel meetings on the green with my friends. I've been to confessions and took my pioneer badge but I've also been saved too many times and look where that got me (fab) lol. Makes me laugh and angry at the same time, people from "Derry" carrying the queens money and people from "Londonderry" celebrating "Derry Day". Get a life and move on, we have a lot more to be worrying about than what to call a city in Northern Ireland!! There's a lot more going on in our world right now.... just think about everyone round you and if you are ever unlucky enough to need help from a nurse/doctor/PPE distributor please don't let yourself and the rest of us Northern Irish people down by asking them if they a a Brit before you willingly accept or decline the help you need! Rant over! Daisy Enjoy your weekend folks x" What nonsense did I just read? Derry day, queens money, gospel days and confessions...... | |||
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"You made the right choice 100% your own safety and 1 less Brit on our streets. Really?? I love this!!! NOT!!! I was brought up in a mixed marriage household and attended an RC school, I also attended gospel meetings on the green with my friends. I've been to confessions and took my pioneer badge but I've also been saved too many times and look where that got me (fab) lol. Makes me laugh and angry at the same time, people from "Derry" carrying the queens money and people from "Londonderry" celebrating "Derry Day". Get a life and move on, we have a lot more to be worrying about than what to call a city in Northern Ireland!! There's a lot more going on in our world right now.... just think about everyone round you and if you are ever unlucky enough to need help from a nurse/doctor/PPE distributor please don't let yourself and the rest of us Northern Irish people down by asking them if they a a Brit before you willingly accept or decline the help you need! Rant over! Daisy Enjoy your weekend folks x" | |||
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"You made the right choice 100% your own safety and 1 less Brit on our streets. Really?? I love this!!! NOT!!! I was brought up in a mixed marriage household and attended an RC school, I also attended gospel meetings on the green with my friends. I've been to confessions and took my pioneer badge but I've also been saved too many times and look where that got me (fab) lol. Makes me laugh and angry at the same time, people from "Derry" carrying the queens money and people from "Londonderry" celebrating "Derry Day". Get a life and move on, we have a lot more to be worrying about than what to call a city in Northern Ireland!! There's a lot more going on in our world right now.... just think about everyone round you and if you are ever unlucky enough to need help from a nurse/doctor/PPE distributor please don't let yourself and the rest of us Northern Irish people down by asking them if they a a Brit before you willingly accept or decline the help you need! Rant over! Daisy Enjoy your weekend folks x What nonsense did I just read? Derry day, queens money, gospel days and confessions......" You read my opinion, surely you know that? You didn't have to, but you chose to. Just in the same way you don't have to read this. Your choice, we all have them! | |||
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"Never heard of L/Derry this " Derry? Where’s that? Is that short for somewhere? Edenderry? Londonderry ? Pmsl | |||
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"Never heard of L/Derry this Derry? Where’s that? Is that short for somewhere? Edenderry? Londonderry ? Pmsl" Get yourself an education sonny, learn some history and the origin of placenames. You might not embarrass yourself like this in the future then. | |||
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"Never heard of L/Derry this Derry? Where’s that? Is that short for somewhere? Edenderry? Londonderry ? Pmsl Get yourself an education sonny, learn some history and the origin of placenames. You might not embarrass yourself like this in the future then. " Did you hide ur profile before or after you made that comment “Sonny”? | |||
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"These threads are always an eye opener " Arent they just toxic x | |||
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"These threads are always an eye opener Arent they just toxic x" Indeed they are ladies - my finger is sore from blocking all the sad bigots | |||
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"These threads are always an eye opener Arent they just toxic x Indeed they are ladies - my finger is sore from blocking all the sad bigots " Sad to see 24,considering there is goood and bad in all walks of life. Not jusr catholics and prodtestants. | |||
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"These threads are always an eye opener Arent they just toxic x Indeed they are ladies - my finger is sore from blocking all the sad bigots Sad to see 24,considering there is goood and bad in all walks of life. Not jusr catholics and prodtestants. " You’re right Mizz - so many armchair combatants still out there. Fortunately they can be blocked and I’m sure many folk have done so | |||
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"Wow these threads really bring out the worst in people. Never been to Derry/Londonderry... and after reading this.. I never want to. Gobshites on both sides." Maybe we should have held on to cork instead of Londonderry lol. | |||
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"Wow these threads really bring out the worst in people. Never been to Derry/Londonderry... and after reading this.. I never want to. Gobshites on both sides. Maybe we should have held on to cork instead of Londonderry lol." Hilarious lol. | |||
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"Wow these threads really bring out the worst in people. Never been to Derry/Londonderry... and after reading this.. I never want to. Gobshites on both sides. Maybe we should have held on to cork instead of Londonderry lol." This "we" you speak of includes me. I'm a brit living in Republican Cork for 15 years... and in those 15 years living here I've encountered less bigotry than I've heard in this thread. Its shameful. | |||
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"Wow these threads really bring out the worst in people. Never been to Derry/Londonderry... and after reading this.. I never want to. Gobshites on both sides. Maybe we should have held on to cork instead of Londonderry lol. This "we" you speak of includes me. I'm a brit living in Republican Cork for 15 years... and in those 15 years living here I've encountered less bigotry than I've heard in this thread. Its shameful. " Calling people 'gobshites" isn't bigotry? | |||
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"Wow these threads really bring out the worst in people. Never been to Derry/Londonderry... and after reading this.. I never want to. Gobshites on both sides. Maybe we should have held on to cork instead of Londonderry lol. This "we" you speak of includes me. I'm a brit living in Republican Cork for 15 years... and in those 15 years living here I've encountered less bigotry than I've heard in this thread. Its shameful. Calling people 'gobshites" isn't bigotry? " No it isn’t. Do you know what bigotry is ?? Because it appears that you don’t...... | |||
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"Not when it's used to describe both sides no" Really ? Catholics and protestants all 'gobshites' up there? What about the Hindus? | |||
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"Not when it's used to describe both sides no Really ? Catholics and protestants all 'gobshites' up there? What about the Hindus?" I would happily use the word gobshite to describe all gobshites the world over Including sex form trolls | |||
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"Not when it's used to describe both sides no Really ? Catholics and protestants all 'gobshites' up there? What about the Hindus? I would happily use the word gobshite to describe all gobshites the world over Including sex form trolls " It just seems odd to target a whole city or group of people like that. Might be better to visit the place first rather than relying on a few random internet posts, anyway carry on. | |||
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"Not when it's used to describe both sides no Really ? Catholics and protestants all 'gobshites' up there? What about the Hindus? I would happily use the word gobshite to describe all gobshites the world over Including sex form trolls It just seems odd to target a whole city or group of people like that. Might be better to visit the place first rather than relying on a few random internet posts, anyway carry on." I'm hardly gomma drive from the bottom to the top of this island considering the unpleasant atmosphere and bigotry on both sides that seems to arise whenever the name of the city is mentioned. There are many lovely places to go here without the unpleasantness. I can do without it. | |||
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