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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Every so often I read posts on here about how rude people can be when they are rejected for one reason or another.

Yes , we've had the 'fat cunts' replies and the 'fuck off' ones too, but in all honesty, if we feel someone is not for us, we simply reply with just that.

"Not for us sorry" usually gets a 'cheers' or an 'OK' and we send a 'take care'.

So really it's not all bad, but we only hear of the horror stories, rarely praise for the people who take rejection with a pinch of salt and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said it’s just basic manners and some respect and says a lot about you. Well done

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I have heard people mention rejection before... What is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every so often I read posts on here about how rude people can be when they are rejected for one reason or another.

Yes , we've had the 'fat cunts' replies and the 'fuck off' ones too, but in all honesty, if we feel someone is not for us, we simply reply with just that.

"Not for us sorry" usually gets a 'cheers' or an 'OK' and we send a 'take care'.

So really it's not all bad, but we only hear of the horror stories, rarely praise for the people who take rejection with a pinch of salt and move on."

What percent of good/bad replies do you get?

I've done it a few times, not just here but elsewhere and it feels like I've gotten more bad than good so I just ignore most offers now because its not worth just hearing the attack.

In some cases fake profiles have been set up to catfish me or just to get my face picture. Ignoring seems like the safest bet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every so often I read posts on here about how rude people can be when they are rejected for one reason or another.

Yes , we've had the 'fat cunts' replies and the 'fuck off' ones too, but in all honesty, if we feel someone is not for us, we simply reply with just that.

"Not for us sorry" usually gets a 'cheers' or an 'OK' and we send a 'take care'.

So really it's not all bad, but we only hear of the horror stories, rarely praise for the people who take rejection with a pinch of salt and move on."

Thankfully the nice replies out weigh the bad ones. But everynow and than you get a doozy and it stops ya right in your tracks.

It's like restaurant reviews you usually hear the bad ones first lol

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

To be fair there is more people who respond nicely when they get a no sorry message. It's a lot smaller minority who get abusive. They just seem to be written about more on here.

There are a lot of decent nice people on here it's definitely not all doom and gloom.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Every so often I read posts on here about how rude people can be when they are rejected for one reason or another.

Yes , we've had the 'fat cunts' replies and the 'fuck off' ones too, but in all honesty, if we feel someone is not for us, we simply reply with just that.

"Not for us sorry" usually gets a 'cheers' or an 'OK' and we send a 'take care'.

So really it's not all bad, but we only hear of the horror stories, rarely praise for the people who take rejection with a pinch of salt and move on."

It's very easy to tar everyone with the same brush so it's great when people like yourselves acknowledge that the negativity isn't as broad sweeping as some would have you believe.

Manners cost nothing and positive posts like this should be encouraged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always try to give a response,although there are some we will continue to ignore,no matter how many times they message us with their multiple accounts.....

The vast majority of people we politely turn down either read the message then delete,or thank us for replying. Of course the odd few will try to turn it into a conversation!

The biggest cringe isn't insults (water off a duck's back), it's the ones who want to know why.....

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I haven't had a negative or abusive reaction/reply in ages. The wording of your own message in the first place is quite crucial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always try to give a response,although there are some we will continue to ignore,no matter how many times they message us with their multiple accounts.....

The vast majority of people we politely turn down either read the message then delete,or thank us for replying. Of course the odd few will try to turn it into a conversation!

The biggest cringe isn't insults (water off a duck's back), it's the ones who want to know why..... "

That last bit! I always answer why, in the nicest way possible and always ended it with "sorry". Didnt work so I gave up responding in general.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I haven't had a negative or abusive reaction/reply in ages. The wording of your own message in the first place is quite crucial. "

G'wan ya ould bag ya! I wouldn't get up on ya to get over a wall, well, unless it was a very small wall.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"We always try to give a response,although there are some we will continue to ignore,no matter how many times they message us with their multiple accounts.....

The vast majority of people we politely turn down either read the message then delete,or thank us for replying. Of course the odd few will try to turn it into a conversation!

The biggest cringe isn't insults (water off a duck's back), it's the ones who want to know why..... "

But, but why?

Think of the beautiful babies we could've had..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always try to give a response,although there are some we will continue to ignore,no matter how many times they message us with their multiple accounts.....

The vast majority of people we politely turn down either read the message then delete,or thank us for replying. Of course the odd few will try to turn it into a conversation!

The biggest cringe isn't insults (water off a duck's back), it's the ones who want to know why.....

But, but why?

Think of the beautiful babies we could've had.. "

Shurrup you

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Aaa! Finally, rejection!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I haven't had a negative or abusive reaction/reply in ages. The wording of your own message in the first place is quite crucial.

G'wan ya ould bag ya! I wouldn't get up on ya to get over a wall, well, unless it was a very small wall. "

Ahh McCarthy you dried out parsnip! You wished you'd get any mounting opportunity, so don't give me that choosy shite.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I haven't had a negative or abusive reaction/reply in ages. The wording of your own message in the first place is quite crucial.

G'wan ya ould bag ya! I wouldn't get up on ya to get over a wall, well, unless it was a very small wall.

Ahh McCarthy you dried out parsnip! You wished you'd get any mounting opportunity, so don't give me that choosy shite. "

That's the nicest thing a dried up old crone has ever said to me!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I haven't had a negative or abusive reaction/reply in ages. The wording of your own message in the first place is quite crucial.

G'wan ya ould bag ya! I wouldn't get up on ya to get over a wall, well, unless it was a very small wall.

Ahh McCarthy you dried out parsnip! You wished you'd get any mounting opportunity, so don't give me that choosy shite.

That's the nicest thing a dried up old crone has ever said to me! "

No shrivelled fanny here, incontinence keeps me moist. Is there still juice in your carrot?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I haven't had a negative or abusive reaction/reply in ages. The wording of your own message in the first place is quite crucial.

G'wan ya ould bag ya! I wouldn't get up on ya to get over a wall, well, unless it was a very small wall.

Ahh McCarthy you dried out parsnip! You wished you'd get any mounting opportunity, so don't give me that choosy shite.

That's the nicest thing a dried up old crone has ever said to me!

No shrivelled fanny here, incontinence keeps me moist. Is there still juice in your carrot? "

Well there is now after reading that, and it's all over my legs now as well.

The smell of piss is such a turn on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ Dont invite me to any parties you two are hosting. Could be a total shit show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't had a negative or abusive reaction/reply in ages. The wording of your own message in the first place is quite crucial.

G'wan ya ould bag ya! I wouldn't get up on ya to get over a wall, well, unless it was a very small wall.

Ahh McCarthy you dried out parsnip! You wished you'd get any mounting opportunity, so don't give me that choosy shite.

That's the nicest thing a dried up old crone has ever said to me!

No shrivelled fanny here, incontinence keeps me moist. Is there still juice in your carrot?

Well there is now after reading that, and it's all over my legs now as well.

The smell of piss is such a turn on! "

I think you two are made for each other! (for stand up comedy at least)

I never laughed out loud so much when I read the solution of incontinence from DH

L

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I haven't had a negative or abusive reaction/reply in ages. The wording of your own message in the first place is quite crucial.

G'wan ya ould bag ya! I wouldn't get up on ya to get over a wall, well, unless it was a very small wall.

Ahh McCarthy you dried out parsnip! You wished you'd get any mounting opportunity, so don't give me that choosy shite.

That's the nicest thing a dried up old crone has ever said to me!

No shrivelled fanny here, incontinence keeps me moist. Is there still juice in your carrot?

Well there is now after reading that, and it's all over my legs now as well.

The smell of piss is such a turn on! "

I bet you've always been a fast cumer, kinda pull that foreskin back and oops I just came....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This beats Literotica any day! When is the video out guys?

C

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I haven't had a negative or abusive reaction/reply in ages. The wording of your own message in the first place is quite crucial.

G'wan ya ould bag ya! I wouldn't get up on ya to get over a wall, well, unless it was a very small wall.

Ahh McCarthy you dried out parsnip! You wished you'd get any mounting opportunity, so don't give me that choosy shite.

That's the nicest thing a dried up old crone has ever said to me!

No shrivelled fanny here, incontinence keeps me moist. Is there still juice in your carrot?

Well there is now after reading that, and it's all over my legs now as well.

The smell of piss is such a turn on!

I bet you've always been a fast cumer, kinda pull that foreskin back and oops I just came...."

No foreskin so that speeds up the process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't had a negative or abusive reaction/reply in ages. The wording of your own message in the first place is quite crucial.

G'wan ya ould bag ya! I wouldn't get up on ya to get over a wall, well, unless it was a very small wall.

Ahh McCarthy you dried out parsnip! You wished you'd get any mounting opportunity, so don't give me that choosy shite.

That's the nicest thing a dried up old crone has ever said to me!

No shrivelled fanny here, incontinence keeps me moist. Is there still juice in your carrot?

Well there is now after reading that, and it's all over my legs now as well.

The smell of piss is such a turn on!

I bet you've always been a fast cumer, kinda pull that foreskin back and oops I just came....

No foreskin so that speeds up the process "

No foreskin slows it down actually

L

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

It's a small community here & yes, people do talk

So,best to always carry yourself with a bit of class

As cliched as it sounds...

but "word of mouth" does exist and travels fast

here on FAB...

So, it is nice to be nice ...BUT don't take nonsense either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your replies/opinions, just get fed up with all the negativity sometimes.

Hope you're all enjoying the weather.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have heard people mention rejection before... What is it? "

Rejection is a fragrance from Thunderkiss©

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