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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but why does a woman automatically be called a bike/slapper/whore/slut/spunk bucket/ the list could go on lol i,ve been here almost 8 months have met about 7 men since joining which in my book isn,t a while pile ! but what about the man wantin to shag the so called bike/slapper/whore/slut/ etc etc is he a hero lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my God ya whing and Seven men in eight month your nothing but a filthy slut next you'll be telling us you like two cocks at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seven in eight months? I know people who've had that in a day lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh my God ya whing and Seven men in eight month your nothing but a filthy slut next you'll be telling us you like two cocks at once "

lmao !has been known but dos,nt make me a bad person and u did,nt answer my question properly lol

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

What gets me is when guys mail asking to meet i'm stunning, sexy, a real lady. But when you politely turn them down because for some reason they are not what your looking for, i then become a slut, desperate, a fat mess and a timewaster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ok serious hat on for a second then

Yes totally agree women practicularly straight women on here get a raw deal and get abuse where men get admired for their knots on their bed post, although I do think this attitude is being to dying off!

My favourite one so far was a couple (straight male, bi woman) who mailed and asked would we like to meet for drinks with a view to playing after, now we've met couples for drinks before always had a great time but on this occasion it was pretty clear they haven't read the profile so I replied and said I didn't think we'd have very much in common and well low and behold then came the abuse......appartently straight women are nothing but unpaid greedy whores ...whereas bi women are just experimenting with their sexuality :0/ they struggled to reply when I asked does that make your straight hubby a unpaid greedy whore???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im an unpaid greedy whore. lets start slagging the fridgit ones. im a deviant and i like othet deviants. just be safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im an unpaid greedy whore. lets start slagging the fridgit ones. im a deviant and i like othet deviants. just be safe."

goodie can I not pay you to be another knoch on my bed post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id gladly do it for free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id gladly do it for free"

what a slut lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nobody is a slut on my eyes. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who actually admires men for the notches though?

We're often told they're called 'studs', but I've never actually heard anyone compliment a man for having loads of women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yea believe it or not lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What gets me is when guys mail asking to meet i'm stunning, sexy, a real lady. But when you politely turn them down because for some reason they are not what your looking for, i then become a slut, desperate, a fat mess and a timewaster! "

now see thats what i,m talking about thank fk i,m not the only one who gets mail like that ur damned if you do damned if you don,t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope ye are all reporting abusive mails, people like that don't deserve to be on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be honest and say that generally when we say thanks but no thanks the response from single guys is thanks for the reply......in a total of three years on the site we've only had to report a handful of guys....maybe we've just been lucky?? Or do people think that maybe its a single woman thing?? Do these people think you should be desperate for sex so should say yes to all that's offered??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on the site over a year and have had 1 abusive guy and I agree that in general, if a guy sends me a message and I politely reply that's he's not my type or whatever, I get a nice thanks for replying back! I still do get the odd weirdo with 'strange' requests, well strange to me but prob normal to him...lolol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I still do get the odd weirdo with 'strange' requests, well strange to me but prob normal to him...lolol! "

I'd ask what those requests were, but I'd probably regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ty, lets just say one the most recent one, who was 3 years younger then me, had a very close relationship with his mum!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ty, lets just say one the most recent one, who was 3 years younger then me, had a very close relationship with his mum!!!!!!! "

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

what is this, I don't even....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nobody is a slut on my eyes. lol"

lol well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to be honest and say that generally when we say thanks but no thanks the response from single guys is thanks for the reply......in a total of three years on the site we've only had to report a handful of guys....maybe we've just been lucky?? Or do people think that maybe its a single woman thing?? Do these people think you should be desperate for sex so should say yes to all that's offered?? "

guess you have been lucky i got a block list the lenght of my arm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most guys are friendly, but like others I've come across the odd ones who can't take rejection and turn ugly. Very rare though.

But I agree with ty that generally promiscuous women are looked at negatively and men are studs if they do the same.

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By *ebracouCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

go for what you want sex is for all and something to enjoy you go for what you want and let the wankers say what they want rember we humans can enjoy sex ant time animals only can do it when there in season so were blessed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most guys are friendly, but like others I've come across the odd ones who can't take rejection and turn ugly. Very rare though.

But I agree with ty that generally promiscuous women are looked at negatively and men are studs if they do the same.

"

Don't agree with the stud comment, I have been on here since about October, and I had someone recently contact me and make disparaging comments about the amount of Verifications I had, and they would never meet me because of them

Hence why I have most of mine hidden, I actively read peoples verifications, and find it gives you a great idea about people, how genuine they are, and wether they are worth meeting, and the more the better in my eyes..

Anyone on here who calls a sexy open, active woman (or couple) something like a slut has the mentality of a 14yr old looking at a copy of H&E behind a bike shed in 1985...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" has the mentality of a 14yr old looking at a copy of H&E behind a bike shed in 1985... "

LOVE that description

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TBH Ive never heard those sort of comments from men on here

However - just read a handful of female profiles - and there it is, in black and white " I dont - like some of the girls on here" and similier

Plus the pithy comments in chat - and the not so pithy - the blatently downright rude

At the end of the day this is a swingers site. No matter which way anyone chooses to interupt swinging - should they be judged by the same ones on this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a key opens a lot of locks, it's a master key.

If a lock is opened by a lot of keys, it's a shitty lock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a key opens a lot of locks, it's a master key.

If a lock is opened by a lot of keys, it's a shitty lock. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or it only good in one postion. and who wants that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"most guys are friendly, but like others I've come across the odd ones who can't take rejection and turn ugly. Very rare though.

But I agree with ty that generally promiscuous women are looked at negatively and men are studs if they do the same.

"
yea right studs lol i think we need to come up with a worse word than that for some men lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"go for what you want sex is for all and something to enjoy you go for what you want and let the wankers say what they want rember we humans can enjoy sex ant time animals only can do it when there in season so were blessed "

your right its there to be enjoyed no need to make someone feel worthless just cause they can,t get all their own way but sure its norn iron still in the dark ages here lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"TBH Ive never heard those sort of comments from men on here

However - just read a handful of female profiles - and there it is, in black and white " I dont - like some of the girls on here" and similier

Plus the pithy comments in chat - and the not so pithy - the blatently downright rude

At the end of the day this is a swingers site. No matter which way anyone chooses to interupt swinging - should they be judged by the same ones on this site?"

don,t get me wrong i know there is some women on here are as bad as some men when it comes to name callin sure i,ve seen it with my own eyes in chat lol am here to enjoy myself granted but not with every tom dick or harry that comes my way bitta fun now and again were,s the harm like ! !ps ! i know you still want my box lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a key opens a lot of locks, it's a master key.

If a lock is opened by a lot of keys, it's a shitty lock. "

knew there would be one shitty comment lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always one Troll ... lol,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's always one Troll ... lol, "

aye one in every village or is that a gay lol

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