FabSwingers.com forum: Cougar/milf

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it only me who have a serious dislike for those terms..? For a someone who never wanted kids I find milf especially annoying and disrespectful.

Debate.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Is it only me who have a serious dislike for those terms..? For a someone who never wanted kids I find milf especially annoying and disrespectful.

Debate.

What would you prefer then madame

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it only me who have a serious dislike for those terms..? For a someone who never wanted kids I find milf especially annoying and disrespectful.

Debate.

What would you prefer then madame

My name is Cara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don’t care about labels, attraction is most important. If we are getting into semantics then I suppose Cougar w/o kids and MILF If has kids.

I think saying mature lady is almost like calling a woman old and we all know everyone loves to be called old

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Is it only me who have a serious dislike for those terms..? For a someone who never wanted kids I find milf especially annoying and disrespectful.

Debate.

What would you prefer then madame

My name is Cara

Cara it is then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I don’t care about labels, attraction is most important. If we are getting into semantics then I suppose Cougar w/o kids and MILF If has kids.

I think saying mature lady is almost like calling a woman old and we all know everyone loves to be called old

Oh ye another one of my 'favourites'

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By *ore of thatMan
over a year ago

skerries

Don't worry cara what you are called .you look amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don’t like being called a cub either, especially as cubs don’t eat out cougars in the wild, but in my experience.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take it to heart as after all it's only a porn term really in my view.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't take it to heart as after all it's only a porn term really in my view. "

Im not, I just dont like it

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Plenty more of those silly porn labels around, I don't use them. But for some it seems to be a kink to use the porn language and fancy the associated type of sex. And why not, it's like any other preference.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’m totally with you on this I hate both terms and I have been called a cougar before

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

It doesn't bother me what people call ( label) me. They don't know me and I'm confident enough to know who and what I am. Just ignore labels.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Ah i just take them names with a pinch of salt ye either love m or hate me

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Ah i just take them names with a pinch of salt ye either love m or hate me

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'm not a fan of them if I'm honest. But people will use them.regardless so I tend to just ignore them. If someone messages me calling me either I usually don't reply. I'm not a mother either so it doesn't refer to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just indicate to me that a man watches too much porn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not a fan of them if I'm honest. But people will use them.regardless so I tend to just ignore them. If someone messages me calling me either I usually don't reply. I'm not a mother either so it doesn't refer to me.

Yeah Id be the same..instant turn off..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They just indicate to me that a man watches too much porn. "

I dont mind porn...and i dont mind pornographic terms. But dont use them as your opening line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They just indicate to me that a man watches too much porn.

I dont mind porn...and i dont mind pornographic terms. But dont use them as your opening line

Nor do I, but they tell me that the man concerned sees me as an object, not a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't bother me what people call ( label) me. They don't know me and I'm confident enough to know who and what I am. Just ignore labels.

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It doesn't bother me what people call ( label) me. They don't know me and I'm confident enough to know who and what I am. Just ignore labels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who use those terms seriously remind me of stifler from american pie and I can no longer take them seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who use those terms seriously remind me of stifler from american pie and I can no longer take them seriously."

Who takes people on this site seriously ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who use those terms seriously remind me of stifler from american pie and I can no longer take them seriously.

Who takes people on this site seriously ffs

Great great grandmothers Id like to....

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"People who use those terms seriously remind me of stifler from american pie and I can no longer take them seriously.

Who takes people on this site seriously ffs

Great great grandmothers Id like to....

Think there called "GILF" that's a whole new thread

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"People who use those terms seriously remind me of stifler from american pie and I can no longer take them seriously.

Who takes people on this site seriously ffs

Great great grandmothers Id like to....

Think there called "GILF" that's a whole new thread

Or "GGGILF"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who use those terms seriously remind me of stifler from american pie and I can no longer take them seriously.

Who takes people on this site seriously ffs

Great great grandmothers Id like to....

Think there called "GILF" that's a whole new thread

Or "GGGILF"

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haven't seen that one on porn sites now not sure id want to either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who use those terms seriously remind me of stifler from american pie and I can no longer take them seriously.

Who takes people on this site seriously ffs

Great great grandmothers Id like to....

The only great great grandmothers I know of are around 100, but hey, if that's your thing.....

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"People who use those terms seriously remind me of stifler from american pie and I can no longer take them seriously.

Who takes people on this site seriously ffs

Great great grandmothers Id like to....

Think there called "GILF" that's a whole new thread

Or "GGGILF"

haven't seen that one on porn sites now not sure id want to either lol"

Ask Mr Booobs it seems to float his boat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People who use those terms seriously remind me of stifler from american pie and I can no longer take them seriously.

Who takes people on this site seriously ffs

Great great grandmothers Id like to....

Think there called "GILF" that's a whole new thread

Nooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who use those terms seriously remind me of stifler from american pie and I can no longer take them seriously.

Who takes people on this site seriously ffs

Great great grandmothers Id like to....

Think there called "GILF" that's a whole new thread

Or "GGGILF"

haven't seen that one on porn sites now not sure id want to either lol

Ask Mr Booobs it seems to float his boat

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each to there own haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a young lad, I had super fun with all those married cougar ladies. At around age 40 a woman's estrogen levels begin to fall dramatically, and their testosterone levels increase. It's the aforementioned testosterone boost that makes women of a certain age sexually aggressive, hence the term Cougar.

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By *ocko123Man
over a year ago

Derry

Categorisation or titling aspects of or individuals’ sexuality is crass and mostly inaccurate. People are people.. end of.. ‘Types’ another concept I don’t get. People are attractive.., ie individuals..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who use those terms seriously remind me of stifler from american pie and I can no longer take them seriously.

Who takes people on this site seriously ffs

Great great grandmothers Id like to....

Think there called "GILF" that's a whole new thread

Or "GGGILF"

haven't seen that one on porn sites now not sure id want to either lol

Ask Mr Booobs it seems to float his boat

each to there own haha"

Hydrolic hips and toothless bjs.....

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland

Respect is the key if you were brought up in an educated & mannerly fashion, you would always respect others by your description and language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer women my age or slightly younger so I wouldn't know much about how offensive the names might be but from afar I always got the impression women on here embraced the terms milf/cougar.

I think once its not used in an insensitive way or if it comes from the woman herself it's fine.

I'm not sure if you can do much about it if other women continue to use those terms and you're with a younger guy, it may just be slapped onto you unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preferences I guess ?

I’d imagine there’s plenty of women that love being called milf or cougar?

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

himself calls me a cougar because im 7 months older than him

I tend to ignore it on here. Nothing worse than a message saying id love a go on a milf. Im not a fairground exhibit thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer women my age or slightly younger so I wouldn't know much about how offensive the names might be but from afar I always got the impression women on here embraced the terms milf/cougar.

I think once its not used in an insensitive way or if it comes from the woman herself it's fine.

I'm not sure if you can do much about it if other women continue to use those terms and you're with a younger guy, it may just be slapped onto you unfortunately.

Im not actually..despite of being very open minded all my life ,I never had a thing for younger men as such. So I guess my dislike comes from the generalisation of the word. Once you are over 40 it seems it automatically means you are a cougar and into younger men.

The post of course is on my personal preference and was just curious of other people's opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"himself calls me a cougar because im 7 months older than him

I tend to ignore it on here. Nothing worse than a message saying id love a go on a milf. Im not a fairground exhibit thanks. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fall into the young guy/ older women category I think it’s turned into a fantasy because of porn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer women my age or slightly younger so I wouldn't know much about how offensive the names might be but from afar I always got the impression women on here embraced the terms milf/cougar.

I think once its not used in an insensitive way or if it comes from the woman herself it's fine.

I'm not sure if you can do much about it if other women continue to use those terms and you're with a younger guy, it may just be slapped onto you unfortunately.

The post of course is on my personal preference and was just curious of other people's opinion.

Ahhh I get you now, so when you're over 40 you mean they just say it even if you're not into young guys.

Well yeah, that's a bit ridiculous and stupid. I disagree with that of course.

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