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How picky is too picky?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just your preference and should stay how it is? Because that's what you enjoy, or

is there a point where you should reflect on how realistic you're being? Mind you, you're not depressed or sad about not getting what you want.

I think this is everyone in some way, curious about what people's opinions are on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet people I like and want to hwve sex with.

I would drop my own personal standards just for a ride.

Sex isnt that hard to get or that important to me to bother unless I really want the person

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I think you totally have a right to be picky and shouldn’t lower your standard for anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I meet people I like and want to hwve sex with.

I would drop my own personal standards just for a ride.

Sex isnt that hard to get or that important to me to bother unless I really want the person"

But in general, not just sex, looks, personality.

An example, my ex was politically very conservative and I'm very liberal. I ended it and my motivation was partly because I was so disappointed with the fact that she had conservative values.

There was a dislike to her that I couldn't get over because I felt her views harmed so many people.

Everything else was beyond amazing. A political conversation actually set the ball rolling. If we hadn't brought up the topic we'd 100% be together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only prerequisite is that she is fun to hang out with, easy-going and has a positive vibe. I've had really good sex with women of all ages, shapes and sizes.

I steadfastly refuse to entertain women who have a shitty entitled attitude, or any who are high maintenance drama queens no matter how beautiful they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet people I like and want to hwve sex with.

I would drop my own personal standards just for a ride.

Sex isnt that hard to get or that important to me to bother unless I really want the person

But in general, not just sex, looks, personality.

An example, my ex was politically very conservative and I'm very liberal. I ended it and my motivation was partly because I was so disappointed with the fact that she had conservative values.

There was a dislike to her that I couldn't get over because I felt her views harmed so many people.

Everything else was beyond amazing. A political conversation actually set the ball rolling. If we hadn't brought up the topic we'd 100% be together."

It will really depend on each individual situation.

Like your example above sounds like it has the potential to become really toxic,and they are fundimental values.

When it comes to relationships causal or more commited I think you need to stick to your values

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Depends in what situation youre referring to op but i guess i would be quite picky even when its comes to being on here.

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

I don't judge the book by the cover' but easy to talk to funny is foremost' looks don't bother me' shape '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you dont look like a victoria secret model you can f##k right off!

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"If you dont look like a victoria secret model you can f##k right off! "

Shut up mr snow

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im way to picky hence why i dont meet to often but that's just me it takes me a while to know someone cause ill always find faults i never never never fuck someone just for the ride to me that's being a bit desperate.....

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

If people are comfortable about how they live their life and how selective they want to be then good luck to them.

We all here of our own free will and can choose or not choose whom we like or dislike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are comfortable about how they live their life and how selective they want to be then good luck to them.

We all here of our own free will and can choose or not choose whom we like or dislike.

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well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally for me ,there would have to be mental stimulation ,l would have to be able to have the craic ,to me ,sex for the sake of sex is completely empty and worthless ,it's the mental appetite that's the key for me ,the body only goes where the mind takes it ,if you're not turned on mentally it's useless,..no passion..no point ..it's the mental satisfaction that really drives the physical attraction during sex ..for me anyway...BUT l do think that sometimes...only sometimes ..that some ladies here think just because they have a vagina they don't have to make an effort ..that's so far off the mark .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..BUT l do think that sometimes...only sometimes ..that some ladies here think just because they have a vagina they don't have to make an effort ..that's so far off the mark ."

Being honest here depending on what they are looking for they really dont have to make the slightest effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very picky, people know my taste

Brain comes first, personality second and physical attraction on the end. And regarding the question about standards: no, I wouldn't lower them. Why?

There are thousands of people here, I have found a few of them which they became my friends or we meet just for coffee and chat but still chemistry is between us.

I prefer to know the person better before we will land in the bed. Trust and honesty are two bullet points for me. If I trust, the person I have decided to meet will be rewarded in this or another way sooner or later

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By *eaAndBenCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to get to know a person first to see if there is a connection. If there is all well and good. If there isnt, move on and no hard feelings.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I consider myself more desperate than picky so I'll take what I can get.

Form an orderly queue please ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to get to know a person first to see if there is a connection. If there is all well and good. If there isnt, move on and no hard feelings."

What if there is a great connection but the person is emotion messed up. Suppressing emotions and giving the silent treatment. How would you deal with that, after giving many chances already.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I like to get to know a person first to see if there is a connection. If there is all well and good. If there isnt, move on and no hard feelings.

What if there is a great connection but the person is emotion messed up. Suppressing emotions and giving the silent treatment. How would you deal with that, after giving many chances already. "

Walk away.

Or offer links to support services that you think they may need.

If you're emotionally invested in them, offer to accompany them to said services.

Think you're kinda derailing the thread somewhat though.

Still a worthy question though.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Is it just your preference and should stay how it is? Because that's what you enjoy, or

is there a point where you should reflect on how realistic you're being? Mind you, you're not depressed or sad about not getting what you want.

I think this is everyone in some way, curious about what people's opinions are on this."

Everyone should regularly check how realistic they're being!

For their own self and for their opportunity.

There could be many facets of humanity they are unaware of, so exploration outside their known realms is usually a good thing.

Not always but worthy of a query

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

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Have often asking myself the same question and i do wonder is the reason i don’t get many meets on here or the reason iv not had many gf’s that i’m too picky but then why lower your reason just for the ride or to settle for something thats not for you . So i think everyone is picky to a certain extent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to get to know a person first to see if there is a connection. If there is all well and good. If there isnt, move on and no hard feelings.

What if there is a great connection but the person is emotion messed up. Suppressing emotions and giving the silent treatment. How would you deal with that, after giving many chances already.

Walk away.

Or offer links to support services that you think they may need.

If you're emotionally invested in them, offer to accompany them to said services.

Think you're kinda derailing the thread somewhat though.

Still a worthy question though. "

That's your view and sorry you feel that way thanks for your input though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kaizer ain't picky enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've all my own teeth, just sayin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've all my own teeth, just sayin' "

Lol

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Never settle for mediocre

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

There's so many blokes on here that I have to be picky, my spare time is limited.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Nothing wrong with being picky but dont describe yourself as that if you are not.

I am only interested in hot, fit women. Does it make me shallow? I dont think so.

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By *ubeMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Its everyone's right to meet up with who ever they want, I just wish I had more free time to meet people but I dont so that's life, I just get on with it,its nothing to do with being picky just be true to your self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm picky and don't apologise for it I could have met a lot on here but I don't I pick it's not all about the ride and yes of course and defo the ride is much much better if you fancy her and want to stay for a cuddle and a chat after you blow your cum... alot better xx ps and want to meet again asap xx

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