FabSwingers.com forum: JUST AN OBSERVATION ABOUT COUPLES ON THE FORUM...

By *easingTim OP Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

It's great that singles

as well as couples

all get to openly chat on an ecletic mix of topics

here on the fabulous FAB forum

HOWEVER when reading comments by couples

it would be useful to know if the comments are

made from him

or her

as let's face it, some

couples don't agree on everything...

(I know... hard to believe that

)

Any chance of the occasional emoji and an initial afterwards on a thread

...or something along those lines?

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

we agree about everything otherwise he gets a smack of a pan

Mrs

Joking (or am i)

get where youre coming from OP i do most (actually) all of the chatting on here so it doesnt even cross my mind to put which one of us is talking

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Tbh this is something I have flagged with MrD. I always indicate its me chatting, he doesnt and I feel that this can be misleading.

MrD is a dirty fooker and I am not quite so!!!! Its a good mix but I want people to know who is chatting.

MsD x

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By *easingTim OP Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"we agree about everything otherwise he gets a smack of a pan

Mrs

Joking (or am i)

get where youre coming from OP i do most (actually) all of the chatting on here so it doesnt even cross my mind to put which one of us is talking"

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Hypothetically of course

I'm chatting to one of you via private message

and then read on the forums that supporting a

certain politician

is an absolute deal breaker

but I don't know who the comment is made by...

Would be nice to know who's views it is

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"we agree about everything otherwise he gets a smack of a pan

Mrs

Joking (or am i)

get where youre coming from OP i do most (actually) all of the chatting on here so it doesnt even cross my mind to put which one of us is talking

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Hypothetically of course

I'm chatting to one of you via private message

and then read on the forums that supporting a

certain politician

is an absolute deal breaker

but I don't know who the comment is made by...

Would be nice to know who's views it is

i get ya. i will include the mrs abbreviations going forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand why some couples do it already to be fair (even mid-post) especially if both use the profile as much as the other.

However, I've always viewed it as an agreed upon sense that when chatting with a couple you never assume who's talking and by extension direct any comments to just one of them.

I realise that may just be best for messages and not general opinions but I imagine, maybe, for some who don't already "sign off" on forum posts that it can be somewhat of filter in that regard. If something is a "deal breaker" for one then I'd imagine it would take precedent for both to be fair.

Plus, I'm sure the ambiguity can lead to the odd giggle when Mr posts and he's kissed/licked/shagged etc by dozens of fellas

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By *eaAndBenCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

It’s usually me (Bea) on the forums. I do try to remember to sign off so folks know.

Bea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt really bother me who is posting... I dont really interact with people that differently on here depnding on gender...

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We tend too tag our comments with either mr or mrs if we are not looking together, if we are both together we dont put either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great that singles

as well as couples

all get to openly chat on an ecletic mix of topics

here on the fabulous FAB forum

HOWEVER when reading comments by couples

it would be useful to know if the comments are

made from him

or her

as let's face it, some

couples don't agree on everything...

(I know... hard to believe that

)

Any chance of the occasional emoji and an initial afterwards on a thread

...or something along those lines?

we use to do this and people got snotty about it

jay

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By *oconuts39Woman
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

Hmm good idea.. I used to end with 'Nuts'. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to be only me (Casey) posting, I never bothered to sign off, when Lee started posting occasionally, he put his name at the end. That's what he still does, and frankly I can't be arsed putting my name at the end of all my posts; if it bothers anyone that much which of us posted a particular comment, they can ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesnt really bother me who is posting... I dont really interact with people that differently on here depnding on gender..."

You mean you asked Lee for tit pics too??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesnt really bother me who is posting... I dont really interact with people that differently on here depnding on gender...

You mean you asked Lee for tit pics too?? "

You mean they were NOT Lee's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesnt really bother me who is posting... I dont really interact with people that differently on here depnding on gender...

You mean you asked Lee for tit pics too??

You mean they were NOT Lee's?"

I'd have to take a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand why some couples do it already to be fair (even mid-post) especially if both use the profile as much as the other.

However, I've always viewed it as an agreed upon sense that when chatting with a couple you never assume who's talking and by extension direct any comments to just one of them.

Plus, I'm sure the ambiguity can lead to the odd giggle when Mr posts and he's kissed/licked/shagged etc by dozens of fellas

Hey Pete, there are very few men on here that communicate to both in the couple when messaging (You are one of the few exceptions).

The mails are generally directed at the female half and the conversation continues directed entirely at the female...and guys wonder why the conversation peters out with little or no chance of developing further.

I expect this is the case with a lot of couples. The guys who think to involve both generally do very well IMO.

True colours of personality come through early in conversation and there's generally no way back from a bad start.

Casey posts far more than me so it's easier to differentiate if I add an initial or name at the end.

Lee

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Hmm good idea.. I used to end with 'Nuts'. lol.

Lol I have u2 saved on my fone as A Coconut

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By *oiracpl38Couple
over a year ago

moira ish

We use an x if Diane chats and i dont,so far works well.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

99% of our posts on the forum are from me.

Pete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I like to make stupid forum comments, and sign them off as isserley. She's so cute when she's angry

As for replying to mails, we usually wait till we are together to go through them and reply, so mails often go ages left unread.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

If a couple doesn't distinguish who's posting/messaging I assume they're also not bothered if only one gets addressed in a reply. Why should I bother if they don't. Communication rules work both ways or they don't.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Sometimes I like to make stupid forum comments, and sign them off as isserley. She's so cute when she's angry

As for replying to mails, we usually wait till we are together to go through them and reply, so mails often go ages left unread."
i am going to try this.

Gemma xxx

Or is it Pete?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the only one who posts on the forum.

But we share answering the messages so I try to sign mine so I dont get confused.

Roxy x

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By *yeCandyDublinCouple
over a year ago

Lucan

All forum posts are from me (Mrs)

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

I get messages from couples "I'd love a massage"..unsigned.. If it's going to go anywhere, I need to know "who" wants the massage. A lot of men then insist I do all the talking with them, including the intimate details of how I'm going to massage his partner. It saves endless texts and waste of time if I chat direct to Mrs, about what SHE wants. That's the reason why I prefer to talk to the female of the couple when arranging a meet.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Most forum posts are from me Mr and still try and sign them off

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

99% of the time it's Mr on the forum and 100% of the time people tell me I've a nice arse which is a confidence boost but I know it's not my arse they are talking about.

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By *yeCandyDublinCouple
over a year ago

Lucan

"99% of the time it's Mr on the forum and 100% of the time people tell me I've a nice arse which is a confidence boost but I know it's not my arse they are talking about."

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Could be either of us. I like anyone messaging us to address both of us... so we deliberately dont identify ourselves most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met plenty of couples where the husband was a gent, very pleasant friendly and down to earth fellow. Unfortunately his wife was an uncool obnoxious highly strung bitch, suffering from delusions of grandeur.

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

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By *eaAndBenCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I've met plenty of couples where the husband was a gent, very pleasant friendly and down to earth fellow. Unfortunately his wife was an uncool obnoxious highly strung bitch, suffering from delusions of grandeur.

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

You clearly bring out the best in the ladies you meet... they all sound quite charming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

You clearly bring out the best in the ladies you meet... they all sound quite charming!"

Well pardon me for having standards. I only play with women who are down to earth, easy-going and happy in their own skin.

Dunno what's wrong with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

You clearly bring out the best in the ladies you meet... they all sound quite charming!"

took the words right out of our mouths

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

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Sorry about that. You met her on a bad night....

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

I started on the bottom of this thread and when I read the words above I knew that it was you without even looking for your name

I feel sorry for you and I genuinely hope that its not that your on your own during the lock down as the reason why I think you don't actually like women.

These forums are meant to be some light relief in a time when we're all so wrecked trying to keep our families safe

Is it too difficult for you to show some positivity and be a little more optimistic and especially to stop showing such bitterness towards women in general

You're a broken record at this stage and We'd all be better off with a new tune

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

And likewise there are just as many couples where the Male is a total dickhead, but the female partner is lovely.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

And likewise there are just as many couples where the Male is a total dickhead, but the female partner is lovely. "

Guilty

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By *aradiselost747Couple
over a year ago

dundonald

We always sign off with a “ G” or a “S”. Mr s out time wasters so replies to many of them, but we both do the friendly chat when we are interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

And likewise there are just as many couples where the Male is a total dickhead, but the female partner is lovely.

Guilty

Yeeeeah. Defo.

Its King.

Or is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

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Have you ever actually posted anything positive on the forums?? We are on an adult site and we all have opinions but yours are always negative

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

Have you ever actually posted anything positive on the forums?? We are on an adult site and we all have opinions but yours are always negative

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By *easingTim OP Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

Have you ever actually posted anything positive on the forums?? We are on an adult site and we all have opinions but yours are always negative

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Yeah, maybe all someone just needs is a big hug

So all together now guys...

Big virtual hug making it's way down towards Cork

Ohhhh can't you feel da lurve here!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

Have you ever actually posted anything positive on the forums?? We are on an adult site and we all have opinions but yours are always negative

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Yeah, maybe all someone just needs is a big hug

So all together now guys...

Big virtual hug making it's way down towards Cork

Ohhhh can't you feel da lurve here!!!!

er no

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By *easingTim OP Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

Have you ever actually posted anything positive on the forums?? We are on an adult site and we all have opinions but yours are always negative

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Yeah, maybe all someone just needs is a big hug

So all together now guys...

Big virtual hug making it's way down towards Cork

Ohhhh can't you feel da lurve here!!!!

er no"

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Who said that now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

Have you ever actually posted anything positive on the forums?? We are on an adult site and we all have opinions but yours are always negative

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Yeah, maybe all someone just needs is a big hug

So all together now guys...

Big virtual hug making it's way down towards Cork

Ohhhh can't you feel da lurve here!!!!

er no

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Who said that now...

both

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By *easingTim OP Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

I'm not that desperate for a shag, so I wouldn't play with a woman like that. So I just make my excuses, and make like a tree and leave.

Have you ever actually posted anything positive on the forums?? We are on an adult site and we all have opinions but yours are always negative

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Yeah, maybe all someone just needs is a big hug

So all together now guys...

Big virtual hug making it's way down towards Cork

Ohhhh can't you feel da lurve here!!!!

er no

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Who said that now...

both

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You wear the trousers

...she just tells you which ones and what colour.

Hear you loud & clear

Both is fine....

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"99% of our posts on the forum are from me.

Pete

I agree

Gemma x

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By *easingTim OP Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"99% of our posts on the forum are from me.

Pete

I agree

Gemma x

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Ohhh but that 1% is soooo cheeky

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