FabSwingers.com forum: When women on fab say no

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know I will probably be banned for this and lots here would say I deserve this type of message and more. But I hate bullies. Ladies if you want to know who sent the message below as I think he is best avoided. Just ask.

No course you won't... Cause you cant plan anything or meet really atcall.

Plus, no one said to fuck every guy who messages you , so quit being defensive

Yes your right, the way you use fab totally works for you...

I just feel your not very honest about how you go about... Prick teasing, enticing, suggesting that others have a chance to meet you.

Infact it's quite sad and lonely really.

I'm sorry your like this, home life is the way it is etc,

that the only joy you get is using your pussy to get some horny chat...

When you could be honest, and people would respect you more.

Really your just a voyeur and only thinks of yoyrself!! Pretty selfish really.

But hey, lots if dig men out tyere... I'm sure yiu dont mind them all messaging you... Wanting you...

Newsflash though... The men who want to fuck you, dont see you as beautiful and different... Your just a hole to spray their muck into... Dog meat to them.

Maybe, try working on your marriage, finding out why hubby no longer fucks you?

Block me now thanks x

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Hi I dont know you or even spoken to you before

You are right no one should be treated like that and you're right to stand up for yourself

Stay well

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

Sad sad little man. There's a reason why I've guys blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi I dont know you or even spoken to you before

You are right no one should be treated like that and you're right to stand up for yourself

Stay well "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sad sad little man. There's a reason why I've guys blocked

Absoutely and I'm happy to say several women have been warned so far.

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By *anFromMarsMan
over a year ago

North

Nope you won't be banned you didn't name him on the post and you definitely didn't deserve it, Your business why your here regardless of your circumstances, some may not approve but wont judge some will then others like this guy will play the game then get nasty if they don't get their war just block and move on not worth stressing about just try not let them get to you.

Think we were on the same group chat (on the site that cant be mentioned lol) a while back, dust yourself off and carry on, your sound and their are plenty of good 1's on here that will help you bounce back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sad sad little man. There's a reason why I've guys blocked

this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope you won't be banned you didn't name him on the post and you definitely didn't deserve it, Your business why your here regardless of your circumstances, some may not approve but wont judge some will then others like this guy will play the game then get nasty if they don't get their war just block and move on not worth stressing about just try not let them get to you.

Aw thank you xx

I think an excellent name for a group would be voldemort lol

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Just laugh it off, it's from a guy you don't know, who doesn't know you or your circumstances, so it doesn't mean anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just laugh it off, it's from a guy you don't know, who doesn't know you or your circumstances, so it doesn't mean anything."

Thank you but I'm actually not bothered by what he said but hate the behind keyboard warrior aspect to it. I think anyone anyone spews hate on another person is just dog turd. But unfortunately not all people shrug it off as easily so it shouldn't be tolerated. Obviously I reported the text as abusive but think sometimes you should be able to say enough is enough and out the feckers.

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
over a year ago

Leinster

Just seeing this now Anon. Sorry to hear you, or any person, were the target of

such abuse. I know I've enjoyed my recent chats with you and I can only think the sender of a message like the one you received must have serious personal issues, that are entirely unrelated to you, but if so, it does not in any way condone what was said to you. Fab is different things for different people and it seems that person, mistakenly, believed you were here for his convenience alone.

It seems you've acted appropriately and reacted in an creditably measured way by reporting the incident. Unfortunately, I don't think Fab has sufficient means to protect members because the perpetrators can circumvent the membership process and re-surface as 'new' members.

Lots of good advice and support evident from the messages above, so chin up and carry on.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Block and delete.

You'll have to do it more than once.

Why sweat the small stuff, which this drip of puscience obviously is.

Think I just made a new word!

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

What a prick. You don't deserve that at all and I'm sorry you even had to read it.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"What a prick. You don't deserve that at all and I'm sorry you even had to read it."

Presume that you meant to quote original text and aren't replying to my comment?

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

"What a prick. You don't deserve that at all and I'm sorry you even had to read it.

Presume that you meant to quote original text and aren't replying to my comment? "

Oh god! Yeah sorry I'm replying to the OP.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"What a prick. You don't deserve that at all and I'm sorry you even had to read it.

Presume that you meant to quote original text and aren't replying to my comment?

Oh god! Yeah sorry I'm replying to the OP. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP- Sorry to hear you you were the victim of an abuse on the site. I guess a lot of guys on fab haven't quite cottoned to the fact than men outnumber women here by about fifteen to one. So consequently quite a lot of the women on fab do indeed appear to have massively over-inflated egos, probably as a result of all the male attention they receive on a daily basis.

I've been here over three months now, and have met a few really nice down to earth women, and have had some fun times, but I've also come across a fair number of uncool highly strung drama queens, who are suffering from delusions of grandeur.

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By *isneyChick85Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *isneyChick85Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

OP - We all have our own personal reasons for being on here and have our own personal preferences so nobody has the right to criticise, pass judgement or be verbally abusive just because they don't get their way.

I can't stand bullying, harassment and verbal abuse.

Delete and block....and report if necessary.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"I know I will probably be banned for this and lots here would say I deserve this type of message and more. But I hate bullies. Ladies if you want to know who sent the message below as I think he is best avoided. Just ask.

No course you won't... Cause you cant plan anything or meet really atcall.

Plus, no one said to fuck every guy who messages you , so quit being defensive

Yes your right, the way you use fab totally works for you...

I just feel your not very honest about how you go about... Prick teasing, enticing, suggesting that others have a chance to meet you.

Infact it's quite sad and lonely really.

I'm sorry your like this, home life is the way it is etc,

that the only joy you get is using your pussy to get some horny chat...

When you could be honest, and people would respect you more.

Really your just a voyeur and only thinks of yoyrself!! Pretty selfish really.

But hey, lots if dig men out tyere... I'm sure yiu dont mind them all messaging you... Wanting you...

Newsflash though... The men who want to fuck you, dont see you as beautiful and different... Your just a hole to spray their muck into... Dog meat to them.

Maybe, try working on your marriage, finding out why hubby no longer fucks you?

Block me now thanks x"

Unfortunately this is the land of the loonies and scumbags OP best coarse of action would be block and move on you don't owe him or anyone else anything and don't let his words get to you either its likely you will get similar messages along the line at some stage just rinse and repeat its really not worth putting energy into bad eggs belong in the trash that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore correspondence from this type of cockwomble of which there are plenty here.dont explain yourself to strangers.you owe them nothing .use the site however you want and dont let strangers on the internet get to you . X

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"What a prick. You don't deserve that at all and I'm sorry you even had to read it.

Presume that you meant to quote original text and aren't replying to my comment? "

she didn't quote your message dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No course you won't... Cause you cant plan anything or meet really atcall.

Plus, no one said to fuck every guy who messages you , so quit being defensive

Yes your right, the way you use fab totally works for you...

I just feel your not very honest about how you go about... Prick teasing, enticing, suggesting that others have a chance to meet you.

Infact it's quite sad and lonely really.

I'm sorry your like this, home life is the way it is etc,

that the only joy you get is using your pussy to get some horny chat...

When you could be honest, and people would respect you more.

Really your just a voyeur and only thinks of yoyrself!! Pretty selfish really.

But hey, lots if dig men out tyere... I'm sure yiu dont mind them all messaging you... Wanting you...

Newsflash though... The men who want to fuck you, dont see you as beautiful and different... Your just a hole to spray their muck into... Dog meat to them.

Maybe, try working on your marriage, finding out why hubby no longer fucks you?

Block me now thanks x"

What an absolutely assholes, men like that don't get very far.

There is no need to put someone down for his own pleasure.

I have it on my profile I cannot respond to every message so don't get offended and if they do well their own problem.

Dont let it bother you too much, he was looking for a quick ego boost after he was probably rejected.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Nonsense, no one deserves a message like that. It says more about the individual that sent it than you. We are all on here for our own reasons and we all have our preferences. If someone says no at any stage then no means no. It could be a straight no from the start as you know they aren’t what you want but even if you are talking for a bit that’s when you start to see past someone’s facade and if it’s no at that stage is no. If someone says no to you just leave it at that and respect their choice, wish them well, smile and move on. Life’s too short to be nasty to people. Anon keep smiling and be happy you’ve someone like this blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah don't mind him what a fuckwit. He threw his toys out of the cot when he didn't get his way. I get lots of nasty messages as well but I just block after I give it back to them with two barrels! You are here for your pleasure not for anybody else's x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly its the norm on here ive got those kind of messages a few times as well some guys just hate the word NO on here and think we all just sitting waiting about for them lol but there are a few diamonds in amongst all the twats I'm still waiting for mine though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is awful. Even if I don't get a reply back or a no thanks, that's fine. I don't push it and I certainly don't abuse anyone. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and that's fine. Stay safe ?

No course you won't... Cause you cant plan anything or meet really atcall.

Plus, no one said to fuck every guy who messages you , so quit being defensive

Yes your right, the way you use fab totally works for you...

I just feel your not very honest about how you go about... Prick teasing, enticing, suggesting that others have a chance to meet you.

Infact it's quite sad and lonely really.

I'm sorry your like this, home life is the way it is etc,

that the only joy you get is using your pussy to get some horny chat...

When you could be honest, and people would respect you more.

Really your just a voyeur and only thinks of yoyrself!! Pretty selfish really.

But hey, lots if dig men out tyere... I'm sure yiu dont mind them all messaging you... Wanting you...

Newsflash though... The men who want to fuck you, dont see you as beautiful and different... Your just a hole to spray their muck into... Dog meat to them.

Maybe, try working on your marriage, finding out why hubby no longer fucks you?

Block me now thanks x"

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By *ohnsmithMan
over a year ago

South Tipperary

Out in sticks lady.

What a asshole. Good warning to all ladies in here. No need for that type or behavior.

Keep the faith..

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Sadly messages like this happen. Even ones when you get abuse in the first message and blocked before you can reply

not that I usually would waste my time anyhow. Don't know why people do it and why they feel the need but the best way to look at it is that it is like the rubbish taking itself out. There are plenty of decent good guys on here who stand out because they don't act like that.

The cockwombles will continue to be cockwombles wanking at home wondering how come no one will meet them.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Such a barrage of well thought out, carefully scripted and articulate insights

The man is obviously a writer of some sorts or at least a Psychologist who profoundly understands the psyche of the female irish swinger

I think you should eventually meet this little charmer and bring three other female Fabbers

to let "the man" answer for himself...

...only you might need to ring his mum first for permission and then again to collect him after his first real date

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By *tockings199Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

No course you won't... Cause you cant plan anything or meet really atcall.

Plus, no one said to fuck every guy who messages you , so quit being defensive

Yes your right, the way you use fab totally works for you...

I just feel your not very honest about how you go about... Prick teasing, enticing, suggesting that others have a chance to meet you.

Infact it's quite sad and lonely really.

I'm sorry your like this, home life is the way it is etc,

that the only joy you get is using your pussy to get some horny chat...

When you could be honest, and people would respect you more.

Really your just a voyeur and only thinks of yoyrself!! Pretty selfish really.

But hey, lots if dig men out tyere... I'm sure yiu dont mind them all messaging you... Wanting you...

Newsflash though... The men who want to fuck you, dont see you as beautiful and different... Your just a hole to spray their muck into... Dog meat to them.

Maybe, try working on your marriage, finding out why hubby no longer fucks you?

Block me now thanks x"

Trust me when this hottie says NO she means it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Such a barrage of well thought out, carefully scripted and articulate insights

The man is obviously a writer of some sorts or at least a Psychologist who profoundly understands the psyche of the female irish swinger

I think you should eventually meet this little charmer and bring three other female Fabbers

to let "the man" answer for himself...

...only you might need to ring his mum first for permission and then again to collect him after his first real date

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No course you won't... Cause you cant plan anything or meet really atcall.

Plus, no one said to fuck every guy who messages you , so quit being defensive

Yes your right, the way you use fab totally works for you...

I just feel your not very honest about how you go about... Prick teasing, enticing, suggesting that others have a chance to meet you.

Infact it's quite sad and lonely really.

I'm sorry your like this, home life is the way it is etc,

that the only joy you get is using your pussy to get some horny chat...

When you could be honest, and people would respect you more.

Really your just a voyeur and only thinks of yoyrself!! Pretty selfish really.

But hey, lots if dig men out tyere... I'm sure yiu dont mind them all messaging you... Wanting you...

Newsflash though... The men who want to fuck you, dont see you as beautiful and different... Your just a hole to spray their muck into... Dog meat to them.

Maybe, try working on your marriage, finding out why hubby no longer fucks you?

Block me now thanks x

Trust me when this hottie says NO she means it "

Absoutely some just take a while getting the message

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Wow how awful was that message. Nasty sad man that he is. Hope he gets a ban. Stay strong. 99% of fab males are real gems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No course you won't... Cause you cant plan anything or meet really atcall.

Plus, no one said to fuck every guy who messages you , so quit being defensive

Yes your right, the way you use fab totally works for you...

I just feel your not very honest about how you go about... Prick teasing, enticing, suggesting that others have a chance to meet you.

Infact it's quite sad and lonely really.

I'm sorry your like this, home life is the way it is etc,

that the only joy you get is using your pussy to get some horny chat...

When you could be honest, and people would respect you more.

Really your just a voyeur and only thinks of yoyrself!! Pretty selfish really.

But hey, lots if dig men out tyere... I'm sure yiu dont mind them all messaging you... Wanting you...

Newsflash though... The men who want to fuck you, dont see you as beautiful and different... Your just a hole to spray their muck into... Dog meat to them.

Maybe, try working on your marriage, finding out why hubby no longer fucks you?

Block me now thanks x"

Holy moly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! Finally someone aware here! Congrats! That's why i dont send msg anymore ! Im sick of all of them

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By *lutaxiMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

Disgusting message, though typical of brave behind a keyboard. Sort of person who talks about you rather than to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has messaged me as well and few of the other ladies I know. All nasty messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make love not war

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow, what a shocking message!!! So vile

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By *tockings199Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"He has messaged me as well and few of the other ladies I know. All nasty messages."

Well I have blocked the sad loser

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for the messages. He didn't upset me but I got a bad vibe and wanted to warn others. Hate to think of a lady turning up to a social meet and saying no in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you all for the messages. He didn't upset me but I got a bad vibe and wanted to warn others. Hate to think of a lady turning up to a social meet and saying no in person. "

Thank you for the warning xxx

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