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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm at my lowest ebb here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at my lowest ebb here..."

Anyone you can chat with or meet within 2kms for a social distanced walk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at my lowest ebb here..."

Sending you a virtual hug. Must be a day for it xx

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge


"I'm at my lowest ebb here..."

The best thing about your lowest point is that it can and will only get better from here

Chin up fella!

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I'm at my lowest ebb here..."

We have always had cracks man ranging from many different sizes chin up

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I'm at my lowest ebb here..."

Do you need a virtual cuddle

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I'm at my lowest ebb here...

Do you need a virtual cuddle "

No answer busty is that virtual hug still vacant lol

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Anything I or we can do to help in any way Op..

Feel free to Private message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You may see me struggle,

but you will never see me fall.

Regardless if I'm weak or not,

I'm going to stand tall.

Everyone says that life is easy,

but truly living it is not.

Times get hard, people struggle

and are forever put on the spot.

I'm going to wear the biggest smile,

even at times I wish to cry.

I'm going to fight to live,

even though I'm destined to die.

And even though it's hard

and I may struggle through it all,

you may see me struggle...

but you will NEVER see me fall."

There's no shortage of shoulders to lean on here, OP, it's good to talk

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I'm at my lowest ebb here...

Do you need a virtual cuddle

No answer busty is that virtual hug still vacant lol"

Always Chris think it would be mutually beneficial right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've felt like that this week as living alone can be very isolating right now. PM if you feel like chatting

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


""You may see me struggle,

but you will never see me fall.

Regardless if I'm weak or not,

I'm going to stand tall.

Everyone says that life is easy,

but truly living it is not.

Times get hard, people struggle

and are forever put on the spot.

I'm going to wear the biggest smile,

even at times I wish to cry.

I'm going to fight to live,

even though I'm destined to die.

And even though it's hard

and I may struggle through it all,

you may see me struggle...

but you will NEVER see me fall."

There's no shortage of shoulders to lean on here, OP, it's good to talk "

That’s lovely Pete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at my lowest ebb here..."

Hang in there buddy!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's ok not to be ok.

You've reached out now and that's always the biggest hurdle.

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By *artender_onthelooseMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm at my lowest ebb here..."

We can all feel like that keep the head up and stay stong pal

Better days Ahead

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By *ymbunny35Woman
over a year ago

Cork

Hugs hun x always here if you need a chat

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I'm at my lowest ebb here...

Do you need a virtual cuddle

No answer busty is that virtual hug still vacant lol

Always Chris think it would be mutually beneficial right now "

Awww yes your indeed right oh wait feck wheres the hug emoji I'm gunna go on a riot for this I guess hearts are just as good

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I've felt like that this week as living alone can be very isolating right now. PM if you feel like chatting"

I rather not talk to Boris thank you but yeah happy to chat away to you of course

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I'm at my lowest ebb here..."

Some days are harder than others and this day will pass as well. Don't be afraid to reach out and talk to people x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at my lowest ebb here..."

Just hang in there as this too shall pass. stay safe xx

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know.. "

They aren't a bad lot most of the time. As long as you have cake and creme eggs to keep them happy you'll be grand

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know.. "

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know..

They aren't a bad lot most of the time. As long as you have cake and creme eggs to keep them happy you'll be grand "

Who has cake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know..

They aren't a bad lot most of the time. As long as you have cake and creme eggs to keep them happy you'll be grand "

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know.. "

Glad to see this - hang in there friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know..

They aren't a bad lot most of the time. As long as you have cake and creme eggs to keep them happy you'll be grand "

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know..

They aren't a bad lot most of the time. As long as you have cake and creme eggs to keep them happy you'll be grand

"

Are we allowed both at once

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know..

Glad to see this - hang in there friend!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know..

They aren't a bad lot most of the time. As long as you have cake and creme eggs to keep them happy you'll be grand

Are we allowed both at once "

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know.. "

Yeah believe me there is more good ones here than bad not everyone is here ready with their pitch forks op take it easy man we will get through this maybe we can meet up for drinks or something when we adults are allowed out again

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know..

They aren't a bad lot most of the time. As long as you have cake and creme eggs to keep them happy you'll be grand

Are we allowed both at once "

Of course you are but there are always some who wouldn't be satisfied with that and will want more.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know..

They aren't a bad lot most of the time. As long as you have cake and creme eggs to keep them happy you'll be grand

Are we allowed both at once

Of course you are but there are always some who wouldn't be satisfied with that and will want more. "

I won't be greedy I'll stick with just the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know..

They aren't a bad lot most of the time. As long as you have cake and creme eggs to keep them happy you'll be grand

Are we allowed both at once

Of course you are but there are always some who wouldn't be satisfied with that and will want more.

I won't be greedy I'll stick with just the two "

Another quality of Bo's x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the great thing about this site. It's there for everyone even if it's just a friendly chat in public. Op think in a few weeks this will all be in the past and brighter things ahead. I'm sure we've all needed that extra war to listen to. My inbox is always available to anyone that needs to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ear not war obviously and chat on private.. Stupid phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""You may see me struggle,

but you will never see me fall.

Regardless if I'm weak or not,

I'm going to stand tall.

Everyone says that life is easy,

but truly living it is not.

Times get hard, people struggle

and are forever put on the spot.

I'm going to wear the biggest smile,

even at times I wish to cry.

I'm going to fight to live,

even though I'm destined to die.

And even though it's hard

and I may struggle through it all,

you may see me struggle...

but you will NEVER see me fall."

There's no shortage of shoulders to lean on here, OP, it's good to talk

That’s lovely Pete "

This is nice thanks Pete, OP without struggle there can be no progress. It's great that you have said it out right here. Talking about it helps, we met one time and i knoe hoe much you love your job and keeping busy. I'm the same it's s tough, ring family members and friends and talk. I am foung things that i usually hate doing and they are becoming the highlight of mu day now. It's strange locked up, i hope you feel better as the day is going on. Reaching out is the main thing and you have done that here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at my lowest ebb here..."
you should try being in my shoes theres nobody to help a guy when hes down i see , I've tried everywhere

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I'm at my lowest ebb here... you should try being in my shoes theres nobody to help a guy when hes down i see , I've tried everywhere

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I doubt that man many hear to help someone in need all you have to do is ask unfortunately we haven't learned how to mind read yet lol but anyway help is there if you want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's ok not to be ok.

You've reached out now and that's always the biggest hurdle.

"

Keep on going.

Remember, if your path demands you go through hell, walk like you own the bitch.

Got that from a meme. But has helped me when I've been through(and still am) going through shite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at my lowest ebb here... you should try being in my shoes theres nobody to help a guy when hes down i see , I've tried everywhere

I doubt that man many hear to help someone in need all you have to do is ask unfortunately we haven't learned how to mind read yet lol but anyway help is there if you want it "

i know your not mind readers but this isn't really thd place to be airing your troubles im just saying ive tried phoning an talking to all the people that r supposed to there to help an all they do pass it on we cant help try such an such thats my experience anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know..just when you think you have this place sussed as being something frivolous and light..you get the kind of posts and messages that you guys have sent and you think friends come from all different places. Thank you all for the messages...think its just being at the half way mark (hopefully) gets to you...anyway..back im the saddle here..you lot are ok you know..

Yeah believe me there is more good ones here than bad not everyone is here ready with their pitch forks op take it easy man we will get through this maybe we can meet up for drinks or something when we adults are allowed out again "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at my lowest ebb here... you should try being in my shoes theres nobody to help a guy when hes down i see , I've tried everywhere

"

There is always help, Aware have help lines as do pieta house etc , depending exactly om how you are feeling. Don't loose hope, you will get plenty of it on these helps lines, they will chat and maybe give free counselling if that's a route one decides to use. It's just a call away professionals.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's the great thing about this site. It's there for everyone even if it's just a friendly chat in public. Op think in a few weeks this will all be in the past and brighter things ahead. I'm sure we've all needed that extra war to listen to. My inbox is always available to anyone that needs to talk "

Cheers Curious...this place is full of open doors with good people such as yourself there to talk..we're richer than we thought xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at my lowest ebb here... you should try being in my shoes theres nobody to help a guy when hes down i see , I've tried everywhere

I doubt that man many hear to help someone in need all you have to do is ask unfortunately we haven't learned how to mind read yet lol but anyway help is there if you want it i know your not mind readers but this isn't really thd place to be airing your troubles im just saying ive tried phoning an talking to all the people that r supposed to there to help an all they do pass it on we cant help try such an such thats my experience anyway

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Why not share them here? It's a good a place as anywhere else, and some people don't have anywhere else to share.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I'm at my lowest ebb here... you should try being in my shoes theres nobody to help a guy when hes down i see , I've tried everywhere

I doubt that man many hear to help someone in need all you have to do is ask unfortunately we haven't learned how to mind read yet lol but anyway help is there if you want it i know your not mind readers but this isn't really thd place to be airing your troubles im just saying ive tried phoning an talking to all the people that r supposed to there to help an all they do pass it on we cant help try such an such thats my experience anyway

Why not share them here? It's a good a place as anywhere else, and some people don't have anywhere else to share. "

Yeah and look anyone gives you guff I have my guitar and pitch fork ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at my lowest ebb here... you should try being in my shoes theres nobody to help a guy when hes down i see , I've tried everywhere

I doubt that man many hear to help someone in need all you have to do is ask unfortunately we haven't learned how to mind read yet lol but anyway help is there if you want it i know your not mind readers but this isn't really thd place to be airing your troubles im just saying ive tried phoning an talking to all the people that r supposed to there to help an all they do pass it on we cant help try such an such thats my experience anyway

Why not share them here? It's a good a place as anywhere else, and some people don't have anywhere else to share.

Yeah and look anyone gives you guff I have my guitar and pitch fork ready "

cheers but its more a guy in a suit with a brifecase i need to help me though.

But thanks for the offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey man I've felt the same most of this week, all I can say is "it will pass". The only way we can handle this is one day at a time. Today may be a bad day but tomorrow is a new day. I'm trying to change my days if they aren't working. I got a workout from home thing from my gym and started today then had a walk and I feel better today than I have all week. And I truly was at my lowest more than one this week. Just try and allow your brain to let yourself believe that tomorrow is a new day to feel differently. Stay strong bro 3

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey man I've felt the same most of this week, all I can say is "it will pass". The only way we can handle this is one day at a time. Today may be a bad day but tomorrow is a new day. I'm trying to change my days if they aren't working. I got a workout from home thing from my gym and started today then had a walk and I feel better today than I have all week. And I truly was at my lowest more than one this week. Just try and allow your brain to let yourself believe that tomorrow is a new day to feel differently. Stay strong bro 3 "

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at my lowest ebb here...

The best thing about your lowest point is that it can and will only get better from here

Chin up fella! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not alone! We all share this burden. This too will pass.

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