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Common errors, hints & tips!

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By *eaAndBen OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Since we can’t go anywhere we may as well use this time to reflect and better ourselves so, what common seduction/bedroom errors have you encountered and what are your fail safe hints and tips for the perfect (whatever that is!) liaison?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently the female orgasm is not a myth....

So post lockdown I will be apologising when its pointed out it hasnt been achieved rather than simply laugh

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Step one. Learn how to speak Venutian.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Spend more time just kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the phone down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respond to the person/people and the current situation rather than running through your "failsafe" tick list

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By *illynmintCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Brand new batteries are not a passion killer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax and actually have fun...

Some people seem to take this sex thing far too seriously

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By *shtimer05Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Be open. Life is short. Have as much fun as possible without judging others and hurting others.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Have fun find someone you click with and can be open with about things.

Try new stuff and just enjoy it. And never ever do a pity fuck no matter how much someone tries to guilt you into it.

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By *shtimer05Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Have fun find someone you click with and can be open with about things.

Try new stuff and just enjoy it. And never ever do a pity fuck no matter how much someone tries to guilt you into it. "

What’s a pity fuck?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Have fun find someone you click with and can be open with about things.

Try new stuff and just enjoy it. And never ever do a pity fuck no matter how much someone tries to guilt you into it.

What’s a pity fuck? "

something you should never do if you don't know it's grand you've never done it. Lol.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Have fun find someone you click with and can be open with about things.

Try new stuff and just enjoy it. And never ever do a pity fuck no matter how much someone tries to guilt you into it. "

I said I was sorry

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By *shtimer05Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Ha ha ! Lol ! Thanks Bo !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have fun find someone you click with and can be open with about things.

Try new stuff and just enjoy it. And never ever do a pity fuck no matter how much someone tries to guilt you into it.

What’s a pity fuck?

something you should never do if you don't know it's grand you've never done it. Lol. "

I think it's one of those things that only women believe in, like emotional affairs

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Have fun find someone you click with and can be open with about things.

Try new stuff and just enjoy it. And never ever do a pity fuck no matter how much someone tries to guilt you into it.

I said I was sorry "

Well you may have to say it more the next time

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

[Removed by poster at 04/04/20 11:34:09]

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By *eaAndBen OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

So the click and chemistry might be there but when you get down to business the operational side of things might not be what you expected/wanted, kisses like a washing machine on fast spin, trying to tune in radio Moscow with your nips, those were the types of errors, hints and tips I was thinking off tbh. I kinda take the rest as read.

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell


"So the click and chemistry might be there but when you get down to business the operational side of things might not be what you expected/wanted, kisses like a washing machine on fast spin, trying to tune in radio Moscow with your nips, those were the types of errors, hints and tips I was thinking off tbh. I kinda take the rest as read. "

In that situation the biggest error you could make is not communicating. If you can't tell the person you're in bed with that you don't like that particular technique and prefer it another way then you probably shouldn't be fucking them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the click and chemistry might be there but when you get down to business the operational side of things might not be what you expected/wanted, kisses like a washing machine on fast spin, trying to tune in radio Moscow with your nips, those were the types of errors, hints and tips I was thinking off tbh. I kinda take the rest as read.

In that situation the biggest error you could make is not communicating. If you can't tell the person you're in bed with that you don't like that particular technique and prefer it another way then you probably shouldn't be fucking them. "

Agreed, we all have different tastes, communication is the key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If something is enjoyable don't take that as a sign to do it faster/harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be yourselves...relax ....have fun ....to much drink is No no

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"So the click and chemistry might be there but when you get down to business the operational side of things might not be what you expected/wanted, kisses like a washing machine on fast spin, trying to tune in radio Moscow with your nips, those were the types of errors, hints and tips I was thinking off tbh. I kinda take the rest as read.

In that situation the biggest error you could make is not communicating. If you can't tell the person you're in bed with that you don't like that particular technique and prefer it another way then you probably shouldn't be fucking them.

Agreed, we all have different tastes, communication is the key. "

I refer you to my earlier comment about the use of a universal translator or night classes. Martians and Venutians speak different languages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the click and chemistry might be there but when you get down to business the operational side of things might not be what you expected/wanted, kisses like a washing machine on fast spin, trying to tune in radio Moscow with your nips, those were the types of errors, hints and tips I was thinking off tbh. I kinda take the rest as read.

In that situation the biggest error you could make is not communicating. If you can't tell the person you're in bed with that you don't like that particular technique and prefer it another way then you probably shouldn't be fucking them.

Agreed, we all have different tastes, communication is the key.

I refer you to my earlier comment about the use of a universal translator or night classes. Martians and Venutians speak different languages "

Ah but language isn't the only means of communication

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"So the click and chemistry might be there but when you get down to business the operational side of things might not be what you expected/wanted, kisses like a washing machine on fast spin, trying to tune in radio Moscow with your nips, those were the types of errors, hints and tips I was thinking off tbh. I kinda take the rest as read.

In that situation the biggest error you could make is not communicating. If you can't tell the person you're in bed with that you don't like that particular technique and prefer it another way then you probably shouldn't be fucking them.

Agreed, we all have different tastes, communication is the key.

I refer you to my earlier comment about the use of a universal translator or night classes. Martians and Venutians speak different languages

Ah but language isn't the only means of communication "

I agree. There's also semaphore.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"So the click and chemistry might be there but when you get down to business the operational side of things might not be what you expected/wanted, kisses like a washing machine on fast spin, trying to tune in radio Moscow with your nips, those were the types of errors, hints and tips I was thinking off tbh. I kinda take the rest as read.

In that situation the biggest error you could make is not communicating. If you can't tell the person you're in bed with that you don't like that particular technique and prefer it another way then you probably shouldn't be fucking them.

Agreed, we all have different tastes, communication is the key. "

Exactly you need to be able to tell the other person or persons what you like as they should be able to tell you. Or to tell them you don't like something as well. If you can't well then it's pointless and will never be as much fun as it should be.

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By *ac147Man
over a year ago

Belfast East

Have fun... There's absolutely nothing wrong with having a laugh in bed,as long as she's not laughing and pointing at my wee Percy

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If you don't laugh at least once during sex you're doing it wrong.

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