FabSwingers.com forum: Single holidays

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok ive a question ... When this is all over i want to go on a holiday . so i know this sounds terrible but im seperated and dont really have any friends to go with . so has anyone been on a singles holiday . is it like really awkward . like sitting on your own . eating on your own .. Drinking on your own ..ect ect ..whats your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a holiday booked for july goin on my own . May wait till next yr now. Anyway once ur able to chat u will be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been on a singles holiday, but I've travelled alone for work, eaten alone in hotels every night. Often when we are on holiday I will do things on my own. Why should it be awkward, the truth is that most people are focused on themselves and don't notice you. Doing things on your own is a great way to get headspace and be in the moment. Go for it, you might be surprised by how much you enjoy it.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I go on holiday by myself and love it. I do not do singles holidays i just book something on my own. It is absolutely fine and a great feeling knowing each day you can please yourself and do whatever you want to do and eat whereever you want.

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By *o strings but a G-stringMan
over a year ago

city

"I go on holiday by myself and love it. I do not do singles holidays i just book something on my own. It is absolutely fine and a great feeling knowing each day you can please yourself and do whatever you want to do and eat whereever you want. "

100% agree. You pick the agenda, no debating over activities, restaurants and if the place is a particular site seeing spot you can fill your days with your own preferences. Plus, fab can add company too if you get lonely during the holiday.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

I always holiday alone, as I like to do my own thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never done it but I wake early and your always sitting around on balcony reading book waiting for people to wake. Your always meet people I do then you wish you was alone cos the people you meet more interesting than friends you went with ..my holiday due June in Jamaica this ant going to happen now

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

You mooch around and do your own thing. If you booking book for say 3 or 4 days on the first trip and see how you get on.

Travel lots for work and am always on my own and it can get a bit lonely eating on your own but it's not the worst thing in the world.

Good luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done it, i think omce a person is happy in their own skin then its more than half the battle. Maybe we should have a singles swing holiday. I know that some groups from fab have went on trips.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

When I broke up with an ex

None of my friends were available so

I flew off to Krakow, Poland and made

a few amazing friends in no time at all

I've also found that going to an Irish Bar abroad

is also a surefire winner for meeting new people too!

Hell, we might even have ourselves a FAB lads holiday

when we all get through this ... AND WE WILL!

GO ON DA LAD!!

Stay strong mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I broke up with an ex

None of my friends were available so

I flew off to Krakow, Poland and made

a few amazing friends in no time at all

I've also found that going to an Irish Bar abroad

is also a surefire winner for meeting new people too!

Hell, we might even have ourselves a FAB lads holiday

when we all get through this ... AND WE WILL!

GO ON DA LAD!!

Stay strong mate

Yes if you are a social person then your good to go. I am a bit introverted and also abit of an extrovert. Maybe we could just go a group mixed with just whoever wants to go. I think that's what alot of groups do here. But a lads holiday definitely sounds good for ye guys. Check out the swing world in other parts of the world if ye haven't already.

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By *ucy49Woman
over a year ago

clare

Go for it x

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Im used to travelling on my own at this stage

Some good and bad things to it.

The best think about it is that you make the itinerary and can decide to do or see as much or as little as possible

I love museums and art galleries so once a year I go to london,Paris,Berlin or Amsterdam for 4 days

Spend 10 hours each day seeing everything I want to

I eat in pubs or busy restaurants so it doesnt make a difference if I'm alone

The other break I take every year is a few days in Spain just lying beside a pool or nudist beach and giving my brain a chance to re-boot

My last trip was to Paris in December but I don't know when I'll get to go anywhere again soon

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Yes went to Morocco on me own, one of my best holidays ever.

Anyhow there's different types of small group travels on offer ie tour of Sicily, trip to the desert etc. where you join a group of fellow travelers. You quickly get to know the others and some of those arrangements offer a really good and interesting programme.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Are you talking about a holiday on your own or a singles holiday where everyone is in a group and do things together?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I go on my own...ive never gone on a singles holiday

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By *herieWoman
over a year ago

The Burbs

If you dont feel comfortable on your own you could try the travel department, lots of people travel to the destinations alone but the company plan your itinerary, day trips etc..you can meet other people on their own too

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon

I've been going on holidays by myself the last few years usually the same destination,always a good time had and have more kinky friends there than I have here.Can't wait to go again when all this sh*te is over.

Q. Why bring an apple to an orchard! ''Just do it''

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...travelled on my own when I was younger and have done it all again recently.

It opens a lot of doors and can be self assuring and good for independence.And I always meet people to chat too,or socialise with.

Enjoy.!

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Ok ive a question ... When this is all over i want to go on a holiday . so i know this sounds terrible but im seperated and dont really have any friends to go with . so has anyone been on a singles holiday . is it like really awkward . like sitting on your own . eating on your own .. Drinking on your own ..ect ect ..whats your thoughts"

I haven't done it yet but I certainly plan to it's not awkward at all its normally me myself and I anyway except for some cases being friendly with the locals certainly is bonus blend in with the crowds I've been in places completely on my own and before the end of the night I'm hanging around random people just enjoying ourselves so go ahead and do it man I guess being on your own it's your rules your way simple

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

One of my goals for this year was to take a solo holiday, I've wanted to do it for ages! Love the idea of a proper break from everything and everyone, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my goals for this year was to take a solo holiday, I've wanted to do it for ages! Love the idea of a proper break from everything and everyone, lol"

Had same plan. Did few trips around Ireland and n.ireland over the last year working up towards going abroad this year.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"One of my goals for this year was to take a solo holiday, I've wanted to do it for ages! Love the idea of a proper break from everything and everyone, lol

Had same plan. Did few trips around Ireland and n.ireland over the last year working up towards going abroad this year. "
Yes I agree trip away on our own is lovely, People planning people watching and people meeting is exciting stuff and I get up to Dublin and the north too

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By *umpsMan
over a year ago

city

Last year I went alone on a holiday for the first time. I found it so relaxing. I met some people who at the place I stayed in had a few drinks with them ..I booked a day tour for myself and met some nice people.

For me it was a nice experience. I would definitely go again alone.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I love it......not having to please people your on holiday with takes the pressure off. You do what you want

And there always meet people around that you can talk to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any suggestions? I’m thinking of Tenerife next. Some great walks and lots of nudist beaches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

La Gomera is far better if you want to escape the crowds and like hiking.

Tenerife better for beaches though

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By *ai18Man
over a year ago

Templemore

I always travel alone, there is no awkardness, you meet differsnt people all the time from visting places, sitting out having lunch or dinner, and at bars in the night time. As other said you can set your own agenda to when you want to do things or not.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Going on holiday abroad is simply too stressful; I haven't had a passport for over thirty years and thus have not travelled abroad in that time period.

There are lots of great activities available in Ireland, and crucially I am used to the weather, food, climate and people.

Travelling abroad is just too much hassle and too much unnecessary expense.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

I do everything on my own it's very empowering I'd love to go on holiday alone but think I'd be bored stupid not even anyone to chat too! But as for eating drinking and chilling i'll do that alone anyday

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Looking forward to heading away for a few days on my own later in the year

I'm on a plane next week for the first time in 2 years...just a day trip but its a start

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"Looking forward to heading away for a few days on my own later in the year

I'm on a plane next week for the first time in 2 years...just a day trip but its a start

Are you queuing already?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Looking forward to heading away for a few days on my own later in the year

I'm on a plane next week for the first time in 2 years...just a day trip but its a start

Are you queuing already?"

Fecking only found out the carpark I normally go to has closed down for good.....The stress...The stress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was away on Monday night on my own, I'm definitely getting better at sitting in the bar having food and a drink lol

Next trip has to be abroad for a day or two

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

Going on a solo holiday is brilliant. You make all the decisions for you, not to compromise or satisfy someone else. I love it.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

I recently went to london on my own and actually also went to a naturists spa on my own while i was there if i can do it anyone can solo holidays are the best

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Travelled to Australia a few years ago by myself.....met family over there. Going again next year but actually planning on travelling around Australia by myself for the first 2 weeks before I meet up with family this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go on holidays solo and have been for tue last few years - love to hit the beaches, few books, music and chill….

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Wouldn't get the chance on my own. And tbh I don't think I would enjoy it at all..my own company for a day be OK any longer I'd send myself dodaly.

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By *entral-scottishMan
over a year ago

falkirk

I would like to go away this year.a don't have any so how friends to go with..a was wondering if any female on here in same position.and would go with someone off here.ie a stranger so to speak..just curious

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By *lassyHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Cork

We Travel together a few times a year ,But also go on Sun Hols Solo

Love telling each other of our Holiday Fun

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By *onty_400Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've been backpacking on my own 4 times. I love doing it

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

Heading off on my own next week for the first time. Cannot wait

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By *entral-scottishMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Thinking off going for few days in July.any girls looking for a few days away..a just don't think am one for going alone...just testing the water.cheets

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By *elljoe 2Man
over a year ago

cork

just back from amsterdam , on my own, bliss

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