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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Lockdown may have brought out the best in some but the worst in others.

I've seen an increase in messages like that being sent to friends of mine and I wonder what goes through people's heads when they are typing something like that?

It shows a complete lack of respect towards the recipient but equally a total lack of self respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said romance and chivalry are dead?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lockdown may have brought out the best in some but the worst in others.

I've seen an increase in messages like that being sent to friends of mine and I wonder what goes through people's heads when they are typing something like that?

It shows a complete lack of respect towards the recipient but equally a total lack of self respect. "

Plenty of them messages long before lockdown.

I have my filters right and still get the nasty /vile messages.

I just block and delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're saying it was perfect apart from the no hello?

Only joking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lockdown may have brought out the best in some but the worst in others.

I've seen an increase in messages like that being sent to friends of mine and I wonder what goes through people's heads when they are typing something like that?

It shows a complete lack of respect towards the recipient but equally a total lack of self respect. "

I don't think lockdown has anything to do with it

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

oh yeah. i just block and delete now. I think the funniest one was fuck your tits are small.

nooo really????? here was me looking in the mirror in the mornings admiring my fabulous double d's. My world (and imagination) just shattered right there with that message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lockdown may have brought out the best in some but the worst in others.

I've seen an increase in messages like that being sent to friends of mine and I wonder what goes through people's heads when they are typing something like that?

It shows a complete lack of respect towards the recipient but equally a total lack of self respect. "

Well there might be more of them now but I get them all the time.. like the one above and worse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you're saying it was perfect apart from the no hello?

Only joking!"

Hahahahaha. Well maybe I would have felt better about it with a hello NOT...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"oh yeah. i just block and delete now. I think the funniest one was fuck your tits are small.

nooo really????? here was me looking in the mirror in the mornings admiring my fabulous double d's. My world (and imagination) just shattered right there with that message.

"

I do the same too but it still annoys the hell out of me

And just for the record not only your boobs are fab but you got a beautiful mouth too

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By *shtimer05Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Well the other side is true as well. I’ve seen women and couples being rude as well. Not sure they are rude because others were rude to them.

But it’s sad when you get a very rude reply to a nice message you wrote for them.

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By *inky CuddlersCouple
over a year ago

D2

I think it has to do with the low barriers to entry on the site - a lot of guys sign up, see that there's actual activity and then start sending messages to whomever.

I'm sure that for many guys, this happens in a thrust of lust that goes away once they've watched porn a few minutes later... they probably then repeat this cycle for a few days before realising they're not getting a response and drop off the site.

In summary, I don't think guys think that much at all about their messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck that....

That is all Im sending in my messages from now on....

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

Well you you hit the nail on the head there no manners too much thinking with what's dangling between his legs I'm surprised he didn't follow up with that message with his mickey pic sadly its the norm here little boys that have yet to grow up that fail to realise ye are actually human beings and not personal items maybe the snip will calm them down I don't know lol so with that note I wish you a very good morning and enjoy your day xx

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Oh ye I'm getting a fair amount at present aling those lines as well.. I normally get the odd one or two but I definitely think with the lockdown it's worse. Just because they are horny they can't understand why you might find messages like that a complete turn off. Lol

Or the ones who send you ones like that and then block you in case you will reply I have gotten a few of them as well

. To be fair tho it's good in one way because its like the rubbish taking itself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages like that are sent because fundamentally these guys are cowards. Would he come up to you in a bar and say that? Very unlikely...they take shelter in anonymity from behind their keybords(most likely in a string vest, yellow stained y fronts and with realy bad teeth and skin...and hung like a tic tac)where they feel they are one of the heros from whatever game they're playing at the time.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"oh yeah. i just block and delete now. I think the funniest one was fuck your tits are small.

nooo really????? here was me looking in the mirror in the mornings admiring my fabulous double d's. My world (and imagination) just shattered right there with that message.

I do the same too but it still annoys the hell out of me

And just for the record not only your boobs are fab but you got a beautiful mouth too "

Thank you xxx. Yep it is frustrating especially if the first message you read when you log on is something really stupid. Normally i ignore but if im in a particular mood (or time of the month) it sets me off. I think some think because its a swinger site they dont have to talk to a woman the way they would in real world and that all women want on here is dirty talk etc. And if they do talk like that to women in the real world then god help the poor ladies ha ha ha

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Messages like that are sent because fundamentally these guys are cowards. Would he come up to you in a bar and say that? Very unlikely...they take shelter in anonymity from behind their keybords(most likely in a string vest, yellow stained y fronts and with realy bad teeth and skin...and hung like a tic tac)where they feel they are one of the heros from whatever game they're playing at the time. "

What have you got against super Mario it's the mustache isn't it

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

Did he at least send a dick pic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep agree totally. I had a decent block list before lock down but it's over flowing now cause of messages like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messages like that are sent because fundamentally these guys are cowards. Would he come up to you in a bar and say that? Very unlikely...they take shelter in anonymity from behind their keybords(most likely in a string vest, yellow stained y fronts and with realy bad teeth and skin...and hung like a tic tac)where they feel they are one of the heros from whatever game they're playing at the time.

What have you got against super Mario it's the mustache isn't it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messages like that are sent because fundamentally these guys are cowards. Would he come up to you in a bar and say that? Very unlikely...they take shelter in anonymity from behind their keybords(most likely in a string vest, yellow stained y fronts and with realy bad teeth and skin...and hung like a tic tac)where they feel they are one of the heros from whatever game they're playing at the time. "

I disagree with the stereotypical creep you have outlined there.

I think you would be suprised what the people who send messages like that are like in real life tbh....

Also I dont think the condition someones skin or teeth or size of their cock is a major factor in their actions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messages like that are sent because fundamentally these guys are cowards. Would he come up to you in a bar and say that? Very unlikely...they take shelter in anonymity from behind their keybords(most likely in a string vest, yellow stained y fronts and with realy bad teeth and skin...and hung like a tic tac)where they feel they are one of the heros from whatever game they're playing at the time.

I disagree with the stereotypical creep you have outlined there.

I think you would be suprised what the people who send messages like that are like in real life tbh....

Also I dont think the condition someones skin or teeth or size of their cock is a major factor in their actions"

I agree with you, plenty of well-presented men here who see the women as free prostitutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messages like that are sent because fundamentally these guys are cowards. Would he come up to you in a bar and say that? Very unlikely...they take shelter in anonymity from behind their keybords(most likely in a string vest, yellow stained y fronts and with realy bad teeth and skin...and hung like a tic tac)where they feel they are one of the heros from whatever game they're playing at the time.

I disagree with the stereotypical creep you have outlined there.

I think you would be suprised what the people who send messages like that are like in real life tbh....

Also I dont think the condition someones skin or teeth or size of their cock is a major factor in their actions

I agree with you, plenty of well-presented men here who see the women as free prostitutes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messages like that are sent because fundamentally these guys are cowards. Would he come up to you in a bar and say that? Very unlikely...they take shelter in anonymity from behind their keybords(most likely in a string vest, yellow stained y fronts and with realy bad teeth and skin...and hung like a tic tac)where they feel they are one of the heros from whatever game they're playing at the time.

I disagree with the stereotypical creep you have outlined there.

I think you would be suprised what the people who send messages like that are like in real life tbh....

Also I dont think the condition someones skin or teeth or size of their cock is a major factor in their actions"

Considering he was..'rattling her pussy with his big cock'..endowment may play a part. The other description was merely an analogy. The point I'm making is these guys are cowards..weather they look like a slug or Brad Pitt.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I always type messages based on the old fashioned idea of only typing what I would say to someone's face in a bar.

Also I'd love to be able to complain about any message in fairness

My heart leaps a little when I see a little yellow inbox every second day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messages like that are sent because fundamentally these guys are cowards. Would he come up to you in a bar and say that? Very unlikely...they take shelter in anonymity from behind their keybords(most likely in a string vest, yellow stained y fronts and with realy bad teeth and skin...and hung like a tic tac)where they feel they are one of the heros from whatever game they're playing at the time.

I disagree with the stereotypical creep you have outlined there.

I think you would be suprised what the people who send messages like that are like in real life tbh....

Also I dont think the condition someones skin or teeth or size of their cock is a major factor in their actions

I agree with you, plenty of well-presented men here who see the women as free prostitutes"

Yes totally agree I have had to point out a few times I am not a unpaid Escorts Ireland employee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always type messages based on the old fashioned idea of only typing what I would say to someone's face in a bar.

Also I'd love to be able to complain about any message in fairness

My heart leaps a little when I see a little yellow inbox every second day "

I second that..nothing nicer than that.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Aweful as in full of awe to be mesmorized by its awesomeness or awful as in dreadful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did he at least send a dick pic ? "

There was no evidence attached supporting his claim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he at least send a dick pic ?

There was no evidence attached supporting his claim "

Probably rooting around to find it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aweful as in full of awe to be mesmorized by its awesomeness or awful as in dreadful "

What do you think??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Considering he was..'rattling her pussy with his big cock'..endowment may play a part. The other description was merely an analogy. The point I'm making is these guys are cowards..weather they look like a slug or Brad Pitt."

Ya I get that...

There is is already an unhethy link between appearance and creepiness which doesnt need to be reenforced.

Do you think some guys do feel the need to exagerate the size of their cocks or talk like that because others link tictac cocks to creepy behaviour and being a coward or somehow less of a man

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

-------------------

Am impressed that the guy is more creative than some of the tried-and-trust gems from some of the resident Romeo's here with

"Hey luv, wanna f..."

Anyway, myself I like it when men

...don't put any thought into writing messages

...put up lazy profiles with pics of their privates

...& then whinge here about not being able to get a meet

So lads, keep up the mediocre work as it improves the likelihood of the few that do make an effort here getting replies, possible coffee meets & FUTURE fun etc a lot, lot easier

Happy Friday everyone!

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By *ack meetsMan
over a year ago

bangor

Can I ask advice on this, not a lot of pics on my profile which doesn’t help but what kind of message would prompt a lady to reply? I am aware there’s thousands of messages girls get so something needs to stand out but lots of times girls don’t even bother reading a message(yes can see why if they have thousands to get through).

I am a well mannered polite fella and have spent lots of time telling a girl all about me and showing a genuine interest in them and looking to build a rapport but to no avail mainly.

How do you stand out in a first message to warrant a reply?

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint


"Did he at least send a dick pic ?

There was no evidence attached supporting his claim "

Message him back asking for proof

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Can I ask advice on this, not a lot of pics on my profile which doesn’t help but what kind of message would prompt a lady to reply? I am aware there’s thousands of messages girls get so something needs to stand out but lots of times girls don’t even bother reading a message(yes can see why if they have thousands to get through).

I am a well mannered polite fella and have spent lots of time telling a girl all about me and showing a genuine interest in them and looking to build a rapport but to no avail mainly.

How do you stand out in a first message to warrant a reply?"

Jack if you're looking for advice you should start a new thread but before you do let me give you a warning ......

The women and men on here are deadly and will give you genuine advice.

Some of it will be constructive criticism and will sting a bit

Take it all in and change your profile

It still might not work but it wont do you any harm

Apologies Op for going a different way on your thread

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"Aweful as in full of awe to be mesmorized by its awesomeness or awful as in dreadful

What do you think?? "

Awesomeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

Preach. Some of the messages are crazy I swear. Would people talk like this outside of fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aweful as in full of awe to be mesmorized by its awesomeness or awful as in dreadful

What do you think??

Awesomeness "

Well...I can always appreciate a positive attitude

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I got one from a man the other day who clearly thought I had a totally different appendage asking me to pump the f**k out of his gay pussy and cum inside

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I got one from a man the other day who clearly thought I had a totally different appendage asking me to pump the f**k out of his gay pussy and cum inside "

Sorry about that busty

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I got one from a man the other day who clearly thought I had a totally different appendage asking me to pump the f**k out of his gay pussy and cum inside

Sorry about that busty "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

Preach. Some of the messages are crazy I swear. Would people talk like this outside of fab"

Yeah its one of hundreds just some days it annoys me more than others And of course they wouldnt. Its a fantasy thing from behind a screen..keyboard warriors = waste of time.

Be funny if you actually ended up bumping into one of them at a social...id say they be very very quiet to your face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got one from a man the other day who clearly thought I had a totally different appendage asking me to pump the f**k out of his gay pussy and cum inside "

Arent you lucky

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By *in86Man
over a year ago

louth

Had he any verifications to support his big claim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Considering he was..'rattling her pussy with his big cock'..endowment may play a part. The other description was merely an analogy. The point I'm making is these guys are cowards..weather they look like a slug or Brad Pitt.

Ya I get that...

There is is already an unhethy link between appearance and creepiness which doesnt need to be reenforced.

Do you think some guys do feel the need to exagerate the size of their cocks or talk like that because others link tictac cocks to creepy behaviour and being a coward or somehow less of a man"

You're going off point..his/her appearance is not the issue. The fact that they are prepared to verbally abuse anyone online is core issue. I don't care what they look like...ifca guy's appearance is good, bad or indifferent doesn't matter.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"

Considering he was..'rattling her pussy with his big cock'..endowment may play a part. The other description was merely an analogy. The point I'm making is these guys are cowards..weather they look like a slug or Brad Pitt.

Ya I get that...

There is is already an unhethy link between appearance and creepiness which doesnt need to be reenforced.

Do you think some guys do feel the need to exagerate the size of their cocks or talk like that because others link tictac cocks to creepy behaviour and being a coward or somehow less of a man"

Yeah I'm still offended on how Mario got targeted there Mario and Princess peach are real swingers do people really think bowser actually captures her against her will no she just likes monster cock from time to time is the whole story thing is just to distract us from the truth altho I'm not exactly sure how all this ties in with this thread I just started typing and away i went

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

Other women get them I get those type messages from men offers to well you can picture yourself what they are looking for.so it’s not just women that get them

I just laugh at those messages and don’t let them annoy me. If I block them they just set up another account and message again. Not worth a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Considering he was..'rattling her pussy with his big cock'..endowment may play a part. The other description was merely an analogy. The point I'm making is these guys are cowards..weather they look like a slug or Brad Pitt.

Ya I get that...

There is is already an unhethy link between appearance and creepiness which doesnt need to be reenforced.

Do you think some guys do feel the need to exagerate the size of their cocks or talk like that because others link tictac cocks to creepy behaviour and being a coward or somehow less of a man

You're going off point..his/her appearance is not the issue. The fact that they are prepared to verbally abuse anyone online is core issue. I don't care what they look like...ifca guy's appearance is good, bad or indifferent doesn't matter."

Then why botger using it as a way to emphaise your point?

And I think it ispart of the point.. we should all consider the words we use online.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had he any verifications to support his big claim "

You think I cared about his verifications after that message?? It wouldnt make any difference if he was Mandigo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Considering he was..'rattling her pussy with his big cock'..endowment may play a part. The other description was merely an analogy. The point I'm making is these guys are cowards..weather they look like a slug or Brad Pitt.

Ya I get that...

There is is already an unhethy link between appearance and creepiness which doesnt need to be reenforced.

Do you think some guys do feel the need to exagerate the size of their cocks or talk like that because others link tictac cocks to creepy behaviour and being a coward or somehow less of a man

Yeah I'm still offended on how Mario got targeted there Mario and Princess peach are real swingers do people really think bowser actually captures her against her will no she just likes monster cock from time to time is the whole story thing is just to distract us from the truth altho I'm not exactly sure how all this ties in with this thread I just started typing and away i went "

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Had he any verifications to support his big claim

You think I cared about his verifications after that message?? It wouldnt make any difference if he was Mandigo... "

Now del boy is getting targeted what did he do whats wrong the he who dares win approach ok so that guy dared but lost that's just a blip in the system I'm not a wally you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had he any verifications to support his big claim

You think I cared about his verifications after that message?? It wouldnt make any difference if he was Mandigo...

Now del boy is getting targeted what did he do whats wrong the he who dares win approach ok so that guy dared but lost that's just a blip in the system I'm not a wally you know "

Who? No one is getting targeted. I used an example for explaining my point..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Considering he was..'rattling her pussy with his big cock'..endowment may play a part. The other description was merely an analogy. The point I'm making is these guys are cowards..weather they look like a slug or Brad Pitt.

Ya I get that...

There is is already an unhethy link between appearance and creepiness which doesnt need to be reenforced.

Do you think some guys do feel the need to exagerate the size of their cocks or talk like that because others link tictac cocks to creepy behaviour and being a coward or somehow less of a man

You're going off point..his/her appearance is not the issue. The fact that they are prepared to verbally abuse anyone online is core issue. I don't care what they look like...ifca guy's appearance is good, bad or indifferent doesn't matter."

Agreed 100%

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By *uittopMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

I always message, " Nice Profile", then leave it up to them if they want to reply.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Had he any verifications to support his big claim

You think I cared about his verifications after that message?? It wouldnt make any difference if he was Mandigo...

Now del boy is getting targeted what did he do whats wrong the he who dares win approach ok so that guy dared but lost that's just a blip in the system I'm not a wally you know

Who? No one is getting targeted. I used an example for explaining my point.. "

Who is Del Boy aka Derek Trotter aka mandigo you don't know who he is? stop the god damn press oh well now I'm offended and it's only lunchtime oh that's it I'm quitting this the shock of it is too much just because these characters don't exist don't mean they don't have feelings don't know who del boy is I've heard it all now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had he any verifications to support his big claim

You think I cared about his verifications after that message?? It wouldnt make any difference if he was Mandigo...

Now del boy is getting targeted what did he do whats wrong the he who dares win approach ok so that guy dared but lost that's just a blip in the system I'm not a wally you know

Who? No one is getting targeted. I used an example for explaining my point..

Who is Del Boy aka Derek Trotter aka mandigo you don't know who he is? stop the god damn press oh well now I'm offended and it's only lunchtime oh that's it I'm quitting this the shock of it is too much just because these characters don't exist don't mean they don't have feelings don't know who del boy is I've heard it all now "

Well...its not like I read his bio on wikipedia

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Had he any verifications to support his big claim

You think I cared about his verifications after that message?? It wouldnt make any difference if he was Mandigo...

Now del boy is getting targeted what did he do whats wrong the he who dares win approach ok so that guy dared but lost that's just a blip in the system I'm not a wally you know

Who? No one is getting targeted. I used an example for explaining my point..

Who is Del Boy aka Derek Trotter aka mandigo you don't know who he is? stop the god damn press oh well now I'm offended and it's only lunchtime oh that's it I'm quitting this the shock of it is too much just because these characters don't exist don't mean they don't have feelings don't know who del boy is I've heard it all now

Well...its not like I read his bio on wikipedia "

Wait hold on what is Wikipedia

See right back at ya

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By *artinlastMan
over a year ago

Dublin & London

Terrible. But look, as others have said, sometimes FAB brings out the desperate (in every sense); I like the post topic, though. So, fair play.

To my knowledge, I've never written a message like that - especially as a first message. My issue is with how many times messages (well written ones, I think), are ignored.

But, it's always good to remember that while we can't be everyone's cup of tea, there's a goldilocks moment out there for all of us!

Stay well & stay safe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

Go on, dare ya to reply saying exactly that and if you're feeling really cruel ask "where and when" at the end. I love winding these lads up. 99% of the time they either block me or probably cum there and then from getting a reply and if they still dont get the sarcasm just keep it up. It's quite entertaining

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

Go on, dare ya to reply saying exactly that and if you're feeling really cruel ask "where and when" at the end. I love winding these lads up. 99% of the time they either block me or probably cum there and then from getting a reply and if they still dont get the sarcasm just keep it up. It's quite entertaining "

this is soooo bitchy and one of the reasons i love you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

Go on, dare ya to reply saying exactly that and if you're feeling really cruel ask "where and when" at the end. I love winding these lads up. 99% of the time they either block me or probably cum there and then from getting a reply and if they still dont get the sarcasm just keep it up. It's quite entertaining "

Haha I do that too when Im in that kind of mood..mostly..they dont understand sarcasm though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies, its lockdown. We need all the entertainment we can get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think I'd prefer that being said rather than I quote the message...I'd love for you to shit in my mouth...woke up to that one morning...needless to say didnt reply

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

Go on, dare ya to reply saying exactly that and if you're feeling really cruel ask "where and when" at the end. I love winding these lads up. 99% of the time they either block me or probably cum there and then from getting a reply and if they still dont get the sarcasm just keep it up. It's quite entertaining "

I must admit if I'm on messy form I'll answer back as well. Can be very funny at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

Not alone are they immature but very desparate also....

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Well I think I'd prefer that being said rather than I quote the message...I'd love for you to shit in my mouth...woke up to that one morning...needless to say didnt reply"

ok thats feckin nasty

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Jesus ladies thats harsh

Looking at the profiles of the animals that send stuff like that are they all the same type of profile/ man that we'd assume they are or do they look sort of normal with veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I think I'd prefer that being said rather than I quote the message...I'd love for you to shit in my mouth...woke up to that one morning...needless to say didnt reply"

Sick and should be reported..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I think I'd prefer that being said rather than I quote the message...I'd love for you to shit in my mouth...woke up to that one morning...needless to say didnt reply"

Ok. You won.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine walking up to a women in a nightclub and saying it be a nice slap across ye Face ID say lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres been a few...but that one was memorable for all the wrong reasons

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Theres been a few...but that one was memorable for all the wrong reasons"

I had a mate and we were about 17 at a local disco.

He went up to a girl and asked her to dance during a slow set but during it she slapped him across the face and stormed off.

He walked back to us and he was very indignant that he didnt deserve it as he gave her a compliment

He actully said to her

" Id eat a mile of your shite if I thought your arse was at the end of it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going out on a limb here but if a fella sends you a pure dirt bag message chances are he thinks were up out own arse and need to be treated like shite to be taken down a peg loads of more lick arses out there to say nice thing's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly i always think its better to send a pickup line make them laugh ya no

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I'm going out on a limb here but if a fella sends you a pure dirt bag message chances are he thinks were up out own arse and need to be treated like shite to be taken down a peg loads of more lick arses out there to say nice thing's "

Speaking of licking arses

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Now we have a lil story to tell...

Some random twatwaffle messaged us claiming he was alone and hard and horny, inviting us to come over and drain his balls as he badly needs it.

We replied "sure, will just jump into a shower and get a taxi".

30mins later we get a message "really? Can't wait! I'll fuck your missus real good, when are you coming"

We were like, just got out of the shower, waiting on taxi.

He's all "cool, I'm still hard and ready".

30 mins later "where are you?"

Us: "in a taxi, we'll be there in 5"

Him 5mins later "is that you in a taxi?"

(Some taxi must have pulled up outside his house).

"No, that's not us, we're at the lights. Sat nav says we're 3mins away".

Him "I know it was you! Come back! I'm hard as fuck".

Note:we never asked his address to begin with.. He just assumed we automatically knew where he lived and legit were okay to pay a taxi fee from Belfast to Ballywhatever to come get his balls drained.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now we have a lil story to tell...

Some random twatwaffle messaged us claiming he was alone and hard and horny, inviting us to come over and drain his balls as he badly needs it.

We replied "sure, will just jump into a shower and get a taxi".

30mins later we get a message "really? Can't wait! I'll fuck your missus real good, when are you coming"

We were like, just got out of the shower, waiting on taxi.

He's all "cool, I'm still hard and ready".

30 mins later "where are you?"

Us: "in a taxi, we'll be there in 5"

Him 5mins later "is that you in a taxi?"

(Some taxi must have pulled up outside his house).

"No, that's not us, we're at the lights. Sat nav says we're 3mins away".

Him "I know it was you! Come back! I'm hard as fuck".

Note:we never asked his address to begin with.. He just assumed we automatically knew where he lived and legit were okay to pay a taxi fee from Belfast to Ballywhatever to come get his balls drained. "

Time wasters!!!!

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Now we have a lil story to tell...

Some random twatwaffle messaged us claiming he was alone and hard and horny, inviting us to come over and drain his balls as he badly needs it.

We replied "sure, will just jump into a shower and get a taxi".

30mins later we get a message "really? Can't wait! I'll fuck your missus real good, when are you coming"

We were like, just got out of the shower, waiting on taxi.

He's all "cool, I'm still hard and ready".

30 mins later "where are you?"

Us: "in a taxi, we'll be there in 5"

Him 5mins later "is that you in a taxi?"

(Some taxi must have pulled up outside his house).

"No, that's not us, we're at the lights. Sat nav says we're 3mins away".

Him "I know it was you! Come back! I'm hard as fuck".

Note:we never asked his address to begin with.. He just assumed we automatically knew where he lived and legit were okay to pay a taxi fee from Belfast to Ballywhatever to come get his balls drained.

Time wasters!!!! "

I genuinely hope our actions saved at least 20 local women or couples from receiving same shitty degrading first message while he was thinking that he scored

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now we have a lil story to tell...

Some random twatwaffle messaged us claiming he was alone and hard and horny, inviting us to come over and drain his balls as he badly needs it.

We replied "sure, will just jump into a shower and get a taxi".

30mins later we get a message "really? Can't wait! I'll fuck your missus real good, when are you coming"

We were like, just got out of the shower, waiting on taxi.

He's all "cool, I'm still hard and ready".

30 mins later "where are you?"

Us: "in a taxi, we'll be there in 5"

Him 5mins later "is that you in a taxi?"

(Some taxi must have pulled up outside his house).

"No, that's not us, we're at the lights. Sat nav says we're 3mins away".

Him "I know it was you! Come back! I'm hard as fuck".

Note:we never asked his address to begin with.. He just assumed we automatically knew where he lived and legit were okay to pay a taxi fee from Belfast to Ballywhatever to come get his balls drained. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

Cara I sent you the one I was sent this week as I can't mention it here . Absolutely disgusting and gross

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Sending a first message can be quite difficult!!!

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By *lytrucker32Man
over a year ago

Killeagh

Personally rude messages are not right in any situation. I just try the simple, hi how are you? Day weekend whatever etc.... I'll let ye know if it ever works at first I found the read n deleted with no reply frustrating but then realised the shite some people must get. So now even after deletion ( I'll get slated now) I send a 2nd message saying thanks and happy fabbing. Not to be an asshole but just to show that while I'm not their type or whatever that I'm actually a nice guy. Right or wrong ??

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim

I haven’t had an awful first message from a woman, but men on the other hand are mental! I’ve been offered the best blow jobs, offered payment for socks and many other things that are instantly deleted.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Now we have a lil story to tell...

Some random twatwaffle messaged us claiming he was alone and hard and horny, inviting us to come over and drain his balls as he badly needs it.

We replied "sure, will just jump into a shower and get a taxi".

30mins later we get a message "really? Can't wait! I'll fuck your missus real good, when are you coming"

We were like, just got out of the shower, waiting on taxi.

He's all "cool, I'm still hard and ready".

30 mins later "where are you?"

Us: "in a taxi, we'll be there in 5"

Him 5mins later "is that you in a taxi?"

(Some taxi must have pulled up outside his house).

"No, that's not us, we're at the lights. Sat nav says we're 3mins away".

Him "I know it was you! Come back! I'm hard as fuck".

Note:we never asked his address to begin with.. He just assumed we automatically knew where he lived and legit were okay to pay a taxi fee from Belfast to Ballywhatever to come get his balls drained.

"

Ooooooo that was a good one just curious did this happen on April fools day

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

Cara I sent you the one I was sent this week as I can't mention it here . Absolutely disgusting and gross "

Was it really that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

Cara I sent you the one I was sent this week as I can't mention it here . Absolutely disgusting and gross

Was it really that bad "

It turned my stomach to read it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

Cara I sent you the one I was sent this week as I can't mention it here . Absolutely disgusting and gross "

Wow. Like what the actual f... is wrong with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

Cara I sent you the one I was sent this week as I can't mention it here . Absolutely disgusting and gross

Wow. Like what the actual f... is wrong with people. "

Really sick wasn't it. Wonder how he'd feel if that was made public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I'm still offended on how Mario got targeted there Mario and Princess peach are real swingers do people really think bowser actually captures her against her will no she just likes monster cock from time to time is the whole story thing is just to distract us from the truth altho I'm not exactly sure how all this ties in with this thread I just started typing and away i went "

Complete sidebar here, sorry Ohpee, but the creator of 'Super Mario' and 'Donkey Kong' must have had some deep seeded fascination with cuckolding!

Think about it, the love interest is always taken away by the "bigger" guy and even after Mario bends over backwards to 'save' her she allows herself to be 'caught' again and again right in front of him; just out of his own reach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

Just goes to show what some guys think of the ladies on here , they're on a sex site so they think it's ok to send Messages as such to ladies and see nothing wrong with it ..and as you said guys in their 30's sending them ...would the ladies that get those messages be queing up in orderly fashion to fuck them ???... hardly not l think ,this may be the site it is but every lady here should be shown respect in every aspect in everyway....and plus maybe it was only in his own opinion that his was a " big cock "...a big cock in someone's opinion may not hold the same value in someone elses eyes.

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

Say 'yes', unread the message, block them and on the end delete the chain

Some people need a cold shower a few times a day

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Yeah I'm still offended on how Mario got targeted there Mario and Princess peach are real swingers do people really think bowser actually captures her against her will no she just likes monster cock from time to time is the whole story thing is just to distract us from the truth altho I'm not exactly sure how all this ties in with this thread I just started typing and away i went

Complete sidebar here, sorry Ohpee, but the creator of 'Super Mario' and 'Donkey Kong' must have had some deep seeded fascination with cuckolding!

Think about it, the love interest is always taken away by the "bigger" guy and even after Mario bends over backwards to 'save' her she allows herself to be 'caught' again and again right in front of him; just out of his own reach "

Exactly my point that princess peach is a filthy bitch butyiu have to wonder just how far down the picking order Mario like you have bowser basically her regular meet then you have donkey Kong on occasions then even wario and look at the state of him you have to wonder if Luigi gets involved making it a threesome with daisy and Mario is cool with that?

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

Cara I sent you the one I was sent this week as I can't mention it here . Absolutely disgusting and gross

Was it really that bad

It turned my stomach to read it "

Oh so really really bad then lol

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By *londy84Man
over a year ago

Knockatallan

I find it very hard to chat here.

We are all here for same reason.

And I can only find out if we have some cemetery by meeting in person. So short hello exchange pictures and social.

Simple

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I find it very hard to chat here.

We are all here for same reason.

And I can only find out if we have some cemetery by meeting in person. So short hello exchange pictures and social.

Simple

"

Strongly disagree. We are all NOT here for the same reason. Some are here to just chat online, some are here only for the social side, some are here for quick hook ups, some are here to fulfil a fantasy, some are looking for chemistry.

Expecting every single woman you may find visually attractive and who finds you also visually attractive but hasn't got a clue what kind of a person you are to take time out of her potentially busy life to meet you for a social with little to no chat is ridiculous. How many days and hours and cups of coffee with complete random strangers who she potentially have zero things in common is she supposed to pencil into her own personal schedule till she finds the one with any kind of chemistry?

Chemistry either happens from the first few messages or it doesn't.

Random coffees don't do shit.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I find it very hard to chat here.

We are all here for same reason.

And I can only find out if we have some cemetery by meeting in person. So short hello exchange pictures and social.

Simple

"

Yeah you might want to back up a bit there some here simply wants to chat nothing more nothing less everyone has their reasons it's not all connected to the one thing doesn't work like that I'm afraid and I'm pretty sure the short hellos wouldn't get much attention as the ladies get them message like a million times a day so a bit more thought in the messaging goes alot further but yes a nice social is always good to get to know each other more better

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By *eepimpactMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

You mean to tell me that your knickers were'nt instantly soaked and frantically trying to respond back to him ASAP?!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking people gives me power and a deep satisfaction, there is no better feeling in life. specially mentioning here how cool I am by blocking people, my confidence goes even higher.

Blocking people gives meaning to my miserable life

Who cares?!

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick


"Who said romance and chivalry are dead?! "

Maybe your in the wrong place.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Blocking people gives me power and a deep satisfaction, there is no better feeling in life. specially mentioning here how cool I am by blocking people, my confidence goes even higher.

Blocking people gives meaning to my miserable life

Who cares?!"

I see what you did there..

Funny enough I've learned over the years to block people at the very first red flag on my single profile.

When me and Dirk started dating he told me to give people a second chance and have some faith in humanity. I did. We did.

After many many... MANY idiots, abuse and second chances now both of us block people after the first red flag. Think most women can relate.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

I can't believe that you got such a detailed message!!

I mean that's a lot of words beyond Wanna Fuck?

He's described his perception of your current situation and offered a cure all in one sentence, along with throwing in a potential rhythm to the perceived curr.

You have to say, it's an offer you would be hard pressed to refuse, considering the situation!

Not

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By *in86Man
over a year ago

louth


"Had he any verifications to support his big claim

You think I cared about his verifications after that message?? It wouldnt make any difference if he was Mandigo... "

Mandigo... brilliant

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

See you used the term man instead of aged child... That ain't no man that sent that mail.

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
over a year ago

outside Strabane

Anyone else reading through looking to see if any of their lines appear?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who said romance and chivalry are dead?!

Maybe your in the wrong place. "

It really makes no difference if its a dating site or a swingers site. The rule is simple on either...dont be a d.ick.

Just cos this is a swingers site it doesnt mean ppl cant be romantic or a gentleman.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Who said romance and chivalry are dead?!

Maybe your in the wrong place.

It really makes no difference if its a dating site or a swingers site. The rule is simple on either...dont be a d.ick.

Just cos this is a swingers site it doesnt mean ppl cant be romantic or a gentleman. "

Il grab my coat then shall I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it very hard to chat here.

We are all here for same reason.

And I can only find out if we have some cemetery by meeting in person. So short hello exchange pictures and social.

Simple

Well said

Strongly disagree. We are all NOT here for the same reason. Some are here to just chat online, some are here only for the social side, some are here for quick hook ups, some are here to fulfil a fantasy, some are looking for chemistry.

Expecting every single woman you may find visually attractive and who finds you also visually attractive but hasn't got a clue what kind of a person you are to take time out of her potentially busy life to meet you for a social with little to no chat is ridiculous. How many days and hours and cups of coffee with complete random strangers who she potentially have zero things in common is she supposed to pencil into her own personal schedule till she finds the one with any kind of chemistry?

Chemistry either happens from the first few messages or it doesn't.

Random coffees don't do shit.

"

Well Said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who said romance and chivalry are dead?!

Maybe your in the wrong place.

It really makes no difference if its a dating site or a swingers site. The rule is simple on either...dont be a d.ick.

Just cos this is a swingers site it doesnt mean ppl cant be romantic or a gentleman. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messages like that are sent because fundamentally these guys are cowards. Would he come up to you in a bar and say that? Very unlikely...they take shelter in anonymity from behind their keybords(most likely in a string vest, yellow stained y fronts and with realy bad teeth and skin...and hung like a tic tac)where they feel they are one of the heros from whatever game they're playing at the time.

I disagree with the stereotypical creep you have outlined there.

I think you would be suprised what the people who send messages like that are like in real life tbh....

Also I dont think the condition someones skin or teeth or size of their cock is a major factor in their actions"

It's what you can't first see about them that gets revealed now.

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By *ac147Man
over a year ago

Belfast East


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

I actually spat my beer out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

I believe this video has a good angle on the matter...

https://youtu.be/59XWb37J8Mk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh yeah. i just block and delete now. I think the funniest one was fuck your tits are small.

nooo really????? here was me looking in the mirror in the mornings admiring my fabulous double d's. My world (and imagination) just shattered right there with that message.

"

I had to go and check... the look great to me!

People who take those negative tacks are most likely the same in normal life and are not tolerated there, so they get to act as keyboard warriors with no consequence on fab.

There should be a log of these guys on the forum where they are called out... but equally one for guys who are fun, respectful and recommended for play. Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This mornings request

To do a no 1 and a no 2 all over him

Interesting

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"This mornings request

To do a no 1 and a no 2 all over him

Interesting "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This mornings request

To do a no 1 and a no 2 all over him

Interesting "
why would some one just mes an ask you to do that cant understand it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This mornings request

To do a no 1 and a no 2 all over him

Interesting "

Oh dear lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh yeah. i just block and delete now. I think the funniest one was fuck your tits are small.

nooo really????? here was me looking in the mirror in the mornings admiring my fabulous double d's. My world (and imagination) just shattered right there with that message.

I had to go and check... the look great to me!

People who take those negative tacks are most likely the same in normal life and are not tolerated there, so they get to act as keyboard warriors with no consequence on fab.

There should be a log of these guys on the forum where they are called out... but equally one for guys who are fun, respectful and recommended for play. Just a thought"

This is why my filters are on full blast lol, i like to choose who i would like to talk to. It's just to much for me, my inbox flooding with crap. I really don't need or want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This mornings request

To do a no 1 and a no 2 all over him

Interesting why would some one just mes an ask you to do that cant understand it"

Because they like to get pissed and shat on I'd guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh yeah. i just block and delete now. I think the funniest one was fuck your tits are small.

nooo really????? here was me looking in the mirror in the mornings admiring my fabulous double d's. My world (and imagination) just shattered right there with that message.

I had to go and check... the look great to me!

People who take those negative tacks are most likely the same in normal life and are not tolerated there, so they get to act as keyboard warriors with no consequence on fab.

There should be a log of these guys on the forum where they are called out... but equally one for guys who are fun, respectful and recommended for play. Just a thought

This is why my filters are on full blast lol, i like to choose who i would like to talk to. It's just to much for me, my inbox flooding with crap. I really don't need or want it. "

My filters are quite tight and yet the odd one sneaks through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This mornings request

To do a no 1 and a no 2 all over him

Interesting why would some one just mes an ask you to do that cant understand it

Because they like to get pissed and shat on I'd guess"

Yep, i actually don't mind the watersports. But that wird S. C. A. T is a big no no totally disgusting and sick. I had a guy trying to get me to do it one time. But i didn't, dropped him fairly lively. Another guy sent me on a video of people covered in it from head to toe and rolling around in it. Thank god for the block button. Veru hot looking guy, but sorry now but no thanks. Sick sick and sick.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"So you're saying it was perfect apart from the no hello?

Only joking!"

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

Only one way to answer that is with a "Big Fat Block "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy shit that's fair bad and i thought i was a dirty fucker lol lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This mornings request

To do a no 1 and a no 2 all over him

Interesting "

Hmm. Seems there are a few of those kinda msgs are going around..

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare


"This mornings request

To do a no 1 and a no 2 all over him

Interesting

Hmm. Seems there are a few of those kinda msgs are going around.. "

Seems quite innocent to me !!! Maybe he has a numbers fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This mornings request

To do a no 1 and a no 2 all over him

Interesting

Hmm. Seems there are a few of those kinda msgs are going around..

Seems quite innocent to me !!! Maybe he has a numbers fetish. "

Maybe but he didn't use numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lockdown may have brought out the best in some but the worst in others.

I've seen an increase in messages like that being sent to friends of mine and I wonder what goes through people's heads when they are typing something like that?

It shows a complete lack of respect towards the recipient but equally a total lack of self respect. "
agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This mornings request

To do a no 1 and a no 2 all over him

Interesting "
crap!! Really???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This mornings request

To do a no 1 and a no 2 all over him

Interesting crap!! Really???"

Lol, there is actually a sad face emoji after the interesting.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"So I woke up to a msg from a grown up men in his 30s telling me how he bets my pussy is I quote (obv no hello no nothing) "crying out for a good rattling from my big cock"

Do men really think this is attractive or an accaptable way of saying hello?? And Id love to know if other women find msgs like as awefully offputting as me?

Im very very open minded but geez have some basic manners.

What are you even supposed to answer that..? Ye Ive been waiting for you all my life??!!

"

Sadly yes blunt and crude sometimes. I love sex hence being here but a bit of chat goes a long way

Stacey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This mornings request

To do a no 1 and a no 2 all over him

Interesting crap!! Really???

Lol, there is actually a sad face emoji after the interesting. "

Well don't have a shit one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey bit rude I meant don't have a shit emoji lol maybe fabs next one could be a shit one

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