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By *orny X 2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Mitchelstown

We have always given single guys the benefit of the doubt, well not any more, i got ready to meet a single bi guy this evening, he had contacted me, wanting to meet, and he had the cheek to put on his profile that there are a lot of wasters on this site, needless to say he didnt turn up, and then text accusing me wasting his time, he has being a waster down to a fine art, so from now on single guys, we wont even reply to your messages, and you will be instantly blocked,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not nice to tar the whole lot of us with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So one experience with one particular individual (who it appears is blaming you as much as you are blaming him) means that ALL single guys are time wasters. Ah ya, ya have to love it....

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

i can see where you are coming from, but all singles arent the same.

we have had as many wasteful single women as men.

and as many n shows from couples as singles, so its across the board.

you just do what you feel is best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I man on here I resent all these attacks on us, sure there are wasters out there...not exclusivly men... I have never had a female meet not turn up, but I have had couples not turn up, and no text's calls etc...

There are enough very well verified men on here, and it's easy enough to check out their verifications, that you don't ever have to be dissapointed...

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

its just a shame that one no show is turning you off single males,,loads of genuine lads here.

but everyone has their one feelings so no tar here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww sigh something's never change! There's loads for brilliant single men, woman and couples on this site "time wasters" come in all shapes and sizes! Poor single men get a raw deal cos there's so many of them and there not most people's first choice! Which I for one am glad leaves more for us

We love single men And we never had one not show

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By *araMan
over a year ago

na

Always a few dickheads ruin it for the nice guys and girls, hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when people take the time to travel only to be messed around by some fucks who turn there phone off when you arrive after traveling for fun wtf are these people up to at all costing money and time only to be fooled around by bullshitters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a silly thing to post, completely pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it might be a bit unfair to say u wont even reply and that u will block single males straight away.sure some are purely on here just for a thrill of seeing ppl get upset when they are stood up..but we not all like that in fairness....give the single guys a chance,if that person messes u about then block them...

BUT I CAN UNDERSTAND YOUR FRUSTRATION ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post is ridiculous boo hoo you got your time wasted join the club shit happens get over it and move on but dont slate everyone because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this forum topic is also a waiste of time. im sure now that you have gotten over the initial anger of been stood up that you will realise that its part of the swinging game. its what makes good meets great. you would be a very lucky swinger if you only experienced about 5 stand ups. head up, onwards and upwards. :-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a load of nonsense

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

tbf, we avent yet met a single guy, its on the cards, but the once we tried it we, suprise suprise, got let down.

will we try again? hopefully as Em was really looking forward getting her lips round a coupel of nice juicy cocks.

will it be yet? probably not because the annoyance made us think twice.

the only people we tar with the same brush is people we talk to and KNOW are a pita, because when we say we will only play soft, they try to get us to reconsider. ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This forum topic is not a waste of time. I think this couple have a valid complaint about what happened to them and I think most of us have been in the same boat at some stage. They are annoyed and rightly so. When people are a no show you can be sure it would piss you off.

I don't feel the problem lies with single males at all as there are really great guys here and most women/couples who are looking for single guys have very few negative experiences meeting them. The problem really is having the manners and decency to pic up the phone or to text and say I'm sorry but I can't meet as we have planned. Manners are freely available and cost nothing.

This guy obviously was not given the social skills in life to be man enough to pic up the phone and make such a gesture.

Block and move on but keep in mind there are other gems here that know how to behave, in and out of the bedroom.

Onwards and upwards is right...

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By *timulationMan
over a year ago

sexerotica

Here here tiny on the button!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know what wouldn't be a waste of time...a spelling or typing course. I think that half of the people on here, couples, single males and single females, are only here to live in a fantasy land and have no interest in meeting despite what they say. Once a meet has been arranged they are happy with that and pull out. It's always going to be harder for single males to meet people and a few are letting down the majority who are genuine.

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By *r AntrimMan
over a year ago

lisburn


"This forum topic is not a waste of time. I think this couple have a valid complaint about what happened to them and I think most of us have been in the same boat at some stage. They are annoyed and rightly so. When people are a no show you can be sure it would piss you off.

I don't feel the problem lies with single males at all as there are really great guys here and most women/couples who are looking for single guys have very few negative experiences meeting them. The problem really is having the manners and decency to pic up the phone or to text and say I'm sorry but I can't meet as we have planned. Manners are freely available and cost nothing.

This guy obviously was not given the social skills in life to be man enough to pic up the phone and make such a gesture.

Block and move on but keep in mind there are other gems here that know how to behave, in and out of the bedroom.

Onwards and upwards is right...

"

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"Do you know what wouldn't be a waste of time...a spelling or typing course. I think that half of the people on here, couples, single males and single females, are only here to live in a fantasy land and have no interest in meeting despite what they say. Once a meet has been arranged they are happy with that and pull out. It's always going to be harder for single males to meet people and a few are letting down the majority who are genuine."

surely if your spelling and grammar is si superb, you would use it to actually write a profile worth reading, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you know what wouldn't be a waste of time...a spelling or typing course. "

Brilliant! couldnt agree more.

lolz sry cnt mt 2nyt cs im tymwaster lolzlolz xx woop

it's like talking to a twelve year old with some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh on the topic of reliable single males id just like to say stilllovedup that im here and feel free to mail me. if and when your looking for single males please consider me.

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

dont tar all us single guys, if i cudnt meet for some reson id ring and tell you in gd time

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"oh on the topic of reliable single males id just like to say stilllovedup that im here and feel free to mail me. if and when your looking for single males please consider me. "

would do if you were into what we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

excellent. im pretty sure we are into the same things. i cant message you now. if you fancy it, you could message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"excellent. im pretty sure we are into the same things. i cant message you now. if you fancy it, you could message me.

"

Your a Dom bi female?? there we all were thinking you were cute surfer dude very misleading profile and cam nobody very misleading indeed!!

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"excellent. im pretty sure we are into the same things. i cant message you now. if you fancy it, you could message me.

Your a Dom bi female?? there we all were thinking you were cute surfer dude very misleading profile and cam nobody very misleading indeed!! "

lol.

you saw it too? lol

just an aside, and to continue the argument on this thread further.

had a message off a bloke today that said he was in our neck of the woods and is available to play.

mind, his missus is away in another country so wont know anything about it.

told him to give us her number to confirm he was alright to play alone, or infact, wait til she gets back and we will play with her on her won first, then him, and he said no!

and they say swinging is all about trust!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do i het the feeling i know who the bloke was

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"Why do i het the feeling i know who the bloke was"

dunno.

you know him?

friend of yours?

is it you? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do i het the feeling i know who the bloke was

dunno.

you know him?

friend of yours?

is it you? lol"

Lol not me at all i'm single and if i'm correct this guy has an unverified couples profile?

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"Why do i het the feeling i know who the bloke was

dunno.

you know him?

friend of yours?

is it you? lol

Lol not me at all i'm single and if i'm correct this guy has an unverified couples profile?

"

absolutely no idea.

didnt even entertain the concept, tbh.

if people have no intention reading what we want, then why should we be arsed reading their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your way of doing things folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not just guys its couples aswell we traveled for over 2 hours and a no show not even a text to say we cant make it but then again there loss not ours as we played with a single guy that we had arranged to meet aswell so we just move on and forget the so called cpl and we just put this reply here not being upset about the no show but just to say it is not only single guys...so just move on and put t down to experience

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By *urfdudeMan
over a year ago

WEXFORD

Timewasters come in all shapes and forms both couples + singles, that is my experience over the last few years, its not just us single guys.

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By *ropoint420Man
over a year ago

co.down

please dont bunch us all in together some are genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am a cute surfer dude. what cam are ya on about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just your cam in chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as far as we can see its some of the single fems who have their head stuck up their own arses. Mail u for a few days chat on IM and then when u talk about meetin nothing. Id say about 1% of the so called bi-fems on here are actually bi. Most are full of shite

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"as far as we can see its some of the single fems who have their head stuck up their own arses. Mail u for a few days chat on IM and then when u talk about meetin nothing. Id say about 1% of the so called bi-fems on here are actually bi. Most are full of shite"

agree with that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as far as we can see its some of the single fems who have their head stuck up their own arses. Mail u for a few days chat on IM and then when u talk about meetin nothing. Id say about 1% of the so called bi-fems on here are actually bi. Most are full of shite"

spoken like a true patriot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well its what we have found lol keep her country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jaysus, it seems we single lads really are second-class on this site

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"Jaysus, it seems we single lads really are second-class on this site "

it seems you have an inflated opinion of self worth. lol.

you dont come close to second class lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

excuse me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jaysus, it seems we single lads really are second-class on this site

it seems you have an inflated opinion of self worth. lol.

you dont come close to second class lol"

rude, and reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh don't be such a grump :D she's just toying with you

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"Jaysus, it seems we single lads really are second-class on this site

it seems you have an inflated opinion of self worth. lol.

you dont come close to second class lol

rude, and reported."

hesus, and they say the irish have a sense of humour.

failure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm laughing here at the notion that's it's single guys that are the rude one. I get a friends invite from a verified female who has a long profile asking for no time wasters and get this no pic collectors . I accept the invite . That's odd says I she dosent email afterwards .

So I send a friendly mail asking how she was . No reply .

So please for the last time there are Messers on here and they are male and female in equal percentages .

And please don't tell me ah she didn't like what she saw . There is common courtesy and if you are going to invite yourself as a friend anybody with manners will know you at least respond with a mail !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm laughing here at the notion that's it's single guys that are the rude one. I get a friends invite from a verified female who has a long profile asking for no time wasters and get this no pic collectors . I accept the invite . That's odd says I she dosent email afterwards .

So I send a friendly mail asking how she was . No reply .

So please for the last time there are Messers on here and they are male and female in equal percentages .

And please don't tell me ah she didn't like what she saw . There is common courtesy and if you are going to invite yourself as a friend anybody with manners will know you at least respond with a mail !! "

Well said Jimmy and your prize is.....

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