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By *obshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Cork

Seen this a lot on profiles. But what does it mean, Really ?.

Don't get me wrong. I have had some very excited n fun meets. But also meets that were, let's just say very one sided. It's not just us guys, that need to up our games.. (So to speak).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect that to some it really means "I'm not a skanky ho like the rest of you"

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

In order for sex to work and be great then everyone had to be on the same page. Otherwise it can be just meh it's not down to either sex to up their game. It's up to you to find people who you click with and have chemistry with.

As for quality over quantity it's pretty self explanatory and while some may use it as a way to put others down a lot want just that.

I personally prefer to meet regularly than meet a load of one offs. It's more fun and you can be more comfortable in pushing each others boundaries and kinks the more you get to know each other.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It means they are willing to wait for really fantastic sex, rather than settle for someone like you Bob

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By *obshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Cork


"In order for sex to work and be great then everyone had to be on the same page. Otherwise it can be just meh it's not down to either sex to up their game. It's up to you to find people who you click with and have chemistry with.

As for quality over quantity it's pretty self explanatory and while some may use it as a way to put others down a lot want just that.

I personally prefer to meet regularly than meet a load of one offs. It's more fun and you can be more comfortable in pushing each others boundaries and kinks the more you get to know each other. "

Yes you are correct in what you say. Meeting with someone on a regular basis, is always going to be a way more enjoyable. Especially as you get to know each other.

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By *obshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Cork


"It means they are willing to wait for really fantastic sex, rather than settle for someone like you Bob "

As in us married people,You mean. Because we married people are unable to satisfy anyone in bed.

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By *obshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Cork


"I suspect that to some it really means "I'm not a skanky ho like the rest of you" "

Such a sad view point.

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By *alrosMan
over a year ago

Limerick/Dublin/Beziers France

I think its self explanatory.. prefer to meet a small number of individuals who you enjoy being with and can connect with rather than meeting lots of people just for the sake of having a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In order for sex to work and be great then everyone had to be on the same page. Otherwise it can be just meh it's not down to either sex to up their game. It's up to you to find people who you click with and have chemistry with.

As for quality over quantity it's pretty self explanatory and while some may use it as a way to put others down a lot want just that.

I personally prefer to meet regularly than meet a load of one offs. It's more fun and you can be more comfortable in pushing each others boundaries and kinks the more you get to know each other. "

Exactly this. It's a bit of a jump to think stating 'quality over quantity' is meant as a dig at anybody else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In order for sex to work and be great then everyone had to be on the same page. Otherwise it can be just meh it's not down to either sex to up their game. It's up to you to find people who you click with and have chemistry with.

As for quality over quantity it's pretty self explanatory and while some may use it as a way to put others down a lot want just that.

I personally prefer to meet regularly than meet a load of one offs. It's more fun and you can be more comfortable in pushing each others boundaries and kinks the more you get to know each other.

Exactly this. It's a bit of a jump to think stating 'quality over quantity' is meant as a dig at anybody else."

Then why say it at all frankly? Does a large number of meets have to mean they weren't "quality"?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"In order for sex to work and be great then everyone had to be on the same page. Otherwise it can be just meh it's not down to either sex to up their game. It's up to you to find people who you click with and have chemistry with.

As for quality over quantity it's pretty self explanatory and while some may use it as a way to put others down a lot want just that.

I personally prefer to meet regularly than meet a load of one offs. It's more fun and you can be more comfortable in pushing each others boundaries and kinks the more you get to know each other.

Exactly this. It's a bit of a jump to think stating 'quality over quantity' is meant as a dig at anybody else.

Then why say it at all frankly? Does a large number of meets have to mean they weren't "quality"? "

Donno I don't have it written anywhere in my profile. Maybe ask someone who does and see why they have it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In order for sex to work and be great then everyone had to be on the same page. Otherwise it can be just meh it's not down to either sex to up their game. It's up to you to find people who you click with and have chemistry with.

As for quality over quantity it's pretty self explanatory and while some may use it as a way to put others down a lot want just that.

I personally prefer to meet regularly than meet a load of one offs. It's more fun and you can be more comfortable in pushing each others boundaries and kinks the more you get to know each other.

Exactly this. It's a bit of a jump to think stating 'quality over quantity' is meant as a dig at anybody else.

Then why say it at all frankly? Does a large number of meets have to mean they weren't "quality"?

Donno I don't have it written anywhere in my profile. Maybe ask someone who does and see why they have it on "

I'll give them the benefit of the doubt and go for "copied it from someone else's profile because I couldn't come up with anything original to say"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen this a lot on profiles. But what does it mean, Really ?.

Don't get me wrong. I have had some very excited n fun meets. But also meets that were, let's just say very one sided. It's not just us guys, that need to up our games.. (So to speak).

"

I take it to mean that they would rather a few sessions of mind blowing sex than a lot of meh sessions.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Tbh, the impression a lot of men give (via their messaging and profiles) is that they literally will fuck anyone. So it does seem to be just about quantity of sex for them - as much as they can get. For others (myself included), sex for the sake of sex doesn't appeal. I'd rather not have sex at all than have a meet with someone I have no connection with, because to me connection equals better sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah does it mean anything at all other than something that will sound good to someone reading it.

Like saying your genuine, no one is gonna say Im a fake time waster just like no one is going to say Ill fuck anyone that lets me

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Ah does it mean anything at all other than something that will sound good to someone reading it.

Like saying your genuine, no one is gonna say Im a fake time waster just like no one is going to say Ill fuck anyone that lets me

"

Err yes it does mean something. It means that people are going to be selective about which they fuck and aren't desperate to meet just anyone. It's not complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah does it mean anything at all other than something that will sound good to someone reading it.

Like saying your genuine, no one is gonna say Im a fake time waster just like no one is going to say Ill fuck anyone that lets me

Err yes it does mean something. It means that people are going to be selective about which they fuck and aren't desperate to meet just anyone. It's not complicated."

Ya bit just because someone types it on a bio doesnt mean thats actually how they will act.

As I said I have never seen "Ill fuck anyone" on a profile

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Ahh.. so people dont mean what they put on their profile. Gotcha

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Seen this a lot on profiles. But what does it mean, Really ?.

Don't get me wrong. I have had some very excited n fun meets. But also meets that were, let's just say very one sided. It's not just us guys, that need to up our games.. (So to speak).

"

You either have it or you don't simple I like to say I'm full of quality just saying enough said I'm out of here laters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the profile says quality over quantity its to make you feel special when they message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the profile says quality over quantity its to make you feel special when they message you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*sneaks off to check profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means they prefer quality street to roses

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"It means they prefer quality street to roses "

Aw feck I was gunna give ya some roses but quality street has bested me

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

Regular meets definitely as long as we know each other we are very comfortable. Problem with once off is maybe more excitement but also too much stress.

Once a time with someone completely new its great experience but make sure everyone is happy, comfy and enjoys

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By *alrosMan
over a year ago

Limerick/Dublin/Beziers France

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree with that, repeated meet-ups defo add to the chemistry, and anyone advertisin quality over quantity to my mind is just emphasisin the desire for exactly that


"In order for sex to work and be great then everyone had to be on the same page. Otherwise it can be just meh it's not down to either sex to up their game. It's up to you to find people who you click with and have chemistry with.

As for quality over quantity it's pretty self explanatory and while some may use it as a way to put others down a lot want just that.

I personally prefer to meet regularly than meet a load of one offs. It's more fun and you can be more comfortable in pushing each others boundaries and kinks the more you get to know each other. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol


"Ahh.. so people dont mean what they put on their profile. Gotcha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Nobody looks for sheit sex but we all have different meanings of it and various kinks. I don't like the expression and I would never put it on my profile. The funny thing is there's no set of rules to find quality sex for granted. You might be able to narrow your search down, but there's always risk that you hit the rotten tomatoe because there's no striking gold without experimenting.

So good luck to everyone in their search.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Nobody looks for sheit sex but we all have different meanings of it and various kinks. I don't like the expression and I would never put it on my profile. The funny thing is there's no set of rules to find quality sex for granted. You might be able to narrow your search down, but there's always risk that you hit the rotten tomatoe because there's no striking gold without experimenting.

So good luck to everyone in their search. "

Well that was refreshing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, the impression a lot of men give (via their messaging and profiles) is that they literally will fuck anyone. So it does seem to be just about quantity of sex for them - as much as they can get. For others (myself included), sex for the sake of sex doesn't appeal. I'd rather not have sex at all than have a meet with someone I have no connection with, because to me connection equals better sex. "

Sex for the sake of sex doesn't appeal..100% correct and right..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen this a lot on profiles. But what does it mean, Really ?.

Don't get me wrong. I have had some very excited n fun meets. But also meets that were, let's just say very one sided. It's not just us guys, that need to up our games.. (So to speak).

"

In my opinion it simply means a lady will wait until she's 100% certain of the guy that she wants to leave between her legs is the guy she wants to leave between her legs rather than just fucking everyone that messages her just for the sake of fucking...BUT even then there is still no guarantee that she will get the quality she's looking for cause the proof of the pudding is in the eating of it and that won't be known until the actual act itself unfolds..so the " quality " remains a mystery until the act is completed...then and only then..can she give her verdict if she got " quality " or not ...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I use the term on my profile and if anyone has an issue with it that's down to them.

Everyone assumes it refers to sex but in my case it refers to people.

Anyone who knows me through the forums or private messaging will know how true this is.

I'll never claim to be the greatest judge of character but I'd much rather surround myself with good friends that I can trust and who trust me than vapid shallow people who have no concern for others beyond their next encounter. Quality over quantity always. Happy Friday fabbers.

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