I'd give the same advice as Kinkykytten generally. If you end your profile text on a negative, then it's more likely that that will be remembered above what's written in the middle, so if you really must include something about pics, put it in the centre.
Also, I'd add a range of photos of yourself, so that it builds a better understanding in others of how much they find you attractive. Better to have a selection of body aspects, than multiples of the same bit. The better you've ed out those who wouldn't fancy you, the higher the potential for great meets.
Take a look at some other single guy's profile's too, and see what you think works, and doesn't as much - this critique will help you develop your own. But, of course, it's the perception you create in the mind's of your target audience that's important, as how you'd view a profile may well be different - hence the value of other members giving you feedback.
Aim to get your messages well written too, and personalised to who they're being sent to, rather than seeming like a standard letter, churned out, much like spam. Obviously avoid the one liners, such as 'fancy a fuck', but I'm really sure that you're not that kind of guy, hence telling you all of this.
Don't give up, it takes some time for newer members who don't know others, and single guy's have it tougher than others overall. It takes patience, some luck and dedication/effort.
Good luck! |
