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By *ooBoo95 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leyland

Any support/advice would be greatly appreciated, I'm aware this isn't the best time given the virus, I've made that clear about waiting when messaging people. I feel my messages have been polite, well laid out yet also show my intentions. I like to put effort into my approaches, yet 90% of the time I get deleted? Why? I understand that is usually when someone isn't interested, I hope I'm not that undesirable though surely!

I intend on going to some local clubs when they reopen, get know some people but I've not been having the best of luck despite my efforts

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

I personally stay clear of profiles that state they are non abusive and yours includes not being aggressive! So I didnt get past the first paragraph as that to me is a big red flag

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By *ooBoo95 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leyland


"I personally stay clear of profiles that state they are non abusive and yours includes not being aggressive! So I didn't get past the first paragraph as that to me is a big red flag"

Ok, that's an interesting one for me. My intentions for that was to show for anyone with different tastes I would not be judgemental, I'll take a look at removing that then, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to first learn to accept that no matter how well crafted your profile may be or how well you write your messages, there are likely only a few that will fancy you and be interested in meeting you. Most, if not all of those you message will check out your profile before even thinking about opening your message. If they're not interested, why should they send you a reply?

Would you really feel better with an inbox full of 'no thank yous' - which is what site FAQ's advise that you should consider a non-response to mean.

Most of your target audience are usually inundated with messages anyway. They're far more likely to concentrate their efforts on those that do appeal to them.

Think of it another way, all those takeaway menus that get posted through your door. Do you phone ip each establishment to tell them that you're not interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing I do is look at the pics. I have no idea what you look like from yours, I can't see enough to even determine the shape of your body just bits and pieces.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Stuff a dress on, works for me, think my verifications confirm it, amazing the amount of women and couples iv met and played with xxx

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP.

If you had approached us then we would be put off by your bucket list and pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello OP.

If you had approached us then we would be put off by your bucket list and pictures."

Have to agree with the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures are cack

Retake some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a bad profile as such! Just the same as hundreds of other profiles. Needs a bit to catch peoples attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about you and what you want. What have you got to offer??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all about you and what you want. What have you got to offer??"

He’s photo shows what he has to offer lol

Joking apart , photos ain’t good and way too long wording

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15/20 for the creative username

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Lolled at the statement “I’ve taken the time to verify” as if you should get a medal.

OP, like others, we drive hundreds of miles a month going to our favourite clubs, we do a fair bit of preparation, outfits for him and her etc... we’re committed. Are you.... committed?

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

When the meteor hits OP it might disrupt the internet . You ought to have a Plan B.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Any support/advice would be greatly appreciated, I'm aware this isn't the best time given the virus, I've made that clear about waiting when messaging people. I feel my messages have been polite, well laid out yet also show my intentions. I like to put effort into my approaches, yet 90% of the time I get deleted? Why? I understand that is usually when someone isn't interested, I hope I'm not that undesirable though surely!

I intend on going to some local clubs when they reopen, get know some people but I've not been having the best of luck despite my efforts "

Loose the childish teddy bear faces in favour of something more adult.

Loose the dick pics.

Loose the bucket list.

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By *ooBoo95 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leyland

Thanknyou for the feedback, I feel I am going to remove the 'bucket list' and jig the pictures, remove the cock pics and change for upperbody boxer pics?

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By *ooBoo95 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leyland

That's a fair point, will have to make a change to that, thank you

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By *ooBoo95 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leyland

Bucket list has kicked the bucket!

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By *ooBoo95 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leyland


"15/20 for the creative username "

I know its terrible haha it's something I've been thinking about before this post, I'm unsure what to change to. Most have really creative and interesting profile names I feel unsure what I could offer in terms of username creation

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By *ooBoo95 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leyland


"Lolled at the statement “I’ve taken the time to verify” as if you should get a medal.

OP, like others, we drive hundreds of miles a month going to our favourite clubs, we do a fair bit of preparation, outfits for him and her etc... we’re committed. Are you.... committed? "

I see a lot of profiles in and around my area unverified, I have jigged this up a little and would appreciate your thought on that now?

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By *ooBoo95 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leyland

Thank you all, I have learned I need to rework my profile, a large portion of my pictures have been removed, I have never been one for raunchy photos of myself, even before fab so this is very new grounds to me, all tips, tricks and help towards creating the perfect photos is really helpful. This is something I'm going to have to learn and experiment with

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Thank you all, I have learned I need to rework my profile, a large portion of my pictures have been removed, I have never been one for raunchy photos of myself, even before fab so this is very new grounds to me, all tips, tricks and help towards creating the perfect photos is really helpful. This is something I'm going to have to learn and experiment with"

There is no such thing as the perfect photo,or for that matter the perfect profile. You will never appeal to everybody, but by being true to yourself you will appeal to somebody. Make good use of the forums and chatrooms to get to know people, and when the world is a safer place attend socials or even clubs if you feel up to it. Don't get disheartened if things don't work out straight away, its a marathon not a sprint.

Good luck

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