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"Hi OP. Hello OP Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc. No one really wants to know about your sexual past, so consider rewording your reasoning for being here. Whilst your at it you say things like 'broaden my horizons' and 'willing to try new things' but they are throwaway comments. What are you actually here for? At least your bio is upbeat, you will get rejections on here, but don't let that turn you bitter. Once you start going down the route of moaning on your profile or status you will turn far more people off than you can imagine. Stay positive, and show yourself off in the best possible light. Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. If your from Manchester and at Uni there then fine. However if your from for example Norwich then there is a good chance you'll pop up when your back in Norwich. Might be worth under such circumstances to say something like you are from Norwich and studying at Manchester Uni. It might help you get meets from either location. Your already doing the right thing and joining in on the forums. Use the chatrooms too. Get to know people and when the madness in the world settles down no doubt you'll be well placed for a meet or two. Good luck "Wow, thanks for taking the time there  some useful tips. I shall make a few changes. | |||
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"I agree with the above. You've got that you're looking for 18-40 year olds which is fine. But make sure if you're messaging women at the older end you're not fetishising them. We want you to like us because you think we're hot/funny/beautiful/whatever, not to tick off a thing on a list. I'm not saying you will but it's a common mistake that I find men make. (Some women are cool with it, many aren't)" That's an interesting perspective  . Thanks for the tip. I'll see if I can think of a way to convey my thoughts there in my bio | |||
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"I agree with the above. You've got that you're looking for 18-40 year olds which is fine. But make sure if you're messaging women at the older end you're not fetishising them. We want you to like us because you think we're hot/funny/beautiful/whatever, not to tick off a thing on a list. I'm not saying you will but it's a common mistake that I find men make. (Some women are cool with it, many aren't) That's an interesting perspective . Thanks for the tip. I'll see if I can think of a way to convey my thoughts there in my bio "You don't need to do that, just be mindful when you send messages. I get ones that say stuff like "I've always wanted a milf to show me what to do" Like I'm running a training course  . Instant nope! | |||
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"I agree with the above. You've got that you're looking for 18-40 year olds which is fine. But make sure if you're messaging women at the older end you're not fetishising them. We want you to like us because you think we're hot/funny/beautiful/whatever, not to tick off a thing on a list. I'm not saying you will but it's a common mistake that I find men make. (Some women are cool with it, many aren't) That's an interesting perspective . Thanks for the tip. I'll see if I can think of a way to convey my thoughts there in my bio
You don't need to do that, just be mindful when you send messages. I get ones that say stuff like "I've always wanted a milf to show me what to do"
Like I'm running a training course . Instant nope!"Ahh I gotcha, I think a lot of dudes have got the wrong idea about the kind of response they'd expect from something like that. Massive case of wrong end of the stick | |||
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"I've made a few changes, any thoughts? " Yep, better. I think you've done a good job there. Good punctuation and spelling too 
As the first response said lots of people will think you're too young so you need to be patient. Get involved in the forums etc. I think you'll be fine | |||
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"I've made a few changes, any thoughts? Yep, better. I think you've done a good job there. Good punctuation and spelling too
As the first response said lots of people will think you're too young so you need to be patient. Get involved in the forums etc. I think you'll be fine"Thank you very muchly for the advice Just have to see how things go now. | |||
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"I've made a few changes, any thoughts? " Much better | |||
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"To be honest you have done so much better then 99.9% of lads your age on your profile! Just 1 thing, your looking for someone experienced in what way? Just generally shagged a lot? Experienced in more rough play? And if so expand a little on what you consider rough, as to some that's a jack hammer session but to others rough is more brutal then a drilling. Other then that, well done on so much more effort then many many many fab men "Interesting.. I'll see if I can go about answering those questions in there. I Reckon you've raised a valid point. Thank you also | |||
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"I didn't see it before but I think you come across well, and quite mature for your age. Give it 10 years and you'll be beating them off with a stick! " Haha cheers  . I do get the mature thing a lot. Shame I have to wait 10 years tho  | |||
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